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For people who did not know her, I would say she was hard working, intelligent and very independent. She put herself through college while married and raising a family. Her career as a Controller and Production Manager at ALA in California was something she took very seriously. She also took very seriously caring for animals, whether it be by donating money or taking care of strays. I remember times when she gathered stray cats from her neighborhood and took them to the vet for necessary shots and to be fixed. (She found homes for most of them, and the others she took care of herself as she did her own two at home, Mickey and Mouse, who were her pride and joy.)
My mom told me that she would someday return to her home in Massachusetts. Our family's only regret is not being able to spend those years to come with her. She was truly one of a kind and the world will never be the same without her.
Tribute submitted by Maria Koutny and Family.
Protector of Cats
Marie Pappalardo's passions were deep and varied. Once, with a friend, she finagled her way into the stall of Affirmed, the Triple Crown-winning racehorse, and hugged him. "Because he always ran with such love, and he was strong, he was something she always loved," said Ms. Pappalardo's daughter, Maria Koutny.
She was profoundly devoted to the Feast of the Three Saints, celebrated on Labor Day weekend at her home church, the Holy Rosary in Lawrence, Mass. When she neared the end of her pregnancy and was told that her daughter would be born that Sunday, she said she would not give birth until she had been to the feast. And she was right.
Ms. Pappalardo, 53, who was returning home to Paramount, Calif., on Flight 175 after visiting the Boston area — for the feast and Ms. Koutny's birthday — was also a devoted protector of cats, catching wild ones and taking them to her vet for shots and spaying.
"She made a hole in her garage so they could come in and eat and get out," Ms. Koutny said. "One was Goofy, one was Daisy, one was Minnie, they all had those kinds of names. Hopefully the person living there now is still feeding the feral cats."
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Tino
November 29, 2024
Such a nice lady give me a job at ALA foods in Santa Fe springs California also known as Acapulco and el torito. My cousin actually let me know she passed away on 9/11 he was still working for ala foods .
Erin
September 11, 2024
Lighting a candle in memory of you.
Mary-Pappalardo Hollingsworth
September 13, 2023
Marie left behind a thoughtful and compassionate daughter.. such a beautiful tribute to your Mom.
Maria Koutny
September 12, 2023
22 years seems like a lifetime ago in some ways and in other ways it seems like only yesterday. I have somehow lived my life and have a truly amazing daughter for which I am blessed but I always think how much better life would have been with you in it.
I am sad you will never meet your grandchild and she will never know you love but I try to keep you alive through stories. I still miss you Mom and I guess I always will ❤
Maria
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Janet Wheeler
September 12, 2023
You'll never be forgotten. RIP Marie
Stephen Pappalardo
September 11, 2023
RIP
Erin
September 11, 2023
Rest in Peace.
Ann Godfrey
September 11, 2023
Gone but NEVER forgotten!!
Thinking of you today and often
Erin
September 11, 2022
Godspeed.
Erin Richardson
September 10, 2020
Remembering you today, tomorrow, and forever. Rest in Peace, Marie.
Janet Wheeler
September 9, 2020
I'll never forget you
The Kindred Family
December 8, 2019
Our heartfelt condolences we send to your family. Each day may God continue to give the comfort and strength needed to cope. Marie is still sadly missed and is not forgotten.
Charlene marie jones first row by banister..betty Ann ong about 7 rows up in middle American airlines graduation flight attendant Feb 4 1988
Charlene Jones
September 17, 2019
This is our class graduation class from American airlines 1988..10 flight attendant went to BOS Logan international airport BOS Massachusetts
Charlene Jones
September 17, 2019
To the dear Pappalardo family.my sincere condolences for the loss of your beloved mother on United airlines flight 175..my name is Charlene Marie Jones Flight attendant American airlines BOS Logan international airport..my crewmembers were all on flight 11 American Airlines..My BEST friend betty Ann ong..I know the pain does not ever go away..please know your mother was in the best of the best flight attendants and pilots on United airlines flight 175..she also had ACE Bailey Boston Bruins hockey player with her..the flight attendants were excellent all BOS based..if you ever want. Myto talk my phone number is 617-369-2444..my email is [email protected] I have some picture's I will share with you..please know your mother Marie is always with you..when you are watching tv driving your car with your family your mum Marie is right there in the next room by you..that's what MY priest always told me..may you always have tailwinds gently blowing you and your family forward..God bless you and your family Charlene Marie Jones American airlines flight attendant BOS Logan international airport BOS Massachusetts
Erin Richardson
September 11, 2018
Marie, you are always in my heart. Rest in peace.
