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Marybeth Dinges
February 4, 2008
Give Grandma a hug for us!
Doug Abraham
February 3, 2008
Happy Birthday!!!
Marybeth Dinges
February 1, 2008
Thinking of you.
Christine Lambiase
January 31, 2008
Happy Birthdy Pat!
Rachelle
January 10, 2008
Stephanie -
I was going through some of my books that are for widows and dealing with grief. I came across a book that I believe you had delivered to me and wrote a note in right after my husband's death in 2004. The note was signed Stephanie DeSimone 9/11 Widow.
We were living at Camp Pendleton when Jimmy was killed in April 2004. We have two daughters and I was two months pregnant with our third child.
I just wanted to say thank you for sending me the book and for your encouraging note. It's been a rough and emotional past 3 1/2 years as you know, but we are here dealing with things.
I'm so sorry for your loss on Sept. 11th 2001 and I hope things are going well for you and your family.
Sincerely,
Rachelle
Patrick Dunn
December 17, 2007
I did not know you but read your story and I am so sorry for your friend and mostly your family.I am so sorry for loss.My thoughts and prayers are with you. Patrick M Dunn
Patrick Dunn
December 17, 2007
I did not know you but read your story and I am so sorry for your friend and mostly your family.I am so sorry for your loss.My thoughts and prayers are with you. Patrick M Dunn
Muriel brown
December 5, 2007
Pat, I will always remember you as one of 17 Jr. ROTC teens who I chaperoned on the 2 week trip to the the US Naval Training Center in Orlando. You were all so spirited and enthusiastic. I also remember making multiple trips to Fords from Iselin to pick up or deliver my son, Mark. I am proud as he is to have had your friendship.
I am sure you are in heaven,but, my prayers are still with you.
Muriel Botti Brown
Pam Spicknall
December 5, 2007
Hi, I never knew you but I am sorry that it happened to you. You look like a very nice person. May your soul rest in peace.
Mark Botti
December 5, 2007
Hey Pat. It has been 27 years since we graduated but I am still proud to say I knew you.
Pamela Watson
October 26, 2007
I have never met your family, but Pat was the same age as me, and your story has hit me to the heart. They say that everyone has a double in this world, and Pat looks so much like my Italian friend Francesco (yes, he is a red-head too!). God bles you all, and know that Pat has a double who walks the world making people happy, just as your Patrick did.
Tom Baus
September 12, 2007
Six years - Not a day has passed that I have not thought of Pat. Go Navy!!
Jim Chiang
September 11, 2007
Hi Stephanie, Allie,
I just wanted to let you know that I am thinking of you both today...
And if you are in the DC area, please contact me as I would like to see the two of you !
My phone number is: (703) 669-0584.
Thanks and best wishes,
Jim Chiang
West Virginia Wesleyan Class '92
Best wishes
Diane Robetcky
September 11, 2007
Dear Pat,
Thank you for your sacrifice and service to our country. We know of you through your loving Stephanie, Allie and Paul, who are manning the fort here. Peace be with you.
TheRobetcky Family of Temecula
Mike Wisgarda
September 11, 2007
On a day when so many feel sorrow for the losses that so many have endured, I choose to think of my childhood friend and neighbor with those vivid childhood memories that will never be taken from me. My regards to Pat's family & friends.
Christine M Lambiase
September 11, 2007
Thinking of you and your family today and always.
Love,
Christine
Joe Heintjes
September 11, 2007
Pat and I went to grammar school and high school together in New Jersey. He was a year older than me. He went to Annapolis and I to Parris Island. Of all the people killed on 09/11, I knew only one. He was the guy who had the great Irish smile and sense of humor that could make anybody laugh.
There's not a terrorist event anywhere in the world that I don't think of Pat and my 241 brothers killed on 23 October 1983. Today is another day of remembrance and it's so hard to believe that 6 years have passed.
Cecilia Casey
September 9, 2007
My Brother was a classmate of Patrick Dunn's at the United States Naval Academy - I remember meeting him at a gathering of friends - he was such a great fun loving guy. I will always think of him when I pass the Pentagon and go to Navy home games - God bless you Patrick and - as is the tradition after the singing of Navy Blue and Gold - BEAT ARMY!!
Steph , Paul and Allie
September 4, 2007
May you continue to hold us in the palm of your hand... especially in the days ahead! You are loved!
P Tabbernor
August 24, 2007
In remembrance....
marybeth dunn
August 18, 2007
Thinking of you
Marybeth Dunn
May 26, 2007
It's been a tough week leading up to the holiday. I have your picture on my desk and I've been looking at it alot this week.
I know you are manning the grill this weekend!
I miss you terribly!
Dodi & Laura Santos
May 25, 2007
Laura & I (Dodi Santos) have been missing you since we met through our son, LCDR Dan Santos, during your CVN-71 days in Norfolk, VA. We are honored that your were one of the 6 swordsmen in our 25th marriage renewal @ Dam Neck Chapel & the good times @ the D/N O'Club. We are also privileged to attend your marriage with Stef. We know that you are in a great place up there with the Lord.
David Dibble
February 11, 2007
I served with then LCDR Pat Dunn on the staff of Carrier Group EIGHT. LCDR Dunn was the epitome of a Naval Officer who executed the objective and allowed noone and nothing to get in his way.
Doug Abraham
February 3, 2007
Happy Birthday!!!
Christine Lambiase
February 1, 2007
Happy Birthday!
Marybeth Dunn
January 30, 2007
Happy Birthday!
We all miss you!
Stephanie
January 29, 2007
Happy Birthday Daddy In Heaven!
May the love that we have for you today and always be lifted up and into your arms. You are dearly missed and loved!
