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Jennifer Kent-Herman
May 5, 2024
18 years ago...... that is way too long... Dad I miss you. I wish you could see how much all of our lives have changed. You have grandkids that are graduating highschool, while some aren´t even walking.... You have children that are going back to school while some are learning things like gardening.
Last night my family were all dressed up for different reasons... but It was all to celebrate life. A life I wish you were still here to see.... A life I think you would have really enjoyed. I seriously can not wait to meet you again in heaven and celebrate with you and Jesus for eternity.
Dad you are missed and Loved!
Rest In Peace
- Ps you have a kid in their 40´s lol
Love you,
Jennifer
Connor Gautreaux
May 21, 2021
Dad, I made it. Your final kid competed high school. I'll be headed to college next. In close to four years all of your kids will be out of school for good. Hopefully each and everyone of us has made you proud.
Connor Gautreaux
September 17, 2017
Dad, I am a freshmen in high school. I don't really know you but I really wish I had. I haven't had a dad figure mostly so i'm trying to do with what I have. It's hard not having a dad. Most of the family is in college and out of the house at the moment. I really hope we can meet one day. Everyone in the family is trying their hardest and missing you so much. I hope we can all reunite and be a happy family.
Jennifer Kent
May 5, 2017
Today isn't a celebration for me... It's a day of remembrance for my Dad. 11 years ago today we lost him to Cancer... My dad has missed out on so many great memories that he would of loved.. Births of grandchildren, Weddings, School events, Graduations and so much more. I miss hearing him sing the songs off of cartoons and talk in silly voices while walking around the house. I miss being able to call him for wisdom, and then having the wisdom go so far over my head I was once again confused....Lol .... I am so thankful for the time I had with him and look forward to getting to experience so much more life with him in heaven.
R.I.P Dad !!!!
Kaitlin Gautreaux
May 5, 2016
Today is the tenth year mark of my father's passing. I don't know too much about him, as I was only five when cancer took his life. I've heard many stories and seen several pictures, and could tell he was a good man. I don't have many memories of him, but the memories that I do have I cherish. It astonishes me that ten years ago my life changed forever -- my entire family's life changed forever. We all lost someone very dear to us. But, at least he is no longer in pain, and despite he's deceased, he shall live on forever in all of our hearts. Dad, I love and miss you so much. I'm sorry you have to miss out on watching all of us grow up. Many things have changed over the years, as you would imagine. Jonathan is going to college to be a Computer engineer, Matthew is going to be a Mechanical engineer, Bradley became a nurse -- and got married, and Brandon became a Chemical Engineer -- he got married as well.Jennifer also had another child two years ago, her name is Kortney and she's absolutely adorable. I'm a freshman in high school and Connor's an eighth grader. I cut off all my hair last year and dyed my hair blonde. Mom changed her hair color as well to blonde, you'd never imagine that, would you? I think you would like it. Anyways,once again, I love and miss you so so much.
Your daughter,
Kaitlin
Kathy Gautreaux
May 5, 2012
Today is the six year anniversary of Brad's death. It has been a time of loss and sadness. Missing him everyday in our life. He would be so proud of his children and how far they have come in their lives.
Not a day goes by that one of us does not mention his name or a memory that took place.
We are so thankful for the life he provided for us. As we continue to go on we are filled with gratitude for his love and goodness. He took care of us with such a giving heart. Always one to see if we needed money, help, or groceries. He always wanted to help his family. He was such a hard worker. I can never thank him enough for loving me. His support was amazing throughout my life.
You are truly missed Brad! I can't wait for God to come again, so I can see you and tell you about everything that has happened.
Until that day... you will continue to be missed and remembered.
Thank you Brad for the life you gave me and for taking care of me. Our home is blessed because of you and everything you did.
We miss you!
Kathy, and the kids
Jan Fortmayer
June 28, 2011
When we were kids, we used to pile in Grandpa Henry's old blue Dodge (5 kids and 4 adults) and head West. We went to Yellowstone, Carlsbad Caverns and many other places. We used to take turns sitting on the floorboards so we could all fit but we were happy as can be. We used to stay at Best Westerns and were so excited that there was a pool. One trip, before I had learned how to swim in deep water, Mark, Hank, Brad and GG were all in the deep water and I had to stay in the shallow water which I thought was unfair because I wanted to be with my cousins. So when Grandma wasn't looking, I went over to the deep end and sank right to the bottom. I will never forget it- then I felt someone grab me and lift me to the top, carried me out of the pool and started to press on my stomach to get the water out. Brad was a great swimmer and he knew exactly what to do. To this day, I credit Brad with saving my life because no one even knew I was down there. I can remember it so vividly even down to the red swimsuit I was wearing and getting punished afterwards for scaring Grandma to death. I sent a note to Brad in his final months recalling that incident and thanking him for saving my life that day and he had totally forgotten about it and was touched. I am glad I got the chance to thank him for that. I was thinking of him today for some reason and went online and saw this guest book. The pictures brought tears to my eyes- a life cut way too short. I hope you are at peace and I am so sorry you had to suffer as much as you did. I will never forget you Brad. Love, Jan
Jennifer Kent
September 17, 2010
Hey Dad,
I am sitting here at school, and just keep thinking about you. I remember all the times we sat at the kitchen table doing math and science homework... It always seemed to go so far over my head....lol Well i find myself, now that i am back in school, wanting to call and see if you can help me with my homework.... i really miss you and Love you. I can't wait to see you in heaven.
Lots of Love,
Your little YOU!
Jennifer Kent