John Adragna
September 17, 2017
I carried your photo and spirit with me on the Association of 911 memorial motorcycle ride to all 3 sites. Prayers for you always and you family.
Rose Becerra
September 13, 2017
You are never forgotten Marie. I'll try and be here every year to remind you of that. ❤
We'll Never Forget
Mary Pappapardo
September 12, 2017
Rest In Peace Marie.......
Bill Berta
September 12, 2017
A life taken too soon.
Virginia Pollerana
September 11, 2017
You are thought of often with such good memories!
You were a lot of fun to work with and an even better friend to drink with! Love & miss you Marie.
Janet Wheeler
September 9, 2017
Forever missed - Never forgotton
S.J. Friscia III
September 30, 2016
In Memory with
Honor & Respect.
Rosie Becerra Orrantia
September 12, 2016
Your smile will always be remembered Marie.
September 12, 2016
remembered
Erin Richardson
September 11, 2016
You are never far from my thoughts. Rest in Peace.
Del Newberry
February 18, 2016
We each must do our part to continue Marie's legacy by taking care of and protecting the animals of this world. I pray for Marie's friends and family today and ask God to bless you in a special way. Love from Texas,
Mary Pappalardo-Hollingsworth
September 14, 2015
May God watch over your whole family
Maria Koutny
September 13, 2015
So many feelings and emotions this time of year so I will keep it simple - I love and miss you each and every single day ❤
Patsy Hoehne
September 12, 2015
Marie... I hope you have your Mickey and Mouse there with you. I know what a great love you shared with them.
Erin Richardson
September 12, 2015
Thinking of you.
September 11, 2015
I will remember you always Marie
September 11, 2015
ever knew the guest book was here... thoughts,prayers,and memories
Janet Wheeler
September 11, 2015
You'll never be forgotten Marie - God Bless
Erin Richardson
November 12, 2014
In the months after 9/11, I bought a bracelet that had Marie's name engraved on it and wore it for ages, carrying the name of this woman with me as a reminder and in honor of her life. I never thought to look her up until now. Marie, your name is forever burned into my brain. I hope your soul is at Peace. I also love and cAre for feral cats.
Melissa Blue
September 24, 2014
Not only an eclectic music lover, but a lover of feral cats... The world needs protectors of feral cats and animal lovers and I know the kitty cats really miss you. I love feral cats and cats too, but it sounds like you were really someone special to them. God watch over your loved ones family & friends & neighbors still on this Earth who I know must miss you dearly & deeply, but God has you in His hands in Heaven. You;ll never be forgotten.
Rose Orrantia
September 11, 2014
Marie, you will always be remembered. My cousin got to spend many days with you as she was in your department at the corporate office in Long Beach we will never forget you. ????????
Janet Wheeler
September 11, 2014
Just wanted to say you have not been forgotten!! You are missed and God Bless! Every Anniversary I not only remember where I was that tragic day but I also recall you as my Mom's neighbor for years and how you were taken from your Family way to early.
Jeanne Quinn
September 11, 2014
Thinking about you, Maria, on his day. I'm sure it doesn't get any easier as the years go by. Love to you and Isabella.
Mary Pappalardo
September 10, 2014
Maria, be assured that people from all over the world will Remember and Honer those who lost their lives while America was being attacked. For me, your Mother's name and photo are the first vision I have, may God bless you and your entire family on this anniversary ...
Frances Quintana
September 9, 2014
You are not forgotten...
Maria Koutny
August 25, 2014
Thank you John A. for taking a moment and letting us know about the motorcycle ride
and your kind thoughts about my Mother. It is touching to know my Mom and the other victims are still remembered.
John Adragna
August 24, 2014
My name is John Adragna and I reside in New York City. I am a supporter of America"s 911 Association.This oraganization raises funds through donations for the family members (children) who lost their love ones in these attacks. I did not know your Mother Marie but after reading here about her I can feel what a warm,loving and caring person she was. The association gathered motor cycle riders from all over the country. The ride started in Sommerset PA went down to the Pentagon and back up to Ground Zero. We were all given names of someone who perished in one of the tragic events and I am proud to say that I brought your MOM's name with me to the memorials in Sommerset PA,the Pentagon and Ground Zero.Many prayers went out to her and your family. God Bless You All.
