Search by Name

Search by Name

FUNERAL HOME

Luyben Dilday Mortuary - LONG BEACH

5161 Arbor Rd

Long Beach, California

Harold Whalen Obituary

1921 - 2020 Harold Whalen, of Long Beach, CA, passed away peacefully on December 5, 2020. Harold was born in York, North Dakota. Harold was a loving husband, father, grandfather and great-grandfather. He was devoted to his wife Josie, family, friends and faith. Harold attended the University of North Dakota before enlisting in the USAAC. He was a P-51 pilot in the 14th Air Force and served in China during WW II. After the war, Harold received his engineering degree from the Northrop Institute of Technology and went to work for North American Aviation/Rockwell INT'L. Harold was an avid golfer, loved to read and was devoted to his faith and was a member of the Knights of Columbus. Harold is survived by eight children, Maureen, Byron, Keith, Shannon, Vaughn, Patti, Larry and Jim, 19 grandchildren and 23 great-grandchildren; his brother, Tyrone and sister-in-law, Arlene. He was preceded in death by his wife, Josie, a daughter Joanne, his parents Dora and Michael, sister Mercedes and his brother Michael. A rosary will be held at 3:00pm on December 10 at Luyben Dilday Mortuary located at 5161 E. Arbor Rd., Long Beach, CA. Graveside services will be at All Souls Cemetery in Long Beach on Friday, December 11, 2020 at 11:00am Luyben Dilday Mortuary 562-425-6401 www.luybendilday.com

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Press-Telegram on Dec. 10, 2020.

Memories and Condolences
for Harold Whalen

Sponsored by Press-Telegram.

Not sure what to say?





Shannon Lutmer

December 2, 2025

As we approach the 5th anniversary of our dad’s death, I am grateful for so many things. I am thankful for him being my dad, being a friend, being a good grandfather and great- grandfather, and one with whom I could speak about spiritual matters. I still think of things that I wish I could share with him and also know that he is with us always! ❤

Genelle Curiel

December 22, 2020

Harold was a longtime member of St. Maria Goretti Senior Social Circle. Even though he was not able to attend our monthly luncheons for quite some time, he remained a part of our group. We hope that the many happy memories you have in your heart will be of some comfort during this difficult time.

Jim Nieto

December 14, 2020

A characteristic of a life well lived is the family legacy that has been built during the course of ones lifetime. Josie and Harold built a dynasty of love and compassion as witnessed by their family. I pray for the repose of the soul of a true American hero and for the loving family that he created.

MARK WHALEN

December 10, 2020

Good bye and God bless you Harold. May our Lord's perpetual light shine upon you! We will be praying for you and your family. You have been a beautiful inspiration to me as man, a father, and now a grandfather; to be solid in your faith and pursue virtue. You were also a solid influence in my dad and how he lead his life and subsequently guided mine. I love you. Mark and Jane, and all the Whalens in Alexandria, MN.

Susann Sullivan

December 10, 2020

I will miss you, Hal.

Pastel Peace Basket

Shannon Lutmer

Sent Flowers

Harold and Josie Whalen

Vaughn Whalen

December 9, 2020

I loved my Dad very much and I am thankful that he has been reunited with my Mom and sister Joanne. I am so happy that he had a full, healthy life filled with family, friends and golf. I am so thankful that he was my Dad, but more so, that we became friends as I grew older. I'll miss his stories about his time in the US Army Air Corps and he had a million of them. I'll miss you Dad. I love you.

Jim Whalen

December 9, 2020

What an honor it is to call this man my dad and what a gift it was that he was with me for 62 years. My sadness for his passing is assuaged by my knowledge that he had a terrific life. Even after mom passed away he was doing amazing things; like hitting a hole-in-one on a par 3, 176 yard hole...at the age of 95! Thanks for the wisdom, teaching me how to love a woman, and how to be a better overall man.

Keith and Peggy Whalen

December 9, 2020

In loving memory ❤

The Spathiphyllum Plant

Scott Hernandez

Sent Flowers

Showing 1 - 10 of 10 results

Make a Donation
in Harold Whalen's name

Memorial Events
for Harold Whalen

Dec

10

Rosary

3:00 p.m.

Luyben Dilday Mortuary - LONG BEACH

5161 Arbor Rd, Long Beach, CA 90808

Dec

11

Graveside service

11:00 a.m.

All Souls Cemetery

Long Beach, CA

Funeral services provided by:

Luyben Dilday Mortuary - LONG BEACH

5161 Arbor Rd, Long Beach, CA 90808

How to support Harold's loved ones
Attending a Funeral: What to Know

You have funeral questions, we have answers.

Read more
Should I Send Sympathy Flowers?

What kind of arrangement is appropriate, where should you send it, and when should you send an alternative?

Read more
What Should I Write in a Sympathy Card?

We'll help you find the right words to comfort your family member or loved one during this difficult time.

Read more
Poems of Mourning and Comfort

The best poems for funerals, memorial services, and cards.

Read more
Resources to help you cope with loss
How to Cope With Grief

Information and advice to help you cope with the death of someone important to you.

Read more
Estate Settlement Guide

If you’re in charge of handling the affairs for a recently deceased loved one, this guide offers a helpful checklist.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituaries, grief & privacy: Legacy’s news editor on NPR podcast

Legacy's Linnea Crowther discusses how families talk about causes of death in the obituaries they write.

Read more
Ways to honor Harold Whalen's life and legacy
Obituary Examples

You may find these well-written obituary examples helpful as you write about your own family.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituary Templates – Customizable Examples and Samples

These free blank templates make writing an obituary faster and easier.

Read more
How Do I Write a Eulogy?

Some basic help and starters when you have to write a tribute to someone you love.

Read more