BENJAMIN TAYLOR Obituary

TAYLOR JR., BENJAMIN DAVID June 1, 1963 to Dec. 24, 2012 Ben, "Benny," "BT," passed away unexpectedly on Christmas Eve, December 24, 2012. He is survived by his wife, Pam; daughter, Ashley; step-daughter, Brooke; parents, Ben and Jessie Taylor; sisters, Wanda, Vickie, Elizabeth and Linda; extended family and hundreds of friends. Ben was a true family man. He loved spending time with his girls- traveling, camping, riding, and hiking just to mention a few. He spent many years water skiing the Colorado River, riding through the desert of Ocotillo Wells, and exploring the Eastern Sierras. Ben would always share his travels by sending portraits with beverage in hand to friends or standing next to a sewer manhole to his work crew. Ben spent his entire career with the City of Encinitas, 30+ years, and was counting down the days towards retirement just 5 more years. He never hesitated to help anyone because he knew when he needed help he would have it. We honor Ben's final wishes to Donate Life - his legacy lives on as he continues to help others. Ben was an amazing man, husband, father, son, brother, uncle and friend. His smile, his laughter and his joking will be deeply missed by all. He is at peace in Heaven with many others who welcomed him. He is "Our Angel" and will continue to watch over us as we go forward but constantly remember. A Celebration of Ben's Life will take place on Sunday, January 6th, at 2 p.m. at the Encinitas Community Center, 1140 Oakcrest Park Drive, Encinitas. In lieu of flowers, trust accounts have been established for Ashley Taylor and Brooke Williams at Wells Fargo Bank, 760-726-0453.

Published by San Diego Union-Tribune from Jan. 4 to Jan. 6, 2013.
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@Ed. Thank you for taking time to add your kind note. You would have liked him as he was everyones kind of person. Our family and friends have not been the same since his passing but life goes on. Be safe on your rides and all the best to you. ~BT's sister Linda

Linda

Sister

August 20, 2020

Found the memorial on the Az strip and had to read the obituary. Ben sounds like he was a great guy. My kind of person. I am sure he is still missed.

Ed

August 18, 2020

Well Ben it's 2018 and it's not any easier to walk this earth without you in it. There's still a huge hole that you left in all our lives. Remembering you like it was just yesterday that you left us. Miss you brother...xoxo-Vickie Taylor England

Vickie Taylor England

April 24, 2018

Thank you for keeping this guest book up permanently, nice to get notifications still. Ben was a customer of mine and was always friendly and helpful whenever I came around.

Tammy Moore

February 7, 2016

Fred Taylor

February 6, 2016

Memories come flooding back and I smile when I think of how much fun we had keeping each other company.

linda

February 7, 2014

Ben, I am blessed to have known you for over 30 years. You may have left this earth but you have not left our hearts. Your legacy lives on in your girls and in everyone you touched in life. Miss you buddy!

Mike Moore

February 1, 2014

I light this candle in memory of you. Thinking of you tonight Ben.

linda clingan

January 31, 2014

Thank you for keeping up this page to keep paying tribute to Ben.

January 25, 2014

Benny - I'll never forget our families' camping adventures when we were kids. I have vivid memories of gathering frogs, climbing trees, swimming - and always laughing. Running into you over the years in Encinitas always sparked those memories. I'm thankful for them. You are missed, Benny.

Tracy Gastelo

January 24, 2014

Thank you for continuing this guest book to remind us of special occasions.
Happy B-day Ben, now I remember you were a Gemini. Happy trails on the other side til we meet again.

June 3, 2013

49 more Candles to celebrate your life of 50 years today..June 1, 2013.
Ben we love you and miss you more than words can say..

Happy Birthday Brother

Vickie Taylor England

June 2, 2013

Dad I miss you very much. I've been crying all morning.I know your probably wondering why I haven't cried in front of mom and its because I'm trying to be strong for mom. :)

Ashley Taylor

March 13, 2013

"Nothing is guaranteed in this world, except my love for you Benny... Happy Valentines Day brother" I Love You!

Vickie Taylor England

February 14, 2013

Gone too soon. RIP, Ben. You touched many lives and will be missed by many more. Your legacy will live on.

Cheryl Nice

February 2, 2013

I was so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow.

Steven Abrams

January 29, 2013

Just heard from the Connors about Benny. It is unbelievable that he could be gone. It must be a dreadful shock for you all. Please accept our condolences and know that you will be in our prayers.

Jo Ann and Dean

Dean and Jo Ann Chasteen

January 13, 2013

Vicki, I am praying for you and your family. May God wrap his loving arms a round you. XOXO

Jana Stillwagon

January 10, 2013

Love you Ben! You will be missed.
Tina and Wes Hefner

January 8, 2013

To The Taylor Family- Ben is certainly an angel to all of us. His infectious smile will always reign the heavens. Wishing the family strength during this time. I worked with Ben for over 25 years and he was always willing to help out, and with a smile no less. Will miss his humor and the way he would lift spirits in the office. Rest in peace my friend.

Donna Trotter

January 7, 2013

Ben was always one of my nicest customers. When I'd come by the shop he'd be the first to say hello. What a wonderful tribute to Ben and his loved ones yesterday. My thoughts and prayers to all of his family and life long friends.

Tammy Moore

January 7, 2013

I'm so sorry for your loss. I was an old childhood school friend and am truely at a loss for words. He was an amazing man one of the good ones.
Always kind and thoughtful, wonderful smile and such a gentleman. Love in Him,
Shelley Mcpherson

Shelley McPherson-Harmon

January 7, 2013

You will be missed by many. Sincere condolences to your wife, kids and extended family.

