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Jeffrey Silva Obituary

Jeffrey "Jeff" Silva, 18, of Paso Robles, California, died on Sunday, September 18, 2005.

Published by San Luis Obispo County Tribune on Sep. 19, 2005.

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Just been thinking about you and Kyle A LOT today. I miss you soo much! It's been almost seven years since Ive seen your handsome face! It hurts like hell. I know I'll see you again soon! I just wanted to stop in and send you some love. XoXoXo!

Kacey Kirsnis {[Lybbert]}

July 20, 2012

kyle Hubbard

February 27, 2011

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M

January 24, 2011

Jeffery and Kyle:
It has been nearly two years now since the accident. We think about the both of you from time to time..and our hearts are still heavy with sadness. Our prayers go out to the both of you and to your families as well. Jeffery, Kyle: may you continue to Rest and be at Peace forever in the presence of our Lord.

September 13, 2007

a year and 2 days...



i hope you're enjoying it up there...



you are still in our thoughts and prayers.. always

Francine Pelka

September 19, 2006

jeff--- wow where should i start with you. i will never forget all the parties that polly, michelle, and i went to at your house and when you and the boys threw me in the trash can. i will always cherish the hugs that you had gave me everyday. my love goes out to the silva family and your son will be loved forever and forever. i love you jeff. JK always

brittany searle

November 10, 2005

Gene, Arlene, Jodi, Heidi, and Christina~

I'm so sorry for your loss. i know that it hit us, the community, hard so it must have been that much harder for you. Jeff always brightened up the day with his smiles, hugs, and git-r-dun's. he treated me like a little sister and i loved him like the older brother i never had. he had such a warm heart and so many talents and so much intelligence. he shared with us, more than imaginable, and i think thats what made him so special! i loved him so much and i don't think i ever will. I'm here if you guys just need to talk. feel free to call me or email me or what not. if you need my number, hannah hutchings has it.

Jeffrey~

Thanx for always being there to make me laugh and to make me smile. i remember when i came into the ag room crying cuz i didn't get chapter officer. you just gave me one of those jeffrey silva hugs and said that if anyone deserved it, it was me. you always made things so much better and you made ffa fun for all of us. thanx for teaching us good lessons and for making us smile with your git-r-dun's! you taught me to live my life like i was dying. and now, i know that no matter what, i will do that. just for you!

i love you and your family

my condolences.

lisa chon

Lisa Chon

October 29, 2005

JEFFREY...WHERE DO I START? I DO NOT EVEN KNOW THE WORDS TO DISCRIBE JEFF,HE IS BEYOND WORDS. HE IS EVERYTHING IN A PERSON THAT A GREAT SON, RELATIVE, BEST FRIEND, OR ANYBODY COULD EVER BE. WHEN I HEARD THE NEWS OF THE CRASH IT HIT LIKE A BULLET STRAIGHT THROUGH THE HEART. I COULD NOT BELIEVE THE WORDS THAT I HAD HEARD.I WAS SO ANGERY WITH GOD...

WHY WOULD HE TAKE THE BOYS? I COULD NOT UNDERSTAND,THEY WERE PERFECT IN EVERY WAY. TILL THE DAY OF KYLE'S FUNNERAL WHEN I ASKED MEGAN MCDONALD... HOW COULD HE TAKE JEFF AND KYLE? THEY ARE SO LOVED AND THEY ARE SUCH GREAT KIDS, WHAT PURPOSE WAS THIS? AND SHE SAID,"BECAUSE HE COULD NOT FINED A DANG THING WRONG WITH THEM, AND THEY'RE AREN'T MANY LIKE THEM!" AND ALL OF THE SUDDEN IT MADE SINCE. THESE BOYS TRUELY TOUCHED EVERYONES HEARTS, AND WE WILL ALL GROW FROM THEM. THEY WILL BE MISSED TILL THE DAY WE ARE LAID TO REST. AND I THANK GOD THAT I HAD THE CHANCE TO KNOW THEM, THEY HAVE TOUCHED MY LIFE FOR THE BETTER. AND I WILL NEVER FORGET THEM!!! SO, TO THE SILVA AND HUBBARD FAMILY... YOUR IN MY PRAYERS AND MY THOUGHTS. GOD BLESS AND TAKE CARE!!! BUT, MOST OF ALL ~GIT'ER DONE~

KACEY KIRSNIS

October 17, 2005

We only met once but it was cool to meet you... I only wish that we could have hung out more than once... We all miss you so much and wish that you were still alive... You were such a great person and you made every body laugh... Well all I have to say is... GET-R-DONE!!

Lee Anne La Vigne

September 30, 2005

Our thoughts and prayers go out to the Silva family. Always keep your head up high as Jeff did for everyone. To Kristina, always know that we are here for you whenever you need us. Make sure that you and Jimmy keep in touch! Take care and we love you all.

Steven & Erin

September 26, 2005

Gene & Arlene,

I think you already know how truly blessed I feel to have known Jeff." It is amazing how many people's lives he truly touched with the giddy sunshine that filled his heart! He really did live the kind of life God wants us all to live...caring and compassionate, welcoming, forgiving and fair, determined and perservering, loyal and hopeful, loving, joyfully spirited...with the faithfulness and exuberance of youth!



