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Judith Hershenhorn Obituary

Judith Holmberg Hershenhorn, age 57, of Naples, Florida and Lake Forest, Illinois died suddenly from cardiac arrest. Beloved wife of Robert Gene Hershenhorn; loving mother of Sarah Holmberg Hershenhorn and the late Benjamin Holmberg Hershenhorn; devoted daughter of Inez and the late Thomas Holmberg; dear stepmother of Lindsay Hershenhorn and Alexis Ross; proud grandmother of Oliver Hershenhorn and Ford Ross; dear sister of Thomas, Michael (Louise) and Peter Holmberg; fond aunt of Annie, Hope, Tommy, Billy, Johnny and Danny, Rebecca, Louisa, Bobby and Max Holmberg. Visitation Saturday, June 15, 2019, 9:30 a.m. until time of the Funeral Mass 11:00 a.m. at Saints Faith, Hope & Charity Church, 191 Linden Street, Winnetka, IL 60093. Private family interment, Lake Forest Cemetery. Info: 847-675-1990 or www.donnellanfuneral.com. Hershenhorn , Judith Holmberg

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Published by Chicago Tribune from Jun. 13 to Jun. 14, 2019.
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Dear Inez, Robert & Sarah, Today is Judys 58th birthday. We are thinking of you all and surrounding you with loving prayers. Love, Christine, Mark and Caiti Kengott

Christine Kengott

Friend

May 15, 2020

When someone you love becomes a memory the memory becomes a treasure in your heart and lives forever may those memories sustain you during this difficult time. I am so sorry for your loss

Burney

June 29, 2019

I recently had a two hour phone conversation with Judy. It was on speaker phone with my daughter, Mia, and Judy imparted loving guidance and wisdom on the enormous subject of college searches. She then connected us again with Sarah and Mia gained even further insight through that conversation. Sarah, you have your mothers willing heart and desire to improve upon others lives. From your beginnings as our host family at Lake Forest Academy, your parents and you engaged us fully. When I think of Judy, I recall that any conversation we had that touched on motherhood always wound up in the same place. Gratitude. She loved being a mother. I revered her for that priority in her life. Robert and Sarah, I will continue to talk to Judy and I will think of both of you with support and sincerity in mind.

Elizabeth Walvoord

Friend

June 26, 2019

To Judy's family, I have very fond memories of JUDY. She was a beautiful person and I'm so very sorry for your loss. Jennifer Hinshaw Deethardt

Jennifer Deethardt

June 24, 2019

Mrs Hershenhorn, we are saddened and shocked by your sudden death. Our Michael always spoke fondly of you, youll be missed by many and all of your students
RIP

Michael Anderson

Classmate

June 22, 2019

Dear Robert, Sarah, Inez and the Holmberg families,

Although Judy is no longer with us, take comfort she will be with you forever, in the wonderful memories each of you created with her. Our hearts go out to all of you at this difficult time.

Joy and Alan

June 16, 2019

Dear Robert,
My heart is broken for you and your family. Please accept my deepest condolences.

Beth Papas DeSantiago

June 15, 2019

My deepest condolences to the Hershenhorn and Holmberg families. Judy was such a bright light, and I always enjoyed catching up with her when our paths crossed. Her warm smile and engaging manner will be missed by so many. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

Jean Rambach Dickelman

June 15, 2019

Robert and Sarah,

So sad to hear this news about your wonder, sweet and ever so elegant wife and mother. It was always wonderful to see her and that mega-watts smile and hear her stories of Florida, Paris, and Chicago adventures with both of you at her side. Our family sends their prayers and hopes that your memories comfort you during this time of such great loss.

My condolences, Estelle Walgreen and Family.

Estelle Walgreen

Friend

June 15, 2019

I am so very sorry..........I saw Judy on Easter Morning as she was standing in her driveway and I was looking for Trinity Church.............she looked absolutely beautiful as always and we both promised to have a cocktail soon.......never put anything off!

