Barbara J. Demay

1946 - 2020

BORN

1946

DIED

2020

FUNERAL HOME

Buse Funeral Home - Grantville

9066 Jonestown Road

Grantville, Pennsylvania

Barbara Demay Obituary

Barbara J. Demay, 74, of Hesston passed away peacefully Thursday, January 16, 2020. Born January 2, 1946 in Harrisburg, she was a daughter of the late Kimber and Abigail (Wert) Bair and retired from AMP/Tyco Inc. Surviving are her husband Larry E. Demay; daughters Raelene J., wife of Tracy Smith of Harrisburg and Beverly A. Nye of Hummelstown; sister Sara, wife of Dennis Berkheimer of Palmyra; four grandchildren; and three great grandchildren. She was predeceased by brothers, Kimber, Jim and Charles Bair. Services will be held at the convenience of the family. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to Shells Evangelical Lutheran Church, 287 Shells Church Road, Grantville, PA 17028 or Alzheimer's Association, 2595 Interstate Drive, Suite 100, Harrisburg, PA 17110. Share condolences at BuseFuneralHome.com

Published by Patriot-News from Jan. 18 to Jan. 19, 2020.
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Rest In Peace Barb. Pat and I have many good memories of the fun times we had with you, Larry and Daisy on our ATV's.

Gene & Pat Schubauer

January 20, 2020

Dear Bev, my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Janet Dunkleberger.

Janet Dunkleberger

January 19, 2020

Rest In Peace Barb. Becky and I have many good memories of the fun times we had with you and Larry at Raystown.

Earl & Becky Mumma

January 19, 2020

Larry and girls we are sorry to hear of Barb's passing. You are in our thoughts and prayers. John and Kathy Beistline

January 18, 2020

So sorry to hear. Your in our thoughts and prayers.
John and Kathy Beistline

January 18, 2020

Larry and family, So sorry for your loss. We send sympathy and prayers.
Dave & Edna Taylor

edna taylor

January 18, 2020

Dear Demay Family, We are so sorry to learn of Barbara's passing, We lived along side of each other off Chambers Hill. She will be greatly missed by all that met her. May it help you all to know you are in out thoughts and prayers at this most difficult time. Love and Prayers Betsy Smith and Family

Betsy Smith

January 18, 2020

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