Love,
Stephanie, Paul and Allie
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Vicki Burford
December 29, 2006
Stephanie
Today I spent a good share of the day re-reading yours and Patrick's story. And to see that beautiful red-headed Allie is such a treat. I was a good friend of your parents when you lived in Denver and my Christmas card to them came back to me as undeliverable. Can you share their address with me? I remember when you were a very little spit-fire of a girl and awed by all the gorgeous Christmas decorations that your mom put up around your house. Then she'd invite the whole department she directed at St. Joe's Hospital to come and celebrate Christmas with your family.
I would really like to catch up with her again.
My email address is [email protected]. I was Vicki Upah when I knew you in Denver.
Thanks, Stephanie. I keep you all in my prayers and enjoy knowing that you are creating a good life for you, and Allie and Paul.
Dr. Vicki Burford
Stephanie
December 21, 2006
We just wanted to wish you a very Merry Christmas. We know you will be celebrating with Jesus again this year. May God Bess you and may you know how much we truly miss you and love you!
Love Always,
Paul, Stephanie and Allie
Marybeth Dunn
December 1, 2006
It's that time of year again!
GO NAVY!!! BEAT ARMY!!!!!
Miss you!
Stan Henley
November 8, 2006
Dear Stephanie,
It has been awhile since I last visited here to find you and Allie doing well. I still feel the loss of Pat as I guess all of us who met him always will. You and Allie will always be in my prayers.
Stan Henley
Kristine
October 31, 2006
As I cross-stitched your name on the memorial that I am doing for all of the victims, I prayed for you and your family. Please know that your death was not in vain. We will always remember. God Bless.
Stephanie Dunn DeSimone
October 23, 2006
Happy 7th Anniversary Patrick!
This day is so very bitter sweet as it brings back such fond memories of our beautiful wedding(it was everything we both dreamed of) and all the fun we shared, yet today is very painful for me since you are gone. I am comforted by the knowledge that you are in Heaven and watching over our family and blessing us each day.
I love you and am truly blessed to have had you in my life!
Love Always and Forever,
Steph
Tom Gugliuzza-Smith
October 18, 2006
Dear Stephanie and Allie: I am so sorry Patrick/daddy was taken from you. My heart was touched by the many wonderful/beautiful things written about you. Stephanie, I worked with you at Greenspring. I visit ARLINGTON NATIONAL CEMETERY section 60 two or three times a week to honor the fallen.
Gug
Jennifer Kaysak (nee Bertovich)
September 14, 2006
Dear Steph,
I have wanted to contact you for 5 years. We went to school together in Pittsburgh (USC). I am sorry for the loss of Patrick. I know life will never be the same nor will we ever forget but I am glad your life is going forward in wonderful ways. Always thinking of you.
Diane Robetcky
September 13, 2006
Dear Patrick,
We met Stephanie by chance when she became our neighbor a few years ago. She, Allie and Paul moved to Calif. to begin anew. I must say she is a woman of courage, whose love for you never died. Paul is a wonderful man who is vigilant about her and Allie's well being. We met your darling brother and niece in May at Paul's change of command; what a wonderful family you have. May the angles of the Lord assist you in keeping vigil over them now and forever.
With love,
the Robetcky family
Christy Fought-Pannell
September 12, 2006
Dear Steph:
I am so glad to have found this wonderful website honoring Patrick! Every Sept. 11th that passes, I am filled with mixed emotions. I am sad for the loss of Patrick, but so happy and thankful you have the gift Patrick gave you before he left (by the way she is absolutely BEAUTIFUL)! And for the happiness you've found with Paul. I say my prayers for you, Paul and Allie and know that Patrick and GOD are blessing your souls. Last but certainly not least, every September 11th I have made it a tradition to look at my wedding album and see you catching the bouquet and Patrick catching the garter. You were both so happy, smiling, so in love. Write me soon...I miss you!
P.S. Give the princess a kiss for me:)
God Bless Patrick's Memory
Christy Fought-Pannell
Marcie Cartier Jefferson
September 11, 2006
Pat- I remember you paying a visit to my husband on the LaSalle, encouraging him to take care of his wife and daughter. We have come so far from that young Navy family, and I thank you for your positive influence along the way. I know you are looking out for your wife and daughter every minute. Congrats on your amazingly beautiful little girl. The Navy lost one of its best men five years ago. We think of you and Steph often.
Allie At Arlington on 9/11/06 with Eddie driving Uncle Jimmy's Van
Marybeth Dunn
September 11, 2006
Dear Patrick,
I just wanted to let you know that we made it through the day, and another year, for that matter.
Allie is beautiful and happy as hell! Steph's doing a great job! And I knew from the first time i met Paul that he'd be a great father. He loves her so much!
Just wanted to let you know, we are doing OK.
Love you and miss you!
Sept. 11, 2006
Marybeth Dunn
September 11, 2006
Allie at Arlington, placing a flag from the 5th anniversary service, at "her Daddy in Heaven's" Grave.
Christine Lambiase
September 11, 2006
Dear Pat,
I can’t believe that it’s 5 years already. So much has changed in the past 5 years, yet so many things remain the same. Not a single day has gone by that I haven’t had a pleasant thought about you and said a prayer for you and your family. May God Bless you always.
Love,
Chris
jack
September 11, 2006
Patrick,
You are missed more each day and each day my pride in you grows.
Blake Gregory
September 10, 2006
To the Dunn Family, Commander Dunn gave his all to keep us free. He gave the greatest gift any man or woamn can ever give. God be with you this day and you are in our prayers.
Stephanie
August 28, 2006
Well Pat,
Allie started Pre-K today and you should have seen her. She was as beautiful as ever and a spitting image of you. As you already know, she is attending an excellent Catholic school, if only they knew your history with the nuns at your school. Oh boy! Anyway, I want you to know how great she was on her first day. She was so delighted that she can't wait to go back tomorrow. Paul and I have tried very hard to give her the life that you would want her to have and I honestly think we have done a great job. She loves Paul so very much and he is everything and more than a father can be. You would be proud. So here's to our sweet Allie ... she is the apple of our eyes, yours, Pauls and mine! Thinking of you on this first day of school!
