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John Talignani Obituary
"And that's the end," said Talignani's sister, Alice Bertorelli. "And he went down with Flight 93."
Talignani, 74, was a widower and the father of three sons. He worked for 20 years at the Palm Restaurant in Manhattan as a bartender and a steward. His wife of 25 years died four years ago.
On Wednesday afternoon, Bertorelli searched through her brother's apartment, trying to find dental records so her brother's remains might be identified.
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Dominic Zimbardi
September 27, 2024
I hope your family honors you and holds you dear in their memories John. You seemed like a great man, husband, and father. I hope you and your son are reunited in Heaven together. Rest in Peace, Sir.
Gina
September 11, 2021
May his memory be for blessing. I remember you on this day and think of your family and the burden they carry every day. We will not forget.
Katie Hendricks
September 10, 2021
Even all these years later, reading your story and about your life I feel deeply saddened for your loss. My condolences to your family, and for a life cut short.
Jason
August 31, 2021
RIP John. We NEVER forget
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Colin Price
September 30, 2020
John, I was deeply saddened to learn your story as I looked through all of your fellow passengers. You were already saddened, as you were on your way to retrieve your son, your wife had already passed, and you lived through one of the worst wars in history. If it were up to me, you would have been able to pass peacefully, instead of being killed in those attacks. I hope that you can now rest with your wife and son in the afterlife. God rest your soul.
Brayden Galford
September 19, 2019
What happened to this man and every passenger on this flight was a tragedy. My deepest condolences to the family this man clearly cared about so much. What has happened to this man throughout his life is heartbreaking and I will now pray for him sincerely. My thoughts and prayers. Sincerely from me to you.
Brant Taylor
September 19, 2019
John's story personally touched me because, John as a WWII veteran who fought for our country in one of the most gruesome wars of all time, lost his life in a terrorist attack on our own soil. John had defended his country with is a path I have seriously considered. He had retired and was ready for a peaceful end to his life, but did not get the chance. I'd like to thank you John for your service, and may you rest in peace.
Alex
May 25, 2019
Hey John,
It was so ironic that you were killed in the worst tragedy of this century after I learned that your son passed away in San Francisco.
But youre in heaven with him, and thank you for stopping al-Qaeda from successfully achieving a devastating fourth attack on a Washington DC landmark. Be proud that countless lives were saved!
Alexander
The Lucas Family
November 23, 2018
We send our deep sympathy to your family. Years may pass but often the pain doesn't. May God continue to give the help needed to your family. John will be sadly missed.
Kathy
September 11, 2018
Fly High with your Wife and Son! Never Forgotten!!
September 11, 2016
My school principal, Mr. Christopher Zunno was the nephew of this man. My condolences to John,and to my principal. I'm truly sorry Mr. Zunno. My prayers will be with you
Del Newberry
October 19, 2015
What a tragic story. My thoughts and prayers go out to the friends and family who were affected on this horrible day. Much love from Texas.
September 11, 2014
Remembered. May The Lord surround your family with peace.
February 15, 2013
To The Family,
I did not know John Talignani. In reading the obituary, no doubt you have suffered through much tragedy. I would like to extend my sincere condolences to you concerning your losses. God bless you.
Sincerely,
Mr. Terry of NC
September 13, 2011
a special story of a special person with an enormous task in retrieving his deceased son. god bless you and your family always. i hope there have been tears of joy perhaps for new babies for this family since
September 12, 2011
Never forgotten. Life matters ... your was no exception. God Bless
John
September 12, 2011
Rest in Peace
Patricia Sullivan
October 13, 2010
I read of the terrible losses from Sept. 11. I felt chills when I read about John Talignani's story. I am so sorry for all the pain that you and your family have endured. Wishing you peace in God's love.
September 11, 2010
My thoughts and prayers are with you all. My mother was Gloria Talignani Laspino John's 1st cousin.
Giuseppe
September 11, 2010
RIP, paesano
Hutch
September 6, 2010
Just surfed on 9/11 today & came across this site, picked names at random. Great to see these people remembered and able to read info on their lives.
Sincere best wishes to their families and friends, happy memories of your loved ones.
Hutch, Maidstone, Kent UK.
TAMMY MILLER
July 30, 2009
TO THE FAMILY OF JOHN MY THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS GO OUT TO YOU IN YOUR TIME OF NEED AND GRIEF MAT GOD BLESS YOU AND COMFORT YOU THANK YOU JOHN FOR BEING A HERO TO US
Morgan
June 22, 2009
Thank you John....so very much. You are in our hearts forever. What you did will never be forgotten. To prove that, a permanent memorial is being built for you and your fellow passengers. My school raised money to help put this plan into action. Our school motivated schools from across the world to help contribute to the memorial. Thanks for your quick thinking, bravery, and non stop courage. R.I.P ???
kristine
October 23, 2008
As I cross-stitched your name on the memorial that I am doing for all of the victims, I prayed for you and your family. Please know that your death was not in vain. We will always remember. God Bless.
Shandi
September 11, 2008
Thank You
Peggy Childers
September 11, 2008
To the family of John Talignani:
John gave the ultimate sacrifice and will be held in the hearts of Americans forever. My deepest sympathy to you. We must never forget!
