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Nick DeFeo

1924 - 2019

Nick DeFeo obituary, 1924-2019, Staten Island, NY

BORN

1924

DIED

2019

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Hanley Funeral Home, Inc. - Staten Island

60 New Dorp Ln

Staten Island, New York

Nick DeFeo Obituary

Nick DeFeo, 95
Nick DeFeo, 95, born April 14, 1924, in New York City was the sixth of seven children (two girls and five boys) born to parents Frances and Louis DeFeo. All five boys enlisted and served in the military during World War II in various branches, and all five returned home safely from their service. Nick served as a member of the Office of Strategic Services (OSS) where he ran a safe-house for agents in Germany.
A resident of New Dorp since 1968, prior to which he was a resident of Bensonhurst.
He was predeceased by his loving wife of 53 years, Rose. Father of Linda Billi, Nick DeFeo and Barbara DeFeo. Proud grandpa to Nicholas, Edward, Lauren, Christina, Alicia and Emily.
He enjoyed ballroom dancing with his wife, Rose, walking daily to Great Kills Park, where he would meet and make friends on the park pathways, providing inspiration and being a positive influence to those around him. Nick enjoyed gardening and maintaining his home - always engaged in a project or painting items in his garden or patio.
He was a generous contributor to several charities for veterans, children and animals. In lieu of flowers, please consider a donation to the local VA or charity of importance on his behalf.
Hanley Funeral Home in New Dorp is handling Nick's services. Viewing is today, Thursday, from 7 to 9 p.m. Mass is at Our Lady Queen of Peace at 9:30 a.m. on Friday.

Hanley Funeral Home
60 New Dorp Lane
Staten Island, NY 10306
(718) 351-1800

Published by Staten Island Advance on Nov. 21, 2019.
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Nick was an amazing person. I used to see him walking at Great Kills park and he always had a great story to tell and was so positive about life. He would always say, “put your best foot forward “ and that’s what I’ll do. He will be missed.

Maria Modafferi

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September 23, 2020

Vito

November 27, 2019

Vito

November 27, 2019

Here is a hand painted and signed 2014 Christmas card from Nick DeFeo. Just a special person.

Vito

November 27, 2019

Emily Muench

November 24, 2019

Nick had a kind word for everyone,a truly good soul,I was privileged to have known him,Wherever you are,wherever you be rest in peace my friend
Deborah Nemoyten

Deborah Nemoyten

November 23, 2019

I had the honor of knowing this wonderful person for the last 10 years when I moved to Milton Avenue. My only regret is that I didn't know him sooner. The years I knew Nicholas were memories I will cherish forever. He is my angel, love you Nicholas xox RIP

Anna Grace Pastore

November 22, 2019

Uncle Nick, I will miss you.

-Rose Anne

November 22, 2019

Your Dad and Grandfather always had a kind word for everyone who met him in Great Kills Park. Inspiring people was his mission and I feel he really accomplished that mission. A proud Veteran, Father and Grandfather.
So sorry for your loss and ours,
Carolann
Walker on the weekends.

November 22, 2019

Ann

November 21, 2019

Thank you for your service.
God rest your soul.

November 21, 2019

I am very sorry to hear about Nick passing away. I haven't seen Nick in a long time but he was a great father-in-law. He gave me a lot of help with our old house in Jersey. He knew a lot about home repair And I learned many things from him. Very nice to have known you nick. Ed

November 21, 2019

God Bless Nick he sure was an inspiration to everyone . He will surely be missed in the park

Bonnie Millar

November 21, 2019

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