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Patricia E. "Patty" Mickley
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Ruth Ann & Patty - June 1, 2001
Ruth Young
September 11, 2021
Ruth Ann Young
September 11, 2021
A friend just made me aware of this guest book for Patty. Patty worked for me at the Pentagon before she was married. She was undoubtedly one of the kindest, sweetest persons I've ever known. She came to my retirement luncheon and ceremony when I retired in June 2001. Someone took a picture of us and I had an extra print made so I could send it to her. That was the last time I saw or talked to her. I still have the print and card I intended to use to send it. My husband and I were in our kitchen surrounded by boxes packing up to move to Ohio when the tragedy began unfolding for us on TV. I knew the plane hit the Pentagon in the area where Patty worked. A young Marine that rode in my carpool worked for the same agency Patty did so I started calling him to see if he could find out about Patty. It was a few days before he got back to me to deliver the sad news. I will never forget "Peppermint Patty," as we called her. She was a special person.
David Mickley
September 10, 2021
Never met her, but visited a memorial bench with her name at the pentagon. My father was Eddie Mickley, grandfather was Edward H Mickley, Ralph’s brother, and they married sisters, Ralph & Clara Gardner, and Ed and Hilda Gardner. Thus my dad and Rodney were double cousins. I served in the Air Force as an intelligence specialist, namely a Russian linguist in Turkey in 1962-1964. I currently live in Lexington, Ohio.
Ellen Mickley-Bratton
September 17, 2019
I am so sorry. I weep today for your family I have never met. My name is Ellen (Mickley) Bratton and I live in Zeeland Michigan now. My Dad's name was Rodney Mickley. He was son of Ralph and Clara Mickley from Danville, Ohio. Three of my five children served in the military inspired by the 9/11 tragedy.
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Kathy
September 10, 2019
Never Forgotten!
August 24, 2019
I am sure Patricia has been deeply missed after 9/11.
Bonnie Seemiller (Aramayo)
September 11, 2016
I knew Patti way back in high school at Gar-Field and lost touch when we went to college. I couldn't believe it when I saw her name as being lost in 9-11. I'm so sorry for her family but so thankful to know she's a follower of Christ and with Him now. I think of Patti often and pray for her family.
Del Newberry
June 20, 2016
Praying today for Patty's friends and family. I know that this senseless loss will be a pain that you forever bear, but please know that there are many people out here who will never forget, and we pray for an extra measure of God's blessings on you today. Much love from Texas,
S J. Friscia III
December 9, 2014
In Memory
With Honor & Respect.
Chuck Nelson
September 11, 2014
Patty I think of you often especially on 9/11. My wife Patty worked for Joe at Peterson and passed away this past July from ALS.
Patricia M Mickley
October 2, 2011
Patty, I am sure you will know about this message. I am Patricia M. Mickley. I was married to Donald Q. Mickley, for 20 years, 1951-1971. He was from Danville, Ohio and was a cousin of Jim Mickley, Canton, Ohio.
After the tradgedy on 9/11, I had some one call me, to see if it was I, who was in the attack of the Pentagon? I am so sorry that someone, as young as you, was the one who was lost. My thoughts and prayers go out to all of your "Loved Ones". Sincerely, Patricia
Marcia Howard
September 15, 2011
Patty, you will always be in my heart and never far from my mind. I thank God that I had the opportunity to know you, even but for a moment! Love you always and Blessings. Gone but never forgotten.
Cindy Wilson
September 14, 2011
God Bless You!! We will never forget!!!!!
Helen Smith
September 12, 2011
Patty,
This year as in the past nine I think of you often. I know you are looking down on Joe and your family and keeping them safe. Someday we will meet for the first time.
Tom Koch
September 12, 2011
Patty,
We worked together at the Pentagon in the Air Force Budget 'vault'. I could always depend on your wonderful smile and positive attitude to help brighten those long days. I think about you often, and am comforted knowing you are looking down on us and resting in eternal peace.
Judy Harger
September 11, 2011
It has been 10 years since you were taken from this life, but you have not been forgotten. Although I never met you, I have been wearing a Mercy Band with your name on it. I hope that your family has been able to go on with their lives knowing that you are an angel watching over them. God Bless You and Your Family.
BrigGen John Sievertson
September 11, 2011
I'll always fondly remember Patty as one of the key members of my staff in Air Force Bases and Units as "Peppermint Patty." She called me "The Big Cheese," a nickname I remember with honor. She will never be forgotten!
Helen Smith
September 10, 2010
Patty, you are not forgotten. My thoughts go out to you and your family today.
Peggy Childers
September 2, 2010
To the family of Patricia E. "Patty" Mickley:
Patty gave the ultimate sacrifice and will be held in the hearts of Americans forever. I cannot and will not let our heroes of September 11 be forgotten. My deepest sympathy to you.