I remember one day before class started, Jeff and I were talking. He was talking about you! He smiled that big grin of his...his eyes twinkling...and said - with every ounce of heartfelt pride he owned - "I think I'm the only eighteen year old who still calls their Mom and Dad 'Mommie' and 'Daddy!' I smiled right back...what an awesome demonstration of his love for you! As I smiled, I told him..."Guess what...I think I'm the only 'something-year-old' who still calls my Mom and Dad, 'Mama' and 'Daddy!'" We laughed...and smiled again! I don't remember which... but before he left the room, as usual, Jeff either hugged me or patted me on the top of the head! It was just one of the many times we visited...about life...and had a good laugh!



No doubt, Jeff's love for life and people was something you nurtured in him! Thank you so very much for that! In raising and giving to your son, you have given so much to so many others!

Someday, we will be with him again. Until then, I pray God brings you peace and hope...and if you ever want to share a fifty-five cent Wayside Dr. Pepper...just call!



With love...and a hug,

Debbie Lauridsen

Debbie Lauridsen

September 25, 2005

we will miss you so much jeff







"git ir done!!!!"





all my love, erika (lompc ffa)

erika perez

September 25, 2005

Jody,

It breaks my heart to hear you have lost your brother. I recently lost my oldest brother and it has been devasating for our entire family. All we can do is take one day at a time during healing process even if we don't understand why these things happen. I hope you and family know you are in the prayers of many others.

Tau love,

Annette

Alpha Gamma Chapter alumna

Annette Brasko

September 25, 2005

Where are the words that describe the feeling of losing someone that meant the world to you. To me there are no words, and there never were words when it came to describing Jeff. He was a remarkable human being, that wouched my life so deeply, and make a lasting impact on my heart. The fact that he was so quickly taken away makes this so much harder that one could ever imagine. I keep thinking that I might wake up tomorrow, and this will all be just a huge nightmare, but as the days roll on, I realize that this is more real than I ever wanted to imagine. I never wanted to have to say good-bye to my best friend. But the Lord had other plans for Jeff. Whether he needed some attitude adjustments up in heaven, or he wanted to clear out some rooms quickly, he took the right kid. But if he was looking for a true leader, someone family and goal oriented, and that never gives up. Someone that can make even an eskimo feel welcome to Paso Robles in August. Someone that lived more fully and had the wisdom and heart of someone four times his age, then the Lord chose the right man. I know that I will never forget Jeff for as long as I live, but I'll share with you one thing. I hope that in my entire life, I can live as fully as Jeff did in his eighteen years.



Jeffy Joe, you left footprints on my heart, and I am forever thankful for the love and support you gave to me in the good times and bad. You will always me my number one. Friends always and forever,



Yours Always,

Katy Lou







"A golden heart stopped beating,

hard working hands at rest.

God broke our hearts to prove to us,

he only takes the best."

Katy Teixeira

September 24, 2005

Arlene and family we would just like to let you know you are in our thoughts and prayers. God bless you always.

Larry and Pauline Vaca and family

September 23, 2005

Arleen and family we would just like to let you know you are in our thoughts and prayers. God bless you always.

Larry and Pauline Vaca and family

September 23, 2005

Dear Silva Family My thoughts and prayers go out to all of you at this time. I knew Jeff from Farm Supply and through his grandfather Gean, he was such a nice guy. I know he will be missed by so many people. Again my thoughts and prayer go out to all of you David

David Domenghini

September 23, 2005

Dear Silva Family,

I am so sorry for your loss. Jeffrey was such a wonderful leader, great listener, funny jokster, also a great friend and was kind of like the older brother that I had never had. I had such wonderful experiences with Jeff, and will never forget the moments, because it is the moments spent with Jeff that will last a lifetime. I loved how he was so excited when I had been slated for a Regional office, but I felt so bad when I let him down. I think he was a little disheartened, and so was I, but he always continued to encourage me, and told me that I was such a great person. I even remember the day when I first got bangs last year, and I hated them so much, I thought they looked horrible, but he told me that they looked great. I loved that kid so much. My freshman year I was so shy and quiet, but it is because of Jeff that I am the person that I am today. On Monday, I saw him at our beef meeting, I remember that I told him that I had won the extemp contest at SOLC, and he was so proud of me. Then I told him how I was going to run for Regionals, and maybe even State. He was so proud of me, and told me that I could call him whenever I needed help, and I said I would. Then he had to leave so he gave me a hug goodbye, and he left. The only regret that I have ever had knowing Jeff, was that night I did not tell him how much I loved him. I will always miss him and how when ever I called him he would answer saying "hola senorita", or how he gave me the best hugs that I have ever had or his funny redneck jokes. I will never know anyone with the joy and spirit Jeffrey had. I loved calling him Jeffrey. Whenever he walked into a room, his smile and enthusiasm would always light up the room and get everyone excited. I love you guys so much, always and forever, with all of my heart!

Jeffrey,

I only wish that I had one more day, one more moment, one more memory to share with you. I love you so much, and it brings a tear to my eye that I will not be able to see you for a while, but I will someday. You are such a special, loving person, and I will always think of you when somebody says 'Git-er-done', or n e thing redneck that I could picture you doing. Oh hey, you'll never guess Jeff, Im doing a speech at COLC, and I hope that you are proud of me. I love you so much. I will keep you with me forever, and eternity. Thank you for being my only big brother. With all of the love in my heart and soul, God Bless,

Hannah

Hannah Hutchings

September 23, 2005

Words cannot truly express the respect and admiration I have for Jeff. He made a difference in my life and it was an honor and a privilege to watch him make an impact on others.

