Paul Steinmiller

Paul William Steinmiller, 72, of Colchester, Connecticut, passed away peacefully on March 10, 2026 surrounded by his friends and family. Born on May 14, 1953, at the Naval Hospital in Rhode Island, Paul lived a life filled with passion, dedication, and love for his family and friends.

A proud graduate of RHAM High School’s Class of 1972, Paul was an accomplished athlete who held the school’s mile record for over a decade. His love for sports extended throughout his life as he avidly supported the St. Louis Cardinals, New York Giants, and all UConn sports teams. Paul also enjoyed playing softball and darts, excelling in both. He was a Connecticut State Darts Champion in the 1990s and won the Moose International Dart Tournament. His competitive spirit took him to Las Vegas to compete in the Dart Open Championship, where he advanced three rounds. Beyond darts, Paul participated in beard competitions and embraced every opportunity to showcase his talents.

Paul worked as a machinist throughout his career, demonstrating a strong work ethic and dedication to his craft. In retirement, he found immense joy in spending time with his beloved grandchildren. Whether cheering them on at their activities or simply sharing moments together, they were the light of his life.

Paul had a passion for food and was known for his grilling and smoking skills. He loved hosting dinners and sharing meals with those close to him. Before illness limited his travels, Paul and his wife Deborah journeyed across the country for dart tournaments, creating cherished memories along the way.

Paul’s vibrant personality made him unforgettable to all who knew him. With a heart of gold and an infectious sense of humor, he brought joy to every gathering as the life of the party. His excellent sportsmanship and caring nature left a lasting impression on everyone he met.

Paul is survived by his devoted wife Deborah Steinmiller; daughters Ashley Tabor; Roseanna Adams and her husband Carl; Melissa Tabor and her partner Travis Therrien; grandchildren Vanessa, Nikolai, Jeremiah, Evan, Trinity, Gabriel, Eleanor, Travis Jr., and Douglas bonus grandkids Brantley Jayden Angelic; brothers Ward Steinmiller (and partner Wendy) of Starksboro, Vermont; Mark Steinmiller (and wife Sherry) of Lebanon, Connecticut Gary Steinmiller (and wife Kelly) of Port St. Lucie, Florida; Karl Steinmiller (and wife Deborah) of Port St. Lucie, Florida; sisters Marie Bajger (and husband Donald) of Mansfield Center, Connecticut; Tracy Stimson (and husband Tedd) of East Hampton, Connecticut; Linda Putnam (and husband Elliot) of Shelburne, Vermont; as well as 34 nieces and nephews who will fondly remember their Uncle Paul.

He was predeceased by his parents Ward Winfield Steinmiller Sr. and Myrtle Marie Everett Steinmiller.

Paul’s legacy is one of love for family and friends, fierce loyalty to his passions, and an enduring zest for life that inspired all who knew him. May his memory bring comfort to those who mourn his passing.

Please join us to honor the remarkable man Paul was at the Celebration of his Life on May 16, 2026, from 01:00 PM to 06:00 PM at Colchester Fish and Game
16 old town road.