Love,
Steph
Steph, Paul and Allie (Dunn) DeSimone
August 23, 2006
May God Bless You Our Dear Patrick!
As 9/11 approaches, our hearts weigh heavier and heavier each day. We are safe, happy and living the life that you would want for us. You are in our thoughts and prayers now and forever. Beat Army! We love you so very much!
Kathy Swaringen
June 23, 2006
on June 23, 2006, 1 mile was walked to honor the life of Commander Patrick S Dunn and all those who loved him. May you find some comfort in knowing that you do not grieve alone and that you and your loved one have not been forgotten.
Patrick, may you rest in peace.
David Jones
May 29, 2006
On this Memorial Day 2006 I salute Commander Dunn. I served with Pat in USS Theodore Roosevelt from his arrival onboard in August 1993 during our Med/Mid East deployment until my retirement from the Navy in July 1994. During this 11 month period we worked together in the Engineering Department Office and I developed a great respect for him because of his hard work, dedication to duty, and love of life and Country. He was fiercely proud of our Ship, the Navy and the United States! I will always be grateful for having had an opportunity to serve with him and I will always be pissed off that he died the way that he did!
Stephanie, Paul and Allie
January 31, 2006
HAPPY BIRTHDAY DADDY IN HEAVEN! WE LOVE YOU SO VERY MUCH!
LOVE,
STEPH, PAUL and ALLIE
Christine Lambiase
January 31, 2006
Happy Birthday Pat! I'll be raising a beer in your honor today!
Love,
Chris
Marybeth Dunn
December 2, 2005
GO NAVY!!!!!! BEAT ARMY!!!!
Marybeth Dunn
November 5, 2005
Miss you!
Stephanie
October 21, 2005
Happy Anniversary Pat! Six years have passed since our wedding and the 23rd is a day I will always remember. I am glad there is no pain in Heaven because I know you are happy.
Thinking of you!
Stephanie
September 28, 2005
Dear Pat,
Four years ago I buried you and lifted you up to the Angels! That was truly the hardest day of my life and one I will NEVER forget. It is my hope that you have found eternal peace and that you are happy.
Please know that I am happy, as I promised you I would.
May God Bless You and The Family You Left Behind!
Christine Lambiase
September 11, 2005
Thinking about you today and everyday! God Bless you Pat!
Howard Barbour
September 11, 2005
Remembering a former shipmate on 11 September 2005.
Allie 2005
Allie
August 2, 2005
Paul, Stephanie and Allie
July 1, 2005
Hey Pat!
Knowing this was your favorite holiday... Happy Forth of July! Enjoy the Pomp and Circumstance from above!
We miss you and love you dearly!
Beat Army!
Love,
Paul, Stephanie and Allie
Marybeth Dunn
May 1, 2005
Just thinking of you the last few days, who am i kidding the last few years. Missing you terribly. I have been sick the last few weeks and what i wouldn't give to be able to pick up the phone and hear a joke from you. I know you would have sent a card to lift my spirits. How I would love to tell you about be up coming graduation, I know you'd be the first to book a flight out for it! Miss you terribly you big dork!
Stephanie
March 4, 2005
Dear Mike,
Thank you for your kind words. You are right, those of us who were blessed enough to have known and loved Pat are better people for it. He was a great man and would have been a wonderful father to our daughter. I am comforted in knowing that he watches over our family from above.
Thank you again for contributing to the memories of Patrick.
Fondly,
Stephanie
Mike Bass
March 3, 2005
To the family of Pat Dunn,
When I worked in the Pentagon on the Navy staff 96-00. I had the opportunity to work with Pat a couple of times. I am probably not telling you something you don't already know but I remember him to be upbeat and cheerful even when the load got heavy. Seemed like a great guy. I am extremely sorry for your loss however, I just wanted you to know that from a stranger's perspective with limited contact with Pat he made a positive impression on me. I thought Pat was a fine officer and good person. God bless.
Paul, Steph and Allie
January 31, 2005
Happy Birthday Daddy In Heaven!
Not a day goes by that you are not with us! We love you so very much and know that you are celebrating with Big Bobby today!
All our love,
Paul, Steph and Allie
PS - Thank you to all who continue to write. He always loved his family!
Marybeth Dunn
January 31, 2005
Well,
As the story goes, you were suppossed to be born the end of February and Grandma told the doctor, that there was no way you would last till February.
She was right, you were born January 31st, eager to face the world!
Happy birthday, i'm always thinking of you, but most of all, today!!
I miss you, you dork!!!
Chris Lambiase
January 31, 2005
Happy Birthday Pat!
Betty Dunn-Hinkle
November 7, 2004
I am Patricks sister and my heart is touched by all the love that has been shown to myself and my family because of Pat's death. He was a treasure to me, and a single day does not go by that a memory of him is recollected and I smile or perhaps wipe away a tear. My love for my little brother keeps me edified and I look forward to the day that we can once again be united. My father, Robert F Dunn died shortly after Patrick and I know that they are telling sea stories to each other over a game of poker. Pats nickname for Dad was "Rocky". My mother, Mary has suffered so much with the loss of both her youngest son and her husband within five months of each other. She herself has had 2 bad stokes since this time and she is doing well. She is very proud of the kind of man her Pat had become and she loves the memorials that all you nice people have written. Mom and I send our love to Allie as well as to Steph. By the way, in one of the memorials written by one of Pats friends from Glenwood Terrace in Fords NJ, Yes I remember you well Michael Wisgarda and thank you for the kind words. May Pats memory live on for all his good works and kindnesses that he did for others. Families Are Forever!!! Betty Dunn Hinkle (304) 472-9484
Allie
September 11, 2004
God Bless You My Daddy In Heaven!!!
