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September 18, 2018

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December 28, 2017
Missing you tonight so much watching Happy Feet I know it was one of your favorites...I can see you laughing at all the amigo penguins in it with there chill amigo style. So cute. I remember how you always said, "How Cute." Your candle is always light at our house with your beautiful smile and your beautiful face and grace. Thank you for visiting us through the wild Rock or Winter Wren that flew in our house at night and stayed the night and we opened door in the morning for it to go back outside. He lets out beautiful songs singing all the time around our house, visiting us, loving on us. I say that is my bro saying hi when we need that comfort the most in our lives right now. Miss you love you.
September 12, 2017
Miss you already. So so much
September 10, 2017
September 09, 2017

❤Oh my precious brother Gary. There are no words to express my heartfelt gratitude and the deep love that I will always have for you. Even though I will not be there to celebrate your memorial, I will be there in spirit. You know that too.

Both Bryan and I are making your favorite color of balloons. We will write on them for you, our lasting memories of you with your beautiful picture, always shinning, always smiling, always giving of yourself, your heart, in everything that you do. We will be releasing your balloons into the skies of freedom and peace, on your memorial special day, Sep 9th, here in the southern state. We have picked out a very beautiful, peaceful garden and lake that has wild life all around it. Even the animals will miss you Gary and know of your great love for them. We will plant a tree for you in your honor, as dad taught us this is a great way to go through the healing process of grief. For you precious brother are in the hands of God probally dancing, singing and playing the drums like you always do.

I remember as a child, you always having my back in heart and always being there for me. Remembering when we used to hang out all the time when I grew up, and how I would stay with you, Kathleen, and Brandon. I was always so excited to stay with you all. Then when I finally got my car, I would pick you up often and we would go jam in San Jose together, with all the singing bands we used to always go to. We always loved to sing together.

You always just got people. You understood their spirit without them even speaking a word. You were the shinning light for me back in the day. Always encouraging, always believing, always positive, always being there for your family no matter what. You had so much love for life to offer people, and the world around you was changed by it. You will always be remembered for your loving and compassionate heart. You always had a heart for the outcast, the underdog, the brokenhearted, the rejected and the forgotten ones in society.

No matter what hard times you were going through, you always were optimistic and free in your spirit. I remember all the times all you and I did was laugh together about all the fun and crazy times we had and experienced with one another back in the day. I loved being around you so much, and was counting the time you would get off work, so we could hang out again...and again...and again. I loved all the barbeque you would always cook me and everyone you could. You were my chef bro Gary. I always could be myself with you because you accepted everybody without judging them.

God used your love, precious brother Gary, to help save my life in a great time of need. I will never forget your kindness and love that you had for your little sister. :) You would remind me of it everyday.

Thank you for being such an inspiration to everyone you have met. You will be so missed by all. I miss your drums, which I called your hands. You would do all the time perfect rhythms in my car, as we would jam out together and sing along with loud music. You were my rock then big brother, and you will forever be missed and loved.

Thank you for making this world a better place. And for reminding all of us how much better it is to love, then to hate. To forgive, then to be bitter. To smile, even when you want to cry. To be strong, even when you want to break. But most importantly, to Live your life with genuineness and compassion. You were and are Gods light. May you rest in peace my precious brother Geeeee. And some day, we will all be united and see eachother again. Smiling....laughing....loving.

Love always and forever, Little sis, Stephanie❤

Sis Steph & Bryan, Oklahoma
September 8, 2017