KAUFMANN Jeffrey L., 58, died Tue at his residence. Services will be 10:30am Sat at the W.R. Milward Mortuary-Broadway with burial to follow in the Lexington Cemetery. www.milwardfuneral.com
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Jeff, Ive been thinking about you a lot during these days of uncertainty. I did not know that the anniversary of your death was upon us but here it is.
Again, I would like to thank you once more for your introduction of John Prine who recently passed because of this coronavirus. I still remember the night that we went to Louisville and saw John on a very hot and sultry night in August in a place I think if memory serves me correctly called the Red Barn. Not sure. But entirely sure of the influence that John from that day forward helped to shape me. Linda still sings his praises and can quote him extensively.
Thanks Jeff. You were a great guy and a True Son of Kentucky.
Your Brother in Law,
Keith
Keith Meyers
Brother
June 20, 2020
In the wee small hours of the morning...Thinking of you and your precious family on your birthday. A musical interlude by Frank Sinatra, arranged by Nelson Riddle... https://youtu.be/sqCLsp5owY8
J
July 26, 2018
One of the best/worst things about the internet is stumbling across people from our past. As a northerner, I loved Jeffrey's Kentucky drawl. He was so sweet and so grounded, the adult when so many of us weren't there yet. Rest in peace, Jeff. - Jenny Swartz Woestendiek Mitchell
Jenny Mitchell
August 27, 2016
About a month ago, I finally came across a Warren Zevon cover video of "Knocking on Heaven's Door" that I had not seen since it was broadcast following the VH1 Warren Zevon, Keep Me In Your Heart special which included clips with Dave Barry and Bruce Springsteen. Listening to Zevon tunes have, many times, brought back fun memories of Jeff. It was so very sad when WZ passed away at such a young age. Who would have thought that our very own young Jeff would, also, exit this physical world just a few years later?
In observance of another anniversary since Jeff has been gone, I share this video link...
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CvIDNknK4xM
J
July 6, 2015
Kathleen Machesney
June 28, 2015
Six years is a long time...people come and go in our lives, babies are born, children grow up into fine beautiful young adults...
Here are a few of the things I have learned during these 6 years...
If a possum takes up residence in your shed, grab a barbecue brush to coax him out. If he doesn't leave, brush him for twenty minutes and let him stay. Let a dog (or two or three) share your bed. Say the rosary while you walk them. Go to church with a chicken sandwich in your purse. Cry at the consecration, every time. Give the chicken sandwich to your homeless friend after mass.
Go to a nursing home and kiss everyone. When you learn someone's name, share their patron saint's story, and their feast day, so they can celebrate. Invite new friends to Thanksgiving dinner. If they are from another country and you have trouble understanding them, learn to "listen with an accent." Never say mean things about anybody; they are "poor souls to pray for."
Life is short~do not spend it surrounded by negative people. Go out and make the World a Better Place.
If you do good, people will accuse you of selfish, ulterior motives. Do good anyway.
J.
June 26, 2014
Each July of each passing year gives me reason to pause and think of brilliant memories of Jeff. So many lives were touched and impacted by him. The world is definitely a better place because Jeff lived...and, oh, how he did Live!
~J.
July 13, 2013
Thank you for keeping this available. If I may be so bold as to share with everyone reading this of a "Jeffrey/Peter Pan experience" that Jeff shared with me the first time I met him. He told me of the time when he was quite young and was running down the sidewalk so fast that the wind caught his feet and set him flying (ala Van Morrison's lyric) without touching the ground for several feet, if not several yards. Sure, I may have been a gullible little girl back then, but after having known him for a number of years, I believe his soul to be so young that he would be capable of flying, even if for just a short time or distance. Unfortunately for me, I am envious that he now eternally possesses my favorite Super Hero Power--the power of flight without mechanical aid. Godspeed and May God Rest Your Childlike Soul. I Miss You, My Funny Fellow Flying Friend.
J
April 21, 2011
love you,always
January 3, 2011
A year later... Thinking of you Sara, Kathleen and the rest of Jeff's family and many dear friends. As the time continues to pass, may the memories of times shared create more smiles than the loss does tears and heartache.
In remembrance, respect, and with love,
Josie Crawford
June 24, 2009
Our deepest sympathies to family and friends. Our hearts are saddened with the news. Our prayers are with all that loved Jeff. he will be missed!
