Patrick Coghlan

Patrick William Coghlan, born on May 9, 1949, in Illinois, and passed away on October 10, 2024, in Nashville, Tennessee. His remarkable life of 75 years was filled with love, adventure, and an enduring legacy that will forever remain in the hearts of those who knew him.

Patrick was a man of many talents and achievements. He proudly served his country in the Army, earning the Purple Heart, Silver Star, and Bronze Star for his bravery and dedication. His intelligence and determination were evident early in life, as he achieved a perfect score on the ACT and went on to attend MIT. Patrick later worked for United Parcel Service for over 28 years, providing for his family with unwavering loyalty and dedication.

A man of diverse interests and passions, Patrick was adventurous and brave. He traveled extensively around the world, earned his private pilot license with an instrument rating, and even owned a Harley Davidson. He had a deep appreciation for sports, cheering on Texas A&M, Notre Dame, the Chicago Bears, and the Chicago Cubs. Patrick also loved exploring national parks and visiting family in Texas and Illinois. He enjoyed playing penny slots for fun, playing computer games, enjoyed fly fishing, reading books, watching Westerns, spending time with his family, and indulging in his mother-in-law's rhubarb pie. He was famous for making his chili and potato salad.

Patrick's love story with his wife Barbara was one of destiny. They met at a community college in Crystal Lake, Illinois when Patrick noticed Barbara with her guitar and asked if she knew the song "If We Only Have Love" by Jacques Brel. It turned out to be a song she had performed to win first place in a Phi Theta Kappa honor society competition. This serendipitous moment marked the beginning of their lifelong journey together. Married for 50 years, they celebrated their golden anniversary surrounded by love.

Patrick was a devoted family man who cherished his role as a husband, father, grandfather, and friend. He leaves behind his beloved wife Barbara Coghlan; two children, Heather Olson and Kevin Coghlan; and five grandchildren: Abbey Olson, Ava Olson, Ainsley Olson (children of Heather), and Beckett Coghlan and Harlow Coghlan (children of Kevin). Patrick's sister Marguerite and brother-in-law Ed also held a special place in his heart, as did many family members and close friends.

Known for his humor and positivity even during challenging times, Patrick brought joy to those around him. Whether making hospital staff laugh during difficult moments or demonstrating emotional strength in the face of adversity, he inspired everyone with his resilience. His motto "I'm a fighter and not a giver upper" exemplified his indomitable spirit.

Patrick's legacy extended beyond his accomplishments; he was the glue that held his family together. He imparted valuable lessons about love, hard work, security, protection, and perseverance to his children and grandchildren. His Irish and German heritage were sources of pride for him, but above all else, he was proud of the love he shared with those closest to him.

A celebration of Patrick's life took place in June 2025 at Barrington's White House in Barrington, Illinois. The event featured Patrick's favorite big band music and St. Louis Blues along with appetizers and a grand dinner buffet planned by his son Kevin Coghlan. The burial prior included a heartfelt tribute speech from his daughter Heather Olson, and a song by granddaughter Abbey Olson, as well as a military gun salute arranged by his son Kevin Coghlan. Patrick was laid to rest at Windridge Memorial Park in Cary, Illinois with an Irish bagpiper honoring his heritage.

There is an Irish tombstone inscription that beautifully states: "Death leaves a heartache no one can heal; love leaves a memory no one can steal." Patrick William Coghlan's memory will forever be cherished by all who were fortunate enough to know him. May his legacy continue to inspire those who loved him most.