Maria Koutny
September 12, 2013
12 years have passed but the memory, the love and the pain seem like it was just yesterday. So much has happened and changed since that horrible day - the world is not the same. As you know I have the most precious daughter I could ever ask for and I know in my heart that she was a gift from you and Dad in Heaven. Although you may not be here with us I keep your memory alive each and every day in my heart and in Isabella's. It saddens me that she will never meet her Grandparents but at only four years old she asks questions and speaks of both of you.
Thank you to everyone who year after year leaves messages on this site - it is so touching - thank you!!
My granddaughter Ella and me!
Patsy Hoehne
September 12, 2013
Hey Marie. I just want you to know that I think of you so often. Especially yesterday on the anniversary of that tragic day. I still display the cute sleeping kitten you gave to me in 1990. Now I think of that sleeping kitten as you all snug and comfy. I hope you have your precious Mickey and Mouse with you to keep you happy and entertained. God's blessings to you and your family Marie.
Rosie Becerra Orrantia
September 12, 2013
Marie, you are still remembered. God is right there by your side getting to hug you anytime... Lots of love to you from us... Never forgotten. {{{{{{{{{{Marie}}}}}}}}}}
Heidi Zavala
September 11, 2013
We were all tuned in to the TV at Corporate that morning. It was later we found out about your flight...You were always so cheerful and full of positive energy. We all said well if you knew Marie she did not go quietly! I am thankful to have met someone like you. You are not forgotten. Sending love and light to your family. Cherish the memories....always.
Steven Santoyo
August 22, 2012
You always told me, "there is nothing wrong with starting over." You should see me now. I have done just that. I know that you look down from heaven and are proud of me, if you were here we would be having the best time of our lives. I am doing great! I just wish that you were here to enjoy this new beginning with me. I miss you and will always love you. Steven
Rosie Becerra
October 30, 2011
A beautiful soul Marie was... I remember her in my time at Ala Foods back in 1989... I worked for the Long Beach and Garden Grove Acapulco restaurants and my cousin and two friends worked for Marie in the corporate office... I loved her smile ... God Bless the family our prayers continue for you.
Love & Hugs
September 12, 2011
Never Forgotten...
Maria Koutny
September 11, 2011
I also wanted to add that we appreciate the people in California who also continue to remember my Mother on the West Coast. My Mother was not married at the time of her passing but she loved animals and would have appreciated the entry about the person from Paramount who placed flowers on the bench with their dog.
Thanks again for your kindness.
Maria Koutny
September 11, 2011
Thank you all for the thoughtful words in remembering my mother on this 10th year anniversary of 9/11 and taking time out of your day to share them.
As with all of us who have suffered the loss of someone we love it is as if time stands still - 10 years sounds like such a long time but the pain always feels so new within us.
Thank You
Maria & Isabella Koutny
Patsy Hoehne
September 11, 2011
Dear Marie.. Today makes 10 years since that horrible day. I think of you often and remember what a wonderful person you were. I loved that you loved you cats "Mickey" and "Mouse" so much. I was always happy to see you come in to the animal hospital because I knew a happy, funny time would be had. Your uplifting personality will always make you special to me. I still have the little gift you gave to me when I was expecting my son Andy almost 21 years ago. Rest in peace my friend.
Angela Merchain (Rubio)
September 11, 2011
You will always live in our hearts! May God bless you and your family! Your CA family loves you!
September 11, 2011
Hello to all the family and friends of Marie Pappalardo. Every Sunday I walk my dog near the memorial site here in Paramount Ca. I remember meeting your husband Mr. Pappalardo about 4 years ago as he played a beautiful song by Robin Thick. Everytime I hear that song I'm reminded by you and almost brings me to tears because I connect that song to your memory. I have never and my life knew you, and just thank your husband for sharing his story of loss. Today me and my dog placed a flower on the bench marked in honor of your life. God Bless the family and continue to keep your rememberance alive. Thanks a bunch :)
Victor Tapia
September 11, 2011
We have not forgotten you Marie. Never will.My deepest sympaty to friends and family.
Mary Pappalardo
September 11, 2011
To the family and friends of Marie, we share the same last name but I was born and raised in New York so I doubt we are related. I remember your Mother in my prayers and see on this site she was loved by so many as well as being such a beautiful person, inside and out.
Although she is gone she will never be forgotten in the Pappalardo family as well as so many others. I offer my sympathy and love to all of you on this the 10th anniversary of 9/11
As many have said today, may God watch over you and keep you safe in His ever loving arms. God Bless you all, and God bless America....
