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Alice Best Tolan
September 11, 2023
It's been 22yrs what seems like a lifetime however long though I will never forget you or your family. Memories
Alice Best Tolan
September 11, 2020
19yrs later and I still think of Brenda Kegler.
DarTae Hunter
September 13, 2019
Love you Aunt .....
September 12, 2019
Visited New York for the first time this year...your name on the memorial drew me in. Needed to know who you were...sounds like you were a beautiful soul that is truely missed. RIP
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June 28, 2019
Sorry for your loss, Brenda.
• From a Canadian Citizen
Alice. Tolan
September 11, 2018
We miss you Brenda Kegler
Alice. Tolan
September 11, 2018
Brenda Kegler - -17yrs has past and it doesn't get easier. Will always think of you, not just on 9/11. Sleep on my dear friend. From the family of Robert - Alice - Andre & Michael Tolan. Hi to Bing & the girls
September 13, 2016
Ms. Tolan,
Thank you
V/r,
Belinda
Alice Best Tolan
September 11, 2016
Brenda Kegler -I think of you often my neighbor my friend.
Kimberly English
June 17, 2016
I miss you, I miss you calling me the crazy white girl, talking about our children, and talking about meeting our crazy numbers. I love and miss you woman.
Del Newberry
December 9, 2015
Praying for a special measure of blessing for Brenda's friends and family today. As we enter into the Christmas season, I know that you will have many special memories of her. God bless you all, and much love from Texas
ALICE BEST-TOLAN
September 11, 2014
IT'S THAT TIME AGAIN 9/11/14 HOWEVER, I WON'T SAY GOODBYE. BRENDA, YOU'RE MISSED BY FAMILY AND FRIENDS. WE LOVE YOU STILL HOWEVER I REALIZE THAT GOD LOVED YOU MORE. RIP MY FRIEND
Alice Best-Tolan
September 11, 2013
Once again I light this candle for Brenda Kegler. I light this candle to honor a person that came into my life and touched it for a moment but left memories that will out last us. Milestones together. Birth of children. Stories we shared of those children and our HARD HEAD HUSBANDS. Girl, I thank you for listening, thank you for caring and sharing. At that time in our young lives still trying to feel our way, learning to be wives & mothers. It helps to have someone to share these things with. Just for a little while - that is what we shared - just a little while - love to the girls -Bing & her brother
Alice,Jacob,Marcus and Andre' Tolan
Andre' Tolan
September 12, 2012
Always in our thoughts miss brenda. Belinda,Simara and bing take care.
ANDRE HUNTER
September 11, 2012
ANOTHER YEAR HAS GONE BY AND MY SISTER IS STILL NOT HERE SO WE GO ON. AS I POST THIS I AM SPEAKING WITH MY SISTERS DAUGHTER BELINDA AND SHE IS POSTING AS WELL ABOUT OUR LOVE FOR MY SISTER HER MOM WE R JUST REMINISCING ABOUT GREAT TIMES WE RECALL VIEWING THE OLDER POST FROM FRIENDS AND FAMILY.WELL THIS YEAR I JUST WANNA SAY THANK YOU TO ALL THE FAMILY THE PEOPLE THAT LEAVE THE HEARTFELT COMMENTS THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU
Belinda Bennett
September 11, 2012
All: thank you for your thoughts and prayers. PeeWee, David, Andre, myself, Simara, Donovan, etc. are all doing well.
[email protected]
Alice Tolan
September 11, 2012
This candle is lit in memory of BRENDA KEGLER-may she rest in peace
ALICE BEST-TOLAN
September 11, 2012
TO THE FAMILY OF BRENDA from the ROBERT/ALICE/ANDRE'/MICHAEL TOLAN - WE WANT YOU ALL TO KNOW THAT WE THINK OF BRENDA OFTEN and of ALL OF YOU. WE WERE NEIGHBORS FOR A FEW SHORT YEARS BUT LONG ENOUGH TO BUILD THAT FOUNDATION THAT WOULD LAST FOREVER.
candle hegler
October 8, 2011
thanks for your concern
Raenell Baylor
September 8, 2011
I'm always thinking of you!
Tom Wilson
September 8, 2011
When I found out one of my best friends sister was taken to be with God as a result of the 9/11 tragedy, the full weight of our country and his personal loss hit home. I constantly pray for healing for her family and my boy Andre. Brenda's sacrifice will always be remebered.
dartae hunter
September 8, 2011
aunt brenda, i will never forget you....i never got to tell you how much i appreciated you coming to get dre and me when we decided to run away. thank you..and right before you moved on you spoke to me and i won't post what you said but it change the way i feel about a few things and i'm sure you can see from where you are but i just wanna say I have forgiven myself and forgave others....i really wish you were here to give me some advise about a few things now....i miss you...DarTae
BRENDA AND ME
ANDRE HUNTER
September 8, 2011
I LOVE YOU MY SISTER FOREVER AND WILL MISS YOU FOREVER ALWAYS IN MY HEART YOUR BROTHER ANDRE
Alice Tolan
September 7, 2011
We were neighbors of the Keglers when Brenda was pregnant with her youngest daughter. Moving to a new place it was so nice meeting a lovely person/family. To Bing - Belinda and the youngest daughter please know that if she had a choice in the matter she would still be here. Just know that we all miss her present but God apparently needed her more and I know shes up there doing his work. Robert/Alice Tolan & sons sends their condolences.