Marybeth Dunn
September 11, 2004
Well, here we go again. It used to feel like maybe he was just on a long deployment, but no matter how little a event was in our lives he would always find a way to be there for you. It did not matter what corner of the earth he had to come from. He was there. He may have been found the following morning passed out under a bush, but he was there!
I can't wait for Allie to be old enough to know how great her Father was. And I know that if that horrible day never occurred, tomorrow he would be taking her to tailgate at a Navy football game!
Beat Army!
I miss you Uncle Pat!!
Stephanie Dunn DeSimone
April 17, 2004
Dear Mrs. Worthington-Henry,
What a beautiful note and a true tribute to Patrick. Thank you!
You are right, Patrick loved his job and loved his troops. He was a man of true honor and a man who loved the sea.
I am truly touched by your story and it has moved me to tears, taking me back to those days in Italy with the beautiful water surrounding Gaeta.
I loved being there and sharing in Pat's life on USS LASALLE. He loved that ship and she was his world.
I am so proud to hear of your son's devotion to Pat and to the Navy. Pat would be proud to know the Navy has become his career. And he does know ... from Heaven, he knows all.
Although Pat and I were married for a very short time before his death, we did share a lot of experiences and fun events. But the best memories I have are the days in Italy and following the Ship as she pulled in to various ports for visits. These were some of the best times on our lives and I will cherish them forever, as well as the crew of USS LASALLE. They were our life and I miss them dearly.
You will be happy to know that I have remarried, another Naval Officer, and am living in California. I am active with the changes the State of California is trying to make to better the lives of the military families, both active duty and families of those who have been injured or killed. I have recently met with Maria Shriver, First Lady of California, to discuss these matters and we are beginning to make some head way. My husband is currently deployed to Iraq and will be there ofr some time. He is a CO and is very busy keeping his troops safe. He has adopted Allie and our life is finally coming back together. I know Pat would be happy as he always told me that if anything happened to him he wanted me to be happy and I truly am.
Allie is our world. She has Pat's red hair and my blue eyes. She has a love of life that is indescribable. Her sense of humor is like Pat's and her laugh is infectous. She is a true delight and a gift that I thank God and Pat for each day.
Please know that I am truly honored to have such wonderful people like you and your family. Remembering Pat is such a fun thing to do and I know he died leaving a memory of what he beleived life should be ... FUN!
Thank you for sharing your story with me. I would be honored to send you a picture of Pat, so that your son might include that in his memories. Please let me know.
You and you family are my thoughts and prayers and I thank you for extending your prayers to us. We are truly blessed to have such people in our live.
Take care and be safe!
Fondly,
Stephanie Dunn DeSimone
Picture of Joseph at memorial service.
Beverly Worthington-Henry
April 12, 2004
Dear Stephanie,
Our son Bradley Henry joined the Navy in November of 1997. He could hardly wait to arrive at the Naval Training Center.
Upon his graduation we had his instructor tell us that he'd seen many men and women pass through Great Lakes but he could only think of a few that actually enjoyed every single experience but Brad was certainly a recruit that would stand out in his mind forever.
Three young men from the ghetto in New York were about to fail and be removed from the program but Brad asked if he could help them because he felt in his heart that these young men wanted a better life for themselves and he was up for the challenge of helping them. Fortunately all three graduated.
Brad received a promotion out of basic and I will never forget the excitement in his voice when he phoned with the news that his first assignment would be Command Sixth Fleet to serve on the USS LaSalle in Gaeta, Italy. Brad also made Petty Officer in less than two years. He is choosing a career in the Navy and is so proud to serve and honor his country. I'm sure a part of it is also due to the influence your husband had on Brad.
Your husband was one of Brad's very first experiences with an officer and he told us not only was Patrick a man of morals and ethics but as Brad put it, "Mom he is just tons of fun."
I'm sure you do not remember but when we were in Italy in December of 1999 we met you and Patrick while doing a little Christmas shopping in Piccolo Alley. We briefly chatted and for the remainder of the evening Brad shared such wonderful experiences as well as the knowledge he'd gained by knowing your husband. Not only as his CO but as a friend as well. And in any given social situation Patrick was always the life of the party.
Brad and Barbara got married in a beautiful ceremony in a church that looked out over the sea. You could see the church on top of a mountain from Itri. And the wedding dinner and after party was there at the Hotel Marasole in Gaeta. It was certainy a beautiful wedding. I also didn't eat for a week after the event, I've never seen so much food in my life. The Italians sure know how to cook and they love to eat. Each time we visited I learned to take at least three sizes of clothing. Their hospitality is so giving and trusting....Barbara's aunt opened her home to us, stocked the fridge and had a friend come check on us daily to make sure we had everything we needed. Her aunt then moved in with her daughter during our three week stay. I can't think of many Americans that would turn their home over to people they'd never met.
Brad was so honored that one of the officers and his wife which had recently been assigned to report to Greece actually stayed two extra days in order to attend the wedding.
Brad and Barbara now have a little son Joseph, he's three going on 18 I think....but just the light of our lives. Our daughter just had her first child in October, a little girl...we're so blessed to have a grandson and a now a little granddaughter named Ella.
For us here in Ohio September 11 began as any other day. I'm such a creature of habit...get out of bed, make coffee, turn on CNN and check e-mail.
As I watched in horror and disbelief my first thoughts turned to the safety of Brad over in Italy and the many people that lost their lives here in the states. I phoned Brad right away. As we were talking he received a call to report back to the ship and was told they had no idea when he'd be back.
He told me he loved me and for me not to worry that he was about as safe as he felt he could be since he would be on the LaSalle.
When the next call came I could tell in his voice he was just heart broken. He said, "Mom, Commander Dunn was killed at the Pentagon." There were two other men that Brad had worked with on the LaSalle that also lost their lives. But all he could do was talk about Commander Dunn and that you were also expecting your first child and how excited Commander Dunn was when you found you were going to be parents.
