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Greg Ernst remembers Sunday, Sept. 9, when he and his girlfriend, Alicia Titus, had been together for nine months. "It was the first time we told each other we loved each other," he said. Soon after they had started dating, she had told him she demanded happiness. Not from him, but from herself.
Her father, John Titus, said his daughter, 28, who lived in San Francisco, loved parachuting out of airplanes and backpacking alone in Spain and Morocco. He recalled the laughter-filled cross-country trip she took with her mother in a Volkswagen convertible piled full of stuff. Since January 2001, she had enjoyed being a flight attendant. She was on Flight 175 on Sept. 11.
"You could always count on her being in a happy, joyous mood," said her father, who is writing a book about her so other people can know how wonderful she was. And she had a way of making her numerous aunts, uncles and cousins think of themselves as her favorite, Mr. Titus said.
Mr. Ernst knew that her happiness ran deep. "She laughed in her sleep; that was something I really liked," he said, although they never figured out what she was laughing about. "I'd hear her laugh, and say, `Lish, are you sleeping?' and she was asleep."
Profile published in THE NEW YORK TIMES on April 28, 2002.
For Alicia Titus, her new job as a United Airlines flight attendant was a steppingstone to a bigger dream: going back to college to get her teaching credentials.
A native of Ohio, 27-year-old Titus was known by friends as a gregarious and adventurous. She earned a degree in international marketing at Miami University in Oxford, Ohio, where a professor remembered her for her easy smile and hard work.
She worked for several marketing firms in the San Francisco area before taking the job with United in January. Although her United crew was based in Boston, Titus had an apartment in San Francisco and considered the city her home. Friends told the San Francisco Chronicle that Titus had a passion for dancing, beaches and snowboarding.
A victim on Flight 175, she is survived by her parents, John and Bev Titus of St. Paris, Ohio.
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Dan Dames
September 16, 2024
I say the same words I said 23 years ago. We will never forget! These many years later it is still painful and gut wrenching .My prayers continue to go up for Alicia's family and friends
Paul Lee
September 12, 2023
I share my memories of Alicia with others every year.
N.I.
September 11, 2023
Not forgotten.
Darrell James
September 12, 2021
Thinking of you and your family and friends on this very sad time
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Jarrod Harrah
September 11, 2021
Although 20 years have passed, I’m sure the pain and grief experienced by the loved ones you left behind are still as real and raw as it was in the first hour without youI know you are at the right hand of our Heavenly Father & I pray that he wrap his loving arms around your family and give them comfortMay you Rest In Peace Ms. Titusyou and your bravery will never be forgotten!
Sven and family from Dresden
September 11, 2021
Dear Alicia.
Especially today our thoughts are with you and your family. Sweet American girl.
Sven and family from Dresden/Germany.
"Everything that is beautiful remains beautiful, even if it withers. And our love remains love, even if we die."
Maxim Gorky
Aria
March 5, 2021
Dear Alicia Nicole Titus and her family,
I do not have a relation to you guys but I was playing a video game where you have to guess where a certain place is and it came up with the 9/11 museum memorial and it landed right on her name. I'm here to send my condolences. I wasn't alive during this time but I am so sorry that this tragedy happened. I looked more into this and I was interested because we both live in the same place. She lived in San Francisco and so do I. I think it was a lucky coincidence that it landed right on her name. She's also so pretty like how omg. Anyways I'm sending my love to her, she was too young and I hope she is looking over all of you guys and that you still have her in your hearts. Keep celebrating her life, Rest In Love.
- Aria
Kimberly L
February 17, 2021
I don't know why but I feel a special connection to her such a beautiful sole.
N. I.
September 12, 2020
Thinking of you.
Paul Lee
September 11, 2020
Alicia worked at the Sandbar for a short time. I remember her as a sweet, kind, gentle person. Her dream was to be a flight attendant. I wish I could of known her better. She left an impression on everyone she met. We were all shocked to find out she was a victim of 9-11. I am honored to remember her. RIP Alicia.
Tara Myatt (Boyd)
September 11, 2020
I knew Alicia through Delta Zeta at Miami. I remember her as always having a smile that lit up the room. I think of her often especially when I see her name at the 9/11 Memorial. When we visited several years ago, I took a picture. Her name brings tears and reminds me just how precious life is. Alicia truly was a bright, beautiful soul that we lost way too soon.
Darrell James
September 11, 2020
Thinking of Alicia today... thinking of all your family and friends that miss you every day. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Sven and family
January 16, 2020
Dear Alicia.
You are so wonderful, lovely, bright like a spring day, sweet American girl.