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
Tom Reilly
September 11, 2009
Patty,
We worked together at the Pentagon long before 9/11. I remember your kindness, friendly demeanor and that unforgetable smile. God bless you and your family
Helen Smith
September 11, 2009
I still think a lot about Joe and his beautiful wife Patty as this day comes every year. I worked with Joe but never had the honor of meeting Patty.
Dennis Bendorf
September 10, 2009
Patty, we really miss you. You were simply the kindest person. Our special office was one of the best. Thank you for putting my retirement together and making it such a special day. No one else would have given it that special touch. So many mornings on the way to work, just look up and see that wonderful smile. Miss you!
Marcia Howard
September 11, 2008
Patty, I pass by you everyday on my way to take Regan to school or just to go see him before school and I always look over in the vicinity of where you are and tell you in my heart and thoughts how much I miss you. I will never forget the moments we shared while on field trips, giggling like school girls do, with our babies Regan and Marie, while they attended CWLC and I will never forget you my friend. May God continue to keep you safe and close to him and may He give strength to Joe, Marie and all of your family always.
Love you forever!
Marcia Howard
Helen Smith
September 11, 2008
Been thinking a lot about Joe and his beautiful wife Patty today. I worked with Joe but never had the honor of meeting Patty.
Doug Abraham
October 15, 2007
Happy Birthday!!!
P Tabbernor
August 30, 2007
In memory....
Kristine
November 2, 2006
As I cross-stitched your name on the memorial that I am doing for all of the victims, I prayed for you and your family. Please know that your death was not in vain. We will always remember. God Bless.
Kathy Swaringen
October 19, 2006
on Oct 19, 2006, 1 mile was ridden to honor the life of Patricia E Mickley and all those she left behind. May you find some comfort that Patty will never be forgotten and will be forever in americas prayers.
Patty, may you rest in peace.
Nancy Pluto
September 11, 2006
Patty and my daughter Kathy were friends at Gar-Field, and Patty was a bridesmaid at Kathy's wedding. I did not learn that Patty was a victim at the Pentagon until two years later, as they had lost touch and we did not know her married name. Kathy died in October 2000, and I share your grief in the loss of a beloved daughter. On this fifth anniversary, my heart still breaks for all who are left with sad, and happy, memories.
Hal Glover
September 11, 2006
Still in my thoughts. My co-worker and friend. Joe take care. I think about 9/11 every day.
Patti Myers
June 26, 2006
Dear Dillaber family and Joe, This islong overdue. Patty and I were friends from 5th grade until adult hood. Although we had lost touch for several years (my stupidity) I thought of her often.After Sept. 11th, I wanted to get in touch with your family but am ashamed to say I never did. However, Patty is often in my thoughts. I remember childhood times in ashdale being in our pretend musical group "The 7UPS" and our many days and nights just playing. As we grew older and went to Gar-Field our friendship grew stronger and because of Patty I met alot of great people. We remained friends thruout college and even after I moved to New Jersey. Patty was a bridesmaid at my wedding. I have many pictures thruout the years of our friendship that I will always cherish as I'm sure anyone who knew Patty would. I would like to say that in the 16+ years that we were friends we never had an argument nor did Patty ever have a bad word to say about anyone. I will always remember her smile and always wanting to have fun.One of my biggest life regrets is that I let our frindship slip away. While these words will never erase your loss, I hope knowing what an exceptional person Patty was gives you some bit of comfort no matter how small.
Dave Clonts
March 28, 2004
Joe,
Linda and I think of you and Marie often. We can still remember the happiness of the three of you having dinner in your bathing suits on the Eden Roc patio in Miami just three weeks before Patti was killed. Please know that both of you continue to be in our thoughts and prayers.
Dave
Judy Harger
September 12, 2003
It has just been 2 years since that tragic day. I have worn a Mercy BAND with Patty's name on it every day for 2 years. I think of her every day, and even though I didn't know her personally but knew of her, the Mercy BAND reminds me of Patty and all the other heros we lost that day. My thoughts and prayers go out to her family.
Kim Michelet
September 11, 2003
Dear Joe:
I'm a descendent of the Allentown branch of the Mickley family. I am so sorry to hear about your loss. Our family has a proud history of defending our country and our freedoms - Patti will always hold an honored place in family history for her courage. I believe that four copies of the book of family history still exist - Patti's story should be included in the book so future generations can learn about her bravery.
Christine
September 12, 2002
I am a neighbor - of sorts - in the same development. Althought I never knew Patty, learning of her loss hit close to home. My son went to the same elementary school as your daughter. I pray for you both and hope that you are finding the strength to live your lives comforted by memories and knowing that many people still think of you often.
Britta Pospischil
September 11, 2002
Dear Joe, dear Marie...
...I wish I could send you some strength for today...
Thinking of you two,
Britta
Judy Harger
August 23, 2002
Dear Joe & Marie,
I am Dawn de la cruz' step-mother and I, too, have a Mercy Band with Patty's name that I have been wearing since Oct. Although I have never met you, my prayers have been with you and Patty's family every day.
