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Stephen Colaio Obituary
There are countless ways to encapsulate Mark and Stephen Colaio, but the T-shirts do it in three words. The brothers owned matching shirts that they wore every chance they got. On the front was inscribed, "Life Is Good."
"They drank up life," said their sister, Jean Colaio Steinbach. Mark was 34, two years older than Stephen, and in the best sense of an elder brother, he always looked out for him. As their sister put it, "From Little League to Wall Street, they were best friends."
Mark Colaio was a senior managing director and ran the agency desk at Cantor Fitzgerald, and he recruited his brother to work with him as a broker on the desk.
Granted, they had their distinctive sides. Stephen Colaio, for instance, adored the song "Rapper's Delight" by the Sugar Hill Gang, and knew it by heart.
Then there was that hair thing with Mark Colaio. One day last summer, he and his father, Victor, were getting their hair cut. They decided to opt for pretty short. In an impromptu moment, they decided to go the limit and shaved their heads entirely. They announced that shaved heads would henceforth become a summer ritual.
Family was paramount to the brothers Colaio. Mark Colaio lived with his wife, June, and two children, Delaney, 3, and Joseph, 22 months, in TriBeCa. Stephen Colaio, who was engaged, lived a few blocks away. So did their sister.
One recent night, Victor Colaio told his daughter, "I lost my beautiful sons, but I lost my two best friends. That's how I feel about it. They were my best friends."
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D R
September 11, 2024
Never Forgotten! Ever!
Wilko Koning
September 11, 2024
I am deeply touched by the memory of your lives, even though we never had the chance to meet. Every year, my wife's family group chat fondly recalls and honors you. Eight years ago, Caitlin and I visited the memorial at Ground Zero, searching for your names. It was then that she shared with me stories of your friendship with her aunt. This year, I came across this obituary for the first time and it struck me that I am now the same age as Mark when he passed, with two daughters in school. I can only imagine how incredibly difficult it must be for your entire family to have experienced such a loss. My heartfelt wishes go out to you all. With love, Wilko
Del Newberry
January 26, 2021
We are praying for your families today, Mark and Stephen. We will never forget. Much love,
Daniel Zim
September 11, 2020
Remembering all the good times in Montauk. I miss you Steve. I miss your sense of humor.
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Jennifer & Vinny Gerard
October 20, 2019
Each and every day since you were taken from everyone that loves you so much; that includes us, the days have grown darker and life became less brighter.
You were a light a huge light in this world.
Your smile and personality lit up hearts and rooms and your sense of humor and love of life was contagious!!!
Stephen, we were blessed to have you as our friend when you were physically here and we are still blessed as you are our guardian angel.
As you rest in the peace you so deserve along with your beloved brother Mark, and, Marks brother in law Tommy, continue to shine on your love, light, strength and guidance on all of us who are blessed to have called you a our friend. You mean so much to us; you did then; you did now and you will forever and always.
Continue to shine your love, guidance, strength and protection on everyone here who misses you and loves you.
We miss you, we love you!
Sending our hugs and friendship to you
Jennifer & Vinny
October 19, 2019
Today was the first time Ive been to the 911 memorial. My wife and I selected a name at random from the wall and it was Stephens. We looked him up and were touched at how much love he shared with his family and especially with his brother. Fought back a few tears thinking about the people they left behind. Wanted you to know that their legacy lives on.
J & A Ashby
September 11, 2019
Miss you guys!
D.R.
September 13, 2018
Steve,
As long as I live, I will never forget you, or what you did for me in Hicksville High School. Think of you just about every day.
Miss you Dude, and Tom, Mark. Take care of Tommy's sister, Anne.
I think the measure of a man is to look back and see how many lives theyve touched, and You my friend, in the short time you were with us touched more people, so, so many more people, than anyone else I've ever known or met. You are and will always be held in the Highest Regard, you were an amazing person. Will see you soon!!