In silent memory of Alicia.
A family from Dresden in Germany.
"It's so much darker when a light goes out than it would have been if it had never shone."
John Steinbeck in "The Winter of Our Discontent"
Brandie Siavelis (Malay)
September 11, 2019
Dear Mr. & Mrs. Titus- I was a pledge sister of your daughter Alicia in Delta Zeta at Miami. I was living in Los Angeles at the time and remember like it was yesterday. I think of her often and its hard to believe its been 18yrs. I finally visited the memorial in 2017 and spent time at her memorial space. I wept for her and your family. Gone way too soon. Im so terribly sorry for your loss. My apologies for it taking this long to say so. God bless your family.
Robert Metzcar
September 11, 2019
I wish you could see what your neighbors do for you every yr at your house,,,you was loved.
Nikki I.
September 11, 2019
Every year, and some days in between, I remember you and your family in my prays.
Julie
September 11, 2019
I didnt know Alicia, but I think of her every year. We share a birthday and we had similar goals and experiences. I communicated with her dad a few times many years ago after I had read about her and realized how similar some of our path had been. I always do at least one thing to honor her on our birthday every year.
RIP, Alicia. I know you were going back to school to get your teaching credentials. I finally got mine and I work in a school that I think youd find interesting.
Much love to the Titus family.
Darrell James
September 11, 2019
Remembering and thinking of Alicia today... safe in gods care
July 22, 2019
Its deeply heartbreaking to know youre gone, Alicia. There are no other words to describe the loss of your life. RIP..
Raul Ianes
May 9, 2019
Oh Alicita, you were our daughter Paloma's babysitter while you were at MU in Oxford. You taught Paloma her first English words. We will always remember you, sweet girl.
The Kindred Family
September 30, 2018
Sending our continued deep sympathy to your family for your loss. With each new day may God continue to give you the needed strength and comfort as you try to cope. Alicia touched the lives of others and will always be lovingly remembered.
September 3, 2018
Saying a prayer for you and your family.
Charlene Jones
September 1, 2018
Dear Mr and Mrs Titus..my name is Charlene Marie Jones Flight attendant for American airlines based BOS Logan international airport BOS Massachusetts..please accept my sincere apologies for waiting 17 year's to contact you..it took me until 2006 to visit NYC again..my heart aches as I remember standing there and crying..I still cry..with the 18 anniversary of Alicia passing coming up please know you and your family are in my prayers..Alicia smile and eyes I am sure lite up the whole plane..what a beautiful and brilliant daughter Alicia is to all her family and friends..I honor and salute Alicia for her bravery..commitment and dedication to her career as a flight attendant for United Airlines..I being a crewmember knows we all stand together in unity of one..one special lady Alicia is watching over you..when you are sleeping..having a quiet memory.working please know Alicia is on your shoulder every moment of your lives..my mum in heaven always told me before she passed when I see a cardinal bird..I will know its my mum in heaven bringing me joy and peace along with LOVE and guidance.I DO believe this..being from BOS I see cardinal birds frequently..it grants me joy and happiness for I know she is here with me as Alicia is there with you..also please know Alicia loved being a flight attendant for United Airlines..YOU have to love what you do and flight attendants DO..may you and your family always have tailwinds gently and softly blowing and guiding you slowly forward..God bless you Mr and Mrs Titus..your family and friends forever..when you see the bright light shine on you its Alicia from heaven..always with you and your family and friends..Charlene Marie Jones Flight attendant American airlines BOS Logan international airport BOS Massachusetts
Nikki I.
June 12, 2018
You are remembered. Happy Birthday.
Darrell James
June 11, 2018
Thinking of you Alicia on your birthday. Thinking of you family and all those who love you and miss you every day.
September 12, 2017
Was not available to write on the 11th. You were in my thoughts as well as was your family. Nothing gets easier after sixteen years, but I indeed trust your soul and spirit have been released to soar in a much better place. I am honored to share your name. Peace be with you.
Mike J Titus, Kansas
Darrell James
September 11, 2017
Thinking of Alicia and the Titus family today. My heart is heavy. God bless
Nikki W.
September 11, 2017
Still keeping your family in my thoughts and prays.
Darrell James
June 11, 2017
Thinking of you Alicia, today on your birthday. Always in my thoughts and the people who knew and loved you.
Jane Loormann
September 18, 2016
Peace be with you!
Darrell James
September 15, 2016
I recently visited New York on vacation where I went on a guided tour to the 9/11 memorial. As part of the tour i visited St. Paul chapel.
