Mengert (nee Bova), Harriet

Harriet L. Mengert of Palm Coast, Florida (formerly of Yonkers, NY) passed away on April 16, 2017 at age 84. She was born on June 17, 1932 to Harry and Marie (Lucas) Bova in Yonkers where she was raised and graduated from Commerce High School and was valedictorian of her class. She married Robert Mengert on November 22, 1952 in St. Mary's Church. He died in 2002, and was the love of her life. Harriet worked as the Chief Clerk of the Bankruptcy Court in White Plains. She was an avid reader and quilter (she made a quilt for every one of her children and grandchildren); she was a volunteer at the animal shelter, was a mahjong player and was in many groups; she enjoyed gardening; spending time at the beach and occasionally enjoyed a glass of wine and dark chocolate; she was a great fan of Wheel of Fortune (and could solve puzzles with only one or two letters on the board); and was a crossword puzzle fan. Harriet was a devoted wife and dedicated to her family; including her cats. Survivors include her daughters Deborah Mengert, Pamela da Rosa, her son Robert L. Mengert, Jr, a brother Jack Bova, 12 grandchildren; 21 great grandchildren and one on the way. She was predeceased by her husband Robert and her sister Anita Bertram. Visiting hours will be at the Whalen & Ball Funeral Home on Thursday from 2-4 & 7-9pm. A Mass of Christian Burial will be in St. Mary's Church on Friday 10am. Interment will follow at Kensico Cemetery. In lieu of flowers memorial donations can be sent to the Humane Society of the United States, Dept: Memorial Donations, 1255 23rd Street, NW, Suite 450, Washington, DC 20037. www.humanesociety.org/donate.

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Yonkers, NY 10703

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Published by The Journal News on Apr. 20, 2017.

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John Lucas

April 21, 2017

I knew Harriet when I was a boy. During the early days, my Dad Edward Lucas, or sometimes called Uncle Eddie who is Aunt Marie's brother, would visit Uncle Harry & Aunt Marie down in Yonkers, at their 3 story, 3 family house. Our family being from Connecticut, did not always have the time to visit often. My Dad was very close to his sister Marie which is Harriet's mom. When my dad would visit, I would often go upstairs to Harriet's & Uncle Bob's 3rd floor apartment, and play with Cousin Bobby. My sister Marion would play with Debbie and Pam. I thought it was the coolest thing, us country folks visiting with city folks In the city, everything seems like on a fast track, with so many more things happening. One thing I remember most, is how full of life Harriet was, and always happy to chat and make everyone feel good and have a fun time together.

Many many years later, I had the occasion to meet Harriet again, down in Florida, when I was on a business trip to Orlando for a few weeks. Having little to do on the weekend, I was wondering if I had a relative close by in that area. I was surprised that Harriet and Jackie lived not too far away in a town called Palm Coast.

I asked if I could visit for a day on the weekend, and Harriet was glad to have me stop over. She even let me stay the night. Well, she knew so much about my family, Uncle Joe Lucas, Aunt Betty, Aunt Frannie and my Dad Ed Lucas, that we talked constantly for two days straight without stopping. Do you believe that! Harriet was a great conversationalist! Not too many people could top her. She also showed me around and we went by the intracoastal waterway, and visited the beautiful hard sand beaches that everyone drove their cars on, like a roadway. It was terrific! I can see why she moved down there to Palm Coast in Florida for all those later years It was beautiful down there. She even got Jackie to move nearby next to her, right across the street. It was a very special visit to be with Harriet for the day down there in Florida, and what impressed me the most, was how happy she was and how she liked to have fun sharing moments with the family. She is a very special person, and she liked other people to enjoy themselves too! Even though I am a distant relative, she made a great impact, and I will miss the joy in life she showed everyone. God Bless!

John Lucas

Josephine Lifrieri

April 20, 2017

Dear Deb and Pam, Although I only met your Mom a few times I will never forget her. What a beautiful, funny, and delightful woman she was. Barry and I send our deepest condolences to you and your family.

Dot & Mike Mahoney

April 20, 2017

So Sorry for your loss. Mrs.Mengert raised a beautiful loving family.

Peter Schleicher

April 20, 2017

My heart goes out to Mom Mengert's family and loved ones ..she was a loving and welcoming woman and I'll always have a sweet place in my heart for her...with sympathy, Peter Schleicher

Ashley Jones

April 20, 2017

Rip

April 19, 2017

Nanny... our hearts are broken. We will love you for always-
With heavy hearts - Jessie and Matt

Denise Carrozza

April 19, 2017

My Aunt Harriet, an amazingly funny, smart, loving woman. You are in my prayers as always and forever in my heart. I will Love You forever. Denise

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