Kelly Hutchinson

Friend

June 14, 2019

Sending my deepest condolences to you during this difficult time. I'm so very sorry to hear of your mother's passing, Sarah. She was my 4th grade teacher at Sacred Heart and she was the most incredible teacher and person - and I have loved continuing to see and know Judy and you all from time to time. I will continue to keep you and your entire family in my thoughts and prayers. Love, Megan Brown Tirpak & family

Megan Tirpak

June 14, 2019

We were so sad to hear this news. Heartfelt thoughts go out to you Robert and Sarah. Judy was a beautiful person who seemed to light up a room with her smile and energy! She will be missed by so many. Our prayers are with the Hershenhorn family during this most difficult time. May you find comfort in remembering her beautiful smile, in the memories you shared and in knowing she is at peace. Love to all...

MJ and Tom Heiderman

Friend

June 14, 2019

a loved one

June 14, 2019

Robert and Sarah. Our hearts go out to you. We will always remember Judy as the one with the constant smile, the biggest hugs and the gift of friendship. She will be truly missed by everyone who was lucky enough to know her. Mike Wise and Diane Dewar, Muskoka, Canada.

June 14, 2019

Dear Robert and Sarah,
We are so saddened to hear about Judy. I first met Judy when she was dating Robert. At the time, I was staying with Robert during a difficult time while I was waiting to move back to St. Louis. Through the years, we had many memories from the time she married Robert, when I got married, when Sarah was born and when I had children. She was always welcoming, kind, very generous, and always had a smile and positive attitude. Even though we didn't see all of you often, the memories with Judy were always special. I'm so glad she was a part of our lives. I know she will be missed, but her personality and special relationship you shared will live on with both of you forever. You and your family will be with us in our thoughts and prayers.

Natalie, Neil, Jillian and Sabrina Wolfman

Family

June 14, 2019

Graziella Everett

June 14, 2019

Judy you were the most amazing friend. Thank you for being a part of my life! You will never be forgotten and I will miss you everyday! Xxoo Cindy

Cindy Annibali

Friend

June 14, 2019

My deepest condolences to the Hershenhorn Family. May the promise in 1 Thessalonians 4:14 bring you comfort during this difficult time. Knowing that there is a hope for the ones we have lost in death can be so reassuring.

June 14, 2019

Prayers to family and friends for peace during this challenging time.

The Kuetemeyers

June 13, 2019

I am so very very sorry! Sending our thoughts and prayers to you all. So sad!

Jerry Kraft

Friend

June 13, 2019

Robert: So Very sorry to hear about your present circumstances. Please accept my sincere condolences. Also know that I am available to you for any assistance I am able to provide. Please accept my friendship.
Kindest Regards, Al Montano

Albert Montano

June 13, 2019

Beautiful Judy - You were a gift to so many. Words fail me except to say thank you for being my dear friend. I will miss you so much xo Alice

Alice LeVert

June 13, 2019

Im very sorry to hear about Judy. Sending prayers and love.
Lynn Polydoris George

Lynn George

Friend

June 13, 2019

Dear Robert and Sarah:

Sending you our deepest sympathy. She was an amazing woman and blessed all of us with her friendship. She loved being a mother to you Sarah above all! She will be dearly missed! You will be in our thoughts and prayers during this very difficult time! XO The Talano's

Talano

Friend

June 13, 2019

a loved one

June 13, 2019

Dear Robert and Sarah, we are shocked and very sad. We can't understand why our Lord has taken Judy away from you, from us. But we certainly thank God for having given us the fortune to spend unforgettable moments with her. God bless you

Daniela, Pino and Carolina Borrelli

Friend

June 13, 2019

In loving memory of a wonderful person. We will love you and miss you always.

Molly Trieschmann

Friend

June 13, 2019

Dear Robert and Sarah,
I was deeply saddened to hear of Judy's passing. I remember her fondly when she brought you, Sarah, to Trinity on Sundays. She truly embodied light, love and life, and she leaves a beautiful legacy in you. The entire Moore family sends our condolences and sympathy to you during this difficult time.

Diane Moore

Acquaintance

June 13, 2019

Dear Robert and Sarah,
Our family is sending strength to you both at this extremely difficult time. We are heartbroken to hear about Judy's passing. Our thoughts and hearts are with you and your extended family.