Greg Beard

September 23, 2005

We are so sorry to hear about the loss of your son/brother, Jeff. We hope all the special memories will help lessen the pain and always keep Jeff close to your heart. Our prayers are with you.

Steve & Susan Arnold

September 23, 2005

I know that words can't express the deep loss that we all are sharing right now. But i am truly sorry for what has happened. Jeff was like my little brother and i love him very much. I'll never forget all the nights out at Ramons lake house with the whole family. Whether we were just sitting around doing nothing, or partying it up with the neighbors, Jeff was always there to make the best of the situation. I just want to let you know that i love all of you and if you ever need anything, dont hesitate to ask. I love you all and you are in my prayers.

Isaiah Streamland

September 23, 2005

Dear Jeff's family,

I'm so sorry for your loss. I met Jeff when he and I went through Confirmation at St. Rose Catholic Church. He was always sweet, nice, kind, and caring. He had a big heart. I know that his soul rests in peace in heaven. He was a wonderful friend and will be greatly missed.

Always, Amber Arbini

Amber Arbini

September 22, 2005

Silva Family I am so sorry for your tragic loss. I got to know Jeff and appreciate all his great qualities while supervising him last summer working for us. He had such a great work ethic, great personality and there were not enough jobs in a day to keep him busy. I would make a list of jobs for him to do each day and he would come up to me two hours later and have every one of them done perfectly. It really bothered me when we couldn't keep him on board here but he never stopped coming by whether it was to mow the lawn or just grab a soda and say hello and tell me how his water polo season was going. I will miss that kid very much and hope my kids grow to be close to the kind of person he was. Always remembered.

Kevin Burt

September 22, 2005

To the Silva Family-

Words cannot express how much I will miss Jeff. He was so funny, kind, and full of life. He was always there to give me advise or share a laugh. You could never stay mad at or around Jeff.

Thank you for giving us Jeff. He was such an inspiration and will be greatly missed.



With all the love in my heart,

Emily

Emily

September 22, 2005

JOHN TAYLOR

September 22, 2005

Gene and Arlene

It is very hard to find words or imagine what you guys are going through. We feel that you guys are family and always have even though we don't see each other as often as we should. We watched your kids grow up and were proud to do so. It is getting rarer to see such nice kids. and meet their friends whom I can tell are very nice people. It has been very nice to meet them all . As I believe Jeffrey Is happy to have introduced us to them. I watched them cry and laugh tell stories about Jeffery.

I know Jeffrey will always be part of their lives. As they hold a special place in their hearts for him. And they will always be influenced by his presence. As for myself

I feel the same way he will always be with me. As we share the same name ( know you had another good friend with whom he was named after). When I was younger I really didn't like the name much. But I guess you grow into it Jeff happened to grow into his name faster than I did. with his leadership skills. And the way he was brought up. In a Loving family of mainly women he Learned early how to torment them I'm sure to lighten the moment and not in an evil way.

Nancy And I will cherish the moments we had with your family and hope to have more under better circumstances.



Love Always Jeff And Nancy

Jeff And Nancy Horton

September 22, 2005

Dear Arlene, Gene, Jody, Heidi and Christina.



I am so sorry to hear of the loss of your son and brother. Words cannot express the loss you must be feeling at this time.



I only met Jeffrey in passing at the Paso Fair a few years ago. Christina introduced him to me. I am sorry now that I never got a chance to really met this exceptional young man. I knew Kyle only slightly, but it sounds like both of these boys were one-of-a-kind, and will be truly missed.



Arelen, the last time we talked was a few years ago at Beverly's store in SLO. I always remember how enthusiastic and proud you were telling me about all four of your children. My brother has told me several times how helpful Christina is when he goes to Farm Supply. May you and your family find comfort in the days ahead.



Our thoughs and prayers are with all of you.



Love,



Cousin Luanne Cheda and Family.

Luanne Cheda

September 22, 2005

Dear Silva Family,

I am very sorry for the loss of this wonderful young man and wish the best for your family. I still remember the first time I met him at the SOLC conference, he was friendly, kind and had a great sense of humor. I thank God that even though his time on this Earth was short he lived a life superior to others. May his spirit live on

Lazaro Sandoval

September 22, 2005

I DIN'T KNOW JEFF THAT LONG, BUT HE WAS THE KIND OF PERSON THAT LEFT A MARK ON YOUR LIFE IN A VERY POSITIVE WAY. I CAN SUM UP MY FEELINGS FOR HIM BY SAYING THAT I ASKED HIM TO TAKE MY DAUGHTER OUT ON A DATE. AS HE TRANSITIONS TO HIS NEXT ADVENTURE, I KNOW THAT HE WILL TOUCH THOSE HE COMES IN CONTACT WITH AS HE HAS TOUCHED ME. I WISH HIM HAPPINESS AND LOVE. I ALSO HOPE THAT POSITIVE THOUGHTS AND PEACE GO OUT TO HIS FAMILY AND ALL WHO KNOW HIM. THE GOOD HE DID IN SUCH A SHORT TIME SHOULD BE HONORED.