Jennifer Kent
June 19, 2010
Hey Dad,
Today I am 27. I think you would be really proud of me. I wish you were here to see all I have been able to accomplish.I have been off shore and seen some of the sites offshore that you used to tell me about. Man was it neat. I am really missing you today.I know I will see you soon. but on days like today I cant help but realize all over how much i miss you being here. I love you so much.
Lots of love,
Jennifer Kent
Your little you

Me and My Dad at my Graduation
Jennifer Kent
June 19, 2010

My dad And Me
Jennifer Kent
June 19, 2010

My dad and my self (Jennifer)
Jennifer Kent
June 19, 2010
Hey Dad,
Today I am 27. I think you would be really proud of me. I wish you were here so see all I have been able to accomplish.I am been off shore and seen some of the site offshore that you used to tell me about. Man was it neat. I am really missing you today.I know I will see you soon. but on days like today I kept help but realize all over how much i miss you being here. I love you so much.
Lots of love,
Jennifer Kent
Your little you
Kathy Gautreaux
May 5, 2010
Today has been four years since Brad has passed away. Life has changed.
We have moved to Tennesse. The kids have grown...so much!
Jennifer has had a daughter, Kristina, now almost four years old.
As life continues, we think often of the one person that is missing. The person that made our life complete.
As we look back at our life, we can see the blessings that God has given us.
You were a Blessing Brad, and we miss you!
Love,
Your wife, Kathy
Jennifer Kent
March 19, 2010
Dad you are so loved and missed. I can't wait to see you again and let you see your Granddaughter.
with all my Love,
Your daughter,
Jennifer
Matthew Gautreaux
February 2, 2010
I love you dad! I miss you more then you'll ever know!