Robert and Angela Matz
July 8, 2008
Dear Sara and Ben,
I cannot tell you how sorry I am for your loss. Jeff was a great guy and a true friend to all. When I heard last week of his passing all the memories of the good times came flooding back.The trips down to Gorge,the Rolling Stones in Cleveland, the list could go on. Jeff had this really cool ability to be ever evolving and yet be ....Jeff. I will be forever grateful for Jeff introducing me to the wit and wisdom of John Prine.He was an outstanding brother-in-law to me. The years and distance and circumstances, well I just don't know. He was a friend to so many and never seemed to meet a stranger. The world was a richer place with him in it and will be a little poorer with out him.
Keith and Linda Meyers
July 8, 2008
Dear Sara,
My heart goes out to you, your family, Kathleen, and all Jeff’s many loved ones. It is so hard to put into words how much your father meant to so many people. He was generous and he had an incredible knack of bringing people together to enjoy life. So many of my fondest memories are of Laurel Lake, Christmas parties, New Year's Eve celebrations, and other gatherings inspired by your dad and his kindness. I will forever treasure those life moments. Jeff was the link that built a great friendship chain of many who will greatly miss him. I hope that during this difficult time you can find some comfort in knowing that your father positively affected the lives of many who will remember him always.
Josie Crawford
June 30, 2008
Jeff's family and closest friends... Me and many friends like you had the honour to help Jeff celebrate five "Fest" birthdays (circa 1997-2001) and he is certainly missed in this life by all of us that he touched with his great generosity and passion for life.
To Jeff's family and dearest friends, you have my deepest respects and sympathy for Jeff's untimely passing. God Speed Jeff to HIS loving arms in heaven above.
Sincerely from an admiring friend, and former pirate on the Jolly Roger.
21 guns Jeff.
Ed Harris
June 28, 2008
To The Kaufmann Family,
We are deeply sorry for your loss of Jeff. Are family enjoyed being with him and spending time with him. He was a great friend, companion, and comrade to many. He was loved by many. He was a very special person that was extremely generous, caring, thoughtful, and fun. Jeff Kaufmann was Magnanimous and will be missed dearly in this world. Our thoughts and prayers go out to you during this difficult time.
Paul Fister
June 28, 2008
Jeff will surely be missed by all those that were fortunate to have know him. He touched all our lives and hearts with his passion of pursuit of love and life. My condolences go out to his family and many friends who loved him.
Pat Royalty-Haertel
June 28, 2008
Sara, We are thinking about you and we know you have many great memories of your Dad.
The O'Neill family
Nancy, Jim and Bryan
Nancy O'Neill
June 28, 2008
Dear Ben and Sara,
It is difficult to think that a boyhood friend from almost 55 years ago will not be around. Jeff and John Saunders and I were inseparable friends of the Shady Lane/Tahoma Road scene. There are no words to sooth your lose, but know he was an adventuresome character, a loyal friend, and a devoted family man. All the Kaufmann's provided much love to my brother and me. I only regret we did not keep in better touch in the final years. You all will be in my thoughts and prayers.
With Love and Rememberance,
Mike Mayer
June 28, 2008
Jeff was a good friend from many years ago. He will be missed by all that knew him.
Bob & Elly Columbia
June 27, 2008
To The Kaufmann Family,
I was so sorry to hear of Jeffrey's passing. He was special to me and I will miss seeing him at Keeneland. Thinking of you all in this time of sorrow.
Nancy Fox
Nancy Fox
June 27, 2008
Sara and Ben,I didn't know Jeff that well and I am so sorry for your loss.I will tell you he made me laugh while I was going through one of the hardest times in my life.May you be comforted during this time by the love of Jesus Christ.
Lisa Madden
June 27, 2008
Dear Sara, Kathleen and Ben,
I know this loss is devastating to you as it is to all of the friends Jeff touched in his life. I pray that some peace will come to you as you reflect on your life with him. We are all so blessed to have been a part of his life! We will grieve long, but that will never overshadow the gifts of grace, love and friendship that JEFFREY LOUIS KAUFMANN has showered upon us all.Love,Tommy
Tommy Morrow
June 27, 2008
Ben and Janet,
I am here.
Audra Deli
June 27, 2008
Sara, Ben, Janet, Kathleen, Cheryl and Dale,
I am so sorry for your loss. Jeff was a very dear freind and will never be forgotten. He touch so many lives in ways that he didn't even realize. Dive trips and the world will never be the same without him. You all are all in my families prayers and thoughts.
