TOBY HELLER Obituary

HELLER--Toby.

On December 2, 2017 at the age of 90. Devoted wife for 70 years to her beloved husband Gilbert who predeceased her by 30 days. Cherished mother of Henry and Judy and their spouses Leila and Hans, adored grandmother of Margot, Sarah, Alexander, and Philip. She was an accomplished painter, sculptor, and art jewelry designer who received great international recognition. Her artworks are in global public and private collections. Her creativity as an artist reflected itself in every aspect of her life. She had a loving heart and a generous spirit. Services will be private. She will be dearly missed by her loving family and friends.

Published by New York Times on Dec. 5, 2017.
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Rene and I will always remember Mr. and Mrs. Heller fondly in our hearts. From our first meeting in Geneva , all through Jamaica and Carmel Valley. Two beautiful gentle souls.

Manmeet and Rene Schober

February 2, 2018

With a sad heart I send this message. Toby was a very special lady. How fortunate to have known her and Gilbert through the years and shared many wonderful experiences. We and their children, I am sure, will always remember the goodness Toby and Gilbert brought to this wold. Ron Cavalier,Sr.

Ronald Cavalier

December 28, 2017

Two new stars are shining brightly above our beautiful Carmel Valley; their radiance can only be attributed to the arrival of dear Toby & Gilbert.

Michael Bolton

December 8, 2017

My heart is broken!Gilbert was the last of the great gentlemen and so wise.
Toby was one of a kind.She was a very talented artist, fun loving and for me a mentor and best friend.
With tears in my heart I send Judy and Henry and all the family my deepest condolences.
Jane Marcus

Jane Marcus

December 8, 2017

Dear Heller Family: I am deeply sorry for your loss. May you find comfort in Isaiah 3:24, where God promises to soon end all sickness and death. JM

December 8, 2017

Toby and Gilbert were wonderful people.We visited them in London,Paris and Florida. We have one of Toby's pieces in our living room

Susan & Peter Weiss

December 6, 2017

My condolences for a member of my family whom I promised to stay in touch with but failed in that task. We were related thru my Mom, Gertrude Schechter. In my phone Contacts list under Toby Heller is Sharon Friedman. We remember to remember when it's too late.

Lois Schechter

December 6, 2017

To her loving family. My condolences. May our god of love and merrcy bring comfort to. you. Mathew 5:4

December 5, 2017

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