Favorite Pictures of Brad!
February 2, 2010
Jennifer Kent (Gautreaux)
February 1, 2010
I was just sitting here thinking about my dad. I remember him talking about biking while he was in africa. How beautiful it was. and telling me about the layout of the land and the way the people live. I am really missing those stories. I am just glad i have them saved in my heart. I love you DAD!!!!!!!!
Kathy Gautreaux
December 25, 2008
Today is another Christmas without Brad. It has memories of him everywhere.
We are thinking of him and missing him.
The Christmas dinner is no longer the same, without Brad's cooking and his presence.
The tree is no longer the same, with the lack of presents for the kids.
The outside decorations are bare.
Christmas use to be a fun, an exciting time to share our blessings with each other.
It is now a time to focus on God, and to lean on him, for his guidance in the new year.
One day, God will come again, and the tears will be dried. The laughter and smiles will return.
You are missed Brad, more than you will ever know!
Your wife,
Rob Connor
August 28, 2008
Dear Friends and Family of Brad
I had the pleasure of going to River Oaks with Brad, two grades behind, as well as working with him for Chevron in Papua New Guinea. I was shocked to hear of Brad's passing, but know that he positively impacted the lives of many people.
I recently met Jennifer and wanted to pass on some of my memories of Brad.
From High School, I always remember Brad with a smile, positive words, and quick of wit. I was surprised to meet back up with him in Papua New Guinea (1996-1999)with us both working for Chevron. We worked on several projects together, he as Petroleum Engineer and myself as Facility Engineer. Brad was very technically competent, a hard worker, a great teacher to our nationals, and never hesitated to speak his mind when needed, which I really respected. He was a person you could count on.
We also enjoyed many cups of coffee together and solved many of the worlds problems. He loved talking about his family which he was very proud. He also always had an ear to listen if someone needed to talk.
Our main recreation was basketball, and I remember Brad playing forward, sacrificing himself for the rebounds, but unselfishly passing to his team mates.
He was respected by all that worked with him there.
Kathy Gautreaux
May 5, 2008
Today, is the second anniversary of Brad's death.
We think of him everyday, and remember how much our life has been changed, by the absence of his presence.
Life will never be the same for his family.
His children miss everything about having a "Dad".
We just want to say on this day, that we "love you Brad", and "miss you so much"! We wish you were with us!
We hope we can all be together again, in heaven one day! Until then, we will keep you in our hearts!
The kids sent balloons into the air this weekend, in memory of you!
You are thought of, and missed so much!
Love Always,
Your wife, Kathy
Jennifer Kent
January 12, 2008
Now that the holidays have settled down. I have been thinking of how truely different it has been not having my dad here with us. I have missed seeing him cooking in the kitchen while everyone else opened, what seemed like the never ending pile of presents. I think that was his way to escape. (lol) But I also missed watching the various christmas cartoons that he loved so much. I remember hearing him signing there various songs throught out the house. It has been different with out him but I know he will always be with me and my family.
Well I have a idea that I would like to do but I need everyones help. I going to put a movie together with pics of my dad from through out his life. If you have any you would like to donate to my project you may email them to me TITLED: PICS OF BRAD.
I will greatly appreicate any pics and stories that may go along with them.
Well Dad this one is for you. I love you and miss you truley and I think my daughter diffentally has pieces of you that stand out in her =) I will see you soon.
Love Your Daughter,
Jennifer
Garnet Gautreaux
January 4, 2008
