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Cassandra Schneider Niemczyk
September 12, 2024
I awoke early this morning -- one day after the 23rd anniversary of 9/11 -- with thoughts of my close friend in graduate school at Temple University, Norma Lang Steuerle. I was enrolled in a doctoral teaching associate program in quantitative psychology, and she was earning her Master’s as a research fellow in educational psychology. She shared an apartment with a woman she had known in college, but when the roommate brought in a dog who pooped all over their apartment, including the bathtub, Norma came to live with me. I had a one-room rental in the home of a widow who attended my church. Norma and I shared a full-size bed. We were like sisters, chatting before falling asleep each night. When our time came to leave the university, she left a note on my desk. I will always remember the last line: “Be true to your intellect.”
On 9/11 Norma was a passenger on American Flight 77 with plans to join her husband and two daughters for a vacation in Thailand, where her husband Gene had an opportunity to be a guest lecturer. Needless to say, she lost her life that day when the plane careened into the Pentagon.
Norma was kind, smart, and so much fun to be with. She was short in stature but bigger than life itself. She became a clinical psychologist who worked with troubled children. She was a devout Roman Catholic who participated in the many outreach programs of her church in Virginia. I always will remember her, especially on this sad anniversary of her passing.
Pat McCallum
September 11, 2024
Norma was my Supervisor many decades ago at Mt. Vernon Community Mental Health Center in Alexandria, Va. Beyond her excellent supervision it was her kindness, intuitiveness and support that has stayed with me. Pat McCallum LCSW,ret
Patti McMahon-Tyna
September 12, 2023
9-11-23: I attended college with Norma Jean´s sister, Christine. After we graduated in 1973, Chris and I rented a 2nd floor of a house in Cleveland Hts., Ohio. Chris´ family would come to visit her from out-of-town - her wonderful Mom and Dad, her 2 loving sisters, one of which was kind and thoughtful Norma Jean, Norma Jean´s loving husband, Gene and their two daughters. Norma Jean´s family was so loving. Chris´ other sister, Janice, would come to visit Chris, too. They were such a kind, caring, fun-loving and supportive family! On this anniversary of 9/11, I just wanted to tell Norma Jean´s family that I´m thinking of them and Norma Jean. She made a very positive impact on the lives of her family and others, such as myself, who had the good fortune to have met her. Norma Jean is now in Heaven with the Lord, her loving parents and her sister, Janice. May God bless Christine, Gene and the two daughters of Gene and Norma Jean. Love and sympathy from Patti McMahon-Tyna
Don Calvert
September 11, 2023
Remembering Norma Steuerle 22 years after 9/11. She had an ability to help someone look at their world differently; through a fresh perspective, while always being honest about the challenges one faces in life. She blended tough love with a deep respect for her clients. I always felt like she was in my corner; that was not something I was used to. The final time I met her before 9/11, I asked Norma what was one piece of advice she would give to her clients. She paused and said, live in the moment. Live in the moment. I’m still working on that. Thank you again Norma. You are always remembered. Always. Don
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Robin Pinckard
September 8, 2023
Remembering Norma and her Family on this 22nd anniversary of 9/11. May God bless you and keep you and may His face shine upon you.
Newberry
November 20, 2015
Today I am praying for Norma's friends and family, We will never forget. With much love from Texas,
Michael Bunner
November 4, 2015
I recently discovered that Ms. Steuerle graduated from Temple University which is where I went to college. I believe she is the only Temple grad who was killed on 9/11. I'm not even sure if the school knows they have a graduate who was killed on 9/11. I just wanted to recognize a fellow Temple alum and give my condolences to her family and friends.
Susan Seaha
November 16, 2014
Today I will be visiting the Pentagon Memorial for the first time in memory of Norma and as an expression of love and gratitude for all that she taught me. Her words and kindness still resonate in my heart. I continue to be blessed that our paths crossed. I am confident that we will meet again. All is well with her soul. Blessings to family and friends.
December 19, 2012
To The Family,
I must apoligize for entering my sincere thoughts eleven years after the occurence of this terrible tragedy.
Please accept my deepest sympathy in the loss of your loved one. 9/11 will never be forgotten.
Sincerely,
Mr. Terry of NC
Maureen Fannin
July 18, 2012
I just discovered Norma's passing. She helped me a great deal, and know she was gift of light to the world.
July 18, 2012
I just googled Norma and discovered her passing. I am a former client and remember fondly, and helped me a great deal.
Susan Seaha
September 11, 2011
I will always remember Norma's kindness, love and compassion for others.Through God's grace we will meet again.I have been blessed that our paths have crossed.Blessings to Gene,Kristin and Lynne and all those they love.I will always have a special place in my heart for the kindness you have shared.
Eleanore
September 11, 2011
I will be praying for Norma and her family today, on the 10th anniversary of 9-11.
Alee (Saleena Hood), Dorothy and Jim Valiga
Dorothy Valiga
September 10, 2011
Jim and I will always love you and miss you and hold you close in our hearts.
