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Daniel DellaPenta Obituary

DellaPenta, Daniel

Daniel DellaPenta, 78, Endicott, slipped the surly bonds of earth to touch the face of God March 30, 2014 at home, surrounded by his loving family and friends after an extended illness. He was greeted in heaven by his parents, Louis and Louise DellaPenta and many relatives and special friends. He is survived by his loving wife of 55 years, Sharon (Crawford) DellaPenta; his children, Daria and Michael Howard; Laurette Pero; Elizabeth DellaPenta and partner, Donna Costanzo; and Christine DellaPenta and partner, Cathy Dofton; cherished grandchildren, Lauren, Michael and Ryan Howard; Daniel and Brieyn Pero; Austin Kretzmer; Devyn and Caden DellaPenta; Justin and Lindsey Cassin; and his great-grandson, Domenico DeRigo. He is also survived by his older brother, Ronald (Mary) DellaPenta; sisters-in-law, Irene Carosella, Marion Crawford and Lucille Crawford; and many loving nieces, nephews and cousins. His final months were eased by his devoted friends, Dominic and Connie Salamido, George and Donna Kozich and his special friends in the clergy. After graduating from UE High School in 1957, he enlisted in the Army, where he proudly served our county in the Korean Conflict. He retired from IBM after 35 years and was a member of the Quarter Century Club. He was a member of American Legion Post 1700, Endicott. He was a long time member of Our Lady of Good Counsel Church, where he utilized his cooking skills at many functions. He was a member of Nocturnal Adoration Society. He was an avid gardener, a master in the kitchen and a tinkerer extraordinaire. Shar and the girls were his whole world, and his grandchildren and great-grandchild were the lights of his life. He was proud of all his children and grandchildren, and they will all miss their Dad and Papa. Dan and Sharon enjoyed their breakfasts at Panera and Wegmans, where they met many new friends. They also enjoyed traveling, and especially spending their winters in Destin, FL with their newly found friends. Anyone who knew Dan will remember him for his amazing and unique sense of humor. He was his family's rock and voice of reason. The family would like to express their gratitude to everyone at Endwell Family Physicians, especially Dr. Elinoff, Dr. Gehring and Mike. They are also appreciative of the help and support of Lourdes Hospice, especially Stacey, Mary, Dixie and Amy, as well as Julie and the rest of the staff at CVS Endicott. A Funeral Mass will be celebrated Friday 9:30 a.m. at Our Lady of Good Counsel Church, 701 West Main Street, Endicott. The family will receive friends at Our Lady of Good Counsel Church Thursday from 4-7 p.m. Expressions of sympathy in memory of Daniel may be made by a contribution to the Wounded Warrior Project or a charity of your choice.

Published by Press & Sun-Bulletin from Apr. 1 to Apr. 3, 2014.
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Sharon and family. We were so sorry to hear about the passing of Danny. I had known Danny for a long time. We even painted houses together during a couple summers when we were on second shift at IBM. We were neighbors on North Rogers Ave for a while. We moved to North Carolina in 1979 and I had not seen Danny since. You couldn't ask for a better friend. Our prayers are with you and your family. God bless you all and God bless Danny.
Dave and Pat Mc Manus.

April 4, 2014

Lorette~
I am so sorry to hear about your Dad. Thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time~

Joan Reed

April 3, 2014

lorette I am so sorry for your loss. I know how much you loved your dad. just know I am here for you if you need anything. you can even use my bowl. love to you and your family.
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luann carrington

April 3, 2014

Budoi, strength & prayers to you and your family at this difficult time.

Joani McCarthy

April 3, 2014

So sorry for you loss, sending prayers for your family, may the memories you hold dear help you through this time.

Butch & Kelly Roberts

April 2, 2014

Our Thoughts and prayers are with the entire family.Wishing you strength and love in the days ahead.
xo

Carrie Q & Patty L

April 2, 2014

Sharon, Liz and family,

I know that it has been many years since I have seen you. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your whole family at this difficult time. Always remember the good time.

The Wychules Family

Suz Wychules

April 2, 2014

Chris and Liz so sorry to see that your Dad passed my prayers are with you and your family

Annie Vimislik

April 2, 2014

Sharon, so sorry to hear of Danny's passing. Although I haven't seen either of you in a long time, I remember what a caring and kind person he was. Our love to you and the family..we will keep all of you in our prayers.

