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The 31-year-old cameraman leaves behind a wife, Kia Pavloff, who is expecting the couple's first child in March. "Tom was proudly carrying his ultrasound picture here," said a colleague.
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September 24, 2023
Tommy,
You will never be forgotten. Rest gently, my friend.
Diane
Suzannah McDonald-Parasiliti
September 23, 2023
Just started thinking about 9/11 and how we lost real people 22 years ago, just felt like looking at who was on the first plane. His name caught my attention before I saw his creativity in his amazing work and zooming in more, now I know he had a baby due in March and he carried ultrasound photo. That baby is 21 and a half. So poignantly sorrowful for what this family and all who loved him has gone through. God bless
Tom H
September 14, 2023
Tom .. It’s been 22 years since some extremely bad individuals took your life along with many others. I wish the best for your family and friends we will never forget you. With much regards
Joanne Foley
September 13, 2021
Twenty years.
Still laugh at some of our memories, you were such a great kid who grew to be kind, caring and a gentleman... our world needs more Tommy's.
You will always be our shining star RIP
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Karene Nagel
September 12, 2021
Just saw the video one of Tom's close friends shared on this 20th Anniversary of his loss. His karaoke skills were unmatched. I originally met Tom when I found his sister's web memorial and I heard him singing Brandy. That song means so much to me every time I hear it. And now a favorite of mine Brown Eyed Girl will also be extra special because it is a Tommy memory, too!! Hugs to his sisters
Dawn Menzie
September 11, 2021
Tom was a straight up guy, a hard worker who loved his family and friends. It was and still is a pleasure knowing Tom
The Kindred Family
December 5, 2019
Our family sends thoughts of heartfelt sympathy. There are no words that can take away the pain of losing someone loved but please know that others still do care. Daily may God give the strength and help needed. Thomas touched the lives of others and is still sadly missed.
Celebrating Your Life 17 years without you. See you on the other side. ❤
Angela Wadleigh
September 14, 2018
Tommy
I don't have to come here to tell you how much you are loved, missed and spoken about. I go visit you weekly and I know you know that. We love you forever.
Faye DeHoff
September 12, 2018
I wasn't going to do this, but for some reason, I felt a strong pull this year. I still think of you often, Tommy. Not every day, but often. Mostly your smile, and your laugh. As I look over this page, I am comforted by how loved you are. We will always remember.
Brian King
September 11, 2018
Tom
Although I never met you I do know that you are deeply missed.
I am childhood friends with Kia and while I talk to her from time to time through Facebook, etc. I always make it a point to talk to her on this day, just to check in and say hello.
I wish i could've met you, because you sound line a great, down to earth guy.
May you rest in peace.
Joanne Foley
September 11, 2018
Tommy, 17 years, seems like yesterday.
Today's sky is grey and rainy, nothing like the unbelievable blue sky the day you left us.
Just visited you, and the field of flags...
think of you often. NEVER FORGET
Diane Farrell
September 11, 2018
Tommy ~ I was thinking of you today....You will always be missed by those who loved your laughter and your smile.
Rest gently my friend...
Natalee
September 12, 2017
Thank you to everyone who keeps my brother's memory alive. Your comments are a beautiful testament to the amazing man Tommy was while on this earth. With gratitude, Natalee Pecorelli
Diane
September 12, 2017
Tommy ~ I know that Heaven's Glory must be amazing, but you are missed here on earth. Rest gently my friend...
Joanne Foley
September 11, 2017
Tommy, 16 years... stopped by and visited with you this afternoon, still smile when I think of you. You were "Gumby, damn it!" Watched "Fallen Man" documentary today and at the very end saw a shot of your Mom holding your photo, my brother told me about it yesterday. We all Miss you!
Richard Harrison
September 8, 2017
It's been many years. Still think about it all from time to time. Makes me really appreciate my life. Best wishes from Scotland mate.
Tom H
September 6, 2017
We will always remember, Tommy. To your family members ... our thoughts and hearts go out to you. Hold on to Tommy's memories.
All the best; much regards.
Harold Gooding
May 15, 2017
I never met you Tom but while visiting the Cemetery in Newburyport, MA I came across your grave. I wanted to post a picture of your grave stone for those who love you but haven't had the opportunity to visit.
God Bless. Gone way too soon,
Harold "Bumper" Gooding
Plum Island ~ Massachusetts
S.J. Friscia III
May 15, 2017
In Memory with
Honor & Respect.