ALFRED SWEET

September 22, 2005

To the Silva Family



im sorry very sorry about Jeff and my thoughts are with you. i will always remeber jeff as the most smart ,carrying,loving guy he was . i remeber going to the barns every day he would be up there cleanning and has a smile on his face. he used to help me with my Steer that dum thing me and him would wrestle that dam thing.imma gonna miss that boy he was such a good person to look up too. To the cowboys of the sunset We Will All Miss Jeff may all be with you

Ashley Young

September 22, 2005

Dear Silva Family,

I am so sorry for your loss. Everyone has always had only wonderful things to say about Jeff. Heidi and Christina, I am so sorry. Jeff will be remembered always in everyone's hearts.

Chelsea Lawler

September 21, 2005

Jody & Family: I am deeply saddened by your loss of such a wonderful friend, brother, and son. My thoughts and prayers are with you now more than ever! Though my time spent in your home was brief, I will forever remember all the pictures of Jeff and him sleepily stumbling out of his bedroom only to run straight into a stranger from WV. He was so polite and friendly! Please keep in mind that just because his work here on earth may be complete, his work for God is far from it! This time apart from him is only temporary and you must all stay strong to carry out his memory and loving kindness to others.

Linda Pinnell

September 21, 2005

Dear Silva and Evan's Families, My heart sunk when I heard the news from Lori Montgomery, Jeffrey's cousin. I feel for all of you and only hope that your beautiful memories will outlast your grief that you are feeling now. Loving and caring thoughts, Chris and Kris

Chris Wieland (Camozzi)

September 21, 2005

Jeffrey was such a great guy. I can remember going to FFA activities and Jeff always being there to put a smile on everyone's face and get them working together. He always showed up everywhere with a great smile on his face and a dedication to anything he did. I'm going to miss you Jeff. It will never be the same to go to Farm Supply again. My condolences go out to both families for their losses and to anyone else who knew Jeff. God must have needed him for something, but I think we need him more. I love you so much Jeffrey.

Ashley McCollum

September 21, 2005

Gene, Arlene & Family,

Jeff's love and laughter will be within your hearts forever. Bless your sweet boy.

Ken & Rhonda

Ken & Rhonda Schroeder

September 21, 2005

Jeff was a very special young man. Our family had the honor of meeting Jeffery at the Mid-State Fair livestock barn and at Farm Supply in Paso Robles. He and Kyle were always together and always insistent on lending a hand to us. He was so kind and generous and sweet with the kids. Our hearts go out to Gene, Arleen and family. God now has 2 very special Angels with him.

Pam Morring

September 21, 2005

Jody, Please remember that your sisters have you and your family in our thoughts and prayers. May God watch over each of you in this very tough time.

Laura Ray

September 21, 2005

On behalf of the Sisters of Alpha Sigma Tau, Gamma Xi chapter we would like to send our love and prayer to the Silva family at this time. As sisters of Jody's, we express our condolences and know Jeffrey will be missed by many.

Jessica Booth

September 21, 2005

As a sorority sister of Jody's, my heart and prayers go out to her and the family for their loss, and also to the friends of Jeff.

Best Wishes & Tau Love,

Erica

Erica Gardner

September 21, 2005

Jeff he made me laugh all the time. He always had smile on his face. I know he with us all the time and look down on us. I wish us good luck.HE love love the ffa we will all mis him.

Emma Garcia

September 21, 2005

I knew from the minute that I met jeff that he was someone special, even though I only knew him for the short time of 3 years everytime I saw him ,he greeted my with that million dollar smile, a hug and a kiss on the cheek. I knew Jeff through the FFA our home away from home. If you just met him for a single minute you would see his passion for life and the people that he cared about. This only proovs that God takes away people to show us that he only takes the best! Jeff you will be truly missed.

Jamie De Voll

September 21, 2005

As Jody's Sorority sister, friend, and former supervisor, I was greatly saddened to hear about your family's loss. Jody - Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this very difficult time. Your sisters in Alpha Sigma Tau are thinking of you and will be here to support you with all our love.

With much Tau love,

Melissa Atkinson

Director of Collegiate Chapters

Alpha Sigma Tau Sorority

Melissa Atkinson

September 21, 2005

As an Alpha Sigma Tau Sorority sister of Jody Bishop, I am deeply saddened to hear of the death of her brother. Jody, please find comfort that you have the love and support of thousands of our members in Alpha Sigma Tau. My deepest sympathy to you and your family.

Tau love,

Patti Simmons

National President

Alpha Sigma Tau Sorority

Patricia Simmons

September 21, 2005

I was saddened to hear in the news that Jeff lost his life this past weekend. He was a talented young man with a bright future. I was well aware of his involvement with FFA, and his positive attiude and outlook on life motivated many of his peers. I was hoping to visit with him to ask him to consider teaching as a career. All of us suffer as a result of losing him. My prayers are with you.

Robert Flores

September 21, 2005

To the Silva Family: My daughter Laura was an FFA regional officer last year with Jeff. Everyone knows he was a very special, sweet, funny, passionate, giving, loving young man. He was a wonderful person. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Kathryn Hewitt

September 21, 2005

I don't know how to say anything that I would like to say. Jeff and Kyle were both in my welding class last year and I remember that Jeff had the same birthday as me. I know a lot of people that do and I consider them all my "birthday buddies". I also remember that he was one of the only people in that class who was nice to me, and that meant a lot. Even though he is gone now I will always only have good memories of him. And it seems to me that only his body is gone but his spirit is living on.