At that point Brad said he had to go to a place he loved and just sit on the beach for a while and try to seek some understanding of the events that had taken place and somehow find peace in his soul and pray for the lives that were lost and the loved ones left behind.
Brad and his family are now living in Jacksonville, FL he has a wall devoted to his time in Italy. He proudly displays all of the honors he received while he was serving with Command Sixth Fleet. Pictures of the LaSalle and the usual ceremonial pictures.
This past weekend some friends went to Washington to visit their son Justin serving in the Army. This young man is an Honor Guard. I asked this young man a special favor, I asked if he would please locate the grave of Commander Dunn and take a photo of it for me to give to Brad. I asked him to take a picture of the Pentagon and one of Commander Dunn's marker so I could have them matted and framed for Brad.
While Justin was there he noticed pebbles on top of the marker...Justin then went and found a pebble and placed it there, said a prayer and then said Commander Dunn, this stone if from Brad Henry and one day he will see you again in heaven.
I have thought of you and your precious little daughter many times over the past few years. You have been remembered in my prayers daily.
Brad will never forget the knowledge he gained from Commander Dunn, nor his wonderful sense of humor and the way he dealt with people. Commander Dunn had a wonderful gift of demanding respect and expecting a job to be well done but he used such a human approach along the way.
Unfortunately so many officers have an "attitude"....and most of those men are not true leaders in my opinion, they're a dime a dozen and forgotten by the time the men and women reach their next duty station but men like your husband will be remembered and respected for generations to come.
I'm attaching a picture of little Joseph that was taken at a memorial service for those who lost their lives on September 11. Joseph was a bit upset that they didn't think at his age he should have a candle...so he was a bit misty eyed...but he's a little trooper and he proudly held his candle all by himself.
Sincere ly,
Beverly Worthington-Henry
Chris Lambiase
January 31, 2004
Happy Birthday Pat! I hope you are celebrating with the angels!
Love,
Chris
Paul, Stephanie and Allie
January 30, 2004
Happy Birthday Daddy in Heaven! We Miss you!
Laura Toran
September 11, 2003
Steph and Allie,
Thinking of you both today and just keeping in mind how special Patrick was to so many people. I hope you're both doing well and wish you all the support and love that it takes to get you through the difficult days. Much love, Laura
John Canavan
September 11, 2003
The Dunn Family,
I never knew Patrick, he sounds like an amazing man. My mother was a Dunn, & we may or may not be related somewhere way back there, one can never tell. We certainly share a love for the sea, my grandfather was in the British Merchant Marines, (he was torpedoed on the Lusitanian & survived & 2 weeks later was again torpedoed & again survived). I was a LT. In the Canadian Naval Reserve & am a member of the Canadian Naval Officers Association. I hope the following words bring you all some comfort, I also shared them with the family of Sean Canavan who perished in the World Trade Center on 9/11.
God Bless You & the men & women who sail the global seas to protect us all.
Sincerely,
John Canavan
I understand the pain that never leaves
The heart that never mends
The tears that come in the night
The emptiness in your life
The awful realization that it’s not a dream
I also know that love is constant & the spirit never leaves the ones they love
Leslie Garrone
September 11, 2003
Stephanie,
Even though I never met Patrick there are many times over the past two years I think about him, you, Allie, and each of your families. Reading the wonderful memories of Patrick written in the guest book give me a large sense of the world’s loss. There will be many more times, as the years pass, I will think of you and Allie with smiles and warmth knowing that you have each other.
Prayers and Blessings,
Leslie Garrone
Chris Lambiase
September 11, 2003
Pat,
Thinking about you today and every day. The world is alittle less happy without you in it. Rest in Peace.
Love,
Chris
Stepahnie and Allie
September 10, 2003
Dear Patrick,
Two years ago, you departed this earth and went to a higher and better place. We still moarn your loss and miss you very much.
Allie is the best gift you have ever given me and I can't thank you enough. She has your hair and you smarts. She is everything you and I ever wanted.
As the two year mark approaches, please know that we are fine and we will be okay. Not a day goes by that we don't think about you and the love you had for us.
Rest in Peace sweet Patrick! BEAT ARMY!!!!!!
Love,
Stephanie and Allie
LT William Roth
August 8, 2003
Pat,
I can't seem to stop thinking of you lately! It could be that I am awaiting the results of the LCDR selection board and I wish I could hear you telling me not to worry, or it might be that I couldn't locate Stephanie and Alex while I was in DC this summer and I feel somehow that I let you down.
Either way I bounce back and forth between feeling bad that you were taken from us and knowing that you would be yelling at me if you saw me pouting. The world just seems a little less happy without you in it my friend.
I miss you Pat. May God bless you, Stephanie and Alex.
Jim Kippenhan
February 8, 2003
Pat and I were shipmates on USS INCHON. I was a Petty Officer Second Class back then and Pat was a newly minted Ensign. Both of us were “vertically challenged” and would often stand back to back to determine who was taller that day. It all depended on which shoes were worn!!
We were both in our 20’s (Pat was 8 ½ months older than me) and came from similar backgrounds. Both of us understood and respected the line between Officer and Enlisted, but we each enjoyed the other’s company within those bounds.
Through the years we kept in touch on an irregular basis. Mostly we kept track of each other through mutual friends. I just missed seeing Pat in 2001, when my ship pulled into Italy. He had left LASALLE a few weeks earlier.
I finally visited Pat’s grave on Veteran’s Day 2002. I had attended the Veteran’s Day Ceremony at Arlington with my children. We walked from the Amphitheater to Pat’s grave. I found the headstone, offered a quiet prayer, placed a flag on his grave and rendered a salute. My son noted that he and Pat share the same birthday. I just nodded. I was too choked up to speak. Pat will never be forty.
Pat lives on in our memories of him. I will always remember his smile and laugh. I will always remember him.
