Shirley Northam STEVENS

1929 - 2018

Shirley Northam STEVENS obituary, 1929-2018, Mead, WA

Shirley STEVENS Obituary

STEVENS, Shirley Northam (Age 89) December 8, 1929 - December 23, 2018 Just two weeks after her 89th birthday, we said good bye to our loving wife and mother, Shirley Stevens. Shirley was born December 8, 1929, to Hedley John Northam and Ellen Whitlatch Northam in Butte, Montana. Shirley spent most of her youth in Helena but attended High School in Casper, Wyoming, graduating in 1947. After attending Carroll College in Helena for one year, she graduated from Montana State College in Bozeman with a degree in Medical Technology. At Montana State she met Otto Stevens and they were married August 23, 1952. Shirley and Otto lived in Chicago while Otto completed dental school, then on to San Clemente and Bremerton during Otto's US Navy assignments. Shirley and Otto moved to Spokane in 1956 where Otto established his dental practice and they raised their five children. Shirley was active as a Camp Fire leader and in the Messiah Lutheran Church Sunday School and she was an avid supporter of her family's many activities. She spent countless hours volunteering for Deaconess Hospital, among other interests. Shirley was a loving mom and will be greatly missed. Shirley is survived by her husband, Otto Stevens; her sister, Beverley Northam Wahl (Cincinnati, Ohio); and her children: Scott Stevens (Suzi) of Madison, Alabama, Diane Paxton, Spokane, Rich Stevens, Spokane, Brian Stevens (Denise), Coeur d'Alene, and Kristi Rice (Rob), Spokane. She is also survived by eleven grandchildren and seven great-grandchildren. A Memorial Service in her honor will be held at Messiah Lutheran Church, 4202 N. Belt Street, Spokane, at 11:00 A.M., on Friday, January 4. In lieu of flowers, donations can be made in Shirley's honor to Lutheran Community Services Northwest (https://lcsnw.org) or Ronald McDonald House Charities of the Inland Northwest (https://rmhcinlandnw.org) .

Published by Spokesman-Review from Dec. 30, 2018 to Jan. 2, 2019.
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I heard today of Shirley's passing. What wonderful neighbors Otto and Shirley were. Shirley was a gracious lady. Our thoughts and prayers are with you Otto and your family. God Bless and comfort you.

Marlene Bumbeck

January 18, 2019

Otto, Diane & Mark,
Extending deep and heartfelt sympathy to you and your family. I am so sorry for your loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers...

Michele Aeck

January 6, 2019

Please accept our deepest sympathies as you confront what must be a terrible loss. We are incredibly grateful to be a part of Mrs. Stevens' legacy. Ronald McDonald House Charities of the Inland Northwest, Melissa Luna, Development Director

Melissa Luna

January 2, 2019

With sadness I heard of Shirley s death. But there is joy in heaven apon her arrival. Our condolences to Otto and the family. She is one of my earliest remembrance as a child in Spokane. Later I shared becoming a Bobcat with both Shirley and Otto. Stewart always thinks of Shirley's happiness that she could cook him eggs for breakfast while Otto and I were pleased to have cold cereal and blueberries. Thanks for the hospitality at your B and B.

May you know the presence of our loving God at this time and always.

Cynthia Dall

January 1, 2019

Diane, Chris, Lindsey, Otto and all the family of Shirley;
I am so sorry to hear of Shirley's passing. This has been a rough year for you. I wish I had words of wisdom, but I don't.
I wish I could take away some of your sorrow. You are in my heart. Dorothy

Dorothy Stewart

January 1, 2019

Our deepest sympathy to Otto and to the Stevens family as you mourn Shirley's passing. Sending warm thoughts and prayers. ~Jerry and Dana Parker

Dana Fichtenberg Parker

December 30, 2018

Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. Shirley will be missed greatly by so many.

Dianne & Bill Molsberry

December 30, 2018

Otto and family. It is with great sadness that Jack and I read of Shirley's passing. She has been a very positive presence in our lives. We saw you both at big events for PLU and family and every time her calm and supportive friendship has been noticed. Our prayers of love are shared with all your family. God bless you all in your period of remembrance and mourning

Jan and Jack Praxel

December 30, 2018

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