I think about Brad every day and miss him tremendously. I can only hope that he is happy and at peace; he certainly deserves it.
Happy New Year!
Your sister, GG
James (jimmy) Ricouard
February 16, 2007
Mark,Hank and family,
I am truly sorry in the lost of your older brother. I can only imagine the hurt and lost. I have three older brothers and I know I would miss them greatly.
Good luck and God bless
Jimmy Ricouard class of 1980
Matthew Gautreaux
September 17, 2006
Dad, you have left us and gone away
But in our hearts, for ever will you stay.
You are out of your pain, now at rest
Which seems to be for the best
We all hope to see you in Heaven some day
When God can finally wipe all our tears away.
You were gone for about half the time
But you had good intentions on your mind
You have gone across the ocean of death
Your body motionless, and out of breathe.
We are all here to pay our last respects
One by one we walk by your coffin
The horrible site that Im glad I dont have to see often
We wished that we could see you one last time
Before we had to say our adurie, our final good-bye
August 15, 2006
that should of said please add memories and notes to this special book
Jennifer Kent
August 15, 2006
Hey Dad,
I was thinking of you a lot today and this is what I wrote.
Fighting the unknown
Not willing to give in
Striving to be better
To bad he didn't win
But even with this lose
I have much to gain
For I saw his True and Devoted
While he endured so much pain
Only a Father could fight so hard
And go through so much
Only to have more time
More time to so he loved his children so much
My Dad is a man that will be missed more than he could of ever realized. he was the person that, even thought, it happened almost unnoticed, he made a large impact on every ones lives. With a strong voice and mind he was still able to be subtle with many aspects in his life. I hope and pray that I can be half as smart, strong and selfless, as he was, for my daughter. Rest In Peace Dad. And soon i will see you in Heaven and you can meet Kristina (his first grandchild). I love you always and forever.
I also want to say thank you to all the love, prayers and support from all of our friends and family. I just want you all to know that it didn't go unnoticed or unappreciated. thank you so much and please continue to add little memories and not in this special book. it means a lot to us. thank you again for being her for all of us. May God bless you all.
Jennifer Kent
August 1, 2006
Tough Skin
Strong Mind
Caring Heart
Open Eyes
That is my Dad
Hard Worker
Loving Father
Devoted Husband
Caring Brother
That is my Dad
Strong Hands
Eager Spirit
Determined Fighter
Eternal Love
That is my Dad
My Dad had the Determination of a Lion, the Love of a Father, and the Faith of a Child
That is my Dad
I am proud to say that He is MY DAD!!
By (me) Jennifer Kent
July 28, 2006
Kathy Gautreaux
July 2, 2006
Dear Friends, and Family,
My children and I would like to thank you for your kind words of sympathy and encouragement. Brad's illness was a devastation to our family. He was what made our family complete. There is now a quietness and a loss that will always be there until we see him in heaven. Please continue to keep us in your prayers. Our children are having a hard time, especially Kaitlin, age 5, and Connor, age 3. They do not understand why Brad's doctors could not make him well. They also do not understand why God is not waking Brad up because he looked asleep at the funeral, or why God is not coming and taking us to heaven. Every prayer is for God to come soon because they miss their Daddy. They tell God it's already been too long, and yet it's been 8 weeks. They tell God how sad we all are. I pray for wisdom as I have to make decisions for them without having Brad here to help me. Your stories about Brad have made us smile. Please continue to remember us in prayer. If you would like to email us directly, our email address is: [email protected]. Thank you again for your love and support. Kathy and Kids
(Jennifer, 23, Bradley, 18, Matthew, 17, Brandon, 12, Jonathan, 9, Kaitlin, 5, Connor, 3)

