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Reeta Sanatani Obituary
SANATANI, Dr. Reeta (nee Mookerjee) March 03, 1938 February 07, 2008 Reeta passed away courageously in her home on February 7, 2008. Born and raised in Kolkata, Reeta studied Economics at the University of Calcutta. While pursuing her Masters degree she met her former husband Sunoy Sanatani and together they travelled to Germany to pursue graduate studies. Her daughter Suromitra was born in 1963 and her son Shubhayan in 1967. In 1968 the family moved to Sudbury and Reeta continued her German studies at McGill University completing her PhD in 1979. Reeta, Suromitra and Shubhayan lived in Montreal until 1978 and a lifelong friendship with Johannes was forged, prompting a later move to Victoria. She held a number of positions in Victoria and Vancouver including in the public service and teaching. Reeta made a home of her own and lived independently with great spirit and determination despite advancing Parkinson's disease in later years. Reeta is survived and greatly missed by Shubhayan (Kim) and Suromitra (David), an extended and close family in India and friends around the world. Her granddaughters Emma and Gabrielle will always remember their Thakuma taking them on a trip to India. Reeta was a kind and caring person who inspired and mentored so many people. Her volunteer work benefited thousands as she worked to create the best for others. Donations in Reeta's memory can be made to the Victoria Epilepsy and Parkinson's Centre. Private memorial for the family with celebration of life on June 7th. Details will be forthcoming. 443772
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for Reeta Sanatani
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Carolyn Kornatz
June 7, 2008
Thinking of Reeta, especially today and am glad to discover this guest book is still open!
It was autumn of 1970 when I first met her in a night school class while we were both studying French in Sudbury Ontario! She noticed that I had a Baha'i book on my desk and being her open, curious and friendly self, she invited me to talk about it to "a few friends who could use this" at her home.
I had just discovered Baha’i a few months earlier myself but since there are no clergy in the Bahá'í Faith, I accepted her invitation. To my surprise, her "few friends" were a houseful of women who were either married to university professors or teaching themselves or both!
I came away from that evening with the enduring friendship of not only our dear Reeta but of Heidi Lakshman who, like her, has spent her life serving humanity. Our teachings say "to be a Baha'i simply means to love all the world; to love humanity and try to serve it; to work for universal peace and universal brotherhood". Because of Reeta’s caring initiative, we are sure that all three of us will forever be sisters in spirit.
I am looking forward to joining you in celebrating her life today.
Lynne Tolland
March 2, 2008
I was saddened to learn of the passing of Reeta. We met in 1992 in Victoria at the home of Johannes for Christmas. Reeta was very welcoming with her smile and her heart. A lovely and talented woman indeed. My condolenses to the family.
Mira Buchheit
February 26, 2008
My Dear Suromitra and Suvayon,
Our families were close friends back in Sudbury, when you two were children and I was still a girl. Both my mom and I used to babysit you both, but you may remember my mom more than me (Alo mashi) Your mother's twinkling wit, quick discernment, and shining intelligence were points of light for all of us who knew her. My heart goes out to you and your families, for that immediate, sharp stab of loss that I felt on learning Rita mashi is no longer here to lend us her light, is of course magnified so intensely for all of you. My heart goes out to you, as does all of my sympathy.
Miradi
Roy Lechner
February 21, 2008
heartfelt condolences to Reeta's family and friends,
her presence, her wit, her humanity will be missed
carmen smith
February 19, 2008
Dearest Suramitra,Shu, and families,
I feel as if I have been hit in the heart with sadness. I wish you all my deepest condolences on the passing of your dear mother, mother-in-law and grandmother.
Reeta came into my life as a cherished professor who encouraged and supported this disorganized newcomer to Victoria. The following years blessed me with her friendship, kindness, wisdom, and incredible courage. Reeta loved you all so much. She adored her beautiful grandchildren and obviously held her children's lives as treasures in her heart.
This wonderful woman brought so much joy to countless people. My love to you all in this difficult time. Carmen, Emma and Justin Smith
Patricia Morris
February 18, 2008
My condolences to Reeta's family for their loss.
I first met Reeta in the early 1990s at one of those huge unwieldy B.C. Government interministerial meetings.
She was focused and outspoken, and I admired her spirit.
Later she became a highly valued and delightful colleague at the former Ministry of Women's Equality.
