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Published in Suburban Life Publications on Nov. 23, 2010.
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November 21, 2017
Sergeant Luff is never forgotten... Especially today. My heart and thoughts will continue to be with you all.
Robert price
March 24, 2013
To the family of SGT. David J. Luff: I am writing to let you know that SGT. David J. Luff is remembered and not forgotten. May God always be with you all.
J. Lorenz
November 19, 2012
David was the bravest of all
the brave. He will never be forgotten. He is written in the book of Heros. God bless his family and friends. Thanks David for giving us our freedom.....
Marlene & Harry Mills, Fairfield Ohio
November 17, 2012
November 21, 2012
To the family and friends of Sgt. David J. Luff:
Remembering David on the anniversary of his passing. May our fallen heroes never be forgotten.
Peggy Childers
November 21, 2011
To the family of Sgt. David J. Luff:
David gave the ultimate sacrifice and will be held in the hearts of Americans forever. I cannot and will not let our fallen heroes be forgotten. My deepest sympathy to you. "Some gave all."
Peggy Childers
November 14, 2011
In Tikrit
David Luff
November 14, 2011
First tour
David Luff
November 14, 2011
With Aiden before departure, 2nd tour
David Luff
May 24, 2011
Always remembered never forgotten!

Love, Aunt Barbie, Uncle Kenny, Danny, and Derek Bailey
April 19, 2011
This is so sad. I'm sure we were related somewhere down the line. My heart and prayers go out to your wife a baby! Thank you for your service and for protecting us!
Ken Luff II
December 9, 2010
To the Family
I wish I had the right words to say at this time, but I know there are none. I grieve for the loss of your beloved son and I know that I cannot fathom the pain you must be feeling. Your son will not be forgotten and what he did to help protect our homeland and our freedoms. It was his life that made him a Hero. It was his noble path that made him an American Hero. It was his ultimate sacrifice that made him a Fallen Hero. May God carry him to Heaven on His precious wings and give him a palace to live in. I pray that our Heavenly Father above will grace you with His love, His comfort and His peace. Heaven's Gates now has a new handsome Soldier standing guard. Amen.
D J Sims
December 7, 2010
to the family of David Luff:
We as a Nation are so much better off because of your dedication as a family in raising such a true American hero. We pray for strength for you all. Please know his sacrifice will never be forgotten.

Disabled American Veterans Auxiliary, (DAVA)Senior Vice-Commander, California
E. Vicki Marshall
December 7, 2010
To the family of Sgt. David Luff: You raised a true American hero whose sacrifice will never be forgotten by our nation. He is a tribute to you all as a family.
Am Vets # 80
Geri Marshall
December 6, 2010
SGT. DAVID J.LUFF You are my Hero may God Keep you in his arms forever.
Gary Allain
December 6, 2010
Matthew 5:8-9

"Blessed are the pure in heart, for they shall see God. "Blessed are the peacemakers, for they shall be called sons of God.

Thank you Sgt. David Luff.
Stouffer Family
December 4, 2010
Our thoughts and prayers are with your family during this very difficult time. Sgt. David Luff is a true hero. We thank you for all you did.
Brock Family
December 4, 2010
We're so very sorry for your loss of David. You're in our thoughts and prayers.