When reading some of the cards and photos displayed on a table within the chapel, I read a simple but extremely moving tribute to Alicia from Rafael that had an accompanying photo taken on the morning of 9/11.
When I got to the the museum I felt compelled to search for Alicia's name. When Alicia's profile appeared I felt a huge sadness, so much so the sadness has stayed with me even upon my return to the UK. Such a beautiful young lady full of life
Now home I searched Alicia further, and read more information about her life. A life full, with a loving family and some wonderful friends.
I will always think of Alicia when I am ever reminded of the tragic events of that day.
I will never forget.
Safe in god's care
May peace find all who love you.
September 14, 2016
Remembered. May God bless your family with unyielding peace.
September 12, 2016
Thought of you several times yesterday as I tried to process the decade and a half it has been. Though it all surpasses all understanding, the struggle to deal with it never ceases. I take comfort knowing you are in a good and safe place far removed from the moment we can never come to grips with. Bless you and your spirit. May peace be yours and your family's as well.
Mike J Titus
Tammy Navarro
September 11, 2016
Remembering you today.
Leslie
September 9, 2016
I watched the 9/11 movie today and I get so overwhelmed every time I see it or think about it. I just can't imagine. I knew Alicia from Eli and Brandon...they were my best bud's in school. I remember Eli's going away party when he moved to Michigan I was so sad he had to move, and I remember the day of 9/11 like it was yesterday...Brandon and I got home from school that day and I remember him running in my front door crying and trying to grasp for air and telling me Alisha was on the 2nd plane. The pain runs so deep! I felt like family and we definitely lost a very special person. She had a beautiful smile and was always so happy all the time. I am deeply sorry for your loss and I want you to know your always in my thoughts and prayers! I miss you all, God bless!
Darrell James
June 16, 2016
The words left by friends family moved me. Such a beautiful young lady in every way.
Del Newberry
May 2, 2016
We will never forget. Tears stream down my face as I see this young lady and think of the many friends and family who miss her dearly. John, I have just ordered your book and look forward to reading about your journey through the grieving. My prayers are lifted for all of Alicia's friends and family, and may we all honor her legacy by being kind, generous, encouraging human beings to our fellow world citizens. With much love from Texas,
Kevin Titus
April 14, 2016
Alicia Titus,I am Kevin W. Titus of Canaan,CT. I believe your family and mine are related? My late Father C.Sutton Titus,Jr. of NYC had informed in the 1990's ,that we had family in Ohio,and California,where he lived? If we are related,even remotely,I will think of you on reflection each Sept.11th. RIP,God must be careing for you now?
Mike Titus
September 15, 2015
I wasn't available on the 11th but thought of you several times. We never met but share the same name and want to know I hold only the warmest regards and most sincere thoughts and prayers as God and the angels watch over you.
Brandie Malay Siavelis
September 11, 2015
Alicia we were sorority sisters at MU. I was thinking about you this morning as they read the names of those who perished that terrible day. I'm sure there is a special place in heaven for you. Love and prayers for your family as I'm sure the pain never goes away.
Blue
September 25, 2014
Know her Mother & Dad & family misses her & that she will always be remembered & that they will her in their hearts always.
todd ellis
September 18, 2014
i did not know her very well she did go to the same school as i did graham i just mostly stayed to myself i do still wish i had got to know her better she seems to had been a sweet girl and my thoughts and prayers go out to the family and friends
Raul Ianes
September 17, 2014
Alicia baby-sitted for my daughter Paloma in 1993/94 in Oxford. I am Faculty at MU. Alicia taughtPaloma her first words in English. We always remember her. I have a couple of photos of her with Paloma. Sweet, gentle flower, gone too soon.
Marian Holtz
September 11, 2014
I did not know Alicia. Her father worked at a college I attended. I will never forget hearing how he had lost his daughter. Every year on this day I think of this family and pray for them. God Bless you and may Alicia rest in peace.
Mike Titus
September 11, 2014
A word of remembrance on this day. My thoughts of you are frequent. God bless and keep you.
David A
September 11, 2014
I just saw the picture on Fox of your girlfriend and just felt my heart sadden but how strong you have been for all of us is an example of who we are as a people.
God be with you and believe we will all be together in the end.
N Williams
September 11, 2014
You aren't forgotten. God Bless.
TH
September 10, 2014
Today 9/10/2014 we remember you Alicia. Our thoughts and prayers extend to your family members. We will never forget.
Brenda Harvey
May 21, 2014
Bev, we still think of Alicia any time 911 is mentioned, you and your family are in hearts and prayers. We knew you when you worked at Drackett in the Fitness center. Msy God Bless you and heal some of the pain. With deepest sympathy this Memorial day weekend.