Peggy Childers
August 26, 2010
To the family of Brenda Kegler:
Brenda gave the ultimate sacrifice and will be held in the hearts of Americans forever. I cannot and will not let our heroes of September 11 be forgotten. My deepest sympathy to you.
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
JAMES KEGLER
March 1, 2010
THERE IS NO PAIN HEAVEN CAN'T HEAL JESUS IS LORD .
Tiffany W
September 13, 2009
As time goes on the victims of that tragic day are never forgotten. At times we don't understand why bad things happen to good people. The pain of losing a loved one never goes away. It does get easier to cope with in time. May GOD bless all the loved ones of the victims that met their fate that day, and know that they didn't die alone. They know we're thinking of them each and everyday. May God be with you!
ANDRE HUNTER
September 12, 2009
HELLO AGAIN 9 YEARS LATER AND WE REACH THAT MILESTONE ONCE AGAIN WHERE I HAVE 2 REMEMBER WITHOUT ANY DOUBT. BUT WHAT CAN WE DO WE MOVE ON LET ME JUST SAY WITH ALL THE PROBLEMS THAT WE HAVE AND ENDURE IN THIS LIFE JUST LOOK AROUND AND COUNT YOUR BLESSING'S NOT YOUR TROUBLE'S GOD IS GOOD ALL THE TIME AND WE DO HAVE BLESSING'S... TO MY SISTER BRENDA KEGLER I MISS U FOREVER
Steve Wallace
September 11, 2009
I visited with my family this summer and took this photo. I wanted my children to know what happened and how important it is to be respectful and remember. By chance it was Brenda's bench - http://www.flickr.com/photos/wallacefamily/3767319501/sizes/l/in/set-72157621755011963/
We are thinking of all our fellow Americans on this day, especially those that died on 9/11 - know that they are not forgotten.
Keely R.
September 14, 2008
I just wanted to stop by again and say hello again. Brenda's name and the little I know of her from what I read has been on my mind all week. Even to a stranger she and you are not forgotten.
Peace to you.
ANDRE HUNTER
September 14, 2008
ME I AM BRENDA'S BABY BROTHER ANDRE WHEN I LOST MY SISTER I DIDNT JUST LOOSE A SISTER I LOST A MOTHER,FRIEND,COMMARDE,CONFIDENT, AND MORE THIS IS MY FIRST SEEING THIS GUEST BOOK SO I JUST WANT TO SAY THANK U. TO ALL OF THE SUBMISSION AND GOD BLESS. LOVE IS GOD AS GOD IS LOVE. KEEP GOD FIRST AND EVERYTHING ELSE WILL FALL INTO PLACE THANX.
Christy Rose
September 11, 2008
Hi Belinda,
I think of you and hope you're growing stronger every Sept. 11th. Your mom is smiling in heaven. Bless you always!
BELINDA BENNETT
July 20, 2008
WELL IT'S BEEN NEARLY 7 YEARS AND ALTHOUGH MY DEAR MOTHER/FRIEND IS GONE SHE IS NEVER FORGOTTEN. AGAIN I THANK EACH AND EVERY ONE OF YOU FOR YOUR PRAYERS AND SUPPORT. OCCASSIONALLY I VISIT THIS GUEST BOOK (WHEN STRENGHT ALLOWS) TO READ THE MESSAGES LEFT FOR MY MOM AND MY FAMILY. MANY OF THE MESSAGES LEFT WERE FROM FAMILY AND FRIENDS (MOSTLY FAMILY) AND IT'S NICE TO KNOW THAT YOU ALL STILL REMEMBER OUR MOTHER. SIMARA, DONOVAN AND MYSELF ARE DOING WELL. WE KEEP HER LEGACY ALIVE THRU EACH OF US. THANKS
Carrie Herrmann
September 12, 2007
I worked with Brenda's daughter Belinda and remember vividly exactly when she found out about the crash. I met Brenda at a Christmas party and remember her as a funny, loving and beautiful person. She will be remembered always!
P Tabbernor
August 26, 2007
In remembrance....
Kristine
October 31, 2006
As I cross-stitched your name on the memorial that I am doing for all of the victims, I prayed for you and your family. Please know that your death was not in vain. We will always remember. God Bless.
Kathy Swaringen
October 19, 2006
on Oct 17, 2006, 1 mile was ridden to honor the life of Brenda Kegler and all those she left behind. You and your loved ones will always be in my prayers.
May you rest in peace.
Jean Davis
September 17, 2006
One of The Healing Field exhibits was near my work in West Des Moines, IA. My company lost nearly 300 employees in NYC, including one on business from our IA office. I purchased a flag from The Healing Field in rememberance of those who perished. The yellow ribbon attached carried Brenda's name, age and location on 9/11/01. It will remain on my flag as it flies at my home. To her friends and family - we will remember.