Samantha Rudman

September 20, 2005

There is so much to say about Jeff. I met him four years ago and I wish I could have met him sooner. There was never a time that he wasn't enjoying life. I will always hold my memories of Jeff and kyle having a good laugh in the ag room close to my heart. He taught me so much about life, how you need to live life to the fullest. I will never forget him, he was the greatest. My greatest sympathy goes out to his family. Jeff will live on forever because he contributed so much to everyone's lives and I know he made me who I am today.

Sherra Hebrard

September 20, 2005

i just wanted you to know how sweet your son was and that he will always be remembered, and for his family to hang in there

michelle moses

September 20, 2005

knowing jeff for 2 years i have to say they were the best two years of my life. He was the guy that you first set your eyes on and just know he is a wonderful person. He was such a cutie and had the best personality in the world. when ever a FFA meeting was you knew it was going to be a blast because of having jeff as are president.jeff was the one who made it fun and u wanted to go to all of them because he was there. He was truely the most loving and caring guy i know.he was such a good leader and made everyone feel like they belonged.im going to miss him so much and hearing him say git-r-done and his simile. im truely sorry for your lost on such amazing son. he was a one of kind of guy. he will be in my heart for ever. silva family you will be in my prayers and i am truely sorry again.im going to miss that boy.

Brittny Hebrard

September 20, 2005

Jeffie,you were such an awesome awesome guy. Im so glad that i was able to know you.....thanks for all the hugs and laughs. you will always have a special place in my heart. i will miss your smile and funny jokes. to his fam... i want to thank you for giving me the chance to spend time with your son. he made such an impact on my life and i thank God for every moment i was able to spend with him. dont party too much in heaven. see you there. love ALWAYS N FOREVER

Audrey Gallagher

September 20, 2005

Our dear, sweet loving Jeff

God carried you away.

Jeff, we know you hear us

We think of you every day.



You left us yes, but not before

You made your mark to start.

So many have you in our minds

And also in our hearts.



How hard for us to miss you,

We fight from being sad.

Just know we'll always love you,

Always be your FFA Pals.

Sergio Gorokhovsky

September 20, 2005

Jeff, I knew you through FFA, and you inspired me to better myself. You are the person that made me decide to run for regional office. When I went to COLC and asked you if I should run, you said "Get-r-don". If it wasn't for you, I wouldn't be where I am today. Jeff, you are going to be greatly missed. I will never forget you. "Get-r-don", up in heaven.

Douglas Lander

September 20, 2005

Although I never knew these two fine young men, my heart is really moved by how they loved and laughed and inspired those around them. My sister-in-law lost her son when he was 22, six years ago. I have learned alot from her as she keeps her son's memory alive in the love she gives others. With the addition of Jeff and Kyle, I know heaven just got a whole lot more beautiful.I will pray for you all.



-Kary

Kary Antoniadis

September 20, 2005

Jeff,

Jeff and Kyle left us with so much living left to do but had also lived so much. They grasped every opportunity, appreciated it and ran with it, they've inspired me to look ahead and leave nothing undone. I never did hear Jeff say 'git r done' I just saw him do it. Both boys were respectful, hard working and Jeff always managed to get his teasing in somewhere, just last week we had a short foot race, that 10 foot stride of his almost won. Knowing him he let me win, because that would be what he would do.

Gene, Arlene, Jodi and Christina you are all on my mind constantly. You have a community of friends and family here for you.

Susan

September 20, 2005

Whether it was helping us at Farm Supply or smiling and laughing from the dance floor, or being leaders at a community event, Jeff and Kyle so very much represent what we all love most about the ag community here in San Luis Obispo County. We new them slightly but so enjoyed their energy, their enthusiasm, their love of life. We are so deeply saddened by the loss of these two cherished young men. Our caring thoughts and dignity and grace are extended to each family.

Monte and Kathy Mills

September 20, 2005

I had the pleasure of getting to spend a little bit of time with Jeff during the year he spent as a member of the South Coast Region Officer team. I new from the first time I met him he was special. Jeff was just the kind of person who brought pure joy into the lives of everyone he met. While my heart breaks for the life that has been lost, I find comfort in knowing that Jeff is in a better place than we all are today. I am however very concerned for those he left behind...my heart goes out to Luke, and the Silva family...though I was never given the opportunity to meet you all, almost everytime I spoke to Jeff he mentioned you, especially how proud he was of his three big sisters!!! As a big sister myself I felt you should know that!!! Hang in there, and be strong... we are ALL praying for you EVERYDAY!!!!

Kimberly Pierce

September 20, 2005

Our Deepest Sympathies to The Silva Family.



We are good friends of The Hubbards, and just wish to express our deepest, deepest sympathy and prayers to your family.

Maidie & Bill Liberti

September 20, 2005

I will always remember a smiling kid who could sing "HollaBack Girl" with the best of them. Always with a smile when coming in to the store for a soda...Such a great kid. He will be missed but always remembered fondly.

-Kilika

Kilika Taliva'a

September 20, 2005

To the Silva Family,

Jeffrey was my best friend. I loved that boy with all my heart. One of the best things about him was the way he loved. He loved his friends and he really loved all of you so deeply. He was always there for me in my times of need and I always tried to be there for him. I'd really like to be there for you too, please, if there's anything that you need at all, call me or my family. Love you all and you are in my prayers.

Your neighbor,

Marlee Miller

September 20, 2005

Our hearts and prayers go out to the Silva family.

