Nicholas (Nick) Joseph Silveira, age 39, was taken from us in a tragic accident on Saturday, January 17, 2026. There are no words big enough to fully express the heartbreak of losing a man who brought so much love, laughter, and light into the lives of everyone around him.
Nick is survived by his beloved wife, Annie Silveira (Bollinger); his adoring children, Carter and Samantha Silveira; his parents, Jeff and Carol Silveira; his sister, Heather Silveira; his father-in-law, Mike “Gramps” Bollinger; and many loving extended family members and friends.
Nick was born on June 10, 1986, in Monterey, California, and was raised in Pacific Grove. From the moment he came into the world, he was a character—full of personality and joy. Growing up, Nick was active in many sports and was a standout football player at Pacific Grove High School.
Nick loved building and working with his hands. After high school, he began working in carpentry in Sacramento, eventually learning heavy construction and helping build docks, piers, and Navy-related projects in Washington. As the owner of a residential construction business, Nick supported his family and built connections and friendships across town through the homes and projects he crafted with pride.
With his gentle spirit, infectious smile, magnetic personality, perfectly fluffy hair, and a constant sparkle in his eyes, he had a unique way of connecting with people of every age, especially kids. He was a kid at heart, carrying a deep love for the people and families around him. No matter where Nick was, he was often on the verge of a joke or a laugh, and he created and appreciated small moments that made him and the people around him feel at home.
And then there was Annie.
Nick and Annie met through friends, and it didn’t take long for everyone to see that they had something special. They were true soulmates—best friends, partners in crime, and each other’s “home.” Together, they built a beautiful life full of laughter, adventure, and a kind of love people hope for. No one could make Annie laugh the way Nick could. Nick and Annie married on September 2, 2017.
Nick was a devoted husband and a proud, doting father. Whether it was coaching the kids in sports, helping with homework, or teaching them important life skills, he was an incredible dad. He loved his kids fiercely and showed it through big squeezes and deep inhales, as if he were taking in every ounce of them.
Nick’s connections ran deep. He had a special effect on everyone he met, whether they were lifelong friends, contractors he worked with, or someone he’d just met. He introduced people to other people, brought groups together, and made everyone feel included. He was the glue and, often, the peacemaker.
Nick was a son, a brother, an uncle, a husband, a father, a friend, a hard worker, a coach, a confidant, and a truly special person.
We know that all people die, some far too soon, but not everyone truly lives. Nick lived. We will forever remember him as someone whose laughter filled the air and made life feel a little lighter. It was impossible not to laugh with him.
If heaven has country roads, Nick is already on them, taking the scenic route home with the windows down, playing his favorite songs, honking his big train horn, and sharing his unforgettable smile with every soul he meets. That is Nick—impossible not to love, impossible to replace.
A Funeral Mass honoring Nick’s life will be held on Thursday, February 12, 2026, at 12:00 p.m. at Holy Spirit Catholic Church (3159 Land Park Drive, Sacramento, CA 95818). All who knew and loved Nick are welcome to join in honoring his memory.
In lieu of flowers, the family requests that memorial contributions be made to Holy Spirit Parish School.