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Mary Hehir Obituary

Mary Carol Hehir

At rest on September 1, 2019.

Loving wife for 41 years of the late L. Thomas Hehir Jr. She is survived by her three beloved children, Judy Hehir (John Murphy), Tom Hehir (René Villa), and Mary Kate Olson (John). Loving Mimi to Nicholas and Kara Flageollet, Daniel, Emily, and Andrew Olson. Also survived by her adored sister Pat Clark, brother-in-law Larry Clark, sister-in-law Gail Hehir, late brother-in law William B. Hehir, and many nieces, nephews, great nieces, great nephews, and dear friends near and far who she considered family.
Mary Carol Hartney was born in San Francisco on December 21, 1925 to Julia and Michael Hartney, first generation Irish Americans. She was a proud native San Franciscan. She embraced her Irish heritage and loved growing up in the Sunset district with her family and "Irish cousins," whose friendships lasted her entire life.
Mary graduated from St. Anne of the Sunset grammar school, Presentation High School, and attended St. Mary's of Notre Dame College in South Bend, Indiana.
Mary had an adventurous spirit, beautiful laugh and the gifts of humor, generosity, and hospitality. She was an artist and always noticed beauty in the world.



She loved spending time with her family and friends, whether at her home in San Francisco, the deck at Lake Tahoe, or at Nazareth House where she enjoyed her final years. At Nazareth house she loved her art, knitting, and book club. She treasured her dear friends most of all.
Mary lived a life of service and was a dedicated volunteer. She was Mother's Club President at St. Anne, President of the Volunteer Auxiliary at Youth Guidance Center, and served on the Board of Regents at the Cathedral of St. Mary of the Assumption. She founded the Docent program at the Cathedral with a mission to share its magnificence with the City of San Francisco and welcome visitors from around the world.
She was awarded the St. Joseph's award by the Archbishop in 2004 for her service to the Cathedral.
The Hehir Family would like to acknowledge and thank the staff and community at Nazareth House for their loving care of Mary and express appreciation for the friendship and comfort she found at her final home.
In lieu of flowers, donations may be made in Mary's memory to Nazareth House, 245 Nova Albion Way, San Rafael, CA 94903, or a charity of your choice.
Friends and family are invited to a Rosary on Thursday, September 12, 2019, at 9:00 a.m. and Funeral Mass will be celebrated at 10:00 a.m. at the Cathedral of St. Mary of the Assumption, 1111 Gough Street, San Francisco.
Mary will be laid to rest with her parents and beloved husband at Holy Cross Catholic Cemetery in a private ceremony.

Published by San Francisco Chronicle from Sep. 6 to Sep. 8, 2019.
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My Dear Godmother,
Remember fondly our times in Tahoe, your home in the city, visits to your apartment and Nazareth house!
Thinking of your joy now with Tom and my parents enjoying a laugh together up in heaven
Love,
Kerry Anne

September 12, 2019

Jessica Aluko

September 10, 2019

Jessica Aluko

September 10, 2019

Colette Hartney

September 10, 2019

Mary was very bright, gracious, kind, and quick witted.
She had the drive and dedication to create the revered Cathedral Docent Program - introducing thousands of Catholic school children to the sacred space, history, architecture and music of the Cathedral.
She was greatly respected and loved by all. Her dear family was her greatest joy.

Kerry K. Daly

September 9, 2019

Tommy, it's been a long time, but I remember your mom very fondly. Good days up on 14th Avenue.

Paul Rapicavoli

September 8, 2019

We always knew when our Mom was talking to Mary on the phone because all she would do is laugh.

Thinking of all three of you and how many good times our families had together.

Our sincere condolences,
Donna, Lauren, and Janet O'Leary

Donna OLeary

September 7, 2019

My sincere condolences Tom, I know how much you love your Mom. I never met her but you told me some lovely stories about her. Unfortunately, i'll Be out of town on the 12 but I hope to see you later in the month.

Love
Nora

Nora Hirschler

September 7, 2019

Oh Mary
How we will miss your brilliant mind; your generosity of spirit, those smiling Irish eyes, and your kindness to everyone you met. Thank you for crossing our paths and making our lives so much brighter! You will be sorely missed by so many.
Until we meet again, peace be with you

Maggie Brooks McCann

Maggie McCann

September 6, 2019

Please accept my sincere sympathy on the loss of a wonderful woman and terrific mentor. I am happy to know your folks are together again. 0x, kaaren

kaaren alvarado

September 6, 2019

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Rosary

9:00 a.m.

Cathedral of St. Mary of the Assumption

1111 Gough Street, San Francisco, CA

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12

Funeral Mass

10:00 a.m.

Cathedral of St. Mary of the Assumption

1111 Gough Street, San Francisco, CA

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