John Bedecarre
1922 - 2021
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John Bedecarre
June 5, 1922 - January 13, 2021
Resident of Concord
John Bedecarre passed peacefully in his Concord home of 48 years on January 13, 2021 surrounded by the love of his six children and eldest granddaughter. The 98-year-old San Francisco native was an award-winning and beloved educator and businessman who loved his family, church, country, politics and sports, especially baseball. John's life spanned much of the great journey of the 20th Century Bay Area into the new millennium when the internet and technology kept him linked to the world via Alexa, Facebook, Zoom and voice-activated streaming.
John and his late wife Catherine Corrinne Reid raised six children and have 17 grandchildren and three great grandchildren, with a fourth on the way this year. Born in San Francisco in 1922, he lived above the French laundry started by his grandfather who immigrated from France in 1890. He attended Commodore Sloat Elementary School, Aptos Middle School and Lowell High School. His next-door neighbor, friend and classmate was renowned American artist Richard Diebenkorn. John went to UC Berkeley, commuting with three Lowell buddies across the new Bay Bridge.
His lifelong passion for baseball was formed while playing on teams as a submarine-throwing pitcher. John attended hundreds of Pacific Coast League baseball games at Seals Stadium where he saw the three DiMaggio brothers play before they went to the majors. In 2000, John and Cathy became San Francisco Giants season ticket holders at the new Pac Bell Park with their youngest son Al. John celebrated like no other when the Giants finally won three World Series.
Bedecarré was a proud veteran who served in the United States Army during World War II from 1943 to 1946. While a student at Cal, he volunteered to join the Army ROTC, but failed the eye examination – despite drinking gallons of carrot juice to improve his eyesight. In 1942, he was drafted in the US Army and joined the Enlisted Reserve Corps with thousands of other UC students. He was called to report for duty at Ford Ord in Monterey, CA in 1943 and, after training at six Army bases in California and Texas, he was deployed to the Pacific campaign. He was stationed on Ie Shima Island with the 175th Ordnance Battalion (Tenth Army) in support of the Battle of Okinawa. In 1946, he was honorably discharged with the rank of Technical Sergeant.
Returning to his studies at UC Berkeley as a journalism and political science major, John worked on The Daily Californian newspaper, where he met young coed Cathy Reid, who also wrote the Cal Gal column in the Oakland Tribune. True to his passion for baseball, their first date was at an Oakland Acorns minor league game. They married in 1948 after both graduated from Cal and lived in San Francisco where he joined the family's French laundry business. They had two children while in The City before moving to Contra Costa, first in Orinda and then settling in Concord when they opened Park & Shop Cleaners in 1955. He lived in Concord for 66 years until his passing.
John attended a weekend Cursillo Catholic men's retreat in 1965 and came home to tell Cathy he wanted to become a teacher. He earned his teaching credential at Cal State Hayward while she ran the family business. Cathy then secured her credential and they both went on to teach for two decades. The couple won numerous awards while impacting the lives of thousands of students. He spent his career in the Mt. Diablo Unified School District at Riverview and Oak Grove intermediate schools. John was proud that during his career he taught every grade from kindergarten to college/post graduate school. The couple were active in the East Bay Council for Social Studies and organized dozens of MDEA teacher's union activities. Education was a passion as well as a vocation of John and Cathy. They treasured attending graduations from preschool through college and were so proud of the numerous degrees earned by their children, grandchildren and former students, and that so many family members and students followed them into the teaching profession. After "retirement," John and Cathy mentored new teachers for 10 years in the education department of Saint Mary's College, where they received faculty appointments as Lecturers at ages 79 (John) and 75 (Cathy).
They remained huge fans of Cal ("Go Bears") and were thrilled a son and grandson also attended Berkeley. Their Cal roots were stretched thin when two of their sons "defected" to attend Stanford.
The couple was deeply interested in politics, history and government. They registered thousands of voters, volunteered on many campaigns and attended several national presidential conventions. John was a middle-of-the-road Republican for 30 years but became a passionate Democrat following Watergate. His last goal was to live long enough to vote in the 2020 presidential election. He accomplished that and also watched the results of the Georgia senate runoffs this month. He was proud of having lived in 100 calendar years (1922-2021) and through 18 American presidents, 10 of whom (from both parties) he saw in person at conventions and other functions.