Margie & Joel Ochoa

September 20, 2005

Our thoughts and prayers are with the Silva family at this time. We met Jeffrey as a young man when he escorted our daughter Nicole down the aisle at my mother Sally and Jerry Montgomery's wedding several years ago. He was an exceptionally charming young man then and appears to have grown into a loving and wonderful man. How special to have known him for even a few brief moments in time. With our sincerest and most heartfelt condolences, Ervin, Debbie, Nicole, Kayla, Andy and Amber Tunison.

Debbie Tunison

September 20, 2005

Jeffery..you will be missed soo much, i have the most fondest memory of when kyle drove you and luke to pick up me,teresa,kylie,elke, and amy to go to a party and all the way there we blasted jack johnson screaming it at the top of our lungs hot roding in his blue nova..times like those i will never forget and charish forever. to the family my thoughts and prayers are with you.

Christy Hahn

September 20, 2005

I wish there was something I could say to alleviate the pain you must be feeling. I hope you find comfort in knowing that Jeff was very loved and will always be remembered.

Julie Lang

September 20, 2005

Jeffrey: I dont know where to start you were like my third son. you were quite the insperation to Michael and Justin. And somehow you managed to bring back the childhood in me. All the great times we had out at the lake sitting around the fire ring with Kyle,Luke,Marlie,Brittney and the rest of the gang will be memories I will never forget. I will never forget you telling the boys to get back on the tube untill you can GET-ER-DONE, those words will for ever be inprinted into my head thanks to you. You were always the life of the party and always put a smile on everyones face. As for our out of state hunting trip to Colorado again you were always the one happy and smiling even when you and the Goose managed to miss your shot at the elk, We will still be going to Idaho this year for our hunting trip and Michael plans on hunting his butt off to get a big buck in your memory. Arleen & Gene you raised one hell of a great kid. Jeffrey will for ever be in my mind.I love you all, and if you need anything you know who to ask. Uncle Raymond:

Raymond Evans

September 20, 2005

I am sending my condolences to you and your family. I was very saddened to hear of another young person dying. My heart goes out to you all. I feel the pain you are all going through. I also lost my 18 year old daughter 13 years ago in a tragic accident. There isn't a day goes by that I don't think about her and remember her and all we did. Again my sincere condolences to all.

Patti Boisvert

September 20, 2005

Dearest Gene,Arlene & Family

Our thoughts and prayers are with you & your family during your heartfelt loss. We will always remember Jeffery & his sweet smiling face sitting in between Grandpa & Grandma in the Big Red Dodge Truck, what a great side kick he was.These memories of your dear sweet boy will always be cherished.

Your angel will be greeted in heaven. May peace be with you.



Love,Your Cousins, Sharkey,Bernice,Lisa,Lori&

Jason Montgomery

Lori Montgomery Kendall

September 20, 2005

Jeffrey Joseph Silva was one of my best friends. He'll always live on in my heart. I loved him alot and was blessed to be so close to him. My prayers are with the Silvas, ya'll raised a wonderful boy.

Jessica Silvius

September 20, 2005

Silva Family,

I had the pleasure to work side by side with your son this summer during my short stay at Farm Supply. I want you to know how big of an impression Jeff made in my life. He very easily wriggled his way into my heart. He was so thoughtful and such a hard worker. He always had a smile waiting to flash your way and never hesitated to pass an opportunity to crack a joke. I was the warehouse girl at Farm Supply this summer, and viewed Jeff and Kyle almost as younger brothers or cousins who were constantly razzing me. They made stacking hay and loading feed fun even if it was hotter than haties out!! I think back to some of the conversations we had and remember thinking, "goodness, this boy will go far, I'd be curious to see where he is in ten years". He was charming, sweet and oh so polite and had a good head on his shoulders. He seemed to really have a grasp on life. I am truly sorry for your loss and the pain you are going through. Jeff will always be in my memories when it comes to my summer of 2005. He was such a heartwarming member of the Farm Supply Family. My prayers are with you in these times of heartache.

God Bless, "warehouse girl"

Amber Blythe

September 20, 2005

i did not know jeff personally but i have heard all the kids at work speak of what a wonderful kid he was and you should be very proud of the job you did in raising him.i can't even imagine the pain you all are going through, but please know time, friends and family will help heal. arleen i have known you for many many years and i know you are a strong women but if any of you need anything please do not hesitate to call on me. my thoughts and prayers are with you all. love nina

nina schmitz

September 20, 2005

Jeff always made me laugh whenever i saw him outside of school. Although we only talked a few times, the few we did were the funniest moments i can remember. I send my condolences to his family. May God Bless them and give them strength.

Frisco Romo

September 20, 2005

Dear Silva Family,



I heard of your terrible loss yesterday morning and I am so sorry. I did not know Jeff well- he helped me on my place out in Geneseo for awhile about two years ago- but I could see how special he was. A friend, Etta, had referred him to me and said that he was a good kid and that he knew how to work. He was all that and more- smart and cheerful, capable and diligent, handsome and graceful. He was friendly and open and spoke of his involvement with FFA and his great enjoyment of hunting. He was driving an old white pickup and was glad to have it and said that someone had given it to him- and I admired his grateful heart. Jeff showed all the signs of being very lovingly and carefully brought up. He spoke with great affection of his family and gave credit to his dad and granddad for much of what he had learned. I thought he was going to become a remarkable man- that I would see in the paper that he had married well and succeeded in his profession and become an excellent father and maybe even run for public office- I guess I had no upward limit on my expectations for your young man. Please know that you raised a wonderful child- again, I am so sorry.