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
Karen Langsam
September 11, 2008
To the Zykofsky Family and Mr. Talignani's Family,
I was good friends with Alan in college and remember him speaking so fondly of his loving Mom, step Dad John and his brothers. I was in such shock when I heard that Alan had died on his honeymoon, and then to have the tragedy of John's death on flight 93 as he was flying out to California after the car accident which claimed Alan's life. I am so sad for Valerie, Alan's wife and was in touch with her for a couple of years after I called when I heard of Alan's passing. I sent Valerie some pictures of Alan during our college years but I have never heard back from her. I pray she's doing well. Alan was such a fun- loving, generous, HANDSOME great guy. I'm sure that all 3 Zykofsky boys and their Mom were blessed also to have Mr. Talignani in their lives. Bless all of you, you are ALWAYS in my prayers, not just today on this dreadful anniversary.
PATTIE COOPER
June 12, 2008
TODAY IS 6-12-08 AND SOMETHING CAME OVER TO STEP BACK AND REMEBER 9-11. SO I DID I HAVE BEEN READING ALL DAY!! AND CRYING ALL DAY REMEBERING THAT DAY AND THOSE FEELINGS AND THEN I CAME UPON THIS STORY GOD BLESS THIS AND ALL FAMILYS THAT HAD LOVED ONES THAT BECAME HEROS THAT DAY!!!!!
Jeff Crotty
April 7, 2008
Who says there are no more heros. John Talignani is an American hero and his family knows this better than anyone. His legacy will remain with me forever. Thank you Mr. Talignani.
Colleen
March 12, 2008
Rest in peace
Carole Rensfer
January 21, 2008
Never forget such an interesting man. God bless.
VICTORIA
October 6, 2007
JUST COULDN'T BE A SADDER STORY... R.I.P. JOHN
Sharon
September 9, 2007
In memory..
Debbie , Kenny Coffey
September 9, 2007
You are in our thoughts and prayers.
P Tabbernor
September 1, 2007
In memory....
Leigh Ann Allred
April 28, 2007
Dear Talignani family-
How heartbreaking to read how John's life ended. Here, he was going to claim his son's body who was killed in a car wreck, & then John dies on Flight 93....so so sad. I can't believe that tragic turn of events. It truly breaks my heart. I hope & pray that John is reunited with his deceased son.
God called John home. There's no 2 ways about it. He is in a better place, I'm sure of. No more suffering for him. John is truly an American hero. Thanks for your bravery John. We will NEVER forget.
God Bless,
Adrienne
April 26, 2007
We will never forget...
Chris Bassoo
January 8, 2007
From Chris Bassoo and family...I just saw the A & E movie and our hearts go out to your family (we wanted to send our prayers to every family from this flight)...Our prayers and thoughts are with you...we will never forget..warmest of regards Chris Bassoo (your northern friends)
Erica
September 11, 2006
We will NOT forget! I pray God will bless your family!
Denise Christian
September 11, 2006
John is a true American Hero & will always be remembered on this day & forever by so many of us who will never forget. God Bless His Family!!! Denise, Deanna, Angie & Cristina
Rev. DiAna M. Upchurch
September 10, 2006
Thank you for being an honorable man and may the family of John Talignani continue to be conforted through rough days. We are in remembrance of this dear man.
nick m
March 9, 2006
I want to thank you for being brave even though your life was on the line
Pam Beers
January 13, 2006
Everyone on this flight was, and IS my hero.
Wendy Humphrey-Oertle
March 1, 2005
Out of all the obituaries I read, this one was one of the most touching. Thank You for being one of America's Heros. You will never be forgotten!
Mich Nelson
September 11, 2003
Great Big Mitch and Shari, my thoughts are with you today. Hope to see you soon.
With love, Little Mich
Angelo Talignani
February 21, 2003
I'm Angelo Talignani. I living in Italy and I want to say that John had origine italian. In Italy ther is a country Talignano (Parma).
Thank you very much.
Carmen Lorenzo
February 12, 2003
I never met Mr. Talignani but I did work with his wife Selma years ago. She was a wonderful woman. I know he must have been wonderful too. Its 2-14-03 and to this day, you and your family are on my mind. I'm so sad, there was so much loss in the family, in such tragic ways.
This family will forever be in my prayers. I think of Glen often and pray that God bless him with strength and love. Carmen Lorenzo
LINDA
September 11, 2002
THIS FAMILY HAS TO DEAL WITH DOUBLE TRAGEDY AND GRIEF.ARE THERE WORDS TO COMFORT YOU? you all must be so overwhelmed.I HOPE YOUR FAMILY HAS GREAT FAITH.MAY THE LORD BE WITH YOU.MAY YOUR FAMILY FEEL THE LOVE OF THIS COUNTRY..
