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Sue Stelfox Obituary
Sue Ann Stelfox, age 62, left us on June 30, 2020 after a long battle with cancer. She is survived by her adoring husband Richard Plock and son Mason Stelfox and their loyal dog Mila. Sue Ann was a loving, devoted wife and mother. Sue Ann was born in Clawson, Michigan to Mary Lou and Richard Stelfox.
After high school Sue Ann found her way to California where she spent 30 years in the food and hospitality industry and found her husband Richard along the way. As a pastry chef, she was an artist in her work and enthusiastic in all her endeavors that included being a hotel concierge, a book author and publisher, and a Board-Certified Health Coach. In 2010, Sue Ann and her family moved to the Jersey Shore where she quickly connected with so many in the community. She was active in the school, church and numerous community organizations. As a Board-Certified Health Coach, she devoted herself to helping others with chronic pain. Her chronic pain program is available for free at https://susan-s-school-f257.thinkific.com/courses/moving-beyond-your-pain
Although Sue Ann was small in stature, she was vast in character, heart and infinitely spiritual. She touched the hearts of many with her compassionate kind soul that warmly filled any space with positive energy and spunky enthusiasm. She will be greatly missed, but her connection with those she has touched will live on in spirit.
She is also survived by her four loving siblings Diane, Joyce, Ray and Janice.
A memorial service will be held on Saturday, July 18th at 7:30am on the beach in front of the Monmouth Beach Bathing Pavilion. You can park at the Pavilion or overflow lots but must leave prior to 10am unless you have a parking permit. Please bring a face mask and practice social distancing.
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Memories and Condolences
for Sue Stelfox
E. Tom Stetson IV
July 4, 2023
Such a warm and sincere smile what a heart
Patricia Demiris
July 15, 2020
Your bright smile & big heart will always be remembered!
Elisabeth Vaissade
July 13, 2020
Our dear Sue Ann ... will always remember her vibrant enthusiasm and love of family. Her smile was infectious and her boundless energy in the quest of new adventures was inspirational. We will miss you dearly "little" girl but your legacy will remain. Aunt Liz and Ben.
Kathleen Kelley
July 12, 2020
I so enjoyed volunteering with her at Precious Blood. She always greeted me with her beautiful smile and exuberant spirit. Condolences and prayers.
Courtney W
July 11, 2020
Sue Ann was beyond one of the nicest people I have ever met. She always greeted me and my kids with the warmest smile and hugs. Every interaction we had was always one of the best. Im so sorry to hear she passed and will keep her and family in my prayers.
Kate Farrell
July 11, 2020
Sue Ann had the light of God in her. In 2012 when Sandy took out my home with 5 feet of water, Sue Ann was there helping me pack up China and valuables that were salvaged. I was shell shocked but her kindness was like an anchor to reality and helped me cope. Sue Ann showed love to those who were hard to love and her merit among the angels in heaven is great, I can assure you.
Kathy and Donald Jello
July 11, 2020
We met Dianes sister, Sue Ann, her husband Richard and son Mason during their visit to Hilton Head . Sue was so funny and we had so many laughs on the beach.
A gal with a big heart! Our sincere condolences to her family . Our prayers are with you!
Linda
July 11, 2020
This picture is from 1977 when Sue Ann came to visit us in California and stayed to make it her home. As you can see she didnt really change. Beautiful inside and out. Peace be with you and your family. L
Linda (Penman) Applebee
July 11, 2020
Vinod Desai
July 11, 2020
Sorry to hear about her loss. God bless her soul. Condolences to the family
E Tom Stetson IV
July 11, 2020
As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.
Josh
July 11, 2020
My grandmother knew Sue Ann very well. My grandmother was a piano teacher in Monmouth Beach and taught her son. Me, my grandmother, and my sister would see Sue Ann at The Church of Precious Blood. She was always active in the Monmouth Beach community. We are sorry to hear about her passing. We will keep the family in our prayers. May she rest in peace.
Josh
July 11, 2020
My grandmother knew Sue Ann very well. My grandmother was a piano teacher in Monmouth Beach and taught her son. Me, my sister, and my grandmother would see Sue Ann at The Church of Precious Blood. She was always active in the Monmouth Beach community. We are so sorry to hear of her passing. We will keep the family in our prayers. May she rest in peace. The Seba family
Anita & David Netzer
July 11, 2020
So very sad & sorry to learn of Sue Anns passing. She was as you said small in stature (tiny!) but with an immense heart and joie de vivre! Our deepest condolences to you Richard, Mason & her loved ones. We will miss her.
With love,
The Netzer Family
Karyn Carmichael
July 10, 2020
I never met her but know her loving sister Diane and am sorry for all the pain the family is enduring. Thoughts and prayers.
July 10, 2020
Sue was a bright a friendly face that we got to know during wrestling seasons at Shore Regional. We are so sorry to hear of her passing. May she RIP.
Thr Krousos Family
Phyllis Searby
July 10, 2020
As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.
Sue was kind and sweet and smart and pretty and helpful to me in so many ways. I am so sorry to know of her passing. Seems like the ones you love the most leave us before their time.
Lisa Weir
July 10, 2020
I cant help but smile when I think of you Sue Ann. Richard said it best, little stature but packed a giant punch of life and spirit!! We all know how sweet and kind you were but you also loved a good party! Many memories of you brighten my day. Such a huge loss for your family and friends and clients, and sweet little Mila. I was on the beach this weekend standing at the waters edge chatting with someone about your passing and I looked over and there you were! standing straight up out of the sand with waves washing over was a feather from heaven - SueAnn was there letting us know she is ok and will always be around the beach. Just look for her signs. Rest In Peace my sweet friend. Love and peace to Richard and Mason, Lisa Weir ❤
Alan Robinson
July 10, 2020
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Ellen Davis
July 10, 2020
SueAnn was so full of life and enthusiastic about everything. She was fun and full of heart. So glad I got to know her.
Trudy Guella
July 10, 2020
Sue Ann has an Infectious Smile and a Heart ♥ of Gold that grabs hold of you.My Cursillo RETREAT Friend.
John and Mitzi Collins and Family
July 10, 2020
May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.
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