Lynne Rodriguez
September 13, 2018
There's not a moment that I don't think of you Steve...I know your light is shining brightly up there, and your memory lives on in the lives of those you touched. You made St. Thomas University a great place to be! Love you
David V
September 12, 2018
From a past first responder on 9/11 your sacrifice and life is not forgotten and as I say ,it cant and wont ever be forgotten! Bless your soul and may God always bless your family and friends with strength,love and peace Rest easy my friend Your the true hero that made the ultimate sacrifice for all of us to continue in our freedoms and way of life.
Jennifer and Vinny Gerard
September 12, 2018
You are always in our mind and in our hearts.....17 years, yes, BUT, time means nothing when love and friendship are strong.
Our bond and friendship means so much still to Vinny and I.
You have us warmth, love, true friendship and lots of laughs.
Most of all, you were the love of our friend Serena's life, and, you made her so happy!! It was great seeing you guys in love and the bond u share then and now....your bond is everlasting.
We miss and love you so much!!
Continue to shine on and rest in the arms of the angels.
Anne Jordan Stewart
September 11, 2018
Rob Jordan admired your family. I send love, Anne Jordan Stewart
Rob Kennedy
September 11, 2018
Saw your name at the memorial this summer. Good times riding the pallet jacks upstairs at Sterns and having beers at the Chinese place in the mall. You are not forgotten.
Jennifer and Vinny Gerard
September 11, 2017
The memories of you Stephen, can never be erased from our hearts and mind.
Your sense of humor, and, your ability to make everyone feel at ease in your presence was because of the down to earth guy you were.
You made our friend Serena, very happy....we loved seeing you together smiling, holding hands and laughing.
We take all of the memories of our times spent together, hold them close....and smile through tears....we believe that you are resting amongst the angels, with Gods light and love all around you....shining down on all of us here that love you so so much.
We will all be together one day...laughing.
Continue to rest in God's light and love......shine on
September 11, 2017
Tom, Mark, Steve - you will never be forgotten, 16 years has passed, and still my head and heart hurt the same. Miss you guys.
Anne, please find peace with your brother,
we will mourn you as much everyday.
Joseph Scalia
September 11, 2016
Both the Mark and Stephen are in my thoughts and my prayers, as are Jean and the family.
Jennifer and Vincent Gerard
September 11, 2016
15 years, 15 hours, 15 minutes or days.....our love and respect for you is still the same!
Your larger than life personality, your smile and the way you treated everyone the same is THE legacy that only you possessed.
Vinny and I hold you in our heart, and, we hold you in our minds....we cherish our memories and friendship. You are missed tremendously, the heartache and pain has never gone away for us in losing you.
Keep watching over your girl, my best friend.....keep walking by her side, with your strength and love.
She and I talk about you....smiles with tears.....the countless laughs and stories we share of your antics comfort us.
Vinny and I miss you!
Our son bears your name, as his middle name in honor of you, and he knows all about you, as does our little guy, whose 6.
We will continue to pray for you to rest in the arms of the Angels, in God's light and love.
We also pray that Mark, your beloved brother, and that Thomas, Mark's brother in law, are resting together, cracking jokes and busting chops!!
You are loved and missed now and forever.....one day, we will meet again, hug and crack jokes together!!!
Wendy Dickerson
September 10, 2016
Scott Kraemer, I received your message regarding Stephen's memorial bracelet. I would love to give it to you. The email didn't have a way for me to respond to you. If you get this, please email me with your contact info at [email protected], or text or call me at 480-390-7017.
September 10, 2016
To my dear friend Steve, I think of you on a regular basis I can remember the smile you gave the last time I saw you at our 10 year high school reunion and that is the same smile I give to you every time I think of you, you are greatly loved here on earth as in heaven I'm sure, I miss and love you brother.
Scott Kraemer
Bob Bishop.
September 26, 2015
Sitting on a bench in Memory of Mark and Steven at Fort Hill Cemetery in Montauk. I new it had to be a sad day by the dat. It could not be in a better place. I will say a prayer their family.