June 17, 2002
DEAR GOD SHINE YOUR LIGHT ON THIS WONDERFUL MAN..JOHN TALIGNANI AND MAY HIS SOUL REST IN PEACE WITH GOD AND HIS ANGELS..GOD BLESS HIS LOVING FAMILY AND MANY FRIENDS.GOD BLESS AMERICA..MAY JESUS..ST.JOHN AND MR.TALIGNANIS WIFE AND SON GREET HIM AT THE GATES OF HEAVEN..AMEN
June Casazza
May 14, 2002
Dear Family of John,
I know it is very difficult to lose a loved one, especially like this, but God called him home. His job here was done. He was needed elsewhere, more than here.
My heart breaks every time I even think of 9/11 - but I know that God sent his angels to escort people home. I only pray that he sends me one when my job here is done.
May 11, 2002
MAY THE SOUL OF JOHN TALIGNANI AND THE SOULS OF ALL THE FAITHFULLY DEPARTED THROUGH THE MERCY OF GOD REST IN PEACE..AMEN
May 11, 2002
DEAR GOD SHINE YOUR LIGHT ON THIS WONDERFUL MAN..JOHN TALIGNANI AND MAY HIS SOUL REST IN PEACE WITH GOD AND HIS ANGELS..GOD BLESS HIS LOVING FAMILY AND MANY FRIENDS..GOD BLESS AMERICA...MAY JESUS..JOHNS WIFE AND SON AND ST. JOHN GREET YOU AT THE GATES OF HEAVEN....AMEN
Nathalie Neaves
April 24, 2002
To Mr. Talignani's family and friends:
I wear a MERCY band with John's name on it. I will pray for him, and for you, every day. Though I never met John, I will remember him always. None of us could ever forget.
Angie Campbell
April 21, 2002
May God Bless you and all of the family that you have left behind as well as the ones who went before you. Rest in his loving peace.
Ann Lauria
March 13, 2002
Dear John,
You are in my daily prayers, as is my son, Stephen, your stepson, who was lost in Tower 1 of the WTC on Sept. 11th. It was a double tragedy that day for me, as we were still friends up until the end. I pray that God keeps you in his care.I know that you are in a better place, with your wife, parents and brother - and Steve.
Mary McCarthy
March 6, 2002
Dear John,
Even though I never met you, I feel that I knew you so well through your dear wife, Selma.
Selma & I worked together at two different companies in New York City. Your Son Glenn also worked at one company with us.
Selma always spoke of you John and her three dear boys. I am sure that you are all happy together with the Angels in Heaven.
You and all those on that plane opn that fateful day will be remembered in history for the heroic act of bringing that plane down before its intended target. Countless of lives were spared that day because of you.
I am greiving for all of you, especially for your two sons that are missing their mother and father and brother.
I think of Selma often and remember all the good times we had, and particularly her super dry sense of humor.
God Bless You all. God Bless America.
Mary McCarthy March 6, 2002
Victoria Boire
February 26, 2002
I've read so much about lives filled with promise which were lost on September 11th, but your loss is something beyond all comprehension. Tragedy upon tragedy, upon tragedy. I choose still to believe in a benevolent God, who eventually lifts us all up out of this "valley of tears". Meanwhile, all we can do is struggle on, until, as Thomas More said, "we all meet merrily again in heaven."
May you be reunited with your brother, father, and all those you
love.
Melinda Ortwein
February 25, 2002
Please know that your family is being thought of and will be kept in my prayers.
Sincerely,
Melinda Ortwein
JR RUST
January 25, 2002
Reading through all of the excerts,none struck me as your Dad's and the reason he was on the ill fated flight. My thoughts are with you.
Teresa Jahn
January 12, 2002
We are deeply sorry for our nation's loss of a John. May John's life and love live on in those who love him. I believe God cried deeply when He saw the evil that took the lives of His innocent children before their time. One by one they called His name and He reached for them. They were sheltered and protected from human pain wrapped in His arms. Cradled in His loving arms earthly cries became heavenly songs as angels were born. Our hearts cry with you in America's loss of a hero.
America Cries
We see your sorrow-
and our hearts cry....
We can not erase your pain
but you do not have to face the anguish alone-for we-
-the American people-
are beside you.
We so desperately want to have the touch that brings you comfort,
the strength that gives you courage,
and the words to lighten your spirits.
And when we are left speechless
may the silence of our nation weave love into your hearts
to ease your sorrow.
May you find healing through our nation's strength as we-
-the American people-
face this difficult time together. Our hearts are with you. Teresa Jahn
Dixon, IL
Leah
November 17, 2001
To Mr. Talignani's Family and Friends:
I cannot find the words to express my sorrow for your loss. I read through each of the tributes for those on flight 93, and I was particularly affected by Mr. Talignani's. Each and every person on flight 93 was a true American hero. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
debbie
October 26, 2001
to Johns family and friends, how sad that John had just lost his son, and then for you all to lose him. I know he and the others fought as a family to prevent the plane from reaching its destiny somewhere in Washington. My cousin was also on this flight, and they are died national heroes, My thoughts and prayers go to you all.. sincerely, Debbie
Peggy Rios
October 12, 2001
God Bless you and your family and may the memories you have help you through this most tragic time.
God Bless you
BARBARA BOLIN
October 3, 2001
MY THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS GO OUT TO YOU ALL.MAY GOD BLESS YOU ALL.
JOHN MAY YOU REST IN PEACE.
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