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Blake Debenham Obituary
Sandy, UT-Our precious, beautiful son, Blake James Debenham, age 26, passed away suddenly on August, 6, 2015. Our loss is beyond comprehension. Blake's contagious smile and uplifting spirit was felt by all who came into his realm. He was the epitome of his brother's keeper.
Blake was born April 4, 1989, Anchorage, Alaska, he spent his youth in Connecticut, Holladay, and Sandy. He graduated from Olympus High School where he played football and tennis. He received his Eagle Scout award, Associates Degree from Dixie State and was just months away from receiving his Bachelor of Science Degree. Blake was currently working for Clearlink and loved being a Sales Coach there. He excelled in public speaking, was dedicated to living a life of fitness and health, and was a fervent goal setter and achiever.
We will miss his infectious laugh, big hugs, funny sayings, and deep thought provoking prayers. But most of all we will miss his profound love for us.
To Blake's friends in recovery, stay strong. Blake will continue to cheer you on and know how much he sincerely loved you.
Blake leaves a family that adored him and all that he stood for. We will hug and hold each other till the end when we will be reunited with Blake for eternity. Parents; Dan J and Mona Debenham, sister and brother in law Jennica and Josh Woodbury, brothers; Parker and Chase Debenham, nieces; Abby, Kate and Lila, grandparents; Dick Hobson and Arthur and Lila Mae Debenham.
His grandmother Chris Hobson welcomed Blake to heaven with open arms.
A funeral service will be held on Wednesday August 12, 2015 at 12:00 at the Mountain Oaks Ward, 11570 S. Wasatch Blvd. The family will receive friends on Tuesday from 7:00 - 9:00pm at Larkin Sunset Gardens, 1950 E. 10600 S. in Sandy and one hour prior to the service at the church.
Condolences can be made at www.LarkinMortuary.com
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Memories and Condolences
for Blake Debenham
Suzan Underwood Belie
February 3, 2019
Dan, my heart aches for you and your family. You will be in my thoughts and prayers as you struggle through this most difficult time. Suzie Underwood Belile
Dave Pimm
August 14, 2015
My thoughts are with the Debenhams at this time... Rest assured Blake is in a better place and the reunion will be sweet...
Jennifer Archibeque
August 14, 2015
I am so sorry for your loss. Praying for you and your family.
Kay Long Litton
August 14, 2015
I wish I had been able to come to the funeral and give you a hug. I am so so sorry for your loss. I know what you're going through, kind of. A child is worse than a spouse in my opinion. I feel very strongly that Norick was there to meet him
Alison & Tom Zdunich
August 12, 2015
Such a heartfelt tribute today for an amazing young man. May we all feel inspired from Blakes selflessness and compassion for others. His life's work and service was so far reaching. May the Debenham family find their way through this tremendous loss with the guidance of their angel above. We love you and hold you in our hearts.
Alex Gerrish
August 12, 2015
Blake Debenham is a great man, and I'm sad to see him leave us. Though I was with him a relatively short time, his training fostered both my salesmanship and training, something that has proved invaluable in my own career path. He had an ability to bring out the best in people in ways that were as unorthodox as they were amusing.
Blake didn't just expect people to answer that it was "the best day ever," but he also inspired them to make it that way. When ever Debenham was around, you could hear the enthusiasm in his voice, from naming the honorary "Colossus of Clout" to asking open ended and always illusive questions.
I'm sure that Blake will continue to inspire others as he moves into this next chapter of his existence, and will forever reminding us that today truly is the best day ever.
Jerry Pymm
August 12, 2015
I knew Blake best as a young, growing, confident kid as I was lucky enough to have him on our little league basketball & baseball teams for many years. I coached him along with my son Alex and many other great friends of theirs. He quickly became the instant "leader" on all teams with his raw talent and extreme determination. Blake always brought an infectious, positive and fun to be around attitude and spirit. He Believed he could accomplish anything and was never afraid of anyone on the court or on the field and in life. He was a true stand out. "Go Jets!"
I feel I learned as much from Blake as I gave to him and he always had such a great respect for me as a coach and an adult. You will be missed Big D!
"Be Kinder than necessary for everyone is fighting a battle"
Coach and friend, Jerry & Angie Pymm
August 12, 2015
The righteous will possess the earth and they will live forever upon it. We do have a wonderful hope to see Blake again.
Desireé A.
August 12, 2015
It is unfortunate that I have never met Blake's family... It would've been nice to meet the people directly responsible for molding such an amazing person. I would like to share that your son had helped me with a very hard time in my life regarding my recovery... I was pretty broken & was considering relapsing. Your son was one of the very few who reached out to me even though we didn't know each other that well. He was THAT selfless. I'm in complete shock over this tragedy, but am thankful that I was blessed with knowing Blake. My prayers and condolences are with you.
