Hope Elisabeth Wessman

I came across your site while compiling thoughts on hope. 16 years ago my firstborn gave birth to her firstborn, a daughter, who lived about 45 minutes. Her parents named her Elisabeth, which means "consecrated to God." Their first ultrasound had shown she would not live but there were many miracles that assured my daughter that Heavenly Father was aware of them; that Elisabeth was to be born into this family and receive her mortal body but would not tarry on earth. He softened the pain and grief and we could sense the presence of others who loved her as she passed through the veil. It was a cold, windy, stormy day when she was to be buried. My daughter prayed for one last blessing, "Please, Heavenly Father, do not let it rain on her graveside service." As the hearse pulled up to the gravesite, the wind stopped. The clouds parted and a ray of sunlight surrounded the tiny casket as it was removed from the car.

Thanks for sharing your story.

Marinda,
I remember seeing you and Mike in the temple while you were pregnant. I think you had just found out about Hope's diagnosis. I remember feeling so bad that you would have to go through such a difficult trial. It's something no one ever expects to go through. But what a blessing little Hope is in your life! And what strong faith you have. The Lord is aware of us and loves His children. I'm so grateful for that knowledge and the knowledge we have of the plan of salvation! Thank you for sharing your tender feelings about Hope and her short life here on earth. Thank you for sharing your testimony of the Gospel and eternal families. It has strengthened mine. Hope is a beautiful baby and I know you will get to be with her again! I hope you and your family are doing well. You have such beautiful kids! Lots of love.
Beckee Becker

Thank you fro sharing your story of Hope. I also had a daughter with trisomy 18, however she passed away when i was 7 months pregnant. I was 15 when this happened and alone. I also found comfort in knowing that someday I would be able to meet my Shyla. I have often wondered what she would have looked like and blogs like this have helped me. Thank you for the ability to remember Shyla through Hopes' memories.