James Lee Graham
September 3, 1940 - October 25, 2012
Cary
James Lee Graham, 72, of Cary, died Thursday, October 25, 2012 at his second home near Pittsboro, NC.
James was born September 3, 1940 in Winston-Salem, NC to the late Dixie Graham and Ina Dale Prevette Graham. He was a veteran of the US Army and a graduate of North Carolina State University. James was employed with the North Carolina Department of Transportation as a civil engineer, retiring with over 43 years of service.
James was preceded in death by his parents; and brother, Charles Cox Graham.
He is survived by his wife of 32 years, Corinne Caudle Graham; son, Tony Andrew Harris and his wife, Daniela of Garner; daughter, Dorothy Diane Harris Greco and her husband, John of Smithfield; sisters, Dixie Ann Teague and her husband, Charles of Greensboro; and Glennetta Milunas and her husband, Robert of Dana Point, CA; 3 grandchildren, Angelina Rose Greco; Arianna Raye Greco; and Maddalena Elizabeth Clark.
A memorial service will be held 2:00 pm Saturday, November 3, 2012 at First Baptist Church of Cary, 218 South Academy Street, Cary, NC 27511. The family will receive friends immediately following the service at the church.
Memorials may be made to The Foundation of Hope for the Research and Treatment of Mental Illness, 9401 Glenwood Avenue, Raleigh, NC 27617.
Condolences may be sent to www.BrownWynneCary.com
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Corinne, I just looked at all the pictures posted for Jim and through my tears am writing to say once again how very sad we are to learn of his passing. You two are so special for all you've done for us through the years and it is hard to believe he is gone. When you are in the mountains please come by for a good hug and reminescing about the guy who always had a smile for us. Love you and your family. Jane and Don
November 11, 2012
Mary Marshall
November 6, 2012
Mary Marshall
November 5, 2012
Oh Jim...our whole neighborhood is certainly grieving for you, especially our little cul-de-sac. You were the heart and soul of our "family" here. We all love you so much. You were my first real friend here, and you helped me so much. I didn't know beans about owning a house, but you taught me what I needed to know. From your warm smile to your helping hand, you certainly showed us how to be good neighbors, and I will always be grateful for all those delicious tomatoes and vegetables you so sweetly shared with us. Thank you, Jim for everything you did for all of us. We miss you already. Please don't worry about Corinne. I will always be here for her day or night. Corinne, my prayers are with you and your entire family every day, and I know God will continue to give you all the strength, courage and comfort you need to get through this, along with His precious peace that passes all understanding. May God bless you. Love,
Mary
Mary Marshall
November 5, 2012
So sorry for your loss. You are in our prayers. Bobby & Faye Ray
November 4, 2012
Mary Marshall
November 4, 2012
My heart breaks for you all Diane...I will always remember Jim as such a friendly, down to earth and loving man...We will pray for peace and healing for you all..take care..we love you! - Mandy, Tommy, Thomas, and Kendall Bruton
Mandy & Tommy Bruton
November 3, 2012
Tony, Corrine, and Diane,
I am so sorry for your loss. Jim was always so nice to Scott and I. He will remain alive in your memories. Much Love,
Jackie Andrason
November 3, 2012
Dear Corinne,
Ken and I are so sorry for your loss. We will also miss Jim and our Private Drive will not be the same without him.
With love,
Anne
Anne B.
November 3, 2012
"Poppy" was one of the greatest men we have ever met. I can still envision him balancing on the arms of the couch in the new baby waiting room to get just the right picture of his new granddaughter! THAT is what made "poppy", poppy..Love and prayers to all the family
Doug & Sharon Hammond
November 3, 2012
To the Milunas Family James Lee Graham was always known as Uncle James. He was the brother, anchor, and rock that helped our mom grow up with a light heart. He made our family and friends laugh to the point of tears, regaling us with the tales of fixed elections in small towns and the trials and tribulations of �Dixie� on the homestead. We know who our family is, and where our mom comes from, because of Uncle James.
To us children raised on the west coast, he was our strongest connection to our mother's southern roots and the colorful history of the Graham name.
To our mother Uncle James was the port in the storm that kept her strong, never letting her lose sight that someone always loves you. Life is not always perfect but the love of family always is. Thank you for your love.
Uncle James your heart, smile, and wonderful voice will always be with us. The Milunas family sends our love and support to the Graham family.
Glenetta Graham Milunas is our mother and sister to James.