Cully Shurtliff
August 11, 2015
You could light up a room with your presence, you had that something everyone want to be a part of. Blake, you inspired me and still inspire me to be a better person each and every day. you will be missed and never forgotten! Love you bro...
August 11, 2015
Dear Mona & Family, I was so sorry to hear about your son, Blake. I pray that you will find comfort in these difficult times.
Sherrie Weidner Dallimore
Ashley Staheli
August 11, 2015
Words couldn't even begin to express how much of an impact this man had on my life in the time that we worked together at Clearlink. He always had that giant white smile and he was always giving everyone the most powerful high fives. His hugs always had meaning in them. He truly cared about everyone, he was always so positive and upbeat. He will be without a doubt missed. Work feels empty without him especially when you don't see that smile. While the world lost such an amazing man, heaven gained an incredible angel. I am beyond thankful that I had the opportunity to have this man in my life. Thank you for sharing Blake with all of us. My heart aches for you and your beautiful family.
Esther Israelson
August 11, 2015
Dearest Mona, Dan & Family*~ I don't know you well, we work in the same office. I am so saddened hearing of your loss. We can never understand these things. God's timing is His own, He must have needed Blake more. Your pain is felt and its harder for us here on earth. Your Son, truly amazing, has graduated from this life. May God give you Peace as each minute, each hour, each day that passes. You & Your family are in my prayers. God be with you~Esther Chapman Richards
Von & Judy Hokanson
August 11, 2015
Mona and Dan,
We are devastated to hear of your loss. We understand the heartache of losing a child and we pray that the Lord will bless your sweet family, and grant you peace, and comfort. The loss is so great, but his spirit will always be near, and you will have his memories to sustain you. Much love, Von & Judy
August 10, 2015
Dan and Mona. My heart aches with you. Please know this, God loves us in and he loves us out. No judgement only love. Bless your beautiful boy and his amazing life.
Sherrie Sampson
Chuck Christensen
August 10, 2015
My sincere condolence to you Mona & all of your family. My heart goes to all of you. So sad to lose someone as beautiful as Blake.
August 10, 2015
What a heartbreak for your family! We have such good memories of Blake as a young boy.
Robyn and Craig Davis
Christie Lee
August 10, 2015
Blake you were the most selfless amazing man I ever had the pleasure of knowing. You made sure everyone that was in your life knew how much you cared for them. I am so lost sorry for your loss. You will always be the man I knew you as... thoughtful,caring,courageous,loud lol and so much fun to be in the presence of! #BESTDAYEVER I love you Blake! You will always be missed!
August 10, 2015
Dear Mona and Dan, my heart pains for the loss of your precious boy. My family's thoughts and prayers will be with yours. Doreen and Chris Seibert
Lara Allen
August 10, 2015
I have never met anyone with such an amazing soul as you, Blake! Your warmth and passion spread like wildfire to everyone you came in contact with. I will remember that influence for the rest of my life, and want to thank you for teaching me that 'Today is the BEST day ever!' My deepest love and prayers go out to your family and loved ones during this time. Godspeed, dear friend!
August 10, 2015
Dan, Mona and family. We are heartbroken hearing about Blake. We send our deepest sympathy, love and prayers your way. Love Todd & Patty Lott
Brooke Robbins
August 10, 2015
Blake has been such an inspirational, positive, loving leader in my life. I will miss him very much!! My heart goes out to his family.
Lori Kremer
August 10, 2015
I met Blake in the rooms of recovery- that beautiful smile and abundance of positivity were beacons to all of those in his presence. He will forever be missed yet his love will continue to embrace us all. My sincerest of condolences to his family.
August 10, 2015
Dear Mona and Dan, my heart felt condolence to you and your sweet family, Sheila Benson
Bill & Candy Fowler
August 10, 2015
Dan, Mona & Family,
My heart goes out to you. Such a handsome and accomplished young man. I am so sorry. I offer my prayers and love to you at this sorrowful time.
August 10, 2015
Dan and Mona - I'm so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you. May you feel the comfort of cherrished memories and the love of friends and family, especially through this very difficult time. - Debbie Campagna Larsen
August 10, 2015
We are so sorry for your loss. It never feels right when a child passes before his parents, especially so young with such a bright future. May the Lord bless you at this most trying time. Linda & Kevin Campbell
August 10, 2015
My deepest condolences to the Debenham Family.
Chris Lantis
Jerry and Annette Harris
August 10, 2015
Mona, Dan and family: WORDS alone cannot comfort you at this distressing time of grief. However, FRIENDS and loved ones are surrounding you with love and hugs. Hopefully this love will help give you the strength to endure. We offer our love and prayers for each of you. Jerry and Annette Harris
August 10, 2015
Mona, So Sorry to hear about Blake, Love you and your family. Kaye Cundick
August 10, 2015
Mona Dan and family,
I was deeply saddened to here about Blake. I know of your pain. My love and prayers go out to you.