Aileen & Karl Saddlemire

April 2, 2014

Dear Sharon and family, I was so sorry to hear the sad news...I am still in Florida until June, but please know that you will be in my thoughts, as well as my prayers that your strength and wonderful memories will get you thru the coming days.

Judy Crawford

April 1, 2014

So sorry for your loss. Our hearts and thoughts are with you all.

Jamie Pratt

April 1, 2014

Your family is in our thoughts...so sorry for your loss. Love, Kathy & DeeDee

Kathy & DeeDee

April 1, 2014

Laurette and family,

I am so sorry about your Dad. May all the wonderful memories you have of him help get you through this difficult time! Thinking of you!

Janet Mosco

April 1, 2014

What a kind man he was! I am thinking of you all at this sad time.

Betty McAndrew

April 1, 2014

To Sharon,Ronnie and Mary and the Entire Family and many friends of Dan my condolences and wishes for better tomorrows coming from the life of Dan and his love of life and Family.

Mayor John Bertoni

April 1, 2014

Chris & Family - so sorry to read of your loss. May your your memories help you thru this most difficult time.
Deepest sympathies,
Peggy (Bitner)Jones

April 1, 2014

Sharon, Liz, Ron and Mary --- I was so very sad to read this --- may you be comforted by all the good memories. I know I always enjoyed running into you both when Mom and I went for breakfast in Union. May God bless all of you.

Laura Lee Perkins

April 1, 2014

Chris..We are so sorry to hear about your dad.Our prayers to your whole family. Deb and Julia

Deb Dekar

April 1, 2014

The American Legion Family of Post 1700 wish to thank Daniel's family for his service to his country and also give condolences for your loss. Post 1700 Commander

Robert Wood

April 1, 2014

Aunt Sharon and family ~ I'm so sorry for your loss. Uncle Dan will be missed by all of us.
Lisa & Ashley Crawford

Lisa Crawford

April 1, 2014

To Liz, Chris and your entire families...our condolences to you all. Our thoughts and prayers go out to you. Your father was an exceptional, amazing man and he will be missed! I will never forget his encouraging presence at our softball games. God Bless You all!!

Lynn and Kip Forsberg

April 1, 2014

Our condolences to the Daniel Dellapenta family..He was a great friend..We have lost another North Sider..A real happy -go -lucky guy...Always with a smile on his face..We sure had a lot of fun with you and your brother Ron when we were kids..the park was always our playground..We hope to meet again someday and talk over some memories with all of our North Side friends..May God Hold You In The Palm Of His Hand and God Bless Your Family

Gabriel and Jean Cicciarelli

April 1, 2014

Sorry for the family's loss. Worked with Danny at IBM. Never had a bad word for anyone. Haven't seen him in years but a guy you don't forget.

April 1, 2014

Sharon and family,

Our deepest sympathies to you and the girls. Dan was a good friend and an excellent neighbor. I still reflect on our children growing up together and some still keep in contact with each other.

Dan will be missed.

Roger Cargill

April 1, 2014

Dear Sharon and family, You are in my thoughts and prayers. Sincerely Mary Jordan

April 1, 2014

To the DellaPenta family, my thoughts and prayers are with you. It was a pleasure to know and work with Dan for many years. I know he will be missed by all.

Julian Rizzi

April 1, 2014

Sharon and family: My deepest sympathy to all of you. Danny was a wonderful man, who I enjoyed working with while at IBM. He was always so kind to everyone. I really enjoyed his stories and comparing sauce recipes! My prayers and thoughts are with you all at this very difficult time.

Kathy (McManus) Nowak

April 1, 2014

Chris, I am so sorry to hear about your father. I am thinking about your family and will keep all of you in my prayers.

Kim Spoonhower

April 1, 2014

My thoughts and prayers are with you all.

May the peace that comes from the memories of love shared comfort you now and in the days ahead.

With Deepest Sympathy,

Bob Townsend, Columbus, GA

April 1, 2014

My thoughts and prayers are with you all. May the peace that comes from the memories of love shared comfort you now and in the days ahead.

With Deepest Sympathy,

April 1, 2014

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