Ron and Jan
Marine parents
December 4, 2010
"and some gave their all"
THANK YOU SGT. LUFF!!
Grubb Family
December 4, 2010
Thank you Sgt. David Huff Jr. for your service. I wish I could have met you in person to shake your hand. My prayers go out to your family and friends for their lose. You sir are a great HERO!!!
December 3, 2010
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family as we remember and pay tribute to your husband, father and son. May your fond memories bring you comfort. We salute Sgt Luff who gave his All for us. A True Hero.
God Bless you All!
Vic and Mary Jo Dean
December 3, 2010
Thank you Sgt. Luff for your sacrifice for American and its beliefs.
Margie Sauerland
December 3, 2010
RIP American Hero!
Karen DeAngulo
December 3, 2010
Dear Dave and Lucy: I am so very sorry I could not be with you and the rest of our family for David Jr's visitation and funeral today. Please know that you have been in my thoughts and prayers ever since I received the news of David's death in Iraq. I am relying on internet news articles and video footage and am touched by the flags and yellow ribbons etc in his honor. I am happy you are receiving so much support from the community. I am touched by the condolences you are receiving from the men who served with him. It is so hard to be a "California cousin" and so far away from all of you when hugs are needed the most. Be comforted in the belief that David Jr is in heaven now with our other relatives who went before him. I'd like to think he is resting in peace but knowing how our relatives were when they were on earth, they are probably using David Jr's appearance at the pearly gates as another excuse to Party Hardy up in heaven, singing something like Roll Out the Barrel having a barrel of fun up there welcoming another family member into their heavenly fold. I bet they are already teaching David how to play a rousing game of pitch if you didn't already teach him how to play before he got to heaven! His grandpa Allen is probably trying to play a game of Trivial Pursuit with him! I know David Jr received a warm welcome when he arrived and that Grandma Wellinghoff probably shoved St. Peter aside and greeted David Jr. herself. We now have another guardian angel in heaven to watch over us. David Jr tried to protect our family and our country in life as a soldier defending our freedoms, and I am certain he will continue to try to protect us from heaven above. Hold tight to one another back there. I am so deeply sorry. I lost another cousin. You lost your beloved son. Aunt Dorothy lost her grandchild. And on and on -- the loss of a family member impacts all the extended family. We all share your grief. You have my heartfelt sympathy. The loss of someone like David serving in our military is felt by the entire country. David gave his life for our country. In your suffering over his loss be proud of his sacrifice. We are. Love and God's Blessings, Linda
December 3, 2010
I never had the pleasure of meeting Sgt.David Luff but i want to say my heart goes out the family.I scanned the photos of the funeral/procession and i sat here and cried. Words cannot express what you must be going through at this time. Katie and Aiden Luff hold your head proud like your husband/father done. You now have a guardian angel watching over you. God Bless you all.
December 3, 2010
My heart reaches out to your family. We could never understand the pain your going through but I am glad that all of you have many people to lean on who are willing to be there for you. I know its rough just take it one day at a time. I will be keeping all of you in my thoughts and prayers. Katie you have always been a very out going and vivacious women. Dont let this stop you from smiling. I pray for all of you every day and I hope Aiden understands it when he gets older. He will call daddy a Hero as well once he gets old enough to understand. Keep your head up...
Lindsay MacBurney
December 3, 2010
Our prayers are with the family,sorry for your lose didn't know him only met kadie a time or two great girl sorry for your lose and that beautiful baby..
robert/misty campbell
December 3, 2010
Dear Dave, You were the greatest man to walk into my sisters life. I am proud and honored to have had you as my brother in law. I promise you your son will know the man you were and the hero you became. I will love and miss you always and thank you for loving my sister and nephew and protecting thier future. You are my friend, my brother and my HERO. May you rest in the hands of the lord and watch over Katie and Aiden.
Michele Halcomb
December 3, 2010
i rember meeting david my first day at hhs in 1996. we was both sophmores. he was always kind and funny. i have nothing but fond memories of david and i count myself lucky to have known a brave and kind person. he died a hero and now is with our lord in heaven. waiting for us all to join him. he wasnt here long but he touched many lives and peoples hearts. my prayers are with you and his family.god bless you and david we miss you. the lord will keep you safe.
sue ellen quinlan
December 3, 2010
Dear Champ Judy and Katie
I didn't know David. But I know your family and being the father of a soldier it makes me feel as though I knew him.
I pray god guides Katie and the family thru all of this and makes them stronger then ever before. It sounds as David Lived and died as a hero America should be proud to have such a great man that give it all for his Country
God speed
Ken Beaman
December 3, 2010
Take comfort in knowing that now you have a special guardian angel to watch over you.
Dewey Anderson
December 3, 2010
Thank you for fighting for this country and our freedom, you are a true hero. To your wife Katie, son Aiden and other family member & friend; my thoughts and prayers are with you in this difficult time. Matthew 5:4 "Blessed are they that mourn; for they shall be comforted."
Amber Ledford
December 3, 2010
Katie,