Reeta's warmth, humanity, love of life, depth of knowledge and sense of humour have been an inspiration.
Shirley Avril
February 18, 2008
Reeta, a tiny figure in colourful silks, she was bright flashpoint in every group. Always positive, she found a way to highlight the good in everyone and acknowledge the contributions of others, no matter how slight. She had a crystal sharp vision of a world where difference was respected and treasured yet she never flinched from naming discrimination and inequality where she saw or experienced it. May we keep her vision in our hearts and follow her example of living life with the purpose of greater good.
Rita Frischkopf
February 18, 2008
Dear Suromitra and Shu,
You may remember me from our time in Montreal in the seventies when your Mom and I were at McGill and I sometimes looked after you. I have very fond memories of all of you! I developed a dear relationship with your mother during our student years. She was an absolutely remarkable woman and had many outstanding human qualities. Even though I have been living on another continent for over 30 years, I often fondly thought of your mom. I would like to extend my heartfelt sympathies to your and your families.
Rita Frischkopf
Vercorin
SWITZERLAND
Val Sharp
February 16, 2008
I can't tell you how sad I was to learn that my lovely friend Reeta had passed away. I met Reeta eight years ago through toastmasters and we became good friends. She was responsible for me becoming a mentor for Leadership Victoria as well.
I will remember Reeta for her spirit, her warmth, her intelligence, and her courage. She is an inspiration to me even though she is no longer with us. Reeta always made me feel that I was special and had a lot to offer the world. I know she made others feel the same way. She had the ability to inspire and bring out the best in people. The world is a better place because Reeta was in it, and I miss her terribly.
Eileen Wiedeman
February 16, 2008
If Toastmasters were to write a definitive article on Dr. Reeta Sanatani, it would be a lenghty one. From 1989-91 she mentored the newly formed "Birdcage Club" which seemed to have a special place in her heart. For years later, when we were celebrating our achievements at year end, you could count on Reeta to be in attendance. She also mentored "Sierra Victoria TM Club" and countless individuals. She was a member of "Context Shifters" as well as the advanced club "Master Motivators", and was always active in Toastmaster circles.
Reeta achieved DTM (Distinguished Toastmaster) - TM's highest level of distinction. She was the last Division 'A' Governor (1998-99) to serve all clubs on Vancouver Island for which she was chosen the District's "O/S Toastmaster of the Year". She was a YWCA Woman of Distinction and has been featured in magazine articles as well as the local Times Colonist newspaper. She actively promoted as well as participated in the annual walk to raise funds for Parkinson's disease.
Easily recognizable in a beautiful sari, Reeta was an inspiration to many and will be greatly missed.
Ian Scott
February 14, 2008
The Sanatani family,
It was a pleasure to spend time with Reeta, be challenged and inspired. Her memory will remain with me and I will think of her on many occasions. She was so excited about her last trip to India and I'm glad she made it one more time. Thoughts and condolences to her family.
Sincerely, Ian Scott
Heather Kirkham
February 14, 2008
My condolences to Reeta's family. For many years, we knew each other through our roles on the Board of IPAC Victoria. More recently, we crossed paths through Leadership Victoria. These are just two of the organizations to which Reeta contributed her energy. She will be missed.
Roy Chitwood
February 14, 2008
Reeta -
The things we do for ourselves die when we die. The things we do for others live on forever. You will be with many of us until we, too, pass on. Thank you for your contribution to the world.
Edie Copland
February 14, 2008
One of the most positive and wonderful people in my life. I was thrilled last month when I received my citizenship certificate and Reeta was the first person I saw as I walked away. Her big hug and warm smile will stay with me forever. She brought love and strength to everything she touched.
Mona McClelland
February 14, 2008
I was priviledged to meet Rita in 1999, when I moved to Victoria. Her friend Gregg Meiklejohn, who spoke highly of her and admired her greatly, introduced me to her.
As a beautiful and proud woman she was concerned with how she presented herself and I feel honoured that I was able to help her in my way with my skills as a hairstylist. As I coifed her soft hair she would enlighten me with her humour and stories of her life. I will never forget her grace, charm and kindness to me and my children.
My deapest sympathies to all those who love her and miss her.