Janet Wheeler
September 10, 2011
Dear Marie,
As the 10th anniversary approaches - as with every anniversary - I can't help but remember you. My heart still aches for you and your family and you will NEVER be forgotten!! I still to this day can't watch the video of 9/11 - it hurts all over and I get images of you. I have come to grips over what happened to our country but to this day - I have a hard time with what happened to you. Not that I don't feel for the other victims because I do but with you being my Mom's neighbor - it's still so unbelievable to imagine. You will forever be missed and please know that I think of you every 9/11.
September 6, 2011
I remember you
Richard Brown
September 4, 2011
DEAR MARIA KOUTNY, I AM SO SORRY FOR THE LOSS OF YOUR MOM AND THE GRIEF OF THE LOVED ONE'S SHE LEFT BEHIND. MY MOTHERS NAME IS MARLENE TAUTENHAN, OLDER SISTER OF FREDDIE TAUTENHAN. MY NAME IS RICK OR RICHARD BROWN. WE ALWAYS LIVED IN CALIFORNIA, WHICH KEPT US FROM SPENDING AS MUCH TIME AS WE WOULD HAVE LIKED WITH MOMS SIDE OF THE FAMILY.
FREDDIE WAS MY UNCLE. THAT WOULD MAKE US FIRST COUSINS. I JUST WANT YOU TO KNOW THAT MY PRAYERS HAVE BEEN WITH YOU AND YOURS. GOD BLESS YOU. I HOPE TO MEET YOU ONE DAY.
Peggy Childers
August 8, 2011
To the family and friends of Marie Pappalardo:
Marie will be held in the hearts of Americans forever. I cannot and will not allow those we lost on 9/11 be forgotten. My deepest sympathy to you.
Maria Koutny
February 8, 2011
Ma -
I think of you (and Dad) so much - I miss you both more than I can express in words.
I can not believe it will be the 10 year anniversary of 9/11 this year - as anyone knows who has lost someone they love it is as if time almost stands still and the scars remain.
One of the biggest regrets I will ever have is that you will never get to meet your grandughter Isabella - I know you and her would have shared a special bond and you would have loved and spoiled her to pieces. I promise to teach her about you, your beliefs and traits.
I love and miss you so much - I wish you were still here.
Love,
Your Daughter Maria
Coothie
September 12, 2009
Marie - you are always in our hearts. Thank you for being such a giving person and sharing your love with Tio Steve and our family. You are deeply missed.
Matthew Loya
September 11, 2009
Even though I never met my aunt, I still think we would have had a great bond.
Cheryl
September 11, 2009
Heavenly Father, I uplift Marie's family today on the anniversary of her tragic death. I pray that you will comfort them and give them peace. As they think about Marie's life, that they can remember with fondness the many good qualities and fun times they had together. Lord, I lost my mom at a young age and I know that you never get over missing them, but that you have given me the memories to make the hurt less each year. Comfort her family in a way that only you can do.
april santoyo
September 11, 2009
marie you are deeply missed thank you for being a wonderful inspiration in the life of my uncle steven santoyo we love you and miss you
Lauri
September 11, 2009
Marie you were such a great customer in my studio. You will always be remembered.
Your California Family
November 17, 2008
Remembered everyday not just on 9/11 your spirit and personality is missed everyday in our family -- Your loss has be very grave to get over and I still pray for our families well being dealing with your loss in our lives... You mean so much to those who loved you and knew you... You are missed
sandra Adams
September 11, 2008
It has taken me 7 years to say goodbye… I knew Marie from the Pharmacy in Cerritos, CA… she was always very upbeat and extremely happy every time she had to go to Boston… I remember the sparkle in her eyes every time she mentioned, that City that she loved so much… she touched so many and loved by more… you will always be missed…
Sandra, La Mirada CA
lorraine townsend-thompson
September 11, 2008
i worked with marie and car pooled with her at converse many years ago and she was the bestest person to know - always made herself available - we always had much to talk about - and i always knew she would do much with her life -
Barbara DeNecochea
September 11, 2008
I do know your family, but out of the thousands who perished on this day seven years ago, I picked out of the list, Marie Pappalardo, to say a prayer for your family, and to say God bless her in heaven and God bless America.
(An American remembering...
B. DeNecochea, California)
Kathleen Maria Pappalardo
September 11, 2008
Although I did not now you in this life, we share the same name and heritage. When ever I think if 911, I say a prayer for you. Please remember all Pappalardos, as for sure we are all family.