Phil Queirolo
September 12, 2016
Miss you man! I wish we were hanging out and doing our goofy skits.
Joanne Foley
September 12, 2016
Tommy, fifteen years, think of you often
Still feels sometimes as if it was all a dream, Miss your smile and laugh.
Richard Harrison
September 11, 2016
Best wishes from Scotland.
Diane Farrell
September 10, 2016
I recently went to reflect at the 9/11 memorial in New York, Tommy. I felt your gentle soul. You will always be remembered.
Miss you.
December 6, 2015
R.I.P. TOM!! God bless you!
Phil Queirolo
September 12, 2015
Hey man, thought of you often in the past few days. Saw the lights last. We all miss you! ♡
Joanne Foley
September 12, 2015
Tommy, your flag was on my front lawn yesterday and I stopped by and visited you for a few minutes.
Doesn't seem possible that 14 yrs have passed. Think of you often my friend.
Richard Harrison
September 11, 2015
In my thoughts today buddy.
Diane Farrell
September 11, 2015
Tommy ~ I can't believe how long it's been since you left this earth. September 11th changed the world, Tommy. And, although the world has changed, some things remain constant. The world needs more love, kindness, compassion, tolerance and most of all pure, joyous laughter. Keep the angels laughing, Tommy!
Miss you buddy!
Diane Farrell
July 12, 2015
Thinking of you...
Diane
September 11, 2014
Thinking of you...
Karene Nagel
September 11, 2014
Tommy & Angie, Just added "Brandy" to my song storage on my phone...I will be listening to it, when I travel across the ocean to Ireland later this month...and I will be thinking of you both and of Kia and Nicolaus - your son. Hugs to all the Pecorelli family.
Phil Queirolo
September 11, 2014
Hey Tommy. You will always be in our hearts. I watched "Delirious" last week thinking of you & how much fun we had at NE cable. Stay well my friend.
Joanne Foley
September 11, 2014
Tommy 13 years have passed since this world lost you a Great guy.
Your flag will be flying today my friend. Thinking of you and your family wishing you all Peace.
Richard Harrison
September 11, 2014
Best wishes Tom.
TH
September 10, 2014
Today 9/10/2014, we remember you Tommy. Our thoughts are with your family members. We will never forget.
Marie LeBlanc
September 10, 2014
Its been 13 years now and the LeBlanc family still thinks of the Pecorelli family. Tomorrow I will light another candle for Tommy.
Diane Farrell
September 8, 2014
Hi Tommy ~ I can't believe that so many years have gone by....thinking of you, and missing you.
December 10, 2013
Hey Tommy,
Another birthday without you. I always looked forward to your calls on this special day. I know you will be around when Mom comes over today. I just wanted to say I love and miss you so much. Thinking of you Always.
Angela
Richard Harrison
September 12, 2013
Tom, I didn't know you but I worked for Sky TV when it happened and I was watching the TV in the office as it happened. I remember later receiving the memo advising all staff of your passing (Fox are linked to our company). Although I didn't know you and I no longer work for Sky TV, you have had a big positive impact to my life and how I live it with my family. I was watching a 9/11 documentary last night about the falling man and to my surprise at the end I saw a lovely woman standing holding your name on a piece of card and it shocked me. Will never forget your name mate or the anger you must have felt at that time. I know you are at peace now. Peace to you and your family from Scotland.
Ron Keller
September 11, 2013
Always in our hearts and memories. Thinking of you Tom..
September 11, 2013
For Tom
Diane
September 11, 2013
Tommy,
Thinking of you today, and everyday. You will never be forgotten by those who loved and cared for you....
I will always count your friendship as a blessing in my life.
Erin Shevette
September 11, 2013
Special thoughts and prayers today for the Tom's family, especially Kia and your son. We have not forgotten.
Lorna Michie
September 11, 2013
Sail on phellow parrot head from a phellow former New York parrot head! Phinz Up!
Faye DeHoff
September 11, 2013
It's not just what was, it's what might have been that makes it so hard to let go. Miss you Tommy...
Diane Andruszko
September 11, 2013
Though I never knew youPhinz to you ... Sail on and rip.
Joanne Foley
September 11, 2013
Tommy...another year, another sad anniversary. Your flag is hanging outside the office today on Hale St...I will never forget!!!!!
angela wadleigh
September 11, 2013
Mom and I are at your resting place celebrating your life. 12 years. Still feels like yesterday. I love and miss you so much Tommy.
Phil
September 11, 2013
Miss you old friend. Your sense of humor was great. Your talents were already evident back in the cable days. You always made my day. Thanks for being a part of my life.