February 27, 2014
Alicia, I did not know you, but we share the same name. I saw it for the first time tonight on the PBS Nova program featuring the new tower at Ground Zero. I often think of 9-11 and reflect on that day. I was still in the Air Guard and was called in that day in the confusion. I visited the north tower in 1983 and have vivid memories of the experience. I now have a more personal memory having seen your name. There are so few of us. Possibly there is a distant familial connection. Nothing I say can change what has taken place. But I now will think fondly of you each time I think of that terrible day. I shall include you in my prayers and know that you are with God and angels. Bless you!
Mike J. Titus - Topeka, KS
cindy perez
December 27, 2013
I never met you but without even knowing you, you were part of my visit to NYC. May you continue Resting in Paradise
Linda Stevenson
September 11, 2013
Thinking of you...sweet angel!
September 11, 2013
Thinking of you today...You've touched so many hearts with love and happiness and your memory is still touching the hearts of all those who come to know about you! Fly high, sweet angel!
Adam Peters
September 11, 2013
Alicia, all I can say is wow has it really been 12 years? I never knew you but after reading about you I wish I had, I mean you had the smile of an angel and the world was a much better place with you in it. Rip Alicia, I will never forgot you.
Deborah Winter
September 23, 2012
Sweet Alicia~I keep you in my heart and have many memories of watching you grow up. A favoriate memory~you were 6 years old. Your mom and I were talking. Laughing~you kept running in and out of your bedroom~each time giving your mom a little new note that held the same message each time~"I love you mommy". And your smile~your beautiful smile and sweet~sensitive soul. I came home that night on 9~11~so shook up. I was in school and had to email my professor a paper by midnight. As I logged on I checked my email and saw several posts in a row from our National Denomination titled~Prayers for Alicia Titus. Seeing several...my heart dropped down deep. I keep my 'Alicia' candle in my china cubboard~I take it out to lite each year along with some white sage. About 6 months after 9~11 I was sitting and thinking about you. In my minds eye I saw you holding a baby on that plane. The crown of my head began to tingle. I began a slow smile in the knowing you were long before a angel before becoming one.~Deborah Winter
September 11, 2012
missing you today and every day.
Michael Seeberg
NANCY CASTRO
September 13, 2011
DEAREST FAMILY OF ALICIA, WHILE I NEVER PERSONALLY KNEW ALICIA SHE IS ALWAYS IN OUR HEARTS AND MINDS AS A FELLOW SISTER FLIGHT ATTENDANT OF UNITED AIRLINES. WE SEE ALICIA'S AND OTHER CREW MEMBERS PICTURE DAILY IN OUR DOMICILES AND IN OUR YEARLY RECURRENT TRAINING. WE MISS THOSE WE LOST AND KEEP THEIR MEMORY ALIVE FOREVER.
olivia banks
September 12, 2011
I really wish i can see you. I heard you were kind sweet and funny.P.S Did you get our message and balloon yet? We all miss you espesially your family and my mom.
Ed
September 11, 2011
Ten years ago God called one of his children home. Not a day goes by when you are not missed and loved. When I remember you, I vision your ever smiling face. Enjoy your time with our father.
Ty Burroughs
September 11, 2011
thinking of alicia and the titus family on the anniversary of that tragic day
Danell Bentley-Holmes
September 10, 2011
Thinking of my fellow 1991 Graham alumni and her family on this, the eve, of the 10th anniversary of such a tragic day. I will never forget!
John Mefford
September 10, 2011
A very great person!!!!
shyrl brown
September 10, 2011
Thinking of you and remembering back on all our fun times in junior high and our sleep overs during that time, memories will last forever and you shall never be forgotten.
Jennifer Hostetler
September 10, 2011
You will be remembered always in our hearts and prayers. The strength and faith of your family is a testament to the love they have for you always.
crystal Massie
September 10, 2011
Thinking of you.
Tina Gilbert
September 10, 2011
Thinking about you today and everyday my friend. You will never be forgotten.
Barry Winston
September 9, 2011
Remembering the spunky little girl from church camp. You are missed.
Peggy Childers
August 16, 2011
To the family and friends of Alicia Nicole Titus:
Alicia will be held in the hearts of Americans forever. I cannot and will not allow those we lost on 9/11 be forgotten. My deepest sympathy to you.