Jai McLane
September 11, 2006
Brenda was the last person, I spoke with before the accident. I was visiting her at desk. I had to go back to my office and that's when the plane hit. Our last words to one another, was see you later. She was wonderful and funny. I tried to get her to quite smoking. She was a wonderful woman.
Keely
June 23, 2006
I am only now learning about Brenda, as I prepare to honor her on my blog this September as part of a movement to honor each victim.. She was a beautiful woman. I know those who knew her must miss her so much. My prayers are still with you.
terry kegler
December 26, 2002
Sorry for your loss, you are in my prayers and thoughts. May GOD bless and keep you. Stay strong!1
Dipali Pathak
September 11, 2002
To the Kegler family~
I am so sorry for your loss, Brenda's name is on my wristband and she is in my thoughts and prayers. God Bless you.
Noble Family
September 11, 2002
TO the Kegler Family,
Your family will always be in our prayers and hearts.
Kevin Clouse
September 9, 2002
May God bless your family
Jenna James
September 6, 2002
Through Mercy B.A.N.D., I am able to Bear Another's Name Daily. Brenda Kegler, Pentagon, are the words etched in my my bracelet serving as a reminder each day that I wear it. Brenda and her family will be in my prayers for years to come. Though I did not know her before today, I will never forget her...nor will I forget the events of September 11, 2001.
LUTICIA HOOK
September 5, 2002
To Belinda (Lynn) and Samara
I think about you two and Brenda Grandson all the time. I miss Brenda and the others all the time. Just remember God love you and so do I.
Love
Tick
Jovida Pope
September 5, 2002
Brenda was my friend and family. I miss her so much that words can not express my feelings. Only God knows the hurt and sorrow that lies in my heart for missing my friend. I think about the day that I will see her again and hear the laughter that I so miss hearing from my friend. Love her always.
June 18, 2002
MAY THE BEAUTIFUL SOUL OF BRENDA KEGLER AND THE SOULS OF ALL THE FAITHFULLY DEPARTED THROUGH THE MERCY OF GOD REST IN PEACE AMEN.
June 18, 2002
DEAR GOD SHINE YOUR LIGHT ON THIS WONDERFUL WOMAN..BRENDA KEGLER AND MAY HER SOUL REST IN PEACE WITH GOD AND HIS ANGELS.GOD BLESS HER FAMILY AND FRIENDS.GOD BLESS AMERICA..AMEN
Janie Waring
March 22, 2002
May GOD continue to Bless your households. I didn't have the priviledge to meet Brenda. However, I have been Blessed in knowing my extended family thru The Gillums and The Thompsons.
John 3:16
For GOD so loved the world that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.
C. Anderson
March 22, 2002
To the Kegler/Gillum Family:
May God continue to wrap you in his loving arms and strenghthen you.
Linda Murray
March 22, 2002
To the Kegler and Gillum Family. May God Bless and Keep you all in his care. I didn't have the pleasure of knowing Brenda, however I am a friend of Carolyn Gillum, Brenda's cousin. Just listening to Carolyn talk about Brenda I know she was a special person. To Carolyn and the family, cherish the memories forever.
Carolyn (Oni) Gillum
March 21, 2002
Brenda was my first cousin, as we all know a fist cousin is so much like a sister or brother. We grew up as very close cousins. Sept 8, 2001 my family celebrated our family reunion at Brenda's house. Who would have thought 3 days later our world would be forever changed. Everyone tells me that GOD put my entire family together Sept 8th. We checked hospital after hospital, hoping she was just unable to phone home. We didn't know where Brenda was. DOD positively identified her body on 30 Sept. If crying is a source of weight loss, I must have lost 50lbs. Six months later I still wept, the pain is forever present, my heart is so, so, so, heavy, I can't seem to shake it.
Brenda and I were adults, but we were little cousins at heart. Lord please help my soul. GOD BLESS AMERICA!!!!!!
Mary Fleming
March 11, 2002
I worked with Brenda about 10 years ago. She always put a smile on my face. I am truly sorry for this great loss. My thoughts and prayers go out to her family. Know that she was loved. I think about her often and pray for her and her family.
Lynn Bennett
March 11, 2002
I would like to thank all of you for your prayers and thoughts. I am one of the daughters of Brenda Kegler. Thank you!
Teresa Jahn
January 12, 2002
America Cries
We see your sorrow-
and our hearts cry....
We can not erase your pain
but you do not have to face the anguish alone-for we-
-the American people-
are beside you.
We so desperately want to have the touch that brings you comfort,
the strength that gives you courage,
and the words to lighten your spirits.
And when we are left speechless
may the silence of our nation weave love into your hearts
to ease your sorrow.
May you find healing through our nation's strength as we-
-the American people-
face this difficult time together. Our hearts are with you. Teresa Jahn
Dixon, IL
Karen Spencer
December 3, 2001
My thoughts and prayers are with the family of Brenda Kegler. I know Christmas will have an empty void without her.
Karen Spencer
Dec. 3, 2001
Jan and Zane Azbarea
October 30, 2001
Our thoughts and prayers are with the family.
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