Our hearts are breaking for you and your son. Please know you and all of David's family are in our thoughts and prayers. He is a true hero. We thank all of you for the ultimate sacrifice.
Joe, MaryLou, Jill and Jen Hudek
December 3, 2010
Thank you for fighting for this country and our freedom, you are a true hero and to your wife Katie, son Aiden and other family members and friends; my thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time! Matthew 5:4 "Blessed are they that mourn; for they shall be comforted."
Amber Ledford
December 3, 2010
Let God be your source of Comfort. In these times when you are hurting, just ASK Him to comfort you. Then wait in His presence while He works in your heart & emotions. He will not fail you, if you will only give Him a chance to come to your aid. May God comfort you and your family.
Michele Mcknight
December 3, 2010
If tears could build a stairway
And memories were a lane
We would walk right up to heaven
And bring you back again

No farewell words were spoken
No time to say goodbye
You were gone before we knew it
And only God knows why

Our hearts still ache in sadness
And secret tears still flow
What it meant to lose you
No one can ever know

But now we know you want us
To mourn for you no more
To remember all the happy times
Life still has much in store

Since you'll never be forgotten
We pledge to you today
A hallowed place within our hearts
Is where you'll always stay
Anonymous
December 3, 2010
Dave & Lucy Our thoughts are with you during these dark days. Your son is a true hero and he will never be forgotton
Carleen & Doug Ingram
December 3, 2010
R.I.P. Soldier, you are one of the many who have given your life for our country. There will never be enough thank yous to show you the appreciation and honor you deserve. My thoughts and prayers are with the family in this hard time. You are in God's hands now soldier!!!
Sarah
December 3, 2010
Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Alan and Cindy Brashear
December 3, 2010
Bonnie
December 2, 2010
My deepest sympathy to all of Luffs family. He was my gunner during his first deployment and I always felt safer when I knew Dave had my back, I am only sorry that I couldnt have his now. I am a better person to have know him and will always cherish the memories we shared. He was one of the funiest guys I knew, he had great potential. He was an outstanding soldier and a better husband, father, son, brother and friend... He will always be remembered our Brother In Arms B CO 1/23 Infantry.
SFC Alba Juan
December 2, 2010
R.I.P soldier

MIDN 4/C
Dominic Gray
December 2, 2010
Do not stand at my grave and weep
I am not there; I do not sleep.

I am a thousand winds that blow,
I am the diamond glint on snow,
I am the sun on ripened grain,
I am the gentle autumn rain.

When you awaken in the morning's hush
I am the swift uplifting rush
Of quiet birds in circled flight.
I am the soft stars that shine at night.

Do not stand at my grave and cry,
I am not there; I did not die.
The Rivera Family
December 2, 2010
Thank You Sgt. David Luff Jr. for your service to our Country, you will be remembered as the hero you are , and I'm praying for your family
Marilyn Cornett
December 2, 2010
Stacy I am so sorry to hear about your brother. You and your family are in
my prayers. God Bless you all.
Glenna Carroll
December 2, 2010
Thank you so much for serving our conuntry! your family are in my thoughts and prayers. i just want to cry no one shold ever go so young, but to a much better place and will always watch over you and his son. i hope things start to get easy for you. my heart goes out to your family.
December 2, 2010
Dear Sgt. Luff,

Tonight, as you peacefully lie at rest at Hamilton High School, I stand with an American Flag in my hands in your honor. I'm a member of the Ohio Patriot Guard riders...and stand proudly to honor your service to the United States. You paid dearly soldier. We miss you.