Jennifer and Vinny Gerard
September 12, 2015
Fourteen years, fourteen minutes, fourteen seconds.....our friendship, love and pain of losing you is still in our minds and hearts.
You are constantly in our thoughts prayers and in our hearts and minds.
The amazing person you were, your hilarious sense of humor and the way you made everyone feel comfortable, and welcomed cannot be imitated!!! You are truly a beautiful soul an amazingly caring person.
Vinny and I think of you each day, we know your with your one and only true love, guiding her, protecting her and loving her still. That makes us smile through our tears.
We miss you more than words can say.
It's been a long day without you my friend....and I'll tell you all about it when I see you my friend!!!
Continue to rest in eternal heavenly peace, shine your love and light on your true love as you always have and on all of us who love you beyond time and space.
September 11, 2015
Mark, Stephen, and Tom... you will always live in my heart, and I will never forget.
September 11, 2015
My name is Wendy Dickerson in Phoenix, AZ. I was part of a remembrance project and was given a bracelet with Steven's name engraved on it (see below. He was a stranger to me, but I wore it for a full year after 9/11 and prayed for his loved ones daily. I have worn it for the month of September since then, and continued the prayers. If Steven's family members would like to have the bracelet, I would be happy to mail it to them. Recently I just felt like it should go home. My email is [email protected].
Gary Rine
September 13, 2014
Watch a sunset in mtk
Steve and Mark are present in that heavenly sky
Miss you Steve
God bless you
Lynne Rodriguez
September 12, 2014
Meeting you at St. Thomas University was a blessing and the beginning of a great friendship...I always think of you and will continue to keep my memories of you close to my heart...SIP Steve....
ELLEN JOHNSON
September 11, 2014
MY NAME IS ELLEN JOHNSON MY CO. DID BUSS.WITH CANTOR FITZGERALD FOR MANY YEARS I'M ALSO FRIENDS WITH VICTOR(VITO)COLAIO ON BAXTER ST.I CAN REMEMBER TEASING STEPHEN ABOUT HIM GIVING UP THE SINGLE LIFE TO GET MARRIED AND HIS STOCK ANSWER WAS THATS WHAT YOU DO WHEN YOUR IN LOVE SEE HOW HAPPY MY BROTHER IS,SUCH A SHARP GUY I STILL MISS HIM AND MARK BUT I FIND SOME COMFORT IN KNOWING THEY ARE TOGETHER WATCHING OVER THEIR FAMILY AND FRIENDS THEY WERE SO CLOSE BUT EVEN AFTER 13 YEARS IT STILL HURTS GOD BLESS YOUR FAMILY MISS YOUR LAUGH AND SMARTY ANSWERS
scott rogers
September 11, 2014
I knew steve from st Thomas university in Miami, I always remembered that he went to Hicksville high, the same school my father went to, I did not know until today that he died on 9/11, my thoughts are with his family and glad that I have photo of him and others from school
Rob Taylor
September 11, 2014
Just had a good memory of Steve. Made me smile. Unfortunately, today is the day that brings back those memories. Steve and I were friends at St Thomas Univ in Miami. God bless.
Bob Stanton
September 11, 2014
Miss you big fella
Jennifer and Vinny Gerard
September 10, 2014
The years are passing...but our love, friendship and memories of you and your beautiful, energetic personality have not faded.
The light you gave off when you walked into a room was contagious and awesome. We know that in heaven above, your light, shines and shines bright.
We think of you, we honor you and we pray that you will continue to shine your love, your strength and guidance
We will always carry you in our hearts, minds and soul.
We love you
Jennifer and Vinny
Kevin (Mac) McNamara
October 2, 2013
Stevo,
I still miss you my friend. Soup and I think of you often. The Life Is Good shirts all 3 of us always wore still makes me think of all our good times in Greece, Sweden, Newport and the City.
Love you like a brother!!
September 12, 2013
Yesterday was a very difficult day, although 12 years have gone since you ascended into heaven, I still feel the pain as if the world has just lost you. I think of you everyday and how your life was taken so viciously. Until we meet again.