Gail
Morgan Hunter
August 10, 2015
I am so sorry to hear of Blake passing. I have so many great memories of Blake when we were kids. My thoughts and prayers are out to your family in this time of hardship. May he forever be at peace
August 10, 2015
So sorry and sad to hear of the loss of your son. May the God of comfort give you strength during this difficult time.
Mrs. Bonura
August 10, 2015
I am so sorry to hear about your loss. This can be a very difficult time but I wanted to share a thought in Psalms that God is near to those broken in spirit. I hope this brings you comfort.
August 9, 2015
The loss of a son is like no other. Although your pain will go on, I hope that you will remember what an important part of this beautiful child's life you were. You brought him here to share his gifts, which were many. Much love
August 9, 2015
Mona, Dan and Family, Cliff and Jean are so sadden by the loss of your loved son Blake. I can't imagine what you may be feeling right now. How our thoughts and prayers will be right there with you. We will be with you Tuesday and Wednesday. Love you Cliff and Jean Garrett, St. George.
Ryan Sanford
August 9, 2015
"Blake, how are you?"
"Excellent, and only getting better."
I'm going to miss that, friend. We're going to miss you.
Pip Beharrell
August 9, 2015
Sorry to hear of the loss of your dear son Blake. I know your son Parker who served his Mission in Shrewsbury. Kind regards, Pip, Ayza, Eve, Josh and Jake Beharrell.
August 9, 2015
Blake, I hardly knew you, but what I did know I loved...peace.
Daren & Lisa Cottam
August 9, 2015
Dan, Mona and family, our hearts go out to you for your loss. I know that Blake will be missed by your family and everyone that knew him. Our love and prayers go out to you.
Melanie Johnson
August 9, 2015
Blake is a great friend to me we worked side by side together. He taught me all I needed to know. We talked also about the thing we had in common as well. I looked to him for inspiration in my recovery and my career. I knew he would be there for me in anyway I needed. He allowed me to see the flaws I posses only to show me how to change them. His positive outlook in every aspect in life allowed me to see the error in my ways. You have a great son who many Will Miss dearly. He loved with all his heart and his family was his strength. I can not imagine the pain that you must have and I keep you in my prayers. My condolences go out to your family and I pray you find peace. I love you Blake my friend.
August 9, 2015
Blake I never knew you but your brother Parker always talked about you to me and Laeticia. There are no words to say. Peace be with you and your family
Mitch Brandley
August 9, 2015
Blake was my trainer at Clearlink, I had nothing but the utmost respect and admiration for Blake. Such a great teacher and talented in many ways. You will be missed.
Renee and James Lee
August 9, 2015
We are so sorry for the loss of your son Blake. He played with my son Thomas Lee when he was a little boy. We feel your grief greatly because we lost our son Cody in December. It's the hardest thing ever. You are in our thoughts.
Devin Daines
August 9, 2015
When we met I was so lost and alone. You welcomed me, celebrated each little victory, checked on me till I was safe to be left alone. Since then, I've never gone more than a month without getting a text, call, or just running into you. I have a hard time imagining life differently. You were the out stretched hand and welcoming hug for everyone you met. You listened without judgment, spoke from the heart, and had a passion for life that was infectious. You are one of a kind. Your presence in my life strengthened me, your absence hurts, and you will always be remembered.
Amanda Romero
August 9, 2015
I found this obituary while looking for my brother's. I do not know the family, but my heart goes out to them. I feel your pain and understand the struggle. Stay strong and know there is love all around you.
Jon Jorgensen
August 9, 2015
I was saddened to learn that Blake has passed away. I met Blake in the rooms of recovery. He was always positive and caring. He had a contagious smile. I love him very much and will miss him. Condolences to his family.
Korey Smith
August 9, 2015
So saddened to hear of this. Such an amazing soul taken far too soon. Rest in paradise.
Edward Jones
August 8, 2015
I wrote this poem as a tribute to Blake.
Blessed Are The Dead
You and I---the living---assume
it is better to live than to be dead.
I wonder, though, if alive and dead
are so different as we suppose.
Granted, the dead seem to
to go about things differently:
less breathing; less building and
tearing down; less scurrying
about.
But I cannot say they do nothing.
They hover around my periphery,
coming nearer---now and then---
in daydreams and nightdreams,
filling me with crystalline sadness
where a moment ago there was none.
My friend who died yesterday
was beautiful---a young god among mortals,
around whom the world melted
and refracted just a little when he
smiled, when he moved.
It occurs to me now he is no less
beautiful for having died:
for the dead carry with them their beauty
like a seed, as a gift
to the collector of souls.
Outside my window, a tree draws
from the earth the detritus of leaves,
which release their memories
of long-ago afternoons, of sun and shade.
So that I cannot tell precisely what part of the tree
is dead and what part lives on.
Chelsea Averill
August 8, 2015
I knew you when I was in elementary school. So sorry to hear this you were always so kind
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