Brad & I in March of 2005
Hank Gautreaux
June 22, 2006
I would like to echo my sister's sentimments in expressing my appreciation for the wonderful outpouring of love for Brad here as well as at his service.
Brad, you are one of the strongest people I have ever known, both physically and mentally. And, quite simply, you are the best person I know. You always seemed to make the right choices in life and I always admired that. You have lived the most selfless life I know of, always sacrificing for your family. I have always been and am SO very proud of you, so proud to be your brother!
They say the candle which burns brightest, burns shortest. Your light burned so very brightly into so many lives. The depths at which you will be missed are immeasurable.
I know you are shining brightly before God now. Happy Birthday, my brother. I look forward to seeing you, too!

With his older boys in thier younger years
June 22, 2006

The Family Man
June 22, 2006

Graduation receiving his diploma from our Dad & Deep in thought in a Chess game
June 22, 2006

a High School pic and a prom pic
June 22, 2006

The younger years - always the ideal older brother!
June 22, 2006
Garnet Gautreaux
June 22, 2006
I would first like to thank everyone for the kind words written about my brother; it is comforting to know how well liked and respected he was. Brad was a extraordinary person who gave selflessly throughout his livetime, and in doing so touched so many lives in such a positive way. He has always been an inspiration to me because of his strength and courage, which was even more evident over the past couple of years. I will miss him tremendously! Today would have been his 50th birthday and I hope that he has finally found peace. Happy Birthday Brad.
Paul Hyatt
June 7, 2006
Dear Kathy and Children,
It has been many years since I last visited with Brad and I was so saddened to hear of his illness and passing. I regard him as one of the brightest people I have ever known. Brad was the company man on my first rig with Chevron in 1981 in False River and I could not have had a better example to follow. I will always remember how dedicated he was and how he was always outside checking on the rig and how things were coming along - he was tireless. And I have loved chicken and sausage gumbo ever since he made that first batch on the rig! It's still my favorite of all.
He will truly be missed in Chevron and in the industry and by all those that had the pleasure of knowing him. May God bless you all and give you strength in this very difficult time.
Chris James
June 1, 2006
Kathy and Children,
Our sympathy and prayers are with you. Please be comforted by the knowledge that Brad was very proud of each of you. Over the 26 years that I have known and worked with Brad, you were always his 1st priority, and he spoke dearly of you often. Live your lives knowing that he is now looking over you from above, and is still desiring for each of you to make the best of yourselves, just as he did while he was here on Earth.
Your husband and father was an honorable man who was high on common sense, who spoke his mind, and stood up for the right things in life. He impressed many people in our workplace with his logic, his honesty, and his ingenuity. I'm sure he did the same on the home front.
To the children, your father is someone that you might not have always agreed with, but you should positively know that each one of his children's future well being was his genuine concern. Although we all will sadly miss him, you must carry forth his worthy determination to ensure that you live your lives to continue to make your parents proud of you, and with faith in the Lord. You have our hopes and prayers to continue your father's honorable legacy.
Wes Lohec
May 19, 2006
I worked with Brad in our early careers in New Orleans and then reconnected with him in Angola/DRC. As others have commented, Brad was a uniquely capable Petroleum Engineer - always creative and seeing oppurtunity where others did not. But more importantly he was a wonderful person who will be missed greatly. I offer my prayers and condolences in this time of grief to Brad's family.
Nicole Reyes
May 18, 2006
I'll miss uncle Brad. He was a great person to get into a discussion with. He left an impression on everyone he met and he will be missed by many!
Eric Myers
May 18, 2006
I knew Brad through his brother Hank and had met him only a few times throughout the last 20 some odd years. I can say, however, he was a true person. One of those people you meet and immediatly recognize your own shortcomings. I am not just saying that because it sounds like a cool thing to say at a time like this. I did not know Brad very well, but I know that feeling I get when I meet someone that is either better than me, or better in enough ways for me to step back and say " I need to be more like him". I have only met a few people like that in my life, and a couple of them were in the Gauteaux family.
Hank Sr. did a good job and this world has lost one of its good guys in Brad.
Matthew Gautreaux
May 16, 2006
Dad, You were truely the strongest person I have ever known. I am more the happy and proud to share your blood in my veins! I miss you so much Dad. Love,
Matthew
Kelly Walters
May 15, 2006
Uncle Brad will be missed by all. I know he will NEVER be forgotten. He would be so proud of Matthews poem, Jennifers speech and to see how much he was loved at his funeral by ALL.
Vicky Jarreau
May 15, 2006
I met Brad almost 2 years to the day of his death. I got to know him very well while giving him chemotherapy. We had enumerable conversations about the "fungus link" and he was convinced of the theory. I will say Brad made a big impression on me. He was very smart, kind, and I don't think he ever gave up. We will all miss him and pray that his entire family will have peace during this time.
Mark Malhiot
May 15, 2006
I know that words are inadequate to express the sorrow we all have at losing such a fine man. Knowing Brad mainly through his siblings, I still feel the pain through them, knowing how loved he was and much he will be missed. What a fighter! He is certainly someone whose life I hope to emmulate and who even taught me an important lesson about handling illness, and, ultimately, our mortality. May God bless and keep you, Brad.
Carmen Gautreaux
May 13, 2006
Kathy,
It must be conforting to know that he had his parents waiting for him in heaven. I know from my own personal experience what sorrows you must be feeling at this time. For the short time I knew Brad he was a very fine and kind man that made his father very proud. My thoughts & prayers are with you and your family at this time.