Too frequently, friends of mine might ask, "Ken, why are you standing in the rain or outside the funeral home/visitation venue holding that flag?" My answer is consistant. " There is a brave American in there...that gave his/her life so we can enjoy freedom. His family hurts now. All I HAVE TO DO TONIGHT.. is stand here....sometimes in the rain....sometimes in the cold....sometimes in the heat. You wouldnt belive what The Great American inside did for US.........right before he left this earth.

So I continue standing..........Proudly....and too frequently......because that Great American inside...died to give me the right to make this choice. Additionally, he's my hero because of it."
Ken Davis
December 2, 2010
We at The oneCARE Company send our thoughts and prayers to the family and friends of Sgt. Luff.
Mary Ogg
December 2, 2010
I am so sorry for you loss. I will keep the family in my prayers. Your son/husband/father is a true hero. I can not imagine the pain you are going through. I hope that you can find peace.
December 2, 2010
Dear Kelly and Family: I can not begin to know your pain. I am so sorry for you loss, I pray for peace and healing. We are thankful for your husbands commitment to keeping us safe and serving our country. May God lift you and carry you through this difficult time. In His Love, The Obercorns
Daphne Obercorn
December 2, 2010
I'll never forget Dave. He's always been my hero and friend.
James Hubbard
December 2, 2010
A True Hero that will never be forgotten and will always be Loved!!!
December 2, 2010
Your husband served his country and we are so grateful for his sacrifice.
Ashley Brown
December 2, 2010
Thank you Sgt David Luff Jr, we are so sorry for your loss. Our hearts go out to his wife, son and family.
Angie
December 2, 2010
To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.

Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."

It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.

God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.

When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.

I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.

There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.

If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.

So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.

And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.

Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2010
Thelma
December 2, 2010
Stacy and Family I'm so sorry to hear about your loss May God bless your family my prayers are with you.
Edna Napier-Strunk
December 2, 2010
Dear Katie,
My heart goes out to you and your family. I am so sorry to hear about your husband. Tears are brought to my eyes just thinking about the situation. I hope you find strength during this difficult time in your life. I will continue to pray for you and your family. I honor and thank your husband for his service and sacrifice for our country.
Melissa Riley (Bond)
Melissa Bond
December 2, 2010
I never knew your husband, but I have the highest respect for his service to our country. So sorry for your loss. Over 31 years in the Navy I also loss some very dear friends, God Loves them and their familes.
Harry Mills
December 2, 2010
I do not know the Luff family but just feel compelled to say how very sorry I am for your great loss and Thank You to Sgt. Luff for protecting Freedom. May he Rest in Peace and God Bless your Family.
Kelly
December 2, 2010
Thank you Sgt David Luff Jr for serving our country, land of the free because of the brave. My heartfelt prayers are with the family, may God give you strength during this time of sorrow.

Sister of 1SG Rick McGinnis KIA in Iraq 2006
1983 graduate of Hamilton High School
Rhonda Isaacs
December 2, 2010
So sorry for your loss,your family will be in my prayers.
Kelly Mays
December 2, 2010
My heart goes out to all of David's family. Especially his wife, son and parents. I honor and thank him for his service and sacrifice. It is because of him and others like him that we can enjoy our freedoms here in the US. I pray that God will give you peace and comfort.
Connie Hopkins
December 2, 2010
Dear Katie We were all upset when we heard the news about your husband.We know what a giant sacrafice your husband made for this country and We are truly sorry for your loss. Because of Brave and loving men like David we can sleep safe at night knowing they are watching out for our freedom. We hope you will soon find peace soon.May God comfort you and hold you close in your hours of need.You are in our thoughts and in our prayers god bless you.
The Holland Family