Lynne Rodriguez
September 12, 2013
Steve, you are always in my thoughts...I carry you with me, along with your infectious smile, laugh and beautiful soul....SIP my friend...you'll be loved always.
Ann Zemaitis
September 11, 2013
On this day, I think of those you left behind-- Delaney, her dear brother, and your wife, June. My son Nick was a preschool classmate of Delaney's and I googled her and see she has grown into a beautiful young woman who is doing good in the world with her anti bullying campaign. You'd be proud. I walk by Beach St. all the time, look up at your name and it makes me sad you're all still not living there happily ever after. May you and all your family still here find peace, love, and happiness ever after.
Jennifer and Vinny
March 8, 2013
Stephen: your energy, smile, bright light and laugh remain within our hearts, memories and soul. We miss you, love you and we remember you, your beloved brother Mark and Thomas each and everyday, along with the other innocent, beautiful souls taken much much to soon that horrific day.
Our only glimpse of hope is that you are all in peace and that one day we will see you again hug you laugh and have great times once again.
Our hearts are still broken over losing you we love you
March 7, 2013
I havent sprayed right guard deodorant since High School. I use roll on now, but as soon as i smelled it it reminded me of you in gym class at Hicksville Junior High locker room. wierd how you keep me always thinking of you. miss you so much every day!
January 2, 2013
I'm thinking of you today although you didn't know me nor did I know who you were until I met Delaney. She is an amazing, strong and beautiful girl. Prayers.
Kate McCue
October 5, 2012
Stephen-I did not know that your page on Legacy is still active-how very nice. I too always think of you all the time, although we never knew each other or met.
I was married to Peter Nordholm, who owns a home just above your home in Montauk, up on the hill behind your home. At the time of your death, Peter and I would stand out on our deck watching your home and still in shock over what had happened.
For the longest time, there was no activity at the house; no lights, no people-finally one eve. we saw lights on and we were grateful for that.
Every year in Sept. I think of you all and also at other times of the year. Blessings to all of you.
With sincerest wishes,
Kate McCue
Bob Stanton
September 26, 2012
Not too many days go by that I don't think about Steve and the great times I spent with him as he drove me back and forth to Weehawken. His infectious personality and the way he brought joy to everyone around him. He truly could brighten a dark day for just about anyone.
While the years have gone by, his memory in my life will never be forgotten.
Eileen Gilmour (Garvey)
September 14, 2012
It's hard to believe it's been 11 years. Still thinking of you both! You will never be forgotten.
Lynne Rodriguez
September 11, 2012
Steve, I'm thinking of you today, as I always do, with tears, laughter & gratitude that u were a part of my life....I'll never forget you my friend & the way you brightened so many lives...love u always...
Sandy (Burghardt) Aitchison
September 11, 2012
Prayers for you, Mark, your Aunt Anita, and your family. I remember you guys very young when you lived next door in Yonkers....a very long time ago....Saw you last at your Aunt Anita's funeral and could not believe how you both grew into fine young men.
Jennifer and Vinny Gerard
September 10, 2012
It is still so hard to hear your name, say or name, or think back on our times together without crying and laughing at the same time. Crying because u are deeply missed and laughing because, well that is what everyone did around you Stephen, or, if not laughing, just feeling great, because that is what you did to people you made everyone feel loved and special.
There has not been many people in our life since you were taken so ugly, and, tragically that I can say has that special quality that you had.
When GOD made you he TRULY broke the mold.
Everyday Vinny and I think of you, we pray for you and we know that one day, we will all be together, laughing, crying and smiling again.
May you continue to fly on angels wings and be our guide from above.
You are not forgotten, you are loved,and missed beyond words.
Lisa Cohen
September 10, 2012
Thinking of you now and always.You are missed and loved forever.
Gary Rine
September 10, 2012
Words do not express enough how much you are still missed...Time has not relinquished the feelings of how you were taken too early from all who knew you... Rest in peace brothers...