Jim Kippenhan
Chief Petty Officer, United States Navy (Retired)
Allie and Santa 2002
Stephanie and Allie Dunn
February 3, 2003
HAPPY BIRTHDAY PATRICK!!!
We love you and miss you dearly!
Love,
Steph and Allie
Marybeth Dunn
January 16, 2003
The following article is proof that Patrick touch the life of so many.
Road would be renamed for 9/11 victim
Published in the Home News Tribune 1/14/03
By SUZANNE C. RUSSELL
STAFF WRITER
WOODBRIDGE: To honor a local victim of the Sept. 11, 2001, attack on the Pentagon, residents of a Fords cul-de-sac are petitioning the Township Council to have their street renamed Cmdr. Patrick Dunn Court.
"It's a fitting tribute," said Paul Ortenzio, a Mocci Court resident leading the effort to rename the street, one of the last built in Fords, the section of Woodbridge where the Navy commander once lived. "It's been a year in the making."
Neighbors on the cul-de-sac off Main Street requested the change in a petition signed by 18 residents, including Gary Taffet, Gov. James E. McGreevey's former chief of staff, and submitted last week to the municipal clerk's office. The petition contains the names of residents from 12 of the 13 homes on the block, Ortenzio said.
"It's a patriotic gesture," Ortenzio said.
Dunn, 39, was killed after terrorist-hijacked American Airlines Flight 77 crashed into the Pentagon's north side on Sept. 11, 2001. The Pentagon's Navy Command Center and Dunn's office were directly in the plane's path.
Less than an hour before his office was attacked, Dunn had called his older brother, Jim, of Toms River, hoping he had been late getting to work in Manhattan, where terrorists already had struck the World Trade Center.
Patrick Dunn was a graduate of Our Lady of Peace Grammar School in Fords and a 1980 graduate of Bishop Ahr High School in Edison. He graduated from the U.S. Naval Academy in Annapolis, Md., in 1985 after earning a bachelor of science degree in mathematics.
Dunn completed tours of duty on ships stationed throughout the world, including Italy, Jacksonville, Fla., and Norfolk, Va., before being assigned to the Pentagon to serve as a surface-warfare officer in the Naval Command Center.
His father, Robert Dunn, died last year. His mother, Mary, who lived on Glenwood Terrace in Fords, has moved out of state to live with her daughter, officials said.
John Mitch, municipal clerk and acting business administrator, said the name Mocci Court comes from developer Ralph Mocci, who built the homes along the street.
Mitch said the township's engineering department has determined that the street has been officially turned over the township. The street name, however, does not appear on several maps. Mocci could not be reached for comment.
Mitch said he's seeking input from the Township Council members on whether they support the name change.
A monument in front of Town Hall -- unveiled at last year's Sept. 11 anniversary -- honors the nine township residents killed by the terrorist attacks at the World Trade Center and Pentagon.
Suzanne C. Russell: (732) 565-7335; e-mail [email protected]
Renee Baldwin
January 5, 2003
To Stephanie, Allie and Family--
It's another year (2003). I pray that all is well with you. I miss my sister Cecelia as you do Patrick but knowing that they are with God is strengthening and healing. Having family and friends helps me along the way. Hope to see you and how much Allie has grown, again.
Renee from the Family Assistance Center.
Me and Uncle Pat on Christmas
Marybeth Dunn
December 4, 2002
I have visited this site often. However, for some reason I stopped some time in July. I have wanted to post a message for over a year now but there is so much to say. You read sites like this a there are people saying the same things about anyone who has passed, "he was a great guy"! Well, I think many among us may agree that Pat Dunn was one of the few really "great guys" and at the same time he was genuine. I guess I never posted a message because I did not want it to sound like I'm repeating what has already been established. Now, perhaps with the Army/Navy game drawing upon us, I feel like it's time to say something for Pat. Patrick was my uncle, he was my confirmation sponsor, my role model, and my friend. When we would finally got to see him after long deployments he always made me feel that he was thinking of us back home. He always brought presents, he always had stories, and he always got me in trouble! Growing up all I wanted to do was graduate from the United States Naval Academy and follow in his footsteps. He helped with much of the admission process and helped me meet the people I needed to meet and in the end I unfortunately could not get a height waiver (those Dunn genes). I was devestated, and he helped me realize that it was not the end of the world. But I think what helped most of all was that I had an excuse to spend some extra time with him. And if I had to relive that moment of finding out I will not be living out the future I had hoped for just to have had one extra phone call with him, I would. In the mist of the memorials for the one year observance of 9/11, Patrick's high school planted a tree in his memory. At this ceremony an old classmate of his shared a story with us that helps me. He tolds us that Patrick carried a "plan" around with him in the pocket of his ROTC uniform. This plan included things he wanted to accomplish in his life. One was to graduate from the Naval Academy. Second was to become a Commander in the United States Navy, next was to marry a beautiful woman, and last to have children. He was so close. I wish Allie all the happiness she can possibly find, but most of all I wish for her to be able to hear these stories that his friends have shared. I wish for her to know how badly he wanted to know her and how much he already loved her. We miss you, Patrick! GO NAVY!!!
Lanny Morris
October 23, 2002
Dear Stephanie,
We were neighbors at WVWC, off campus, and it has been a while since I've seen you. I want to tell you sorry I am for your loss. I met Patrick very briefly at a party in DC and he was full of life. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Warm regards,
- Lanny
Joan Dias
October 16, 2002
Mary & Family
I didn't know Patrick but I know He must of been a wonderful Son.I knew some of your family from St. Mary's
in Perth Amboy as my Sons went there also. I just wanted you to know my thoughts & prayers are with
you all. May God Bless you & God Bless America.
Nicole Prete Deeds
September 11, 2002
Dear Stephanie,
I'm not sure if you will remember me, but we attended WVWC together.