Victor Parra
July 28, 2008
It was several days after 9/11 when El torito rest. place the condolences notice that you had pass away. It took me 7 years to finally say good bye. May God Bless your family.
Melanie Capsalis
May 21, 2008
I am the daughter of John and Darlene Capsalis, My parents are long time friends of Marie's, she lived in the apartment buildings in Lawrence ma. Marie was married to Fredie Tautenhan and lived in apt 1, we lived in apt 3. My parents used to play cards with Marie and Fredie(Buck) My father and Fredie (buck) also opened the whipet pub in Lawrence ma. In the late 80's. We are so sorry to hear that Marie had lost her life and the recent passing of Fredie has just broken our hearts for Maria's loss. We just want Maria to know she is in our hearts, thought and prayers . Both Marie and Fredie will be sadly missed.
stephanie perez
November 12, 2007
marie you have been gone for so long and i still expect a call from you saying "how ya doin"... i hated your accent but loved it at the same time as well. i miss you and miss the happiness you brought my family -- your passing made me realize that tragedies strike not only nations but families hubsbands aunts children and most of all hearts -- i will never hear a number of people lost the same cause when i heard you were lost it was not the number it was the fact that my aunt was gone-- each number represented an aunt brother mom child -- that is so sad. you are missed and most of all you are loved always -- never forgotten united 175 soars in my heart
Alice Rivela (Pickels)
October 27, 2007
Marie you were always like a mom to me. It crushes me deeply that my children never got to met you and see what a wonderful person you truly are. All they hear are the stories that I can tell them about you. I miss you very much. Eventhough we didn't speak often it was just knowing you were here. I will never forget you and the pain does not stop. I love you
Alice
Denise Medina Guel
September 11, 2007
It's been 6 years since you were taken from our family. We love you and miss you. I loved hearing your stories about Boston. We think about you often and we miss you terribly!
P Tabbernor
June 17, 2007
In memory....
Kristine
November 29, 2006
As I cross-stitched your name on the memorial that I am doing for all of the victims, I prayed for you and your family. Please know that your death was not in vain. We will always remember. God Bless.
Pappalardo Eric
November 11, 2006
God bless you.
A cousin from Europe.
E. Pappalardo (France)
Dawn Sproules
September 23, 2006
To the Pappalardo family,Ihope you find peace and happiness.Iam so sorry for your loss.Nothing can everbreak the bond of a mother and her child.She will be with you always.
Joe Rotter
September 16, 2006
Take comfort in knowing that now you have a special guardian angel to watch over you.
Bob Borzone
September 11, 2006
Today is the fifth anniversary since you left us Marie. We don't need a lot of words to proclaim the obvious. Just thought you'd smile if you knew that the money clip you bought for me at an Indian Trading Post and gave me for a birthday gift, is carried EVERY DAY, at home or in whatever State or Country I travel. You gave it to me during a business assignment to Ca. My birthday occured during a Cinco De Mayo period, and you offered to join me for dinner so I wouldn't be alone on that date. Always the gracious one, you provided a gift to boot.
Each time I place my hand on the clip, it reminds me of you. I will never forget.................
Sue Johnson
September 11, 2006
Marie was a very warm and personable person to work with at Acapulco. I will carry fond memories of her with me forever. I smile every time a eat or pass by a Dunkin' Donuts because I can still hear her rave about how much she loved them and since she knew I was from Michigan and knew about them...she loved sharing this with me.
Debbie Bibbo
January 13, 2006
Hi Maria,
I am so sorry it took me so long to offer my condolence. My dad was married to your Mom for a short time.
My grandmother and I went to the Memorial Mass at the church in Lawrence.
It was very touching especially since you had pictures of my dad. God Bless
Love
Debbie Bibbo
Karen & Vern Randlett
November 9, 2004
We sure do miss you! Marie, you are in our hearts always and forever! Your lovely picture hangs in our livingroom smiling down at us always...God Bless you and keep you...Your brother Vern and sister-in-law Karen...
Patty Adams
September 11, 2004
To the Papalardo Family,
My name is Patty Adams and I used to work at Sav-on drug store in Cerritos were Marie use to go all the time. She was a nice and lovely person and to today's day I think of her all the time. September 11 has change all our life's for ever and even though some of us did not had a relative died in that disaster we were still hurt by people we know, like Marie. I have been always wanted to give my Sympathy to her family but was never able to come up with the proper words to say, It will be 3 years tomorrow and I think is time for me to pay my respects to her and her family.
