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Wende Whitten Obituary

BUXTON - Wende Christine (Poitras) Whitten, 49, of Buxton passed away on Friday, Feb. 8, 2019, after a courageous and brave fight against brain cancer.Wende was born on Jan. 15, 1970, in San Diego, Calif. She grew up in Westbrook and Gorham and graduated from Gorham High School in 1988. Wende went onto USM and spent most of her career in the insurance industry. Wende was employed by Prudential for over 10 years and previous to that worked at Unum for 12 years.Wende was one of a kind and to know her was to love her. She had a heart of gold and was giving beyond measure to all those she loved. She loved to laugh and spend time with those she held close. She has many strong friendships that span decades which is a true testament to the beauty she held within. You could always count on her to tell it like it is - she always stayed true to who she was.She had a love of photography often taking photos of her nieces and nephews, friends, families, and captured nature at it's finest. Wende enjoyed going on adventures while four wheeling and spending time at the races. She was creative and loved to scrapbook making many precious books over the years for family members that will be cherished forever. Wende also loved to cook she was often trying new recipes and made amazing comfort food. She was famously know for her BBQ skills!Wende's two favorite roles in life were being "Mimi" to her beautiful granddaughter Aria and "Auntie Wende" to her nieces and nephews. She has left them with many memories filled with laughter, heartfelt handmade gifts, and hugs that will be held in their hearts forever.Through her battle Wende graced the path of several amazing doctors, nurses, and medical staff that were truly in awe of her amazing strength, spirit, and personality. One quote from an individual says it well "When you left her room you left with a smile…."Wende is survived by her husband of 19 years, Peter Whitten; her mother, Jacqueline Verrill and her husband, Arthur, from Limington; her father, Rodolphe Poitras and wife, Cathy, of Buxton. A sister, Kathy Usher and husband, David from Gray; her brothers, Marc Poitras and wife, Roxanne, of Gorham, Brendan Poitras and partner, Cortney Regan, of Naples. Sister-in-law, Elaina Duquette and husband, Brian, of Scarborough. Mother-in-law, Joan Whitten and stepson, Tim Parker. Wende was predeceased by her brother, Brad Poitras formerly of Gorham, and her father-in-law, Jack Whitten formerly of Portland.The family will host visiting hours on Friday, February 15, from 5-7 p.m., at the Westbrook Chapel of Dolby, Blais & Segee, 35 Church Street, Westbrook. A memorial service will follow on Saturday at 11 a.m. at the funeral home. To express condolences or to participate in Wende's online tribute please visit www.DolbyBlaisSegee.comIn lieu of flowers memorial donations may be made to support further brain tumor research by sending to:Barbara Bush Children's Hospital22 Bramhall StreetPortland, ME 04102, orMaine Medical Neuro Science Institute22 Bramhall StreetPortland, ME 04102

Published by Portland Press Herald/Maine Sunday Telegram on Feb. 12, 2019.
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Wende, you were a great mentor when I joined Mend A Body! I think of you often. You were a special lady
Joann N.

Joann Nappi

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February 6, 2024

I am so glad to have met you and your family. Even though I met you towards the end of things I felt like I had known you forever. You were an unbelievably positive person and I loved being around you. Rest in Peace my friend

Dani ( the prison nurse lol) Brady

February 21, 2019

Wende, what a wonderful lady! I was so blessed to have known you and worked with you at Prudential. Thank you for your car rides. You know what I'm talking about, wink wink. Your smile, your heart and personality were larger than life. RIP dear lady .

JOANN NAPPI

February 21, 2019

I am so blessed to have gotten the chance to meet you. You always made me laugh and brought this energy to those around you. I am thinking of you and your family. May you rest your beautiful soul, and to the family I send my prayers ♡

Christina Martel

February 15, 2019

SO very sad to hear of Wende's passing. I will remember her smile and her fun spirit. My condolences to the Poitras/Whitten family.