Family and church were always at the center of his universe. The family belonged to Queen of All Saints Parish in Concord for many years before the family moved to his current Concord home in 1973 and joined a young St. Agnes Church Parish. He edited the St. Agnes Herald newspaper and the 25th anniversary parish yearbook.
John was a leader of the Mt. Diablo Genealogical Society and traveled the country and world with Cathy in quest of more information on their family ancestry while helping so many others do the same. He was so proud of the 900-page family history he published in 2014 with the assistance of genealogist John Maestri. The book is now in genealogy libraries and history centers around the United States.
John and Cathy had six children, 17 grandchildren and three great grandchildren: John Jay Bedecarre and children Jason (Emily Drobny, children Ted, Hallie), Justin (Ashley Taylor), Juliene, Jared; Catherine Diane Bedecarre (Henry White) and children Lydia (Ian Fleming, daughter Ramona), Andy; Corrinne Marie Bedecarre and children Dorothy, Patrick, Ellen; Thomas Hamilton Bedecarre (Maggie Geoghegan) and children Madeline (Adrien Darchez), Kathryn, John; William Clark Bedecarre (Nancy Garrett) and children Claire, Ella, Grace; Albert Pierre Bedecarre (Claire Ernst) and children Sophie, Alden. Also known as Uncle John, Poppy, Mr. B, Paps and Johnny Bumps, he is survived by 13 adoring nieces and nephews, cousins Michael Murphy (Dulce) and Michelle Bedecarre, and brother-in-law Neil Remnant. He treasured his relatives in France, his many friends, colleagues and former students.
He was predeceased by his wonderful wife and partner of nearly 63 years Catherine Reid Bedecarre in 2011, his father John Pierre Bedecarre, mother Gladys Griffith Bedecarre, stepmother Dorothy Hamilton Bedecarre, his sister Barbara Bedecarre Remnant and daughter-in-law Jill Cogan Bedecarre. He was also predeceased by his beloved grandmother Sadie "Memo" Ambrose Griffith and his in-laws Lemuel Albert Reid and Winifred Sloyan Reid.
His children thank first grandchild Dorothy Bedecarre for her loving caring of Poppy and the family home. Teresa Sibrian assisted our family and Mr. John for three decades. His Kaiser doctor (and former middle school student) Dr. Francis Nepacena gave their father such personal healthcare right through COVID-19.
The Greatest Generation has lost an everyday hero. To honor John, register and vote!
The family says donations in John Bedecarre's name can be made to MDUSD Education Foundation (mdedf.org/donate) or St. Agnes Church Social Justice Committee, 3966 Chestnut Ave., Concord 94519. Due to COVID-19 restrictions a private family interment will be at Holy Cross Cemetery, Colma. There will be a Celebration of Life post pandemic restrictions. You are invited to visit memorial website http://www.kudoboard.com/boards/LRA6TsrL


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Published in East Bay Times on Jan. 17, 2021.
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January 21, 2021
Mr. Beddecarre taught me in the 8th grade at Oak Grove during the Iran hostage ordeal. He was a great teacher and I think of him often while also recounting a story when he was tough on me (but for good reason). Though it hurt at the time, what he said to me was necessary and turned me around right quick! We would also do the handshake wrestle and I would be yell “uncle!” Very quickly. All the while he beamed from ear to ear. Rest easy big John. I, and so many others, will never ever forget you.
Dan Goodrich
Student
January 18, 2021
I loved visiting as a kid at uncle John and aunt Caka’s house. I always had a great time. Many fond memories during the holidays. As a young boy I spent a week during the summer working at the laundromat!
What a great first boss.
I always admired him for his many wonderful accomplishments and qualities.
He will always be part of my sweetest memories.
With love
Ken and Maria Miller
Ken and Maria Miller
Family
January 15, 2021
This is a great Obituary. Growing up with Jay it seemed like we saw Mr & Mrs B every Saturday at the Park& Shop Cleaners. Usually after a game or practice They always made time for us. Typically there would be 4 or 5 of us there. He was a great role model for not only his family but for all of us who knew him. He will truly be missed by all.
David Maggi
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