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Eugen Lazar Obituary
Eugen Lazar was a child with a million questions. How does our body work, his mother once recalled him asking their pediatrician back in Bucharest when he was 3. When we stop walking, what makes us stop? "All these questions," said Siu Chong, his girlfriend. "He was always wondering how everything works, always seeking for knowledge."
A programmer at eSpeed, part of Cantor Fitzgerald, Eugen, 27, had graduated from Cooper Union with a degree in engineering. Fascinated by music and how people hear it, he was building his own speakers. He was a cook and a baker. He and Siu liked to make crepes together; in Paris, they watched closely to see how they were made. They had even tackled chocolate fondue.
An only child, Eugen lived in the Glendale section of Queens in an apartment in the home of his parents, Alecsandru and Elena, who immigrated from Romania in 1985.
He met his girlfriend, a graphic designer, on a camping trip in the Catskills years ago. When he learned years later that she no longer had a boyfriend, he sent her an e-mail message and asked her out for pizza.
Last Sunday, they returned to the restaurant, Lombardi's in SoHo, and remembered their first date. "He was so perfect for me," Siu said.
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Cara
February 28, 2025
Eugen, from what I have read about you here and on cantorfamilies, you sound like you were such an interesting, passionate, and dedicated young man with many interests and so much going for you. I bet your crepes tasted amazing. I am so sorry for what happened to you and also so sorry for the loss your family and friends had to endure, especially your parents who lost their only child and your girlfriend, Siu, who sounds like she was your perfect match and companion. Please know you’re never forgotten. Hope you’re enjoying your special day, happy heavenly birthday!
Alex
January 16, 2020
Eugen did not die in vain.....
S J. Friscia III
May 1, 2014
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September 10, 2013
I miss you and think of you! Wish you were still here with us! Lena Caldarusa
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September 12, 2009
I was lucky enough to be selected to read Eugen's name at ground zero this year! My thoughts go out to all who knew him.
We will never forget!
Sincerely,
Elizabeth Ketelsen
Jackie
September 12, 2008
I met Eugen when we were about 8 yrs old and went through elementary, junior high and high school with him. He had just immigrated to the US and I remember he did not know much English. He taught himself English and was always the most motivated, friendliest person. He would tutor students when needed and was always so friendly and pleasant. Eugen was the smartest and most dedicated student I met throughout my school years. I was very sad when I realized he had perished at the World Trade Center. He will always be missed.
P Tabbernor
December 4, 2006
In remembrance....
Kristine
November 10, 2006
As I cross-stitched your name on the memorial that I am doing for all of the victims, I prayed for you and your family. Please know that your death was not in vain. We will always remember. God Bless.
Henry Glass
September 12, 2002
Today I had the honor of Ringing a Freedom Bell and wearing Eugen's name in his memory. In doing this I have never felt such a feeling of honor. I now carry and will always carry Eugen's name and memory with me, not only for him but for his family that loved him so much. Though Eugen's light was extengished so tragically, his memory will be a light that will shine bright and true. My thoughts and prayers are with Eugen's Parents and Family now and always. May we never forget.
Rosemarie Abbott
September 11, 2002
Today, September 11, 2002, on the first anniversary of the tragedy, I was given Eugen's name on a button to wear at the memorial service held at my company Boehringer-Ingelheim Pharmaceuticals in Ridgefield, CT. I am honored.
Lochie Horton
September 7, 2002
I am very proud to say that I wear Eugen's name on my mercy band that will be worn on my wrist forever! I found it interesting that we are the same age. I have a son that is a million question boy. God be with his family and love,Siu! I am glad that I am the person hundreds of miles away who can pass along the memory of Eugen to the world!
Angie Campbell
May 3, 2002
May God Bless you and watch over the ones that you left behind on 9/11/01. Rest in his loving peace forever more.
Siu Chong
April 22, 2002
On behalf of Eugen's family, we would like to thank everyone for their support. You can also read more tributes from Eugen's family and friends at www.cantorfamilies.com
-Siu, girlfriend
Dan Ardeleano
April 14, 2002
Dumnezeu sa te odihneasca in pace, Eugen.
Condoleante familiei tale.
Luella Workhoven
March 18, 2002
I don't know who will read this, but I do have a story. I went to a special church in Riverside, CA. (Harvest Crusade) I have since moved back to Las Vegas, but not long after 9-11 happened, the church was selling bracelets of the victims the money was going to NY charities. I was lucky enough to get Eugen's name. I have been searching for a long time and have now ran across all this information on Eugene. Let me tell you putting a face to a name is more than words can say....My prayers are with his family and for his spirit everyday. I really hope that someone writes me back....
May God Bless America...
Luella Workhoven
February 19, 2002
DEAR GOD SHINE YOUR LIGHT ON THIS WONDERFUL YOUNG MAN EUGEN LAZAR AND MAY HIS SOUL REST IN PEACE WITH GOD AND HIS ANGELS...GOD BLESS HIS FAMILY AND FRIENDS..GOD BLESS AMERICA AND NEW YORK AND MAY WE NEVER FORGET 9/11/01..MAY GOD AND ALL HIS SAINTS GREET YOU AT THE GATES OF HEAVEN..AMEN
Teresa Jahn
December 26, 2001
We are very sorry for your loss of Eugen. Our hearts cry with you.
America Cries
We see your sorrow-
and our hearts cry....
We can not erase your pain
but you do not have to face the anguish alone-for we-
-the American people-
are beside you.
We so desperately want to have the touch that brings you comfort,
the strength that gives you courage,
and the words to lighten your spirits.
And when we are left speechless
may the silence of our nation weave love into your hearts
to ease your sorrow.
May you find healing through our nation's strength as we-
-the American people-
face this difficult time together. Our hearts are with you. Teresa Jahn
Dixon, IL
Clara Evans
October 5, 2001
To the family and friends of Eugen Lazar -
My heart goes out to you. I did not know him. But we have lost so much and so many.
I pray for strength for all of us.
Barbara Bolin
September 24, 2001
MY THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS GO OUT TO YOU ALL.MAY GOD BLESS YOU ALL.
EUGENE MAY YOU REST IN PEACE.
Gail Montemayor
September 19, 2001
To Eugen's family, my thoughts & prayers are with you. I had the privilege of meeting Eugen at Grover Cleveland HS in 1989 and I have only fond memories of this sweet, adorable and brilliant man.
Gail
September 17, 2001
Hi. I had a friend at Grover Cleveland HS (Class of '92) named Eugene Lazar, who would be 27 this year. Can someone please confirm to me if this is the same person?
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