September 11, 2013
Still remember this day and send prayers to Thomas's sister and the entire family ..especially his son.
marie leblanc
September 10, 2013
The LeBlanc family is still thinking of in the Pecorelli family on this anniversary .I'm travelling this week but brought a candle to light in Tommy's memory . May you be surrounded and embraced by love .
Diane
April 29, 2013
Tommy~
Today I was thinking of you and I could actually hear you laughing...I miss your silly jokes. I hope that all of the beautiful angels appreciate your sense of humor!
Rest peacefully.
October 23, 2012
Hey i'm researching you for our school project. Enjoy heaven.
Ron Keller
October 8, 2012
Happy Birthday in heaven Tom.. You are always in our hearts, always on our minds. Blessings
September 11, 2012
Thinking of you today!!
Susan Richardson
September 11, 2012
Thinking of your family today. Our local parrot head club sent your wife a gift for your little boy soon after he was born. I just saw a picture of him :)
September 11, 2012
Tommy - I never knew you in life - but I have loved you and your family in your after life! You sang to me just days after 9/11 and I will always hear you singing! Your life though way too short - it has left an lasting impression on so many people - many people that you did NEVER know, but they will NEVER forget - Tommy Pecorelli. God Bless your Family and Friends today who will hurt on every 9/11 anniversary.
Ruth Bloch
September 11, 2012
Just wanted to say good morning to you, Tom...and send a hug to you, Kia and Nicholas
marie leblanc
September 11, 2012
The Leblanc family is thinking of the Pecorelli family today. I'll burn a memory candle for Tommy today. He is watching over you all.
Erin Brann-Shevette
September 10, 2012
Remembering an old co-workers husband tonight. Kia, may the Lord continue to bless you and your son. Tom is in heaven watching you both with smiles, I am sure. 9/11...we will never forget.
Faye DeHoff
September 10, 2012
Tom,
While we continue our daily lives down here, worrying about the economy, saving money for retirement, dealing with the day-to-day stress, it is comforting to think of you, up there, smiling down at us. 11 years have now passed, but I still get that tug at my heart when I think of 9/11, and of you. God Bless you Tommy, and I know I will see you again.
Your friend,
Ron Keller
September 10, 2012
Yet another year to acknowledge how much you are missed.. I'm glad so many take the time to honor you with their thoughts.. You are loved,and missed by all. Adieu my friend.
Joanne Foley
September 9, 2012
A few days early, but heading to the Mall to the Field Of Flags Ceremony...I will never ever forget!!! I still have your smiling mug firmly etched into my mind!!
Peggy Childers
September 7, 2012
To the family and friends of Thomas Pecorelli:
Thomas will be held in the hearts of Americans forever. I cannot and will not allow those we lost on 9/11 be forgotten. My deepest sympathy to you.
Diane Farrell
June 8, 2012
Hi Tommy,
I had the craziest dream last night and I woke up laughing! It was kinda weird - we were working on stage, and you and I were laughing and laughing. I'm not quite sure what a dream like that means, but, I do know that I miss your sense of humor, your smile, and your laughter. I hope that you're keeping everyone smiling in heaven. Time goes by way too fast, I miss you buddy...
Mary Taylor
June 7, 2012
Just thinking of you Tom Tom.
Art Hill, Saint Louis, MO
Betty Ronzio
September 19, 2011
I have the flag that had Tom's name on it that flew at the 10 year memorial site in St. Louis MO on Art Hill. Wanted you to know he is forever in our prayers. God bless his family as well.
Joanne Foley
September 13, 2011
Hard to believe its been 10 years, seems like yesterday and then like a lifetime ago. Tommy I think of you often, and although I was in South Carolina and missed your celebration I brought a flag down with me for you and it was hanging on my friends front porch. I was telling them about the year you were Gumby and you were "Gumby Dammit!" Tommy RIP
Ron Keller
September 12, 2011
Tommy,
It's been a decade... That word makes it seem so long ago, but in my heart and mind it was only yesterday and it will always be "only yesterday". I know you are loved and missed by all who knew you. Rest in peace my friend... we will all be with you in His time.
"The family chain is broken,
Things will never be the same.
But as God calls us one by one,
The chain will link again"..
God Bless Tom..