My prayers are with you.

Linda Grone Smith

September 20, 2005

We are extremely saddened to hear of the loss of Jeff. As your neighbors, we have your family in our thoughts and prayers. We are here for your family if there is anything we can do. God Bless,

The Luera family

Gil and Amy Luera

September 20, 2005

I had the wonderful opportunity to speak with Jeff on Saturday, at work. Normally our paths would not have crossed, but I'm so glad they did because he and I had a conversation I will always remember. He left my office smiling and happy. I'm so grateful for that memory of him. To his family and friends, please accept my sincere condolences, my prayers are with you. With love from the Farm Supply family...

Pam Pickering

September 20, 2005

Our daughter Rebecca thought so highly of Jeff. We share your sadness and grief.

Nancy & Jeff Joynt

September 20, 2005

I'm sincerely sorry for your loss.

Kristina if you need anything I am here for you.

Love ya

Norma

Norma Smith-Cypert

September 20, 2005

Jeffrey Silva;



Gene and Arleen I can't even imagine the pain you must feel. Our prayers are with you. Truly Jeffrey is in a place of peace. Jeffrey brought peace and light to all who knew him. Even if they knew him only a little. I remember Arleens 50th birthday party. We were all having a good time, but the laughter and joy did not begin until Jeffrey arrived. He was good natured and took everything in stride. He sure endured his fair share of teasing from the Evans clan, and learned to rise above it.



Uncle Tommy remembers Jeff at the lake. How much fun he was to be around. Didn't matter if he was flying off the tube or someone else was, he was always smiling.



Jeffrey was not afraid to be himself, to shine his light for all to see and be encouraged by. Keep it burning.

We love you all.

Tommy and Donna, Sarah, Corinne and Willie.

Uncle Tommy and Aunt Donna Evans

September 20, 2005

Arlene and Gene, my family and I will truly miss Jeff and we are saddened at your loss. I will always remember Jeff as a gentleman and positive role model to my children. I thank you for allowing us to be a part of his life and yours. My prayers are with you.

Ernie Rodriguez

September 20, 2005

Jeff and family,

I will miss Him so much. I owe him and his family the world as he never made fun of me nor picked on me. Jeff and Kyle, You guys were the greatest and i don't know what i would have done without the memories we shared, even though i showed the grassmaggots. I am honored to have been part of your lives and am honored that you allowed me to a friend. i know everyone in my family misses you. If anyone needs anything, please know i will be there. The Mason family sends there condolences to both families. With all the love in the world, The Mason family. We will see you soon Jeff. Thanks for all the smiles.

Kassondra Mason

September 19, 2005

We are simply heart broken. Our hope is that somehow our prayers will sustain the entire Silva Family in their darkest hour of grief. Our memories of Jeff were not of the young man that many of you express he became but rather the pre-teen we remember from St. Rose Catholic School. He always had an impish smile (usually doing something slightly devious) with an infectious laugh and a heart of gold. He was beloved by all of his classmates and seemed to easily captivate them. It appears that Jeff maintained those special qualities he had as a child to grow into an exceptional man. More importantly is that he walked the walk of a Christian and now will walk with God. We will miss the laughter you brought into our world but are all honored and blessed with the imprint you made in our lives and on our hearts.

The Wallace Family

September 19, 2005

Jeff was the sweetes guy i have ever met in my life. He had the greatest heart and attitude towards life. He respected everyone and looked at people for who they are on the inside not just the outside. That is what i love most about jeff. He gave the best hugs and always knew how to make you laugh. I will miss you jeff. To jeffs family thank you for raising such an amazing son that was loved dearly. My prayers are with all of you.

stacy andersen

September 19, 2005

Jeff-I miss you so very much and I will allways love you and cherish the time we spent together this past year! Man, you made the whole Regional officer thing so much better. In every situation you allways found a way to make it fun for everyone. I will never forget everything that you taught me about and how to enjoy it! Whenever I hear the words "Get-r-don" I will allways think of you. I love you and allways will and I look forward to seeing you in Heaven Becasue I know that your there!

Tiffany Trexler Trexler

September 19, 2005

It's still hard to cope with the fact that Jeff has been taken from us. From the moment I received my phone call, I have avoided dealing with tragedy myself and stepped in to be the counselor to my family. I hadn't actually taken the time to realize what had truly happened until I read the paper this morning. Then, I spent all day trying to rationalize the situation in my head, only to come up with nothing! But, the more I think about it now, I know that Jeff would want us to be happy and not cry. We need to celebrate his life, the many lives he touched, and remember his superb enthusiasm always. If we do all of this and put to use his famous saying, "Git er' Done," then I know for sure his smile will be beaming with glee. Live it up for him, he deserves it. We will always love you Jeff! Our hearts go out to you, forever and always!!!

* ~ * ~ * ~ * ~ *

September 19, 2005

He was a cool guy. He was the first person that I talked to at COLC when i was shy and wasn't as open. We related really well at the the regional officer screening too. Well I might see you after death my friend. Good bye.

Ryusuke Kanagawa

September 19, 2005

Jeff, i didnt think this would ever happen. You were an awesome guy, and i really got to know you. You made FFA fun, and when i walked in the ag rooms, i could always count on seeing your smiling face. You made getting up at 5am for the fair easy, you brightened up my day everyday. You were so sweet, and so caring. My Condolences are with your family and friends. I love you and miss you Jeff!!!