God Bless,
Neil McEachin
New Horizons Diving Center
Neil McEachin
June 27, 2008
Dear Sara and Ben,
Let me join the parade of folks who called Shady Lane home and express my sincerest sympathies to you. Shady Lane was indeed a special street and I fully appreciate how much Jeff treasured it.
Rusty Saunders
June 27, 2008
Sara and Kathleen,
So sorry for your loss. I love your dad dearly. I feel so lucky to have known him. I am so gald that my girls (Jenny & Ashley) were able grow up knowing him. He was a very special person.
Nancy Morrow
June 27, 2008
BEN AND SARA
I HAVEN'T SEEN JEFF FOR MANY YEARS. I USED TO PAL AROUND WITH HIM AND MY COUSION TOM.
HE WAS LOTS OF FUN AND A GREAT GUY. HE WILL BE MISSED.
MAURICE LYKINS
MAURICE LYKINS
June 27, 2008
Jeff was an amazing man. When you were around him, he treated you like family even if you had never met him before. When attending one of his parties, he'd say "make yourself at home" and he meant it. The world has lost a truly wonderful person. My heart goes out to his family and friends.
Missie (Crawford) Murphey
June 27, 2008
Ben and Sara,
I was shocked when Dad told me today of Jeff's death. I am so sorry. The Kaufmann family played a big role in my life growing up across the street from you and I babysat your dad, Sara, for several years when he was a kid. When I visited my parents on Shady Lane I would sometimes visit your dad in the front yard and he always mentioned how proud he was of you. Please accept my deep sympathy in your loss.
Bonnie Flynn Deming
June 26, 2008
Dear Sara,
The words I'm sorry don't begin to express the sympathy I feel for your loss. Your father was a great man...a "King" of men.
I'm so grateful for all the wonderful memories we all shared at the lake. I have gained many great friendships through those times at the lake that I will carry with me my whole life, all of which would not have been possible if not for your father Jeff. It was like a family in itself....our Laurel Lake family.
He had a zest for life and it seemed contagious to all around him.
I'm so proud to have been able to call him friend.
He was dearly loved by many and will be greatly missed by all who were lucky enough to be a part of his life.
Jennie Crawford
June 26, 2008
Ben and Sara,
Jeff has been a part of the McEachin family for many years and I cannot express how sorry I am to hear of his passing. Jeff and I have been on countless trips together and I cannot help but smile when I think of him. Sara, I hope one day you will come to realize you are the best thing that ever happened in his life. We will all miss him dearly and you and your family are in our hearts and prayers.
Brandon Leibel
June 26, 2008
Dear Sara and Ben,
You are in my thoughts and prayers at this time. Jeff was great guy and I have wonderful memories of us growing up together on Shady Lane. Please let me know if there is anything I can do.
Jim Combs
June 26, 2008
Dear Sara & Ben: We are deeply sorrowed at hearing of Jeff's passing. Please accept our condolences during this time of mourning. We pray that you stay strong in the LORD and that he gives you strength to deal with this tragic loss. With deepest sympathies, Mike & Earleen
Mike & Earleen Flynn
June 26, 2008
Sara, Your Father was a Giant of an individual. His friendship and generosity over the years brought much happiness to the many that were fortunate enough to call Jeff a friend. You were and are his world. Words could never express the loss you must be experiencing. Your Dad brought so much happiness and touched so many lives. May the many smiles and wonderful memories of your Father help you cope during this time of grief. May the peace of the Lord be with you and your family.
Jim Madden
June 26, 2008
Dear Sara & Ben,
So very sorry to hear of your loss. During this difficult time, please remember to nourish your body, mind & soul with good food, good friends and happy memories.
I have fond memories of your family, and especially of Jeff. Because he shared the same birthday with several of my friends and family, I always prayed a birthday wish for him each year. For this year, my birthday prayer will go out to you, Jeff's family.
Take Care,
Julie Brown
June 26, 2008
Sara:
So sorry for your loss. We enjoyed getting to know your dad on some dive trips. We'll keep you in our prayers.
Bill & Kathy Ruth
June 26, 2008
Dear Sara,
Our hearts are broken for you at the loss of your dad, we pray that the close and loving family surrounding you brings you peace and comfort, thinking of you with much love and happy memories.
Alex, Carole & Matt Joefreda
Joefreda Family
June 26, 2008
John Powell
June 26, 2008
Mary Kiihn
June 26, 2008
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