Kyle
July 29, 2011
First of all..let me just say that I am so sorry for your loss. I cannot imagine what must of been going on inside that airplane. Looking at your memorial website and seeing photos of you breaks my heart that you had to be taken away at such a young age. I bet you were doing everything in your will power to try and calm as many passengers as you could. You are a true hero.
nick searle
June 27, 2011
Alicia it so sad to see so many lives go and its hard to believe that its already been 10 years since it happened. you are greatly missed my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family forever. may we never forget this day and those who lost their lives in this tragic event.
Sean Toomey
May 2, 2011
Alicia, today is a day of mixed emotions, you are foremost in our thoughts and prayers. May your family have Peace and Joy, and GOD BLESS AND KEEP YOU.
February 28, 2011
i pray for all those whose lives were takin in the horrific event of 9/11 may all the ones whose lives were takin such as alicia nicole titus find peace.. they will always be remembered
September 13, 2010
god bless all those families who endured this terrible day and know their loved ones will always be remembered.
god continue to keep our country safe and strong!
Aimee Conner
September 10, 2010
I will be thinking of your family as they work through yet another anniversary.
Patti Fink
June 14, 2009
I am writing to a very special girl to me and our family. Lish I did not for got your birthday. I wished you Happy Birthday in my special way. We miss you very much. We love you also very much. Aunt Patti
Doug Abraham
June 11, 2009
Happy Birthday!!!
DEBBIE DAVIS
June 3, 2009
ALICIA, I WILL ALWAYS THINK OF YOU AS A VERY SPECIAL PERSON AND FRIEND. WE WORK TOGETHER FOR THREE SUMMERS AT TIME WARNER CABLE AND YOU BRIGHTENED MY SOUL AND MY LIFE. LOVE DEB DAVIS, URBANA OH
karen clark
February 28, 2009
alicia, you have joined many angels from graham school, GOD BLESS I BET YOU ARE ALL SMILING DOWN ON THE REST OF US
karen (allebach) clark
February 28, 2009
alicia, lived in my old house in st.paris, ohio her dad was the president at urbana university
Saleh Al-ghamdi
December 18, 2008
God Bless Alicia Nicole Titus ( Saudi Arabia - Riyadh)
kristine
November 11, 2008
As I cross-stitched your name on the memorial that I am doing for all of the victims, I prayed for you and your family. Please know that your death was not in vain. We will always remember. God Bless.
Susie (Kelly) Stennett
September 13, 2008
Still remembering. You are never far from our thoughts. Your cousin, Susie (Kelly) Stennett, Findlay, OH
Jason Davis
September 11, 2008
Seven years and yet I can still see your smile. I remember the butterflies in my stomach from our first stage kiss. Rather than laugh you helped me through it. Not a day goes by that I do not remember your infectious laughter and amazing heart. You have touched so many people. I only hope that we can continue to follow your lead.
Quinn Hemin
September 11, 2008
Missing you...
September 11, 2008
In loving memory
Kathryn Pruiett ( Rienstra )
September 11, 2008
Alicia....i've been thinking about you.....
Mike & Lisa Mangum
July 3, 2008
To the Titus Family,
My family had the pleasure of meeting your entire clan in Breckenridge, CO in January of this year. We felt the warmth, enthusiasm, and strength of all of you together. You are an inspiration to all of us. God bless this wonderful monument. It is a BIG deal to us Texans. We are PROUD of Alicia and super PROUD to consider you friends. We continue to keep y'all in our prayers.
Carpe Diem
The MangumFamily
Doug Abraham
June 11, 2008
Happy Birthday!!!
Tina Gilbert (Birt)
September 24, 2007
I went to school with Alicia and even tho we weren't close, we were still friends and I always thought she was a sweetheart. She was two years younger than me, but she was popular and hung out with "my crowd". I still cry everytime I see something about her on tv or on the internet, and watching her plane crash into the trade center is almost too unbearable for me to watch. My thoughts and prayers are with her parents. And please know I'm proud to have known Alicia and proud to be able to call her a friend, and I'm so very very sorry for your loss.
Kathryn Pruiett (rienstra)
September 22, 2007
Alicia, I think of you often.....I still have pictures of us a convention back in the late 80's at urbana dressed in hula outfits.....but I do believe this has been your "opportunity to fullfill a life of higher usefulness......"
kristen van dyne- mcnulty
September 14, 2007
This still sadens my heart to this day. Such a major loss for mankind.
Holly Richeson
September 13, 2007
Alicia,
You went to school with my stepfather and I just wanted to say, that my thoughts and prayers go out to your family. God Bless you and yours.
Kristina (Laakko)Stroh
September 11, 2007
Alicia, I have been thinking of you today - but I am sure that you already know that... with love, your fellow "island girl" from Almont.
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