I am so sorry about your wonderful husband Patrick and wanted you to know that I have thought about you and that precious Alexandria hundreds of times over the last year. I won't try and pretend to understand what you are going through. Just know that there are many people that are praying for you and Allie.
Much love to you,
Nicole Prete Deeds
Tara Mulligan
September 11, 2002
Stephanie~
You probably don't remember me, but I worked at Greenspring Village in Dining Services and Resident Life before I left for college. You may know me as Craig Turner's fiance. I just wanted to let you know that you and Alexandria and Patrick are, and always will be in my prayers. As I sit here, with tears rolling down my face, I realize all the times I have taken for granted the people that I love. I won't pretend to imagine your loss, because I can't fathom what you have been through. I just want you to know that you are an incredibly wonderful and strong woman. Don't ever feel alone, because God is holding one hand, and Patrick the other. God bless you and your beautiful baby.
Tara B. Mulligan
Robert Hooten
September 11, 2002
I met Pat in Jan 94 when I reported to the Big Stick, USS Theodore Roosevelt. We became friends and shared some fun times in Virginia Beach and during the 95 deployment. Pat was the consumate professional Naval Officer. He definately led by example and took extreme pride in taking care of his sailors and responsibilities. Pat set up the Surface Warfare Officer's qualification course on TR. The course was for Staff Corps officers to qualify for a warfare specialty. Thanks to him, several of us earned the pin in the course of a year. Pat lived down the road from me on the Bay, so, naturally, we shared a few beers together. He was always witty, boarding on complete sarcasm. I remember riding in his red Jeep Cherokee and not having any room to sit due to all of the HAM radios on the passenger side. Pat was a good guy and a great Naval Officer. When I transferred in 95 to Richmond, I lost touch with Pat, but never forgot him as a friend and shipmate. I was saddened when I read his name on the list of Pentagon victims and even more saddend to find out that he finally settled down and was soon to be a father. Pat had this aura about him and people gravitated to him. After reading his name, I called about 3 other shipmates to tell them of the news. We will miss him. Pat to you I say "Go Navy" and Farewell and Following Seas my friend. To Pat's wife and family, may God Bless you, my prayers are with you.
Bob Hooten
former LT,SC,USN
Tim Hahn
September 11, 2002
God Bless
Jim Chiang
September 11, 2002
Four score and seven years ago our fathers brought forth on this continent a new nation, conceived in liberty and dedicated to the proposition that all men are created equal.
Now we are engaged in a great civil war, testing whether that nation or any nation so conceived and so dedicated can long endure.
We are met on a great battlefield of that war.
We have come to dedicate a portion of that field as a final resting place for those who here gave their lives that that nation might live.
It is altogether fitting and proper that we should do this.
But in a larger sense, we cannot dedicate, we cannot consecrate, we cannot hallow this ground.
The brave men [and women], living and dead who struggled here have consecrated it far above our poor power to add or detract.
The world will little note nor long remember what we say here, but it can never forget what they did here.
It is for us the living rather to be dedicated here to the unfinished work which they who fought here have thus far so nobly advanced.
It is rather for us to be here dedicated to the great task remaining before us--that from these honored dead we take increased devotion to that cause for which they gave the last full measure of devotion--that we here highly resolve that these dead shall not have died in vain, that this nation under God shall have a new birth of freedom, and that government of the people, by the people, for the people shall not perish from the earth.
Ed Mariani
September 10, 2002
I met Pat many years ago through a mutual friend, Danny Fernandez. It was just before he entered the Academy, and him and Dan would come up to a ski house we had. Right from the start, Pat was a guy you couldn't help but like. A guy who could be a real goofball on one hand, yet be very serious and professional on the other. I got to know him pretty well over several years, especially while he was in New Jersey, where we'd sometimes get together over beers after he finished up at the recruiting center in Fords. He had even invited me on on of the "Tiger" cruises he was part of while a midshipman, back in '85 aboard the Independence. I had lost touch with him about 10 years ago, and was shocked when I found his name on the Pentagon list. A name I would have never expected to find, seeing it brought back a flood of great memories of happier times spent with him. I can only offer my deepest sympathies to his wife and family during this time of rememberance, and add my name to the long list of those who will always keep the memory of Pat in our hearts and minds.
Zachary Murphy
September 9, 2002
i am so sorry about Patrick's death he was a brave man for what he had been through In sypathy, God Bless You
Zachary Murphy
September 9, 2002
i am so sorry about Patrick's death he was a brave man for what he had been through In sypathy, God Bless You
Al Porcello
August 29, 2002
Stephanie,
I am very sorry for your loss. I knew Pat for only a short time, yet he had a great impact on my life. I was a 20 year old college student when I met him, with no idea where I was going in life. At that time, LT Dunn was a recruiter at NRD-NJ. I met him at a job fair. His charisma and enthusiasm for the Navy convinced me to sign up. I spent seven years of my life as a successful submarine officer and left the Navy with a sense of purpose. I ran into him a couple of times in VA Beach. He never failed to buy me a beer. He was that kind of guy. The world has lost a good man.
God bless you and Allie.
Christine Lambiase
August 29, 2002
Dear Stephanie, Allie and the entire Dunn Family,
Although I have visited this site often in the past year, I did not have the strength or courage to write until now. My heart breaks each time I look at Pat’s smiling face on his tribute. Pat and I had not spoken in quite a few years but I always knew if we ever ran into one another ( I always used to look for him during Fleet Week) or made a quick phone call that we would chat like old friends. Somehow our lives just drifted apart, but the memories of our time together always makes me smile. Pat had a love for life, his family and friends that will be missed forever. His good nature and kindness to all will always be remembered by all whose lives he touched. His spirit will live forever in Allie. I know he would have made a great Dad, as he spoke of children often.
May God bless Pat and all of you. Pat will always hold a special place in my heart.
