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Dr. Mady Oen GRAY

1931 - 2014

Dr.  Mady Oen GRAY obituary, 1931-2014, Austin, TX

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1931

DIED

2014

Mady GRAY Obituary

GRAY, Dr. Mady Oen

Dr, Mady Oen Gray passed away peacefully in her home February 25, 2014. Dr. Gray was born in Salatiga, Indonesia to Oen Tjoen Hap and Ong Kiem Nio Betsy on July 9, 1931. After receiving her B.A. from the University of Indonesia, she came to the United States in 1957 on a full state scholarship. She proudly became a United States citizen. She completed her Master of Arts in 1960 and Doctorate in Applied Linguistics in 1979 at the University of Texas at Austin. Dr. Gray was a full professor and Foreign Student Adviser at Huston Tillotson College. In 1983 Dr. Gray opened her own language school upon the suggestion of dear friends and colleagues. Her school, IELS, grew into the second largest Intensive English Program in Austin. Dr. Gray had a big heart and touched the lives of so many people all over the world. Dr. Gray will be remembered and missed by her family, friends and many, many students.

Dr. Gray leaves behind her daughter, Kim, and her husband Bret Andrews, her son, Hap Gray, her grandson, Zachary Jacob Gray and many dear relatives.

Published by Austin American-Statesman from Mar. 2 to Mar. 3, 2014.
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Indeed she was like a mother to me. I was only 18, felt lonely and confused, till she took me into her arms. I still remember her warmth and kind smile.

My deepest condolences to the family, especially Kim who was also very kind to me and treated me like a sister. Miss you both.

Mako M.

April 4, 2017

Dr. Gray cared greatly about her students, teachers, and colleagues and her commitment to encouraging and nurturing them was evident in everything she did. The family-run school she created with Kim served the needs of hundreds of international students who will forever owe much of their success to the good English language foundation provided by IELS. I am deeply saddened by her passing.

Aaon Ostrom

May 29, 2016

Thought the short time I knew you, everything I learned at IELS has been with me during tha last 23 years of my life. I became an English teacher myself. I give the dear teacher Kim my condolences. Dr Gray was really an inspiration. You both were a great influence. God is with you.

A Davila

March 25, 2015

Mama Gray, I will miss you. Thank you for being a second mom to me as I am sure you were to many others. Your spirit will live in my heart. I look forward for our paths crossing again. My sincere condolences to the family. I will remember the fond love she had for Jacob. I am sure she is watching over all you.

C Kimbrough

September 17, 2014

She touched my heart in so many ways. You will always be in my thoughts. So thankful for the time I was aloud to spend with this wonderful woman whom I admire since our first meeting in 1992.

Sandy K.

July 21, 2014

Dear Kim, Hap and Zachary, I want to tell you how sorry we are about your mom and grandmother. We've been praying for you and will continue to do so. We hope you will look to our Lord for comfort. Love you. Steve and Jana Bloxham

Steve, Jana Bloxham

March 16, 2014

May God bless you Kim and Hap, and may Him comfort your hearts. Dr Gray was a great person and she will always be remembered for all of her students!

Eloisa Victor

March 10, 2014

Mady was such a good person...I will remember her with great fondness. Jim considered her a close friend. Always a smile and a positive thought through any problem! Take care of yourselves.

Sherilyn Howze
Victoria,Texas

March 3, 2014

Dear Tante Mady, I will miss you so!

Dear Kim & Hap,
I will always remember your mother's kindness and support from the moment I stepped off the plane in Austin 32 years ago until the last time I saw her at lunch with my mom & dad in Austin. She indeed had a big heart!
She was also a brave and spunky lady, an inspiration.
I remember my first visit to the first IELS office off Mopac, in awe of the courage it took for her to pull it off and so proud of her. She loved teaching and she loved her students.
But most of all she loved the two of you. In very single conversation I had with her over the last 32 years she always mentioned the two of you.
Please know that you all are in my prayers.

-Santi
Houston, TX

March 2, 2014

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