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Edward Joseph Calnan
Engineer & founder of petroleum company with international portfolio, father of six, instilled love of sailing in his grandchilden
Edward Joseph (Joe) Calnan passed away peacefully at home in New York City on Sunday, April 4th, 2021 at the age of 87. He leaves behind his wife of sixteen years, Patricia Turner, as well as his six children, sixteen grandchildren, and three great-grandchildren. Joe was predeceased by his first wife and mother of his six children, Barbara Jane (Hutchison) Calnan, in 1996.
Joe was born on September 8, 1933 in St Catharines, Ontario to Edward and Lydia (Upton) Calnan. Enduring the tragic loss of his father in the Canadian Pacific Air Lines Flight 108 bombing at age sixteen, studious Joe persevered and earned a public speaking award scholarship to follow in his father's footsteps at the University of Toronto. He earned a degree in Chemical Engineering and was offered a job with Esso straight out of university in Aruba.
In 1956, he married Barbara and they began their adventure by moving to the Netherlands Antilles. Whilst there, they had their first three children and made many lifelong friends. Joe became an avid SCUBA diver when the sport was still very novel, and equipment was often homemade.
In 1961, Joe was transferred to Exxon Headquarters in New York City. He and Barbara settled in Nutley, NJ, had three more children, and made numerous wonderful and supportive friends, many of whom they met from their involvement in St. Mary's Catholic Church.
In 1970, Joe and family moved to '168' in Montclair, NJ where he lived for over forty years before retiring to Manhattan. During these decades, Joe founded Firebird Petroleum Corporation which lead to many business trips and adventures to lands far and wide. He often fondly recalled memories of his time living in London, UK in the late-80s and early-90s where he made many friends and discovered his love of sailing, earning his Yachtmaster Offshore Certificate of Confidence from the Royal Yachting Association.
Joe married Patricia (Pat) Turner in 2004.The couple shared many sailing voyages together in the Caribbean in the company of friends and family. They passed on their love of sailing to their grandchildren. In summers, they hosted "Grandad's Sailing School" at their home on Wolfe Island, Ontario, Canada, sponsoring all of the grandchildren to attend sailing camp at the Kingston Yacht Club, Ontario, Canada.
Joe and Pat also spent time in East Hampton, where they were fabulous hosts for countless friends and family. Joe took up cigar smoking when he turned 70, no longer concerned by their long-term effects. At the end of a day, Joe often enjoyed quietly sitting outside or fireside, drink in hand, savoring the moment. Joe also loved to learn and read voraciously. He instilled in his children and grandchildren the importance of working hard and education, a love of nature and the outdoors, and how to live by the golden rule.
A devoted family man and the anchor of his family, Joe is survived by his children Michael, Anne, Elizabeth, Peggy, Lydia, and Joseph; grandchildren, Kellie, Meghan, Vic, Danielle, Matthew, Douglas, Thomas, Joseph, David, Elena, Eddie, Eloi, Axton, Felix, Leo, and Zera; and great-grandchildren, Julia, Annabel, and Cecily. He was predeceased by his sister Madeleine (Calnan) Greenlay.
A Funeral Mass will be offered at Saint Cassian Roman Catholic Church, 187 Bellevue Ave, Montclair, NJ 07043, on Saturday, April 10th at 10 AM. Due to limited seating as a result of Covid, the service may be attended virtually via live stream at https://stcassianchurchuppermontclair.org/(click "Watch Now" under the "Quick Links" heading).
In lieu of flowers please consider donating to the University of Toronto scholarship fund: https://engage.utoronto.ca/site/SPageServer?pagename=donate#/fund/1329
For online condolences please visit www.moriartyfh.com

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Published by The Star-Ledger on Apr. 8, 2021.

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Claire Calnan

April 9, 2021

I will so fondly remember Joe Calnan. Joe and Pat so kindly hosted me when I made trips to Manhattan and we had some great fireside visits at Redstone Lake. My dad spoke of him often and fondly. He will be so missed. Sending love to Pat, and to Joe's kids, grandkids, and the rest of his loved ones. Our thoughts are with you.

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