Donald Lyons Marlette
1925 - 2017
Donald Lyons Marlette was born December 1, 1925, to George Henry and Mary 'Mame" Marlette in Stockton, California. After Victory School and Stockton High School, Don attended College of the Pacific until enlisting in the Navy in 1942. Don served in the North Pacific, patrolling the Aleutian Islands. He was privileged to witness the Victory Ceremony in Tokyo Bay September 2, 1945.
Upon his return to Stockton, Don went to work at his father's insurance brokerage, with local construction companies for
clients. His first desk was the top of a filing cabinet, but he eventually grew the company to a very successful nation-wide enterprise with offices in both Stockton and Los Angeles,
covering automobile dealers.
Don married Patty Lou (nee)
Peters, with whom he had three children who survive him:
Patrick (Mary), David (Vicki) and Maggie (Rob) Cox. He is also survived by David's daughters, Sarah and Kate, and Maggie and Rob's daughters, Cameron and Kelsey. And he is survived by his daughter Cynthia (Tom) Armstrong and their son, Henry. He is predeceased by his sister Alice Higby.
While living in Los Angeles, Don met Suzanne (nee DePlautt), with whom he eventually settled in the paradise of Carmel Valley with their "Wonderful little dog," Daisy.
Don was as strong as a bull to the very end, despite the bumps and dents one accumulates at 91-years old. There were many chapters in his life, and he charmed everyone he met along the way. His irreverent sense of humor has been
passed along to his children, who are grateful that he was their dad. There will not be a
service. Please visit www.thepaulmortuary.com
to leave messages for Don's
family.
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I enjoyed working for Don for 20 wonderful years. He was very considerate and generous. He had a beautiful life and leaves me with great memories. Sincerely, Darrow Marcus
November 21, 2017
So sorry for your loss Susanne & to all of Don's family. His sister Alice Higby was my very best friend so I go way back with Don in Stockton. Lots of fun memories ! after many years, for some reason, I thought of him on his 91st birthday & found him on internet & sent him Happy Bday. He found it months later & sent message back. Why I have always remembered his Bday I will never know but so glad I did cuz it was great to hear from him.
Betty Higby
November 13, 2017
Rest In Peace, dear Don...As your second wife, and mother of our lovely daughter, Cynthia, we had
many beautiful, loving years together. You will never be forgotten...
Audrey (née O'Brien)
Audrey Loggia
November 12, 2017
Don was married to my sister Audrey for 12 years, Cynthia's mother, accordingly I had the honor of being his brother-in-law. He was a very wonderful generous person in life and will always be remembered for his intellect and wit. His contributions to society were enormous. His passing is very unfortunate. He will be greatly missed.
Robert O'Brien
November 11, 2017
There were many chapters in Don's life, the extended DePlautt family will cherish being one of them.
When I first met Don (and Suzanne), Brian and I met them at a Sotheby's auction and then dinner. I remember listening in awe at how as a young adult/still adolescent - he made decisions to do what he wanted to do. He told the story in an elegant way that my expression caused them to ask- what am I thinking? I thought admiration.
We have always admired Don.
The relationship he and Suzanne exhibited showed true soul mates. The relationship he had with Brian and I and our children - - he never skipped a beat-- he was our brother-in-law, uncle, "grandfather", godfather and friend.
He had stunning blue eyes, was confident and articulate. He was always giving. He meant the world to us. We have so many fond memories. Just last month - pulling together a birthday memory book - Don and Suzanne's presence was heartwarming, special and extraordinary for Chris, Elizabeth and Robbie. Early Christmas's in CA and just 2 and 3 years ago in Ridgewood, the days were magical--new stories--special gifts, sharing great wine and food. (and years ago Suzanne and Don cooking complete dinners in our kitchen).
Don's life was full and we are full of memories. The sadness of his passing hurts. RIP
Our condolences to Maggie, Rob, David, Vicki, Patrick, Mary, Cynthia, Tom, Cameron, Kelsey, Sarah, Kate and Henry. Love, Kathleen
Kathleen DePlautt
November 11, 2017
I am very sorry to hear of the loss of your loved one. One day many will have the opportunity to live again. May the hope of everlasting life sustain and comfort you during this difficult time. John 17:3
November 10, 2017
I am very sorry to hear of the loss of your loved one. One day many will have the opportunity to live again. May the hope of everlasting life sustain and comfort you during this difficult time. John 17:3
November 10, 2017
I am very sorry for your loss. May you find reassurance from the loving promise found in John 6:40. Knowing we will see our loved ones again can be so comforting. Please accept my condolences.
November 10, 2017
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