THANK YOU SGT DAVID LUFF FOR YOUR SERVICE FOR OUR COUNTRY
Sherry Holland
December 2, 2010
To the family of Sgt. David Luff, there are not enough words to say how my heart aches for your loss and how proud I am to have people like your husband serving to protect our country.
V Harris
December 2, 2010
I am sending prayers of healing and comfort to the Luff Family and all of those who knew David. What a courageous sacrafice he made on our behalf.
margaret seraphin
December 2, 2010
Sgt. David Luff, Jr. is a hero. God's blessings of peace and comfort to you and all of his family and friends during this time and in the days ahead.
Dennis Burton
December 2, 2010
My deepest condolences to David's wife and family. I was saddened to hear of the loss of SGT David J. Luff. I was his former Platoon Leader from his first tour in Iraq. David was a soft spoken brave soldier for when I knew him. In times of heightened enemy contact, he maneuvered his stryker vehicle superbably and kept his crew safe and always returned us back to base unharmed. SGT David J. Luff, "You will never be forgotten."
Former B46
Nolan Alcantara
December 2, 2010
it burdens my heart to hear of such giving of people to whom few of us out here will know-GOD BLESS to him and his family for such sacrafices
diane elam
December 2, 2010
Our hearts go out to your family for this loss. It is because of heros like David that we are able to enjoy what we have. God Bless you and help you through this grief. The Hyde Family
December 2, 2010
may our heavenly father comfort you and your child.
sherry roberson
December 2, 2010
May God bless you and your family during this time of sorrow.
Jennifer Marcum
December 2, 2010
Condolances to the family and freinds of Sgt. David Luff Jr. He will always be remembered as a hero.

Chris Cooper Patriot Guard Rider from Illinois.
December 2, 2010
Marine Family of Cleveland Ohio offer their sincere Sympathies to the family of Sgt David Luff
December 1, 2010
May God bless the family of David J. Luff and heal them thourgh these trying times. My heart aches everytime I hear of a lost warrior.
I am so sorry to hear of your loss.
Dosha Luff
December 1, 2010
Thank you Sgt David Luff for your service to our country! My heartfelt prayers go to the family and may God give you supernatural strength through this time of sorrow.