Lynne Rodriguez
August 3, 2012
Everytime I hear "Back to Life" or "However do you want me", on the radio, I know it's you saying hi to me...Miss and love u buddy...always.
sean garvey
August 2, 2012
Stephen, Mark
Just thinking of you and your brother.
still don't believe it.
Sean Garvey
21 Montana st
July 22, 2012
Never Forgotten - think of you, Tom and Mark every day
Tina Tritschler-Cohen
October 14, 2011
I still remember you and Mark in Burns Ave Elementary.
Rest in Peace.
September 12, 2011
Steve,
You always made everyone smile and always made them feel comfortable and that they fit in regardless of whom they were friends with. I remember your smile and your laugh and how you made all the years in Hicksville Junior High and High School a nicer place to be. I remember one time when I was in band and the football team was giving us crap because we were practicing and you didnt participate, you just started talking to me and made me smile. You were never like anyone else. I still have a pic of you from Annmaries birthday party and I remember that night fondly. Rest in Peace Steve. You truly will never be forgotten.
Hugs,
Tina Tucker Cleary
Lynne Rodriguez
September 11, 2011
Steve, my beloved friend from St. Thomas University in Miami, Fl, I am thinking of you today, as I often do, with so much love and gratitude for having been in my life. My thoughts & prayers go out to your family today and always. I know your light continues to shine on brightly in heaven. Love you always buddy!
Tim McCabe
September 11, 2011
I met Steve at Nassau Community College, and would also see him during the summer in Montauk. What a great guy. RIP Steve and Mark. My thoughts and prayers are with the Colaio family.
Janet Baker
September 11, 2011
I am a teacher at a girls school in Rye, NY. All of us were deeply affected by the events of September 11; some suffered personal losses.
Following that day, we held an all-school prayer service, and each of us were given a card with the name of one of the victims t the World Trade Center. As we held the cards, we called out their names. My card had the name of Stephen Colaio.
I did not know Stephen, but I have carried his card everyday since. I have felt a personal connection to him and felt like a guardian of sorts of his memory. It has been an honor. I have learned more about him through the Internet and feel great sympathy for his family and loved ones, especially learning that his brother also was lost on that day.
Since that time, I have taught a number of girls who lost their fathers and one mother on 9-11. Their parents would be so proud of them - their courage, grace, and joyful spirit are great legacies they inherited and developed.
And now, on this 10th anniversary, I am sitting in front of my TV watching the ceremonies, and I am holding my card with Stephen's name and holding his memory in my heart. God bless Stephen, Mark, and his family.
Jennifer & Vincent Gerard
September 5, 2011
They say time heals all wounds, and, that's not true...for the wound is still open and fresh from losing you, our dearest, funniest, most loving friend Stephen. As I sit here with tears in my eyes, I also, smile, due to all of the memories both Vinny and I have of sharing special times with you.
We think of you each and everyday, and, still do not want to believe you are gone....such a beautiful, loving, caring, gentle soul, taken much to early from this life. The world is a much darker place since you are not here with us physically.
We keep your memory alive in so many ways, in our hearts and minds, as we talk about you and cry and laugh at the same time.
Such a beautiful soul such as you, taken in such an ugly, evil, hateful way, so the opposite of you. You walked into a room, and, you were the light, laughter, presence in the room, everyone wanted to be near you, every woman, and, every man.
Spending time with you, was like nothing Vinny and I will ever experience again. Your unconditional spirit, your jokes, the way you would make us feel...appreciated, loved as your friends and listened to.
Stephen, we miss you, and we love you in many more ways than our message here to you will ever be expressed.
Continue to rest in the palm of GOD's hand and please continue to shine your love and guidance on us and all of those that so love and adore you.
Rest in Peace dear friend.....until we met again.
Diane Howe-Mcguirk
August 23, 2011
I grew up right off Burns ave also.As young as 13, i can remember riding bikes down Kuhl ave. Stephan was a sweet and funny guy. Always had a smile to give away.Did not know him as an adult but i am sure he touched many lives in a very positive way. 10 years have gone by and still i think of him and Mark often. So sorry for the Colaio family. May you be blessed with many fond memories of two really special guys.