The Milunas Family
Dana Point, California
Milunas
November 3, 2012
To the Milunas Family James Lee Graham was always known as Uncle James. He was the brother, anchor, and rock that helped our mom grow up with a light heart. He made our family and friends laugh to the point of tears, regaling us with the tales of fixed elections in small towns and the trials and tribulations of ”Dixie” on the homestead. We know who our family is, and where our mom comes from, because of Uncle James.
To us children raised on the west coast, he was our strongest connection to our mother's southern roots and the colorful history of the Graham name.
To our mother Uncle James was the port in the storm that kept her strong, never letting her lose sight that someone always loves you. Life is not always perfect but the love of family always is. Thank you for your love.
Uncle James your heart, smile, and wonderful voice will always be with us. The Milunas family sends our love and support to the Graham family.
The Milunas Family
Dana Point, California
Milunas
November 3, 2012
We were shocked and so saddened by the loss of our dear friend and tennis partner. Our sympathy goes out to his family for their loss. We will miss his pleasant demeanor and wicked forehand.
Warmest Regards,
Bob S, Bob P, Geoff, Jerry, Kevin, Pete, Ram, TC, and Yates
Geoff Stephens
November 1, 2012
What a wonderful man. I had the pleasure of working with Jim on numerous NCDOT projects such as NC 12/Thorofare Bay and NC 27/Catawba River. Jim always kept the state's interests at the forefront, and was a great steward of our industry. I am glad I got to know him.
Stu Matthis
October 31, 2012
I miss you Poppy from Arianna Greco
October 30, 2012
To my poppy whom I have countless memories with I love you and miss you I think about you every day!_Angelina Greco<3
October 30, 2012
My wife, Clara and I are so sorry for your loss. I have enjoyed exchanging e-mails with Jim these last several years. I will miss his humor as well. Jim and Clara West.
October 30, 2012
We salute your veteran. Our condolences for your loss and gratitude for your loved one's service to our country.
Steve Edwards
October 30, 2012
Love, Diane
October 30, 2012
For my Daddy. I will keep a light in my heart for you Love, Diane
October 29, 2012
Our condolences to the entire family. May peace be with each one of you during this difficult time.
Adelmo & Jane Procacci
October 29, 2012
John, Diane and girls,
You have been in my thoughts and prayes. Please hold your memories close and you will see that he is not gone and will always be with you in your hearts and in your memories.
Love, Aunt Linda and Uncle Steve
Linda Kurpiewski
October 29, 2012
Our Love and Prayers go out to all the family during this time....
Scott and Stephanie Allen of Knightdale, NC
Scott Allen
October 29, 2012
Sorry to learn of Jim's passing. Our heart felt prays and sympathy go out to all the family and especially Corrine. Formally co-worker and friend Margie Joyner and husband Steve.
October 29, 2012
Dear Corinne and family,
Our deepest sympathies. Jim offered his unconditional friendship when we arrived in NC. He'll never be forgotten.
Mary Ann & Dave Zimmer
Venice FL
October 29, 2012
We are so sorry to hear of the passing of Jim. We enjoyed his company while staying in Chimney Rise Drive. Our thoughts and prayers are with you
Myles and Margaret Rea
October 29, 2012
Dear Corinne & Family,
We are so sorry to hear of Jim's death...................he was such a nice man and pleasant neighbor when we lived on Chimney Rise. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this very sad time..............................Annette & Hugh Tucker (Cary, N,C.)
October 29, 2012
We are so very sorry for your loss. James was such a kind, thoughtful, and caring life-long friend. We will all miss him.
Lawrence and Evaline Laxton
October 29, 2012
Dorothy,John,Angelina,Arianna - Hoping you are surrounded by strength and love during this difficult time. Our thoughts are with you and your family.
Misty & Mike Benson
October 28, 2012
I'm so sorry for your loss. I remember Jim always being such a warm and welcoming man. I know he will be missed by many! Prayers sent your way during this difficult time.
Jennifer
October 28, 2012
He was such a fun and knowledgeable man- we could talk for hours. I am so sad for you all. Keeping you in my prayers.
October 28, 2012
Diane, John, Angelina, Arianna,
We are very sorry that you have lost a good man. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Earl Ellsworth, Joyce Ryan
Earl Ellsworth
October 28, 2012
I am so sorry for your loss. I will miss Jim greatly. He was suck a good and thoughtful neighbor.
Barbara Marshall
October 28, 2012
Dorothy john and kiddos, I am voery sorry for your loss. I pray u have peace during this time with hope and faith to be there with u.
jessica, Alan & Abby Storts
October 27, 2012
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