Anne Duggan

February 15, 2019

So sorry to learn of Wende's passing. I remember her well as a kind and helpful person with a heart of gold. May the many remembrances and memories comfort your family at this difficult time.

Amy Small

February 15, 2019

Kenneth Hallden

February 14, 2019

Very sorry to hear of Wendy's passing. She was my "go to" person for questions at Prudential, always willing to assist me. Thoughts and prayers to your family.

Joanne Guilbault Guilbault

February 14, 2019

Deepest sympathy to family and friends. I didn't know Wende well, having worked with her on a few projects. She was easy to get along with and always willing help. She will be missed.

Gina Pettigrano

February 14, 2019

I'm so sorry for your loss. Wende was always smiling and kind. I was fortunate to get to know her through work at Prudential. My thoughts and prayers are with you all at this difficult time.

Julie Griffin

February 14, 2019

My love and hugs are with you Jackie. My heart is breaking for all of you. Stay strong and hold on to your Faith. Know that I am praying for you and are with you in spirit. 1st cuz Diane Tanner Goodwin

Diane Goodwin

February 13, 2019

Sorry for your loss. Wende was a pleasure to work with during my brief time at Prudential. Always enjoyed visiting Portland to see Wende and the rest of the team. RIP

Scott M. Wendrychowicz

February 13, 2019

Peter,
So sorry to hear of wende's passing
Thoughts and prayers to you
An your family.

Chuck Durost

February 13, 2019

Condolences to the Poitras Family. Our thoughts and prayers are with you

Xoxo

Peters Family

February 13, 2019

Wende you were a very sweet person. Always bubbly and happy. Rest in peace. God bless you. He will watch over you and your family.
Elizabeth Somers
Raymond, Maine

February 12, 2019

Jaso Aube

February 12, 2019

Wende you where truly an amazing strong, sweet, and caring being. Heaven is lucky to have you ❤

Aleah Pralicz

February 12, 2019

I enjoyed the time I spent with Wende when I lived in Buxton. She would come over and dig up some of my flowers to replant in her yard or come and pick blackberries. She was always a cheery and fun person and I know she will be a great gardener in Heaven.

Darlene Myers

February 12, 2019

My thoughts and prayers are with Peter and Wendes family and all of Wendes friends. We have lost one of the best people I have had the honor of calling my friend. Your smile and laugh will be missed greatly.

lynne collett

February 12, 2019

a loved one

February 12, 2019

Wende made a lasting impression on me as a co-worker and friend. I had the pleasure of working with her for 3.5 years at Prudential. She was always helpful and made me laugh. When I came to Portland for training she took time out of her busy schedule to show me around and have dinner with me. We shared a love of photography, sharing pictures often via Facebook and texting. She will be missed dearly. My thoughts and prayers are with the entire family at this time!

Julie Sandeen

February 12, 2019

I am so very sorry for your loss. I hope you find comfort during this difficult time. Wende was a wonderful person with a heart of gold. She has been truly missed by all of her coworkers at Prudential.

Deb Lonczak

February 12, 2019

My thoughts and prayers go out to Peter and the rest of Wende's family. Wende is among the angels now, watching over all of you.

Wendy Broy

February 12, 2019

Sincere condolences for your loss. May happy memories of your loved one and the words of Isaiah 57:15 provide you with much comfort.

N C

February 12, 2019

Wende was a genuine loving person. My heart goes out to her husband, and her family. I knew her from our scrapbooking days, when her books would always be the prettiest. She will be missed greatly.

Lisa Donahue

February 12, 2019

I am so very sorry. I will lift all of you in prayer - that God will comfort you now.

Jeanne Niemiec (Lebel)

February 12, 2019

We are honored and blessed to have known Wende. she was truly a blessing in our life's and I will miss her Terribly.So sorry for your Loss My condolences.

Pam/Donny Morse

February 12, 2019

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