Laurie Hawkes
September 12, 2011
Tommy, you will always be in our hearts. My husband Arthur Hawkes worked with Tommy @ American Cable Systems in the 80's. We all went to many Christmas parties, Halloween parties( Tommy was Gummby :-) and a crazy ski weekend. He was always smiling and so sweet. We thought of him while in Nbpt this past weekend while looking at the sea of flags at the memorial. When I turned the flag in front of me blew and there was a tag reading Thomas Pecorelli. I took a few photos of his flag and also grabbed the paper with a beautiful photo of Tommy on the front page. If any of Tommy's family didn't get to see his flag, I can send it to you via text and I'll gladly give you my copy of the paper. You can reach me on FB: Laurie Dudley Hawkes. Thinking of all of you. God Bless.
Louis Aurelio
September 11, 2011
Worked with Tom at E he was a great guy! Thoughts and prayers are with the Pecorelli family.
Memorial at Lake Eola, Orlando, Florida 9-11-2011
Kim Johnston
September 11, 2011
In Memory of Thomas Pecorelli
Dear Family and Friends of Thomas Pecorelli:
I attended a Memorial Ceremony in memory of those we lost on this day, 10 years ago. The ceremony was held in Orlando, Florida at Lake Eola. A personalized flag was planted in the soil for each live that was lost. At the end of the cereomony everyone picked a flag to take home. I selected Tom. God Bless you Tom and your family. Please know you are in my thoughs and prayers today!
Greg Erin & Macie Shevette
September 11, 2011
We will light a candle for Tom tonight.
erin shevette
September 11, 2011
Kia,
Today I remember you and your son and your husband. i think of you often and you are always in my prayers and especially on 9/11. may the lord grant you peace today. blessed are those who mourn for they shall be comforted. matthew 5:4.
Michele Edelman
September 11, 2011
To Tom's Family and Friends,
Ten years ago I went to the International Fountain at Seattle Center to honor those who died on 9/11. Tom's picture was there with a warm, wonderful, smile. I placed my flowers next to his picture. Today, I remember him and you, in my thoughts. My heart goes out to you. Sincerely, Michele
Randy Brown
September 11, 2011
I never knew Tom, but I worked with his wife Kia when I lived in LA. Kia, I'll never forget you and I hope you are doing well.
Diane
September 11, 2011
Hi Tommy!
Oh how I miss your laughter. I know that God needed you, and that you are watching over your family and friends, but - I still miss you...
Rest gentle in God's caring arms my dear, sweet Tommy...
Your friend, Diane
September 11, 2011
Hi Angela and family ..we talked about Tom and we sent gifts for Tom's baby soon after he was born. I think of your family each year at this time. This year I wanted to send special thoughts of comfort to all of your family. Susan Richardson, GA
jason dunham
September 11, 2011
i will never forget you tom. i first met you when we were on owens illinois in pioneer league. i remember you taping all the high school games. that is the image i remember best, seeing you with the video equipment. when i heard you were working for fox sports and on my favorite sports show, i remember telling everyone i new that i knew you and i grew up and went to school with you. then 9/11 hapened. i was lost for words and remember watching all on tv not knowing that you were on one of the planes. when i found out it put everything in perspective. we all have an unknown amount of time on this earth. i have looked at life in a whole new way,thinking of you and knowing how tragically short life can be.
god bless you and your family
Phil Queirolo
September 11, 2011
I was blessed to have known you so many years ago. You are thought of often and always will be. Miss you!
Natalee Pecorelli
September 10, 2011
My only brother, who will always be "Tommy" to me, was the most charismatic, funny, talented, caring, loving, wonderful soul I have EVER had the honor to know.
As 9/11 approaches, instead of dwelling on how we lost him, I will honor his life remembering all the funny impersonations he did, the songs he sang, and his love for life, his wife, his family, and of course, the Red Sox and Patriots! He would have been the best dad... Till we meet again...I love you forever!
Natalee
Dave Kniess
September 10, 2011
Thinking of you and your family this week. Much love.
-Fox Sports Co-worker
marie leblanc
September 9, 2011
this wkend the LeBlanc family is thinking of the Pecorelli family. Tommy is watching over you all.
Still can't believe this happened 10 yrs ago. It seems like yesterday that my sister called to tell me.
Rest in peace and love.
Faye DeHoff
September 8, 2011
To my dear friend Tom,
As this 10th anniversary approaches, I once again try to deal with what happened. I keep thinking that each year it will get easier, but it never does. And somehow, this year is tougher, maybe because of all the attention around it. I still can't bear to see those towers on fire. The only thing that gives me any comfort is the picture of your smiling face. I know you are at peace, and knowing that, I too find some peace. I pray that your family and other friends are at peace too. God Bless you Tommy, you were a good friend, too good to lose.