Gary Rine
August 21, 2011
Not a day goes by that I dont have a thought about Stephen and the special person he was. Montauk will always be a special place. When i stand with Stephen and Mark in their beautiful resting place. I remember the good times and how precious life is. Rest in peace brothers..Till we meet again
Dave Pehrsson-Heatherton
August 17, 2011
I guess i was praying all these years that this somehow was all just a bad dream that i'll wake from and find you still among us. I wish to read the paper and see you've won the presidency, or becoming owner of a huge company, quarterback of the Jets, or Playing the part of the next James Bond. Steve, you could've done it all. you had it all. I realize it was a nightmare that happened but it was a real nightmare, and these years without you doing all the things you would've done, even if it wasn't the presidency, or the quarterback, even if it was just living on the earth with us, it would have been much better for all. just knowing you were here with us would be much better, and without you the world is just not the same.
August 2, 2011
Sitting at Work and thought about you. I miss that funny friend..I miss ya Buddy
Michael Valente
June 22, 2011
the nicest guy I never really knew. he piled me and 2 of my friends, (and a quarter keg) into his suzuki samarai and brought us to a kegger on one of the beaches in Montauk. He didn't have to, he was older than us, but once he remembered me from Hicksville it was game on. I think about you most times 9/11 is mentioned. I know your up there with your brother making people laugh.
Jennifer and Vinny Gerard
September 13, 2010
Your friendship, your laugh, your jokes, your awesome personality, the way you lit up a room upon entering....these are just some of the qualities vinny and i miss about you! You are a friend like no other that we have ever had, Stephen. God made you and broke the mold, TRULY. We miss you, we love you, and we honored you by giving our oldest son, Anthony Joseph, your name as well...Anthony Joseph Stephen, is his full name. We talk to Anthony about you and tell him to pray for your soul to be at peace and to continue to shine down on all of us that so love you here. Our lives have not been the same since you left....the world truly became a darker place the day you were so tragically taken from us. A BEAUTIFUL SOUL such as you...we can never come across again. We miss you, until we meet again dearest friend.....
Jill Russo
September 11, 2010
I will NEVER forget you, your laugh and your great advice. The world lost an incredible man! My thoughts and prayers are with your family this day and every day!
Tony Viola
September 11, 2010
to my old dear friend steve.so many years have gone by.just so much time.i was talking with my mom the other day,she was saying what a great person you were.I mean she really only new you from teaching us religion class but she said she could tell that you were a good soul.9 years later i'm so sorry. A GOOD SOUL INDEED
Bill Suvatey
September 11, 2010
R.I.P Steve you are Missed by all
Lynne Rodriguez
September 10, 2010
Steve, tomorrow marks the tragic day that you were taken from all those that loved and cherished you. You were such an awesome human being, whose light I know shines brightly from heaven. Continued prayers go out to your family and all those whose lives you touched just by being in them. I love you now and always.
Eileen Gilmour (Garvey)
September 10, 2010
Thinking of both you and Mark and your family too!
Lorna
September 10, 2010
Writing to you today instead of tomorrow because I will not be on my computer tomorrow, or have the tv or radio on. 9 years later and the pain, sorrow and anger hasnt gotten any easier for anyone. My thoughts of course are with you not only during this time but always. You are never forgotten and we often talk about what a great person you are. I know you are looking down and seeing that no matter how much time, how many years have gone by, you will never, ever be forgotten.
September 5, 2010
Thought of you today as I have on many days. What a loss to so many. I'm picturing your smile and remembering the laughter - so much laughter with you, Mark, and June.
lori peck
September 4, 2010
i cant summon any words missing u doesn't cover it 7 days till my misery why why why
August 29, 2010
getting closer to the day you were gone not easy for many reasons thinking of those last few times I hate labor day because it reminds me of you always with me
Lorna Mund
June 9, 2010
Thought of you today. After all this time I still cant believe what happened. The thought of that day is just as shocking and horrible today as it was back in 2001. You are never forgotten though and never will be.