Turkey Fry
Dave McHugo
May 12, 2006
The time that I spent with Brad in Cabinda and Muanda will remain fondly in my memories forever! He was, to say the least, an out of the box thinker. He was always a driven force to be contended with no matter if we were working on a social project for the community or some obscure engineering thoughts – with Brad normally beating you down with facts and logic. I will dearly miss him. I attached a photo of Brad cooking one of the many turkeys that he was so famous for.
Sylvester Jombai
May 12, 2006
Brad, Oh! what a life is this? Gone too soon!
I worked with Brad in PNG and DRC, his hard work and team effort will always be remembered.
To the family, please accept our sympathy, we pray that God gives you the grace to bear this great loss.
Terry Hurst
May 12, 2006
I worked with Brad in the Congo (DRC) for a little over 3 years. Brad was a good friend and colleague. He was an excellent production engineer and a good problem solver.
I have received emails from several of our former Congolese colleagues. They wish to express their deepest sympathies to Brad's family and friends. Their heart's go out to all of you.
I also want to express my deepest sympathy to Brad's family. Brad will be missed by all that knew him.
Bill Crouch
May 11, 2006
Brad and I worked together in the DRC for a couple of years. He was a dedicated employee and added much value to our organization. It was great to have known him.
René Cook
May 11, 2006
I also had the great pleasure and memorable life experiences of working with Brad in West Africa. I will always remember the great Mosquito eratication experiement in the DRC. My condolence and blessings to family and friends.
Raymond Getman
May 10, 2006
Brad and I woked togather in the DRC and I really enjoyed him. We had a lot of good times there. I sure will miss talking to him.

Brad on rig in Brazil in 1983
May 10, 2006
Pierre & Marlene Djunga
May 10, 2006
Very sorry to learn about the loss. Brad lived a cleaned life among us in the Democratic Republic of Congo. We pray that God comfort his family according to His word: His relieveth the fatherless and widow; A father of the fatherless, and judge of the widows.
PSALMS 68 & 147.
Holland Martin
May 10, 2006
Brad and I worked closely together for Chevron in the DRC. I very much enjoyed his company and respected his ability as a PE. I wish to express my deepest condolances to his family over their loss of such a fine man.
Ben Scarborough
May 9, 2006
Brad and I worked together in Malongo and DRC. I was most impressed by his uncanny ablilty to work thru difficult problems, his honesty and of course his fried turkey.
He will be missed.
Stanley Palmer
May 9, 2006
Kathy & Kids:
I had the pleasure of working with Brad in Angola, Papua New Guinea and DRC. In my 29 years in the oilfield I have never worked with a better Petroleum Enginer nor think I'll ever will.
As a human being he was a great individual, totally unassuming and down to earth. I'll sure miss the challenging conversations we had as to how to make some more oil.
As others mentioned, I too remember his famous fried turkey, I contributed by getting all the ingredients and then enjoyed watching him prepare and cook it.
May he rest in peace and may the Lord provide you with the strength to carry on.
John Wilkinson
May 9, 2006
Brad and I worked together in DRC, and enjoyed our working hitch together. At weekends we go out sailing and fishing.
I will miss a really close friend.
Peter & Maxine Palmer
May 9, 2006
We are so sorry to hear that Brad has lost his battle. From his uncle we have heard how hard it has been and we know he is in a better place. We had the pleasure of knowing Brad as both a child and Chevron employee.
Love and Prayers,
A. J. Sommers
May 9, 2006
I worked with Brad in the early 80's and I have nothing but fine memories of him. May God comfort you and your family; may His peace be with you.
Rick Jones
May 8, 2006
Kathy, so sorry to hear of your loss.
I worked with Brad in different places around the world at Chevron including New Orleans, False River, PNG, and Cabinda. He was a great guy. He loved to cook his famous Cajun fried turkey at the different locations and it was a treat to see the how much the locals and the expats in the countries enjoyed it. He shared the recipe with many folks so they could go home and cook it for their friends and family.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Anna Monica
May 8, 2006
Brad and I worked at Chevron together and I always think of him when somebody gets a traffic ticket. He was thorough and clever and proved he was not the guilty party when he got one. His cleverness is one of my fondest memories. My deepest sympathies.
Jack Combes
May 8, 2006
May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well-lived.
Don Corwin
May 8, 2006
Brad, I enjoyed working with you in Angola and other places around the world. Special thanks for introducing this hillbilly to Cajun cooking. The fried turkey has become a family tradition! Those you met will not forget you. Our deepest condolences to your family.
Hal Gould
May 8, 2006
Kathy, we'll be praying for you and for the kids.
Hal & Charlene Gould
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