Gregg Meiklejohn
February 14, 2008
Reeta has been my friend since 1987 when we met at a personal growth retreat. Since then she has cajoled, poked, teased and moved me to greater heights in my life and am forever grateful for her teaching, coaching and wisdom. Near the end of her life, it was tough for me to see her in her body. And I guess I regret not spending more time with her in recent times. My sense is Reeta really didn't want to be in her body at the end, Mr Parkinsons' as she called her condition. What blew me away was how she seemed to transcend her situation and was kind of like a big spirit. I have loved Reeta as a friend and will always miss her , but am sure she's somewhere enjoying herself immensely. My heartfelt sympathies go to you all. We'll see you at the memorial whenever that may be...Gregg Meiklejohn
Patricia Wilkinson
February 13, 2008
Suromitra & family:
So sorry to hear of your mother's passing. I did not know her of course, but reading the lovely notice in the Times Colonist was inspirational. I can see that she will live on in you. Thank you for letting the whole community know about the life of this special woman. You are in my thoughts.
Iolanda Millar
February 13, 2008
Dear Surmi,
So sorry to hear about your mom; she was obviously a remarkable woman and will be much missed. I just wanted to extend my deepest sympathies to you and your family.
With condolences,
Iolanda
paul pallan
February 12, 2008
Dear Suromitra and Shu--it was with profound sadness that Elka and I learned of Reeta's passing. Reeta was an amazing person who had an impact on so many lives. In addition to her family and friends, she was a true champion for those who often did not have the advantages that we all enjoy. We will miss you Reeta but never forget you.--Paul Pallan and Elka Nowicka.
Sukrit Sanatani
February 12, 2008
Dear Aunty Reeta,
hope you have arrived well at whereever you are now. I remember you fondly. May the subtle attachment I feel for your children, my cousins, be felt by them on a simalar level as I am talking to you. I have no worldy words for them at the moment. Is it true that death is never a problem for the person who has died? And may this comfort those who are in grief over a loss?
Heather Sheffield
February 12, 2008
To the Sanatani Family,
I worked at BC House in Ottawa during the late 1980's when your mother was on an educational leave there. I will always remember her spirit and strength. I recall the story she told with humour of moving her young family to Victoria because she could not afford the boots needed for a Montreal winter.
One memorable evening, my husband and I were treated to a delicious Indian meal which she prepared at the home of her hosts. She was such a gracious lady.
My sincere sympathy is extended to you at this very sad time.
Pat Nichol
February 12, 2008
To a strong soul that carried so many on her tiny shoulders, you will be missed. It is with love and respect that I send you on your way. Good to know that we now have an advocate on the other side.
Ron Kuwahara
February 11, 2008
I remember Reeta's passion for humanity and her great humour during our days in Toastmasters a decade ago. Our condolences to the Sanatani family.
Barbara Sellick
February 11, 2008
My love, and prayers are with all of you at this sad time and always.
Carolyn Kroeber
February 11, 2008
Dear Surmi,
I was so sorry to hear of the loss of your mother. It is clear that she was a very special person who had a real flair for life. Please accept my sincere condolences.
Kathie Owen
February 11, 2008
My heart aches for you. The dimming of Rita's light is a loss shared by us all, but surely felt most acutely by you. If I can help shoulder the burden, even a little, you need only ask.
Maureen Matthew
February 11, 2008
My deepest sympathy for loved ones who grieve. Reeta has been a teacher in my life for 15 years as she journeyed with her Parkinson's experience. She taught me much about the strength of the human spirit and the courage to reach out for help when we need it. Reeta had loving compassion for others with health challenges as she cared very deeply for those with Parkinson's. She was so giving of herself and always had a word of appreciation and respect for those whose lives she touched. And so dear Reeta, may you know that you dwell in my heart and I will never forget your warmth, your kindness, your courage and your lessons of love.
Love, Hugs & Namaste, Maureen Matthew, Parkinson Program Coordinator
brian marson
February 11, 2008
Reeta, Suromitra and Shu
The world has lost a great soul. Reeta touched the lives of so many of us in Canada and around the world, and in that way part of her lives on within us all.
It was a joy to know her and work with her on so many projects, both in the BC Government, and in the Community. Also through Reeta I have had the privilege of knowing Suromitra and Shu, of whom she was justly so proud.
I join with others in mourning her passing but also giving thanks for her life on our earth.