Brittany Edrington

September 19, 2005

I didn't know jeff very well, but i do know he will be sorely missed by everyone close to him. He was always nice to me and i wish i could thank him for the kindness he showed me in the year and a half i new him.

Allison Cornett

September 19, 2005

Jeff, man i miss you and I love you! I had so much fun with jeff and the entire south coast team. It was an amazing year that i will cherish forever. I have such great memories of him and his awesome personality. I will never forget Jeff and his git-r-done that always put a smile on everyone. I still cannot believe he's gone, but I know he is making people laugh in heaven. I love you man!

Laura Hewitt

September 19, 2005

Jeff,

Being his cousin and everything I pretty much know him as well as anyone. He was a great guy who was always showing off a smile and offering to help at all times. We went hunting out of state together and were planning to this year. It was always fun during the summers when we went out to the lake, whether we went out on the water and went tubing or just hung out at the cabin with Kyle and Luke. Ill never forget when my dad thought it might be fun to arm wrestle and i kicked both of Jeff's and Kyle's butts. Including Mister 240, which of course would be Luke. We had a lot of interesting times out there. Over all he was just an awesome dude. Even though he wont be goin to hunt in Idaho with us, we will still be thinking of him and hopefully i will get an enormous buck and have it mounted with a note under it that says "In Memory Of Jeffrey Silva." Im going to deeply miss him and all the fun times together. I wish good luck to the rest of the family with dealing with the lost.

Michael Evans

September 19, 2005

So very sorry.

Paul & Barbara Binnebose

September 19, 2005

Jeff and Kyle were both the nicest guys. I was friends with both. They touched my heart with kindness and knowledge. I will always remember there smiles, personalities and inspirational quotes. I loved them both dearly. I'm very proud and honored to have known them. I celebrate the lives of Jeff Silva and Kyle Hubbard. They were awesome.

Katie

September 19, 2005

I wasnt lucky enough to have met Jeff,but as Kyle i have heard nothng but wonderful stories of what a great person he was..great person that he IS because as long as you all keep him in your heart and cherish the beautiful moments you all shared as a family and friends Jeff will always be alive.I dont even kno what to say i cant imagine the pain your going through cus this is ur son i have only lost a close friend a yr ago in a car accident n i was more than devasted..just keep your heads up for your son. i dont even know this fellow but ive shared tears for him cus it hurts me to know that such a wonderful person has been taking so early in life..may God bless him and your family and friends...i send u my condolences from deep down in my heart..May he Rest In Peace.

Crystal

September 19, 2005

jeff touched my life as well as my 4 children. he will truly be missed. to jeff's family; you are in our hearts and prayers. the memories of that wonderful boy will never be forgotten. thank you arlene and gene, for sharing your family with mine. we are truly blessed for knowing you and your children.

karla rodriguez

September 19, 2005

Jeff ~ The things you tought me in the little time we knew each other will remain in my life forever. I love you and I miss you and I'll be sure to see you in heaven. I'll always remember the time we like died laughing when I got spit on playing honey wont you please give me a smile. . and when we first met how you let me use your "special" pen . . and our long talks about living life to the fullest. You taught me a lot about being yourself and being outgoing and just making people feel ok for being who they are. . You are a true role model and I'm really gonna miss your spirit and your ability to make anyone smile. I love you and miss you already. <3 Rosie

Roseann Pelka

September 19, 2005

Jeff, the man of the hour at all the FFA meetings. Luke and Jeff always together, making FFA fun for everyone. Our condolences go out to your family and loved ones.

Edrington Family

September 19, 2005

Jeff... man you were the best, you made FFA fun, every morning and every break that i went into the ag department you were there, you always had a smile on your face. One of the best guys i have ever known, may you, Kyle and Domm tear it up in heaven. Never in a millions years would i have to thought that you and Kyle would be the ones to leave first. I Love You and Miss You, And never will i forget you.

Brittany Edrington

September 19, 2005

I didnt really know jeff as much as i did kyle but my love gose out to both of them and there familys they were both to good guys and loved what they did and rest in pease both of you

your Friend

Travis

Travis Smith

September 19, 2005

I personally did not know Jeff, but my heart and prayers go out to his family and especially Jody, hang in there sweetie, we all love you and are here for you always.

In our thoughts,

*~your swim family*~*~

September 19, 2005

Jeff, well he was an awesome guy...I knew him through FFA, my sister, Sarah, and through other friends and family members. Jeff was loved by my entire family, like a son, and like a brother. I will never forget him, ever, mostly because every fair, he camped with us, and he always was so energetic, even in the morning at 5 o'clock, when no one else was happy, he was. I also wanted to send my prayers and best wishes to the Silva family. They have to be going through alot, but just remember there is always someone there to help if you need it.

Sabrina DeQuattro

September 19, 2005

May you rest in peace, Jeff. You were a kind person and I will never forget you. My condolences to all of Jeff's friends and family.

Kerri Crenshaw

September 19, 2005

Jeff, Sometimes the hurt is too big for words. I will miss seeing your wonderful smile and you kind manners. You were a dear friend to my daughter Jeanna. My Prayers are with you and your family.

Maria Weinerth

September 19, 2005

Jeff, We shall all miss that wonderful smile and sweetness in your voice. The politeness and kindness that you showed to those that knew you. Forever in our heart.

Kelly Jenal-Stainbrook

September 19, 2005

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