Joseph Buhagiar

Joseph Michael “Joey” Buhagiar, 70, passed away on December 28, 2025, in Antelope, California. Joey’s life was a testament to love, faith, perseverance, and service. Born on October 11, 1955, in San Francisco, California, Joey was the beloved son of Francis Xavier Buhagiar, originally of Gozo, Malta, and Evelyn Clara Sultana. He grew up in the Visitacion Valley neighborhood alongside his four siblings.

He was preceded in death by his parents; his sister, Rosemary; sister- and brother-in-law Suzanne and Steven; mother-in-law Leone; and many extended family members.

He is survived by his loving wife, Madeline; his children and their spouses, Gregory and Kate, and Teresa and Mike; his five grandchildren, Taylor, Deanna, Leo, Laney, and Dylan; his siblings and their spouses, Ann and Flemming, John and Sue, Michael and Joanne, and his two brothers in law, Steve and Michael; his father-in-law, Harold; as well as numerous godchildren, cousins, nieces, nephews, co-workers, and friends.

From a young age, Joey demonstrated a deep sense of responsibility and compassion. He served as an altar boy and worked as a lifeguard during his youth. His commitment to excellence and service was further reflected when he earned the rank of Eagle Scout—an achievement that would shape his character and guide his actions throughout life.

Joey’s passion for food and hospitality led him to study culinary arts at San Francisco City College. His career began in the kitchen of McArthur Park Restaurant. In 1984, he opened and co-owned Harris’ Steakhouse in San Francisco after opening Harris’ Ranch Restaurant for the Harris' years earlier—establishing himself as a respected figure in the Bay Area culinary scene. His entrepreneurial spirit continued as he opened multiple restaurants across Marin and Sonoma Counties.

In 1974, Joey met the love of his life, Madeline “Maddie,” on a blind date arranged by her best friend Marsha. Their bond was immediate and enduring. They were married on August 20, 1977, at St. Anne of the Sunset Church in San Francisco. They later moved to Novato, California, where they raised two children, Greg and Teresa, who were the center of their world.

Joey was a devoted father who prioritized time with his children above all else—coaching youth sports teams and creating cherished memories through annual family camping trips and vacationing in Hawaii.

Later in life, health challenges prompted Joey to shift careers. Adaptable and resilient, he transitioned into roles as a meat and wine salesman before finding a lasting home at Creative Energy Corporation. There, he spent 23 years excelling in retail, store management, and customer service—always bringing warmth and dedication to every interaction. In 2000, Joey settled in the Sacramento area with his family.

One of Joey's greatest joys was becoming “Jojo” to his five grandchildren. He shared with them his love for cooking and passed down life lessons that will remain with them forever.

A man of deep faith and humility, Joey lived by example—quietly guiding others with wisdom and compassion. A true servant of the Lord, he was always ready to help those in need. He was known for his gentle soul and kind heart, and for being the best listener; those who met him felt seen, valued, and uplifted by his presence. He lived with strong integrity, standing for what was right and embracing each day with purpose.

Joey had a remarkable gift not only with people but also with craftsmanship. Whether it was fixing something with his hands or solving problems with calm determination, he approached every challenge with grace. Everyone could count on Joey. His work ethic was inspirational—marked by reliability, loyalty, and selflessness.

Throughout his life’s trials—including many health battles—Joey remained grateful for every blessing. A pivotal moment came during a spiritual pilgrimage to Lourdes, France—a journey that deepened his faith and offered healing beyond the physical. As his illnesses progressed in later years, he fought valiantly to remain present for those he loved most—with Maddie’s unwavering care beside him every step of the way.

To many beyond his immediate family, Joey was a role model and father figure whose quiet strength shaped lives in profound ways. His legacy lives on through each life he touched—the lessons he taught by example and the love he gave so freely.

A Rosary will take place at 10:30 a.m., followed by a Funeral Mass at 11:00 a.m., with a Celebration of Life to follow at St. Clare Catholic Church in Roseville, CA, on February 9, 2026.

Joey was grateful for the care and support of his long-time doctors. In lieu of flowers, the family invites you to consider a donation in his memory to the National Multiple Sclerosis Society, American Diabetes Association, American Heart Association, or organizations supporting dementia or cancer research.

May Joey's memory be a blessing to all who knew him—and may we honor him by living with the same kindness, courage, faithfulness, and heart that defined his extraordinary life.