March 30, 2010
Happy Birthday in Heaven to one of my very first friends.
It's still very hard to imagine this world without you, because you made the world such a fun and sunny place to be...you were a one of a kind person and there will never be another like you.
God, I wish you were still here!!!
I will miss you always!!!
Sue Roman Foschino
MIKE MARINO
December 1, 2009
Steve is one friend i had never had a single bad thought about. A great guy, who never judged anyone. I love & miss you bro, I think of you often, & i will never ever forget you. When my time is up i will see you on the other side. GOD BLESS YOU & YOUR FAMILY
Lynne Harris-Rodriguez
October 9, 2009
Steve, I love and miss you dearly. You will always remain in my thoughts and your family, in my prayers. Thanks for blessing me with your friendship. Love you always, Lynne
Friend
September 12, 2009
This is the day that always gets me. I am not sure why. I thought about you - and some others - all day today. It was a good day, the kids got extra attention and things were more appreciated.
It still hurts so bad thinking I could do nothing when I was right there. My first step in the other direction will haunt me forever.
I am so sorry.
You are so missed.
Cheers bud.
Lorna Mund
September 11, 2009
Steve, the weather here today reflects how we are all feeling. Another year has passed and it just never gets any easier. I think about you all the time, especially on your birthday and today. I met up with a few people last week from HS that I hadnt seen in years and we were talking about you for such a long time. Some of the stories that were being told were so funny it brought tears to our eyes from laughing so hard. So although you are physically not here, your spirit and our great memories will never disappear.
September 10, 2009
Thank you for all the loving words for my brothers throughout the years (especially you, Jennifer!) From time to time I check here and find comfort from the wonderful messages. It means so much to me and my family that they were so loved.
Jean
Jennifer
September 10, 2009
Stephen was a very good friend to both my husband and I. He lives in our hearts and minds.
The pain of losing Stephen, is with us today, and, will be forever. We think of Stephen, his brother Mark, and, Mark's brother in law, Thomas, and pray for their souls to be in peace and to be with all of us that love them while we live without them.
Stephen was a larger than life type of man. He walked in a room and everyone was a much better person for being in that room with him. We miss him, we love him and cherish his friendship and memory forever.
We wont let time erase one bit of yesterday...much love and friendship
Erin Donnelly (nee Murphy)
September 8, 2009
I just found this site and had to add my condolences, Stephen and Mark are often in my thoughts and prayers ,as are their entire family.
My parents, Victor and Christine have been friends for years and even though we moved to Ireland in '76 I know the parents continued to have contact.
As children I, my siblings and the Colaio kids often were together and I remember babysitting a couple of times for the boys and Jean (although I wasn't that much older!!).
Know that all the Murphy crew will be thinking of you on this anniversary.
Erin
Lorna
March 31, 2009
Stephen,
Happy 40th Birthday!!!! Never stop thinking about you!!!
Doug Abraham
March 30, 2009
Happy 40th Birthday!!!
March 30, 2009
Happy 40th my friend.
September 12, 2008
Miss you pal!
Jennifer&Vinny Gerard
September 11, 2008
On this seven year anniversary of the tragic day you were taken from this world, know that we, your friends, remember you, honor you and miss you.
You are always in our thoughts, minds and hearts. We know that one day we will laugh with you again. May you rest in peace, shine down on everyone you love always.
This world is a duller place without you.
Your friends.....
Jenn, Vinny and Anthony
Lorna Mund
September 11, 2008
This is the 7 year anniversary of that tragic day and the atmosphere is very somber. I hope you are looking down from heaven so you can see that people have not forgotten about you. You are definitely missed by your love ones and no one will ever forget the beautiful person you are.
Doug Abraham
March 30, 2008
Happy Birthday!!!
Vinny & Jennifer Gerard
September 22, 2007
We miss you each day. Thinking of you our dear friend not just on the six year anniversary of September 11th, BUT, every single day. We honor you, we will never forget you, we love you. Wishing we had more time for the good times.