She was a lovely Lady and will be miss for ever…
Sincerely
Patty Adams
Walter Seminara
April 8, 2004
Nella ricerca di parenti americani colgo loccasione di
Porgere il mio cordoglio, alla famiglia Pappalardo.
Mia Nonna Antonina Pappalardo è nata in massachuttes-lawrence nel 1918 e sono rimasti tantissimi famigliari, cugini,zii Pappalardo-sotera-furnari...mi sento in dovere di fare sentire anche le mie parole.
Walter [email protected]
Walter Seminara
April 8, 2004
Nella ricerca di parenti americani colgo loccasione di
Porgere il mio cordoglio, alla famiglia Pappalardo.
Mia Nonna Antonina Pappalardo è nata in massachuttes-lawrence nel 1918 e sono rimasti tantissimi famigliari, cugini,zii Pappalardo-sotere-furnari...mi sento in dovere di fare sentire anche le mie parole.
Walter [email protected]
Mrs. Angüis
March 30, 2004
I just found out about this site (3/30/04) but would like to write something on Marie's Guest Book.
I worked for Marie for approx. 2 yrs at (ALA) as a Secretary. Although it has been 2 1/2 years since the tragedy, I constantly remember Marie & her Boston accent. ("Tonic Waaater", or when she use to say "Boston").
Maria...She always use to tell me, "If my daughter calls, I don't care who I am talking to, or what I am doing, make sure you get my attention & tell me she's on the line." I sometimes had to put signs on her window to let her know you where on the phone. But she always talked about you & I remember when she told me you where going to get married, she was very happy.
Just by the way she talked about you, was very clear & obvious that she really loved you with all her heart. It's sad that she is no longer here with us. Just remember that your mother is your Guardian Angel & will always watch over you & your family.
I am really sorry for your loss. My heart & prayers go out to you and your whole family.
S. Santoyo...My heart & prayers go out to you & your family.
Julie Duffy
December 6, 2003
Dear Maria and Lance,
I'm a close friend of Lance's sister, Valerie. I only found this site today, but have kept your mother and all of your family in my thoughts and prayers daily since 9/11. I'm so very sorry for your loss.
God Bless and keep you.
Brigitte Beaulieu
September 11, 2003
May God Bless! I remember the days at E.J. Systems, when the Marie I remember was strong, funny, intelligent and sweet. Can't forget when Marie colored her hair eggplant. She looked great. She'll be missed but never forgotten!
Maria Koutny
September 11, 2003
Ma -
Today has been two years since you left this world and I would swear it only feels like two months. People always say "it gets easier with time" and although doing daily activities may get a little easier losing someone who is the most important person in your life NEVER seems to gets easier. If I could have one wish it would be to feel you hug me again and call me "Miss Maria" or "Mum Bear" like you always did. What comforting words those were - I can only pray you are in a better, safer place now. It is amazing all the people who thought how wonderful you were - me and Lance, aunts and uncles and lots of friends not to mention your cats! I love you Ma.
Love,
Maria & Lance Koutny
xoxoxoxoxo
Linda DeVilbiss
September 11, 2003
As Marie's next door neighbor in Paramount, CA this event became so personal on any every day basis. It's still so difficult and my condolescense go to her family. On a personal note..since we all felt so helpless I felt the only tribute I could really do for Marie was to continue to feed her stray cats. They would always run to her garage door when it was opened and they still don't trust me like they did with Marie. To her family Marie is remembered every day by her cats and my humble way of remembering her. I read all the tributes with sadness at the senselessness of it.
Also, with a warmth that Marie is remembered by so many. Thanks to Marie for bringing joy, excitement, comfort to her friend.
Kathy Swaringen
August 25, 2003
1 Mile was walked to honor the life of Marie and all the family friends and loved ones she left behind. May you find some comfort in knowing that you do not grieve alone and that she will never be forgotten.
Phillip k. Steele
March 30, 2003
Marie, Your brother is my brother in-law. I have sent messages on other sites. As with all messages, we miss you always and will see justice. Your presence among us is missed, your untimely death will be justified. May the lord be with you always. God bless.
David Phillips
December 21, 2002
I was at work and in my office when the first news of the attack circulated around my department. When the full scope of the days events began to sink in, I took the rest of the day off and went home and school and hugged my four children. That's all I could do. I am sorry for your losses.
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