Angela Wadleigh
April 24, 2011
Happy Easter Tommy!! Another year another empty chair :-( We not just celebrate your life today on Easter Tommy we Celebrate your life 365 Days a year!! You are missed and loved by everyone. I love you brother.. May you be resting in Peace and keeping Cory company, as we all Miss and Love Cory too. :-(
Angela
In Memory of Tommy and Cory
Angela Wadleigh
January 22, 2011
Tom Pecorelli in a 9/11 stained glass window in a Michigan church
Anna Truckey
December 10, 2010
Hi,
I was a student at the high school that Tom's mother in law, Mrs Pavloff, worked at. When I heard of his death, I asked Mrs. Pavloff for a photo of him. You see, I am a stained glass artist. I was working on a window for a church here in Auburn Hills, Michigan. I was making one of the 20 glass panels into a 9/11 memorial window. I included Mr. Pecorelli's portrait into that window. I just recently ran across this site and wanted to leave this note.I am including a photo. He is the man in the brown suit on the left.
God bless.
Anna Truckey
Your Son Nicolas
Angela Wadleigh
November 25, 2010
Tommy
Happy Thanksgiving.. we miss you every day, every day Tommy. Mom is spending Thanksgiving with your wife and you son. You can hear the happiness in her voice when you ask about him. She is so happy to have part of you with her. I am happy Nicolas is in FL with Mom and Lisa.. they get to enjoy him. I look forward until I get to spend time with him for when I hold him it will be like holding you. I love you brother. You made an amazing little boy.
Your Sister Angela
Elaine Pecorelli-Dyer
November 24, 2010
Tommy it is the 9th Thanksgiving since youv'e been gone. You are on my mind everyday. This year I have a beautiful part of you---your son, my Grandson Nicolas. You would be so proud of him. He has a great deal of his dad's handsome looks. I took him to a conservency 2 days ago for injured animals who can not go back into the wild. It also had a Planetarium, and we saw 2 shows. I gave him my video camera to take pictures, you would have a great laugh, in that respect he is nothing like you. I love him so very, very much. I hope you hear me everyday I talk to you, and keep watching over Nicolas, I have told him all about his wonderful loving dad, and how much you wanted him in your life. Until I see you again,my love for you is un-ending
MOM
Ian Smith
September 19, 2010
Tommy,sadly missed by friends you never knew in the UK.
Phil Queirolo
September 15, 2010
Tommy, you are so missed. You were a cool next door neighbor. You always made me laugh with your impersonations & your wit. Thanks for the memories
Joanne Foley
September 12, 2010
Tommy its hard to believe its been 9 years...it still seems like yesterday. Your initials are still at the front door of the office, so I think of you every day...went to the 911 service yesterday in NBPT...Field of Honor of a couple hundred American Flags blowing in the breeze at the Mall, you my friend still linger in our hearts, still I think of you as Gumby!
Rest in Peace my friend!
Tommy on the beach in FL
Angela Wadleigh
September 12, 2010
Tommy,
Another year
Still more tears
We think of you every day
How special you are in every way
Your smile is one we cant forget
To believe you are gone we just dont get
You are missed in so many ways
All I have is treasured memories of the days
I will reunite with you when God calls my name
You my brother did not die in vein.
I love you forever
May you be resting in Peace.
Tommy spending time with us in Elk Grove.
Natalee Pecorelli
September 11, 2010
Forever in my heart...I will always love you.
Baci e abbracci,
Natalee
Faye DeHoff
September 10, 2010
On this, the 9th anniversary of that horrible day, politics and religion are getting into the fray over 9/11. To me, it doesn't really matter what they build at that site because I know you are not there anymore and my memories of you are not there. The only things I remember of that place are fire and ash and twisted metal, and none of those things have anything to do with you. I would rather remember your smile, your infectious laugh, your outlook on life, your endearing sense of humor. That day isn't about politics or religion or arguing or buildings or burning books, it's about people; the ones we lost, the ones they left behind and the ones they never met, who should be allowed to grow up in a different world, a world without words of hatred, without images of fire and twisted metal. The image I choose on this day is my friend Tommy, smiling back at me. God Bless my friend.
Ron Keller
September 10, 2010
Unseen, Unheard,
Yet always so near.
So loved, so missed,
And so very dear.
I guess that says it all Tommy. You are missed and loved by all who knew you.. I'll be up to visit you soon.
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