Pamela Meskus
1966 - 2016
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Pamela A. Meskus, 50

Worcester - Pamela A. (Wade) Meskus, 50, lovingly known to her family and many friends as "Auntie Bubbles", died in her home on Monday, August 8, 2016, after a courageous battle with lung cancer.

She leaves her husband of twenty years, Eric A. Meskus; two sons: Brendon W. Tivnan and his wife, Samantha L. Shurick, and Patrick T. Tivnan, all of Worcester; her mother, Patricia M. (Fisher) Wade, of Millbury; two sisters: Deborah A. Wade of Webster, and Cynthia A. Wade of Millbury; and several uncles, aunts, nephews and nieces - especially Celia L. Wade and Briley P. Wade of Millbury. She was predeceased by her father, Richard J. Wade of Millbury.

Born in Worcester, Pamela was raised in Millbury and has lived in Worcester since 1993. She was a 1984 graduate of Millbury Memorial High School, and earned a Medical Assistant Certificate from the Salter School in Worcester.

Pamela was working as the business manager of E Turn Wood Art, Worcester, her husband's company, at the time of her death. Spending vacation time at the ocean's edge was her favorite way of relaxing; Myrtle Beach, SC, and Galilee Beach, RI, were her particular favorites. Next to her love for her husband, her sons and her darling twin nieces, sun and sand had pride of place in her affections.

Relatives and friends are invited to meet with Pamela's family from 5:00 to 8:00 P.M. on Thursday, August 11, in Turgeon Funeral Home, 56 Main St., Millbury. Funeral services will be private. Donations in her memory may be made to the Saint Vincent Cancer and Wellness Center, 1 Eaton Place, Worcester, MA 01608.

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Published in Worcester Telegram & Gazette on Aug. 10, 2016.
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June 12, 2018
Just been thinking about you lately. Fly high, Tink
DeAnna Keller
June 12, 2017
I never knew you personaally but it tears my heart out that, we are so close in age and whilst I managed to survive cancer twice, you lost the battle.
I am certain that you were a loving, caring and simply wonderful person, inside and out.
May you fly high with the angels
October 18, 2016
So incredibly sorry to hear about this. I've only met her a few times, but she was smart, hilarious and a genuine person. I always enjoyed her online posts and funny banter-she will be missed.
Eric, so so sorry for your loss.
October 14, 2016
Pam was a lovely woman who had the incredible quality of knowing that people, places and things didn't define her, instead she was defined by her acts of love, kindness and incredibly generous heart. She was so very good to me during times when I desperately needed someone to remind me that I was worth being good to. I am saddened by her passing and am sending her loved ones all my love.
Michelle Malboeuf
October 14, 2016
Pam's loved ones and friends: I'm so sorry for the loss of such an incredible woman. Rest in peace, Pam, you will be missed. My sincerest condolences.
Andrea Otterson
October 13, 2016
So very sad to hear about her passing, the world has lost a wonderful caring person. My thoughts are with all your loved ones at this time.

R.I.P Pamela <3
October 13, 2016
Fatima Lambert
October 13, 2016
Pam was the most generous and loving person who put everyone before herself. We'll miss everything about you, friend. My heart goes out to your family, who meant the absolute world to you. Rest easy love.
Sharron Lund
October 12, 2016
Pam was a wonderful, kind, thoughtful woman who loved so many people and was loved by so many. She always found the humor in any situation, and she went out of her way to listen and love. She is missed, and her passing is a loss to everyone who knew her.
Sabrina Brody
October 12, 2016
You obviously touched many people in your life. Sounds like a life well lived to me. Rest in peace.
Melissa MacKinnon
October 12, 2016
I'm going to miss you so much. Our Myrtle trip was one of the best weeks I've ever had. I am so lucky to have had a friend like you. I love you my friend, until we meet again.
Angela Ganley
October 12, 2016
Words can't describe fully what a wonderful person we lost. Thank you for sharing your mom, wife, aunt with us. She was one of the most kindhearted people I've ever come across, there for any and all. Rarely did she talk about herself, but when she did, all she talked about was her love of her family- especially her boys and the twins. She loved showing off pictures of the 4 of you, and her pride shone through. She was a fierce fighter for her friends, our last conversations were about the loss of her beloved friend, and the pending case. I am so sorry for your loss of this beautiful, amazing woman. RIP Pam, heaven truly gained an angel with your arrival.
Ashley Lee
October 12, 2016
Pam - the world lost a wonderful person and a true ray of sunshine to so many with your passing. I will continue to treasure my Christmas pickle ornament you gave me. Rest in peace.
Caren Dean
October 12, 2016
RIP Pamela. You were such a wonderful lady.
Beli Perez
August 16, 2016
Eric, we are so sorry to hear of the loss of Pam, she was a wonderful person and will be missed dearly.
Cris and Jack Wilhelmi
August 12, 2016
My thoughts and prayers are with you and the girls. If there is anything I can do please let me know. Love to you all!
Dee Ashley
August 11, 2016
Our thoughts and prayers are with you all at this most difficult time. Pam was a wonderful young lady. God Bless.
Gail and Roger West
August 11, 2016
Sorry for your loss. May she rest in peace
Marsha Bubon
August 11, 2016
Eric, I am so sorry and deeply saddened to hear of Pam's passing.
Rani Colbert
August 11, 2016
Pam you were an amazing person from the moment I met you, you've always been supporting understanding and just downright loving. Your spirit will live on and may you have finally found peace and are no longer suffering. Fly high with the angels and may you rest in peace!!!
Laurie Pacini
August 11, 2016
Pat and Family,
I am sorry for your loss. Thinking of you.
Kim Provencher
August 11, 2016
Sending thoughts and prayers to all. Pam was such a ray of sunshine; she will be missed by many. God Bless.
Penny West
August 11, 2016
Rip old friend your gonna rock heaven
The sugarmans
August 11, 2016
May you rest in peace-

Norm Buteau
August 10, 2016
Our prayers and condolences are with the whole family. Love Val,Jerry and Sammy
valerie quitadamo
August 10, 2016
Auntie Pam... 15 years ago I tagged along with Carrie one day to your house, by the time I left there I had me another auntie and a friend. I am grateful of our relationship, you had a way about you that made each and everyone of us feel as thou we were your favorite!! (Second to the twins That is LoL)... You are an amazing woman and I thank you for treating me like family.. I Love You Auntie Pam!!!
Sara Kane
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