“A heart needs only its own voice to do what is right.”
Vanna Bonta quotes
“A heart needs only its own voice to do what is right.” Vanna Bonta
Mark would tell me, “That to be a principal and to be happy; you need to know you did the best you could that day and to be ok with the frequent fact that no one knew the good deeds done”. He would inspire me to be more than I dreamed I could be. I was happy to be a teacher, I loved teaching; but he suggested I may want to consider administration. I did not see this; but he did. When I became a principal and often asked for his advice he would remind me that I already knew the answer- the answer was always- do the right thing, do the fair thing, do the kind and loving thing. He modeled that everyday in each occasion I shared with him in school and out of school. I find myself asking- What would T do or say and I find myself telling students, parents, teachers and community members some of the same things I heard him share with us. He was a humble man who glorified others with his belief in their dreams. He was a man of peace. He hated conflict at all levels and always looked for ways for each person to save face and work together. Even as a principal he was a ref, wanting to see good sportsmanship, teamwork and the rewards of learning from our mistakes. “Oh Captain, My Captain”- he sailed us through many school improvement plans to make our schools better. As we have seen in his tributes and accolades he loved children, he also loved teachers, colleagues and most everyone he ever met. Mark would be so very grateful for all these sentiments and would take the time to give a handwritten note to all of us telling us how important we are to him. We need to continue to honor the work that T did, we need to mentor more, read to children more, smile at people more and believe in the dreams of young people. I hope to see more people share a Mr. T moment with a child in a school as long as the memory of Mr. T inspires them to give back the way he so expertly modeled for all of us. Many times it takes a loss to know what you had, in this case when I was at Jefferson as a teacher and Mr. T was my principal- we knew we were the Jefferson Family- we knew we were excellent cutting edge educators- we knew this because Mr. T told us we were! T believed in our dreams to be excellent teachers, paraprofessionals, teachers’ aides, custodians, lunchroom staff, librarians, social workers, and all that helped make a school great! I am sure in some small ways I will use T’isms for the rest of my career and life. Thank you Mark, Thank you. Love, Carla Killelea
Carla Killelea