With love and friendship
Wendy Bassuk
September 12, 2007
I think of your family often. My name is Wendy Cohen, now Bassuk. I was with Jean and Max on that hoffic day in my apartment in the West Village. The 3 of us just sat, cried and just wondered what to do for hours. I've moved out of NYC and to NJ since, but my memories will be everlasting. Jean and I have not spoken since the funeral. I would love to speak to her. I understand if it is to painful for her to speak to me as I am a direct reminder of that day. Again, I think of you and your families all of the time. Please let Jean, Max and the rest of the family know that I am deeply sorry. Sincerely, Wendy Bassuk
KATHLEEN MCCUE-NORDHOLM
September 12, 2007
MY HUSBAND AND I OWN A HOME RIGHT UP FROM YOURS IN MONTAUK...OUR COTTAGE DECK OVERLOOKS YOUR HOME.
WE ARE AT 15 FIRESTONE RD.
I HAVE NEVER FORGOTTEN THIS TRADGEDY THAT STRUCK AND I REMEMBER ALL THE NIGHTS, WEEKS AND MONTHS PACING THE FLOORS AT OUR HOME JUST HOPING LIGHTS WOULD STILL SHINE AT YOUR HOME BELOW US.
I PRAY FOR YOU STILL.
KATE
Johanne Momesso
September 11, 2007
Just know that I am thinking of you and your family on this 6th anniversary....
Lauri Geoghegan(Schoenfeld)
September 11, 2007
It has been 15 years since I've seen Steve and I have still yet to meet someone who could light up a room or brighten your day like him. My thoughts are with him and his family on this day.
Doug Abraham
March 30, 2007
Happy Birthday!!!
Kristine
October 27, 2006
As I cross-stitched your name on the memorial that I am doing for all of the victims, I prayed for you and your family. Please know that your death was not in vain. We will always remember. God Bless.
steven barry
September 12, 2006
YOU WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN.MY NAME IS STEPHEN ALSO.I SAW YOUR PICTURE AND WANTED TO PAY MY RESPECTS.MAY GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR BROTHER AND YOUR FAMILY.
P Tabbernor
September 11, 2006
In memory....
Johanne Momesso
September 10, 2006
On this 5th Anniversary, I honor you with this page. You are not forgotten..
My thoughts & prayers are with you and your family today..
Jennifer & Vinny Gerard
September 7, 2006
Thinking of you, praying for your soul to be in peace, and, remembering all the good times we had with you. You made us smile, you made us laugh ALWAYS.
May God hold you in the palm of his hand.
5 Years Gone, but NEVER WILL YOU BE FORGOTTEN.
Vinny and Jennifer Gerard
March 30, 2006
Stephen:
We have not forgotten you...we never will and all the GREAT times we had together, and, today, being your birthday we remember you, we pray for your soul to be in peace, and hope you know how much you are missed by us.
Fly on angels wings our friend...may we see each other again one day.
Gioia herrmann
September 12, 2005
Stephen,
We had a few friends from St. Thomas here yesterday and as they read the names of you and your brother we took a moment to remember all the fun you brought everywhere you went. We are grateful to have known you and thank God you touched our lives.
The Herrmanns
Dave Pehrsson
September 8, 2005
Stephen - barely knew you in High School - but I remmember in the breezeway at HHS between classes asking me how my day was going and telling me “my day would get better” or some other type of upbeat positive message. You were a great guy, always so upbeat and somehow you always seemed to see things in a positive way.
My memories of you are brief, but not forgotten. I just wanted to let you know after years have gone by – though I barely knew ya, I still have not, and will never forget you.
You will always be remembered.
Vinny Gerard
August 2, 2005
Hey Stephen:
Just wanted to let you know that you were on my mind today....may you rest in peace. We had a great time that March before that dreadful day, when we went out for our birthdays...i always remember that night, and I wish we had the chance to do that again.
I will see you...prayers and thoughts...Vinn
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