There are no words which can help you in this time as every person is filled with 'sorrow.' I am only 23, and I did not have the privelege in knowing Graham; a father, a husband, a son, a friend! However, what I do know is that my father has introduced your family into our lives. I am not sure if it is because we have suffered many a loss, and we tried so very hard to make things right within our own lives. We have lost many close one's to cancer and accidents and death. However, we live on; we love; we pray; we care; we carry his legacy with us; his spirit will be with us always and he will ensure that we continue to live our lives to the fullest and use our potential to its greatest. I am so very sorry for your loss, and I know that it has affected my father greatly. My father is only young, however we have endured many sudden losses, of those who were babies and those who were older, and never ever does it get any easier. I believe that Graham has helped my father in his healing, and I believe that my father took great joy in assisting as much as he could. As he knew the pain, the love and the strength that a family has to endure whilst supporting the one's they love in the time of need. Graham is a hero, and a lovely man who seemed like a truely fantastic father, husband, friend and hero.
I guess, I just wanted to tell you how sad I am to learn of this tragedy, and if there is anything that a young girl such as myself should learn; it is that we should never give up. No matter now many tragic circumstances come before us. I have loved many whose lives have been cut short; even before adulthood, however I really do believe that god needed them for something bigger. They will always look over you, take care of you, love you and will always guide you.
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All our love,