Andrea Gordon, Sydney & Zachary Tretter

June 13, 2019

Bob, please accept my condolences. Very sorry to hear. I no longer live in US. I am in Costa Rica

Donald House

Family

June 13, 2019

Dear Robert and Sarah,
We are so very sadden to hear of the passing of Judy, she was such a caring Pearson.Our deepest condolences to you and your family during this difficult time.
Love to all

Annette & Richard Bailin

Family

June 13, 2019

Hi Inez,
I had played backgammon with Tom for many years in Winnetka, and he was always so proud of his children. My sincere condolences on Judith's passing. Best regards,
Neil Banoff

June 13, 2019

Dear Robert, Sarah, Inez and Horshenhorn Family, it is with deep sadness that we write this message. The heart piercing news of Judys passing shook all of us to the core. A woman of unshakable joy, love and zest for life gone way too soon; so difficult to reconcile this loss. Yet, we hold true to our faith that her beauty, magnetism and inspiration lives on in the celestial community of angels as she looks upon her beloved family and friends. We continue praying for her beautiful soul and the well-being of the Hershenhorn Family.

Steven, Grace and Will Everett

Friend

June 13, 2019

Our thoughts and prayers go out to you during this time. What a beautiful person gone too soon.
The Farrell Family

Caroline Farrell

June 12, 2019

a loved one

June 12, 2019

Dear Robert, Sarah, Inez and Family,
We are devastated by the passing of our dear friend, Judy. The world was forever changed for the good the day she was born. She touched so many lives in such positive ways. She left the world a better place because she was in it and there is an emptiness without her. We are among the blessed to have know and loved her.
May you find peace in the beautiful memories you shared and created with Judy.
David, Becky and Kylie Gust

Becky Gust

Friend

June 12, 2019

I am in shock!!! I am heartbroken for the family. I ran into Judy in Market Square last summer and she said she had experienced some serious health challenges. I was surprised because she is was so young and looked so healthy. We said let's get together soon but that didn't happen and I deeply regret it. Never miss the chance to spend time with those you love and care about. Judy was always such a breath of fresh air... always had a smile on her face and a positive attitude. She was fun and funny, wise, a good listener, a loving and caring friend. She truly cared about others and wanted to make the world a better place. She loved her husband, her daughter, Sarah, her step children, family and friends. She sprinkled the world with love.
I am grateful to have known her and she will be very missed by all those who were so blessed.
The family is in my heart and prayers.
Love,
Jeannie emmert

Jeannie Emmert

Friend

June 12, 2019

Like everyone who knew Judy and heard the awful news, we struggle with disbelief and shock. That such vitality, elegance and beauty could be torn from us all so abruptly. To Robert, Sarah and the affected families, God grant you the strength to bear up under this great loss. We stand in ranks on all sides silently supporting you.

Ryan Kuhn

Friend

June 12, 2019

My heart is heavy. Deepest sympathies to Robert, Sarah, and all of the family. May God hold you in the palm of His hands during this difficult time.

Lindy Salvi

Friend

June 12, 2019

Robert, Sarah,Inez and the Holmberg Family, Martha and I are devistated by your profound loss. We are both holding you in our hearts and prayers. We loved Judy for her spirit, goodness, compassion and generous love. She was absolutely the best! We know that Judy's spirit will live on in Sarah. We are both here to support and and help anytime.

Martha and Jim Richter

Friend

June 12, 2019

Dear Robert, Sarah and the Holmberg & Hershenhorn Family,

We are so very saddened to hear of this tragic news. Our deepest condolences to you, Robert and Sarah, and your family during this difficult time. Judys vivacious personality and love of life was contagious and her memory will live on forever. I remember well our dinner together at Rosebud over 15 years ago, when she gave us the idea of moving to Naples for a year and how she always wanted to go back to Paris and have Sarah learn French...when she put her mind to something, she made it happen! She touched many peoples lives, which means her spirit lives on in them.
May you be comforted by the outpouring of love surrounding you and knowing many will hold her in their hearts.