Sister of 1SG Rick McGinnis KIA in Iraq October 2006.
He was 1983 graduate of Hamilton High School.
Rhonda Isaacs
December 1, 2010
My God be with you during your time of sorrow and heal you in the future. My heart aches every a family looses someone in the armed forces.
Although I do not know your immediate Luff family. I am a Luff who cares about family.
Dosha A. Luff
December 1, 2010
I am so sorry to hear of your family's loss. I know there are no words to say at this time except to let you know the thoughts of many are with you in this time of sorrow. May our Father give you comfort and peace in the years to come.
Diane Everett
December 1, 2010
Sorry for your loss. He was a true hero. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Bean&Knapp family
December 1, 2010
Very saddened, and sorry for your loss. Thank you for the sacrifice your family has made. Your son/husband/father is truly a hero. I pray that you find comfort and peace in the days to come.
December 1, 2010
I was SGT David Luff’s Platoon Sergeant in Iraq during his first tour and like others from the Platoon we are all greatly saddened at the news. Dave’s legacy as a free thinker, joker and all around whole heartedly good person will live on forever. I pretty sure everyone he met, he left an impact on them and they’ll remember who he was. I have many pictures of Dave from the last tour and some fun events we did back here in Washington and would love to share them with you, feel free to contact me anytime. I’m sorry for your loss, he will not be forgotten.
SFC Steven Loduha
December 1, 2010
I do not know the family but I wish to send prayers and appreciation for his service to his country and all the free Americans he chose to protect.
God Bless his family and may he rest in peace.
Gail & family
December 1, 2010
I am saddened to here of your husbands and sons death. My he rest in peace knowing that he was helping others to have a better life.
Randy Luff
December 1, 2010
Dave, I was so sad to hear of your untimely death. You were a great person with a big heart and a great sense of humor. Your family are in my thoughts
mgm
December 1, 2010
Dave I will never forget you my friend. Not only were you one of the best NCO's I have had the pleasure to work with but you were a good friend. You always had a smile on your face. We will meet again upon the hill my brother. Miss you Dave. Your friend SGT Studer, James C
December 1, 2010
I salute you brave warrior.
You gave the ultimate sacrifice.
God Bless America & Gentle Peace
and comfort to your family.
Susan
December 1, 2010
Blessings and peace from the Planisek Family Cleveland Ohio We are so sorry yor Blue Star has turned to Gold May Gaod be with you as you honor the memory of you precious Loved One
Sgt David Luff A TRUE AMERICAN HERO
Bea Marine Mom
Larissa Sister of a Marine
Cpl A U.S.M.C.
November 30, 2010
we are so sorry for your loss but keep the memories close
phyllis minton
November 30, 2010
Sgt.Luff i never had the priveledge of meeting you but my son went to school with you and he said you were the kind of person you couldnt help but like.You had that kind of personality.It saddened him to hear the news. May the family find peace and comfort in the knowledge that so many found him to be exceptional. My condolences go out to the family and may baby Aiden grow up to be just like his father,a proud American. Sgt.David Luff you are a true hero in my eyes.God Bless You!
November 30, 2010
This absolutely breaks my heart I'm praying for you Katie and the rest of Dave's family...Dave you are a true hero and will never be forgotten R.I.P and thanks for all you've done for our country
Ashley gray
November 30, 2010
To honor Sgt. Luff, I light this candle. Thank you for your service. Condolences to the family of our lost hometown hero. Congratulations for the upbringing of an upstanding young man who did not fear his ultimate sacrifice. May God heal your wounded hearts.
Michelle Coffey
November 30, 2010
To The Family of Sgt David Luff
You don't know us but we wanted to thank you for raising such a fine son who made the ultimate sacrifice for us. I know your hearts are breaking but you must also be so very proud. We pray that the days ahead are made a little lighter knowing that so many share your grief and are grateful to your son for his service to our country.
Marysue and Dean Wright
November 30, 2010
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Debbie Moore
November 30, 2010
I fly the American flag every day.
What a privilege!
Sending heartfelt sympathy to
the family.
Suzy
November 30, 2010
Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Jamie Miller
November 30, 2010
I remember when i first met Dave in Washington(state). Dave Flann and my brother Brian all served in the the army together that year and Dave came to my hotel room with with my parents, my brother and Flann and we all sat around playing cards had may of had a few too many drinks. but we all got to know Dave pretty well! He loved to tell jokes and joke around with my mom, dad, Brian and I. Even after Dave had left for his 2nd tour to Iraq I would talk to him on facebook book and we would battle it out about football. he even told me that he was gonna send my son(Damon) a bunch of bangles stuff because the Vikings suck. lol. But in return his little prince was going to get a bunch of Vikings stuff. I will greatly miss all the times that i could have been able to talk with Dave, but i will always remember all the times that I did get to talk to him and give him crap!!! I will never forget you Dave!!! The Miller family loves you very much and we will NEVER forget you!!! RIP
Jamie Miller
November 30, 2010
David Luff is a true hero and his service to this country will never be forgotten. My condolences go out to all of his family and friends. The family is in my thoughts and prayers.
Dawn Smith
November 30, 2010
You were an amazing soldier, and an amazing person. your loved and missed! GodSpeed
Jesica Young
November 30, 2010
YOUR A HERO ..GOD BLESS
SHAWNIE ATWOOD
November 30, 2010
My sincere condolences to the family and friends who love and mourn David. May God bless you.
Teresa Winner
November 30, 2010
My deepest condolences to your family.I know it will be especially hard for you during the holiday season, it is never a good time but, it is harder to loose someone we love at this time. I lost my mother a week ago. God's kingdom is filling up with our angels that have sacerficed the ultamate.
Robin Savoy
November 30, 2010
TRUE AMERICAN HERO
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