Craig and Cristina Hammon

January 6, 2013

Our deepest sympathy to Ben's Family. We were shocked and saddened when we learned of his sudden passing, but were also filled with pleasant memories of his warm smile, big heart and caring, joyous spirit. We met when I worked for Encinitas and we were team-mates on a co-ed softball team. I will always be grateful for the chance to share those times with Ben.
We know how important family was to Ben, and how much he loved his girls. We hope the beacon of his warmth, love and kindness always shines for his girls, family and friends.

Warren and Pam Shafer

January 6, 2013

Our deepest sympathy to Ben's entire family. Rest in Peace. Thoughts and Prayers are with you all.

Rex & Mary Lloyd

January 5, 2013

Benny, thank you for all the childhood memories at the beach, camping, and riding skateboards. Love and prayers go out to your family.

Steve Connors

January 4, 2013

You always had a smile as big as the Grand Canyon, not once did it ever diminish, for that reason, you were a friend to everyone. Now you're in heaven with a cold Guiness in your hand and you're looking down at us! No doubt in my mind you're smiling. I hope to see you again my friend! But until then, I want you to know that you touched enough people down here, and you will live in our hearts forever! RIP BEN! I will always remember you.

Joe DePatty

January 4, 2013

My thoughts and prayers are with his family, I worked with Ben 13 years-lots of great memories, rest easy Big Ben

Stan Powell

January 4, 2013

Ben you will be missed. I enjoyed working with you and your can do attitude inspired every one around you. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

John Clark

January 4, 2013

Grief can be so hard, but our special memories help us cope. Remembering you and your loved one today and always.

Jeanie Bingham-Rush

January 4, 2013

Just one of those students one does not forget. The saying, Parents should not have to bury their children goes for teachers too. Teachers should not have to see their students go first. Will miss you Bennie.
Julaine Demge

January 4, 2013

Ben was a life long friend with a heart of gold. You will be missed by all who knew you. Our prayers go out to your family. Farewell.

Scot Lohrey

January 4, 2013

You'll always be with us Ben in true spirit and never forgotten.Gonna miss ya....

Shawn Lies

January 4, 2013

I just want to say thanks Ben for the dedication to your wastewater Crew. may the Lord bless your family in these times and always. rest in peace bro.

David Soto jr.

January 4, 2013

Have such fun memories of our camping together and boating on Lake Tahoe. And Ben, you were so adventurous and a great tour guide. We will miss you and your wonderful smile.
Bob and Shirley

January 4, 2013

Our thoughts and prayers are with Ben's family and friends. He is so loved by so many. I don't think Ben ever met a stranger. Although I only saw him occasionally over the last 20 years, he was a dear friend whom my daughter always called Benji-Walker when she was very young. He will be missed by all. Rest in peace my friend!

Kristy Curtis Winn

January 4, 2013

RIP Ben many good memories long ago

Michael Myers

January 4, 2013

So sorry. He will be missed.

January 4, 2013

With my deepest condolences it was a great time working with you for the past 25 years. You will truely be missed!

Edward Foy

January 4, 2013

There was no such thing as a dull moment around this wonderful person! Ben will truly be missed by all the people that have been graces with his presence no matter the length of time! I will always remember his huge smile and amazing personality! All my love goes out to his equally beautiful family!

Kathryn Eyler

January 4, 2013

My thoughts, prayers and love go out to the Taylor family. May God give you all the strength you need to get thru this very difficult time. Ben's smile will be reflecting down on you and his angel wings will be helping him to watch over you. RIP Ben.

Danette Hess (Miserany)

January 4, 2013

Ben was the best..And he could talk with the best of them..We will all miss him at Noll Chiropractic...We are very sorry Pam..Dr. Noll

Patrick Nolloll

January 4, 2013

It was a pleasure to have know and worked with ben for 20yrs...He will be missed but not forgotten! R.I.P. big guy!

mike crist

January 4, 2013

My brother Ben. Thanks for the memories. God Bless you and your family in this difficult time. Rest in Peace my friend,

John Smith

January 4, 2013

I had the pleasure of working side by side with Ben for the past 25 years, it will not be the same without him. He was a tremendous source of knowledge and a friend to me. Ben will truly be missed!
Rest in peace my friend.

Shawn Atherton

January 4, 2013

My New Year's Resolution: I want to be more like Ben.

Thomas Smith

January 4, 2013

Work will not be the same without Ben. Ben was a tremendous source of knowledge and a true friend to me, he will be missed.
Rest in Peace!

Shawn Atherton

January 4, 2013

It has been hard at work Knowing that Ben Will not be there He has been a great friend And my boss I miss him A lot.
Rest in peace my friend.

John King

January 4, 2013

I will remember how Ben always had a smile on his face and how amazing a dad and husband he was to Pam and the girls. I will cherish and miss our bantering sessions which makes me smile even as I type this. Rest in peace my friend.

Tracy White-Thornton

January 4, 2013

Oh Ben, you will missed terribly. Your picture is how we will all remember you. Your smile, your caring, your helping, your beautiful family. We thank you for always looking after our father and mother, John and Marian across the street. I could always count on you for looking out for them. We love you Ben, Pam and girls. The world is a better place because we all knew Ben. Rest in Peace sweet man.

Donna Antifae

January 4, 2013

I am going to miss my neighbor Ben smiling and waving hello to me everytime he drove past my house when I happened to be outside. Sometimes he would stop in the middle of the street and we would spend a few pleasant moments saying hello and chatting. Rest in Peace Ben.

James Tamez

January 4, 2013

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