Ursula and Bret Boyd

Acquaintance

June 12, 2019

Dear Robert, Sarah and all of Judys family, truly our hearts are saddened by the news of Judys sudden passing. I met her and only knew her as you all know so well as a kind hearted, full of energy and passionate woman. She did not hold back on how much she loved her family. She opened up her friendship to me and from the short time I knew Judy, I believe the world was a much better place with her in it! And, I do believe that heavens doors opened wide because they received a beautiful sweet angel. I hope over time you find peace within your hearts and cherish all of Judys memories she had with you and the beautiful legacy she left behind. Again our condolences to all of you and our family sends many prayers as well. May you rest in peace sweet Judy The McAveeney Family (Gina, Jim, Megan & JP)

Gina McAveeney

Friend

June 12, 2019

Robert, Sarah, Inez and The entire Holmberg families,
We are sending all of you our deepest sympathy. Our lives were touched by knowing Judy's kindness, her gentleness, and her generous spirited friendship. We hope and pray your wonderful memories of your wife, mom, daughter, sister and aunt will provide much comfort to you all at this time.

Sarah, Rusty & Teague Magner

Friend

June 12, 2019

Sorry for your family and your loss Bob. Our prayers are with you and Judy.
Jim and Barbara Walsh

James Walsh

Friend

June 12, 2019

My heart goes out to Judy's immediate and extended family and in particular to Judy and Robert's daughter Sarah whom Judy loved so dearly and to Michael, Judy's brother. I will be holding you, your families and Judy in my prayers and heart.

Phoebe Hoyt

Friend

June 12, 2019

So honored to have known Judy - a joy to be with, a wonderful wife and dear mother.
Did a lot of planning events in your home and especially proud to be the planner of your wedding. Sleep peacefully kind soul.

Linda Alpert

Friend

June 12, 2019

My deepest sympathy for Sarah, Robert, Inez, Tom, Michael and Peter. I am at a complete loss of words to express my sadness, shock and horrific feeling of our loss of Judy.
Judy you were one of my oldest, dearest and closest friends. We shared many wonderful, fun and crazy memories. Along with several life's challenges and changes over our 42 year friendship. You were a wonder friend, wife, sister, daughter and most importantly an incredible mother to Sarah, your pride and joy. I will be forever grateful for our friendship. I will hold on to the many good times we shared. I love you dearly and will miss you deeply.

Beth Fellinger Cunningham

Friend

June 12, 2019

In loving memory of a wonderful friend! love you and will miss you always. Rest In Peace sweet Judy ! Our dads were longtime buddies . To bonding on shared books. And our special talks! Prayers and comfort for your Adorable Sarah ,Robert and family! Love Susan

Susan Polydoris Hall

Friend

June 11, 2019

With profound sorrow and shock of her passing, Jim and I extend deepest sympathy to Robert, Sarah, and all of her family. It was our joy to know her laughter and to have shared a small part in her far too short life. Our love to you all...Lynn and Jim Engelland

Lynn Engelland

Friend

June 11, 2019

Robert and Sarah and the rest of Judy's family I am so sorry for your loss. So tragic. She was so great. If there is anything we can do please ask. Love, Mills family

Charlie Mills

Friend

June 11, 2019

Dear Robert, Sarah and the Holmberg & Hershenhorn Family,

My heart goes out to all of you during this very difficult time. I just spoke to Judy on Friday and we had a nice time catching up.

Judy was a kind, sweet, loving, caring, and generous person who had a heart of gold who will be truly missed.

I have known Judy since elementary school at Greeley School plus we spend four years together in the same advisory at New Trier East High School.

We have remained friends and stayed in touch all of these years. Judy always reached out to her friends in need.

Sending love to all of you as this is such a terrible shock of such a lovely and wonderful person.

Elizabeth Kretchmer

Friend

June 11, 2019

Our caring thoughts and prayers are with Sarah, Robert and Judy's entire family. We share in your grief and heartfelt sadness at this immeasurable loss of the light of your lives. May God cherish her as one of his most beautiful angels and may her light continue to shine through you. With sincere sympathy, The Mullarkey Family

Maureen Mullarkey

Friend

June 11, 2019

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