Brian Marson
Ottawa
Les and Mary Foster and Virtue
February 11, 2008
It is hard to comprehend that Reeta has left us in body, but we know her soul lives on in so many different ways. She made important contributions in her several jobs in the BC public service. She will be missed by family and friends alike. For some reason or other I was thinking of her while in Paris a few days ago. Now I know why.
Paromita Sanatani
February 10, 2008
From my earliest days (age 1+) my Aunty Reeta was among my favourite aunts. A beautiful,loving and energetic woman, I always looked up to her and grew to admire her courage, commitment and dedication. I am so happy that last April my young family was at last able to meet her and we will always treasure the lovely time we had with her. My family share my grief at having lost such a dear and special aunt. Thank goodness for the lovely memories.We will miss you terribly.May you rest in peace.
Dr Supratik Sanatani
February 10, 2008
We fondly remember her last visit to Kolkata , India when on December 16th 2007 she could spend a pleasant afternoon with her extended Indian family.
lori webber
February 9, 2008
My thoughts are with Reeta's family. I worked with Reeta in the Provincial Gov't years ago when I was a co-op student. She was so loving and gracious, a great mentor. She had a bunch of the students for dinner and cooked us an Indian supper once. She spoke of her son and daughter often and was so obviously proud of them. What a wonderful person. I feel blessed that I met her.
Lorna Jaster
February 9, 2008
I was so sad to hear of Reeta's death, I will miss her wit and good humour that she managed to maintain through the worst of times as well as the best. I learned such a lot from her...
Lorna Jaster - friend
Irene Pitt
February 9, 2008
Suromitra & Family,
Regards to you all in this difficult time. I will miss Reeta very much, however, will treasurer the many times we shared together. Last Sunday we went to a Sunday matinee movie together on the spur of the moment, as we often did. After the movie, I heard all about her trip to India with you and David over our usual cup of Tim Horton’s, apple strudel and lots of laughs. Reeta was a very dear friend. Know that I am thinking of you and your family. Sincerely, Irene Pitt
Danielle Pratt
February 9, 2008
I still remember the first day I met Reeta in the 1970's - she was clad in a sumptuous sari, speaking fluent German, and presiding over a quintessentially German "Kaffee-klatsch" - or German afternoon tea - complete with decadent German cakes that she had of course made herself - and "mit" mountains of the requisite "Schlag", or whipped cream. It was also of course the first day of a lifelong, cherished friendship with my beloved friend Surmi. Reeta unfailingly greeted me with open arms, great warmth, and of course her trademark mischievousness. That twinkle in her eye lives on in both Surmi and Shu. Reeta is greatly missed, yet leaves behind a legacy of love, fun, and learning that has always been a joy to behold. She is the embodiment of the harmony that exists in a true multicultural Renaissance Canadian... not to mention so meaningfully connected in her Indian culture... fluent in French, German, English... and always savvy to the latest in Canadian contemporary culture. She will be greatly missed... with tremendous gratitude for the many happy memories together, and for so deeply enriching our lives. With love and our heartfelt condolences from Danielle, Tim, Isabelle, and Elena Pratt, Calgary
Peter and Lanyan Forster
February 9, 2008
Reeta; your spirit and enthusiasm for life, even through all your hardships, will be greatly missed. The love and generousity you spread amoung your friends and family is still with us and will now be treasured even more.
Diara and Paul Baumgartner
February 9, 2008
To the Sanatani family.
Reeta will be greatly missed.
Our condolences to all of you during this time of sadness.
Sincerely,
Anneli Driessen
February 9, 2008
It's impossible to describe the sadness I feel.
We have been friends - and I mean real FRIENDS - for nearly 30 years.
You touched the core of thousands of individuals through your courage, compassion, dedication, determination, commitment, etc., etc., but most importantly: your love and faith.
Thank you, Reeta!
Joan Verwoord
February 9, 2008
Our thoughts and prayers are with your family. We have lost a dear friend and mentor. Reeta would not want us to be sad because she never asked for sympathy ever. Joan, Roselynn and Abhishek, Victoria and Delhi
Veronica Osborn
February 9, 2008
As a former colleague of Reeta's, I want to honour her memory and acknowledge her many contributions to the BC public service and to her community. Sincere condolences to Reeta's family and many friends.
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