God Bless you and her family on this almost one year anniversary and I hope that you will find comfort in knowing that others feel your sorrow.
Netti Nau
August 9, 2002
Joe & Marie- It has almost been a year and I still haven't figured out how to express my sympathies to both of you.
We have never met although we are related through Mary Louise's family.
Please know you have a special place in our hearts.
God Bless you both (and all the family).
June 13, 2002
DEAR GOD SHINE YOUR LIGHT ON THIS BEAUTIFUL WOMAN..PATRICIA E. PATTY MICKLEY AND MAY HER SOUL REST IN PEACE WITH GOD AND HIS ANGELS..PATTY IS NOW PART OF AMERICAN HISTORY..GOD BLESS HER LOVING FAMILY AND MANY FRIENDS.GOD BLESS AMERICA FOREVER...MAY JESUS AND ST.PATRICK GREET YOU AT THE GATES OF HEAVEN...AMEN
Angie Campbell
June 12, 2002
I did not know you or anyone else who passed away on that horrible morning of September 11, 2001. I am so sorry that so many people where killed out of pure hate and evil. I can not understand the kind of hate that could do something so horrible. May God Bless you and the family and friends that you left behind. Rest in peace forever more and know that you will never be forgotten!!!!!
Tisha Domenicali
May 30, 2002
It is with sorrow that I wear the name of Patricia Mickley daily on my wrist. When choosing my Mercy Band, I specifically requested a name of someone killed on Sept. 11 at the Pentagon as my husband is part of the Naval Reserves, and is proud to serve his country. My band is now scratched, and the black within the engraving is starting to fade from too much wear; however, the memory of those killed so needlessly on Sept. 11 will never fade or be scratched out. I wear Patricia's name with pride and will continue to do so as a tribute. Please know that she will not be forgotten. God bless her memory and her family.
Alex Johnston
April 10, 2002
I knew Patty a very long time ago at Va. Tech. She was always kind to everyone she met. After learning that she was a 911 victim recently from the Va. Tech Quarterly Magazine, I had to express my deepest condolences to her family and friends and just tell them that my heart goes out to them.
Erin
March 30, 2002
Patty was a wonderful women! In the year I got to know her teching her daughter to dance I saw what a wonderful heart she had. My thoughts and prayers go out to Mr. Mickley and daughter. She will never be forgotten for she touched too many lives! Let your memories of her guide you! God bless you!
Patricia E Newman
February 25, 2002
I visited the Road to California Quilt show and they had the quilt project going and wanted people to sign up to do a quilt block for one of the many heros that died in the tragic events of 9-11. I signed up for two and when I got home I signed up for a couple more with Patty being one of the ones I chose. Given my name is Patty too it brought a connection. After reading about her life and the loved ones she left behind I am so proud to do this. I can just feel the great loss created by the missing of this wonderful person. She was so many things to so many.
Julie Carr
January 24, 2002
Today i received my mercy band with Patricia E. Mickley. My heart goes out to the family of Patricia's along with the other thousands victim's family. Your family is not alone in mourning it has affected us all and I know that she is at peace with our dear Father above. My son is in the navy and was on his way into port in San Diego when it happened. He had been out for 6 months even though they were already to get home to there families they were ready to go back out and defend our country. But they went ahead and docked them and sent out others 1 which was his best friend that had enlisted when he did. We are at tough times now but we have the good Lord watching over us. God Bless You and yours. I will wear this band always and keep her and her family in my thoughts and prayers.
In Christs Love,
Julie
Teresa Jahn
January 12, 2002
We are very sorry for your deep loss of Patty. May her life and love continue living in those who love her. May precious memories of times together lighten the sorrow in your hearts. Our hearts cry with you.
America Cries
We see your sorrow-
and our hearts cry....
We can not erase your pain
but you do not have to face the anguish alone-for we-
-the American people-
are beside you.
We so desperately want to have the touch that brings you comfort,
the strength that gives you courage,
and the words to lighten your spirits.
And when we are left speechless
may the silence of our nation weave love into your hearts
to ease your sorrow.
May you find healing through our nation's strength as we-
-the American people-
face this difficult time together. Our hearts are with you. Teresa Jahn
Dixon, IL
Jan and Zane Azbarea
October 30, 2001
Our thoughts and prayers are with the family.
Dave & Angie Melton
October 19, 2001
We're so glad we got to see Patti for a few minutes at the Garfield High reunion just a few months ago. We'll miss her.
Dave & Angie
Rosanne Kozera
October 15, 2001
God Bless you "Patty". I didn't
know you however I know that since
you were a people person you left a
little of yourself behind in all who
did know you. May Peace be with you,
your family and your friends.
BARBARA BOLIN
September 28, 2001
MY THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS GO OUT TO YOU ALL.MAY GOD BLESS YOU ALL.
PATRICIA MAY YOU REST IN PEACE.
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