Karen Dunn
September 2, 2011
I really miss you Norma. I'm sure you are still very busy, popular, and happy. Gene gave me back the painting Norma's Blue Couch. That was nice.
Susan Seaha
May 1, 2011
HAPPY BIRTHDAY, NORMA!
Peggy Childers
September 8, 2009
To the family of Norma Lang Steuerle:
Norma gave the ultimate sacrifice and will be held in the hearts of Americans forever. My deepest sympathy to you. We must never forget!
Peggy Childers
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Doug Abraham
May 1, 2009
Happy Birthday!!!
Kristine
May 20, 2008
As I cross-stitched your name on the memorial that I am doing for all of the victims, I prayed for you and your family. Please know that your death was not in vain. We will always remember. God Bless.
Doug Abraham
May 1, 2008
Happy Birthday!!!
Barry Gordon
September 11, 2007
I will always remember my classmates Norma Lang and Fred Kuo from our days at Carnegie Mellon.
P Tabbernor
July 19, 2007
In memory....
Leslie Pelzel
September 11, 2002
I go to St.Mary's in a litte called Sleepy Eye. When this took place i was in religion 2nd hour at 9:20am when i head what happened. At frist i didn't know what that all was...so the day went on then i new what was going on cuz one of our teachers brought a little TV to school at noon then i had him for study hall and all we did was watched TV. In school today we got a pray severice for 9/11 and we all got a card with a name on it and i got Norme. That year i was in 7th at grade at the age of 12. Every day i will pray for Norma Lang Steuerle and her family.
Leslie Pelzel
Dave Gesswein
September 11, 2002
Just sending a prayer in remembrance of Norma's family. I am a coworker of Anne Kelly's, who is one of Norma's cousin. Rest in peace.
Mary Suman
September 11, 2002
It's been nearly 12 years since I last saw Mrs. Steuerle. She rarely missed our field hockey games when her daughter and I were in high school. Even after all that time, when I saw her name on the list of victims, my heart just broke. A year later, I still can't find the right words for the Steuerle family. But I hope they know they remain in my thoughts and prayers.
Angie & Tony Clement
August 22, 2002
God Bless you and watch over the family and friends that you left behing. We did not know you but will never forget you or what happened to you. Rest in peace forever more..........
Elaine Anuszkiewicz
July 3, 2002
My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Kathy Swaringen
May 31, 2002
On May 28, 2002, 1 mile was walked to honor the life of Norma and all the family, friends and loved onews she left behind. May you find some comfort in knowing that you do not greive alone.
Norma, you may be gone, but will never be forgotten, may you rest in peace.
May 9, 2002
DEAR GOD SHINE YOUR LIGHT ON THIS WONDERFUL WOMAN..NORMA LANG STEUERLE AND MAY HER SOUL REST IN PEACE WITH GOD AND HIS ANGELS..GOD BLESS HER LOVING FAMILY AND MANY FRIENDS..GOD BLESS AMERICA..MAY GOD AND HIS ANGELS GREET YOU AT THE GATES OF HEAVEN...AMEN
Angie Campbell
April 18, 2002
May God Bless you and all of the friends that you leave behind. Rest in peace.
Jackie O.
March 11, 2002
This Earth lost such a wonderful person in Norma. She was so much more than just a "doctor or counselor." She was a woman full of compassion for others and a zest for life. As a matter of fact, that is all I hear now when I think of her...her very beautiful, musical laugh.
God Bless her family and all who knew her or had the priviledge to be one of her patients.
Janet Christensen
March 8, 2002
My deepest sympathy to you. I went to St. Basil's High School with Norma Jean and want you to know that she is being remembered at Mass. God bless you.
Teresa Jahn
January 12, 2002
We are deeply sorry for your loss of Norma. May her life and love live on in you. May warm memories of time together lighten the sorrow in your hearts. Our hearts cry with you.
America Cries
We see your sorrow-
and our hearts cry....
We can not erase your pain
but you do not have to face the anguish alone-for we-
-the American people-
are beside you.
We so desperately want to have the touch that brings you comfort,
the strength that gives you courage,
and the words to lighten your spirits.
And when we are left speechless
may the silence of our nation weave love into your hearts
to ease your sorrow.
May you find healing through our nation's strength as we-
-the American people-
face this difficult time together. Our hearts are with you. Teresa Jahn
Dixon, IL
sandy reyes
December 15, 2001
I did not know Norma. I now wear a bracelet with her name on it and I will pray for the healing of her family. You know she is in a better place.
Susan Seaha
December 4, 2001
Tears are like crystal ink that few can read.I miss you so much, Norma. I know all is well with your soul.Your compassion, kindness and humor will always be a part of me. Thank you for walking beside me and being my friend.Love and prayers to Gene and all of his family. The Lord be with you.
Pat McCallum
October 24, 2001
You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. I remember your warmth, humor and enthusiasm for living. You will live on in the hearts of your family and many friends.
BARBARA BOLIN
October 1, 2001
MY THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS GO OUT TO YOU ALL.MAY GOD BLESS YOU ALL.
NORMA MAY YOU REST IN PEACE.
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