Love,
Chris
Stephanie Dunn
June 23, 2002
To All Who Have Contributed...
For months I have made it part of my day to sit and read the countless number of enteries you all have contributed to this page dedicated to my dear husband, Patrick. And I thank you from the bottom of my heart for your stories.
Each story, whether it was contributed by a shipmate, a friend or a stranger, has given me solace and helped me to heal from this terrible act. Some have made me laugh, while others have make me weep. But each and every tale has brought Pat's loving personality back to me.
As most of you have stated, he was a great man. But I want to let you know what a wondful husband he was to me. Pat and I were only married for a year and eleven months when he died, but I wouldn't have traded that time for anything. He was truly the love of my life. There wasn't anyone more important in this world to him then I was, or at least that is how he made me feel. I will miss hime dearly and will always have a place for him in my heart.
He loved the Navy ... it was his life and his love. I have been quoted be the media as saying, "If the ship was rocking, Pat was happy" and I truly believe that. The Navy was his life.
In March of 2002, six months and four days after my dear Pat left this world, I was blessed with our daughter, Alexandria Paticia Dunn. Red hair and all she is a spiiting image of her Daddy.
Allie will never know her Daddy, nor do I ever expect her to understand why he was killed. But it is through stories like yours that I can help her to learn about him and love him the way he would have loved her. God may have taken Pat away from me, but he gave me a wonderful legacy and I love her with all that I am.
Please, as you go through each day, remember your families and friends and never take anything for granted. I will never regret our last words to each other "I Love You ... Smooch" (Pat always said smooch on the phone as a way to give me a kiss, whether he was on watch at the Pentagon or at sea on USS LaSalle ... he always gave me a kiss and for that I am thankful). He was a good, good man and an excellant officer.
May God Bless You, Your Families and Your Friends. And May God Bless My Dear Patrick.
Fair Winds and Following Seas My Sweet Patrick!
Love,
Stephanie
Stan Henley
June 22, 2002
I didn’t write anything in the guestbook during the many occasions that I visited the website primarily because, it hurt too much when I realized that such a special man had fallen and been called to heaven. In fact, if it weren’t for another man with similar character that I’ll always know as William, (LT William Roth) I would have never known of his passing or this website and had the opportunity to cry and mourn his loss. Yes, I did say cry and for so many reasons that I can’t even begin to properly state them all and I am not ashamed to say that I shed a tear again tonight.
I pride myself on the fact that I don’t cry at funerals (‘ol Southern Boy “macho man”) but, for Pat I have shed many tears for our loss and not his. I do remember Patrick Dunn so very well as he is one of the very few regular officers that I could implicitly trust. A man of such integrity and commitment that he simply couldn’t betray a trust or promise, whether it be to his; country, family, fellow officer, or any man walking down the street.
As a retired U.S. Navy Limited Duty Officer, Pat exemplified what all of us old crotchety LDO’s (and yes a former Senior Chief Petty Officer) wished that the Academy could instill within its’ graduates. The slogans are endless and entail words such as valor, honesty, dedication, courage and so on but, there’s always that characteristic found within certain men that mere adjectives and pronouns cannot and never will describe.
Pat epitomized this flaw in his personality. I did say flaw because it’s such a rare quality that if the human race as a whole wasn’t flawed then the manner in which Pat rose above us all would then have to be classified as a flaw.
I discovered these facets of Pat during my tour onboard the Roosevelt from ’90 to ’94. We never had the opportunity to develop a close friendship, although, we gained each others respect very quickly. He was always the consummate professional and I never realized just how much until I’d had a really, really bad day (ever rudely told the CO of ship to “shut-up” and didn’t realize you were talking to the CO over the phone circuit).
As a former old crotchety “Chief” and an “LDO” Lieutenant, you never ever, ever let anyone see that you were worried or in trouble and as a result I really didn’t have anyone to talk to. Well, here comes Pat, who just happened to be standing the Bridge Watch. I’d never seen him in the Wardroom after watch before but, here he comes and wants to “shoot the @!^$$”. Pat never “shot the @!^$$” but, we did anyway. Then he gave me (a guy 10 years older and with 11 more years in the Navy, not including his Academy days) some really good advice. Needless to say, he prefaced that with his account of the CO falling out of his chair laughing at my discomfort.
From then on, Pat and I always had things to discuss and I especially loved seeing him involved with various interdepartmental shipboard coordination projects. He always stayed above the politics and served the interests of the command as a whole. That’s a rare character flaw, if ever there was one.
I could go on forever about Pat but, all I can honestly say is that I wish he were still with us not only for his family, although I would want that wish singularly. I wish that he were with us to provide the leadership that the U.S. Navy truly sought within its’ Officers as he could always rise above the politics and get to the root of a problem without treating the symptoms of that problem.
Stanley B. Henley
ETMC, USN, retired
Sheila Werland
April 30, 2002
God Blessed you Stephanie, with Alexandria, may she help to bring you strength in these days of healing. My heart breaks for you and the other mothers. I believe from what I have read about your husband Patrick, that he is there guarding you and his daughter and will always be there in your heart when you need him. Thank you, Commander Dunn, for being strong and true for your family and your country.
krystal cabrera
April 20, 2002
i don't know who Patrick S. Dunn but, it seems that he was a nice man and would have been a great captin of a ship
Ronald Brown
April 19, 2002
Stephanie
I heard but did not want to believe that we lost such a good man, not just the best XO I ever served under. Pat was the only one who helped me when I needed to get Brenda and the kids to Germany when I had my heart problems, and for that I am ever greatful. The LaSalle welcome team was always there for him and you and still what ever you need all you have to do is call. 904-662-0921
MM1(SW) Ronald W. Brown USN ret.
jaime pflugradt
April 15, 2002
I am reading about him,I feel for his wife,may god be with you. I have 2 sons, I would be very proud of them, if they could serve their country as well as him.
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