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Susan's memories of Sept. 11 are that she had gone to her Junior League office in Greenwich, Conn., of which she is president, and heard that the second tower, where her husband worked, had been attacked. Trying to drive home, so she could be found, she pulled over and threw up.
Mr. Wohlforth, 45, was a managing director in the bond department of Sandler O'Neill, on the 104th floor. He caught the 5:55 a.m. train to New York, or on rare occasions the 6:05, but was always home for dinner with Susan and their daughter Chloe, now 16.
"I have a picture of him holding our daughter for the first time in the hospital with a mask on," Susan said. "Playing with her on the beach in Nantucket, his pants are rolled up and wet, she is 7 or 8, and he is tossing her a ball. I've got pictures of him carving pumpkins with her every year. Every year, when they carved their pumpkins, homely or gorgeous, and they were never gorgeous. I knew he loved me very, very much. I was very secure in our marriage. We were blessed."
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Dan Cahill
October 19, 2013
Talked to Gary Gramkow at Bridgestone Golf yesterday. The three of us used to "sneak on" Haworth GC after work in the summers '72 & '73. Those were great times!!! Thank you, Buff, for all you taught me about life & golf. I will never forget you...Dan the Man.
Deborah Youngstein Saas
September 24, 2012
My sister, Naomi Youngstein, is married to (Eric) Evans Wohlforth, Martin's cousin. My condolences...
Margaret Anne "Peg" Donohue
September 11, 2012
Thinking of you, your co-workers, wife, and daughter. My thoughts are with you all, today (9/11/12) and everyday.
Rian Gorey
September 9, 2011
Buffy,
Thinking of you on the anniversary of this terrible weekend. God Bless.
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Rian Gorey
May 2, 2011
Remembering "Buffy", a Demarest neighbor and fellow BC alumni, on this day when we heard that Osama Bin Laden met his demise.....God Bless you Buffy.
Margaret Anne "Peg" Donohue
May 2, 2011
God Bless You. God Bless America and all those who made the ultimate sacrafice which resulted in today's long awaited headline.
Susan Wohlforth
November 11, 2009
Today is Veteran's Day and coincidentally the first time I have ever visited this web site. I would like to thank and recognize the courageous men and women who served and continue to serve our country. They are in my thoughts and prayers today and every day.
Chloe and I are overwhelmed by the beautiful tributes and touching memories of Buff. Each and every one means so much to us and we are grateful to have them. I was the luckiest girl in the world to be married to Buff for 21 years. He was the most wonderful husband and father as well as a true gentleman who always understood and valued what matters most in life. His love was the anchor to our family and is what continues to sustain us. He is my heart and soul. He always will be.
Carl Wohlforth
September 11, 2009
While I never met Buff I have met his father. I am around his age. I too have a daughter whose name starts with a 'C'. Though I never met my second cousin I feel we would have got on famously.
On this anniversary of the twin tower tragedy my thoughts return to him and his family. I will never forget.
Alison Ix Lutes
September 11, 2009
You are remembered today, and always.
Rian Gorey
September 11, 2009
Buffy, Rest in Peace. You are still remembered
Stancy DuHamel
September 11, 2009
Thought of you when I wok up this morning. Always the gentleman.
Dan Cahill
July 26, 2009
I remember the sun was just setting below the evergreen tree line that boarders the street as we snuck on to White Beaches CC in '72, and "cleaned out" the water hazzard boardering the par three 5th hole. Ever the opportunist, Buff had a great idea! "Dan" he exclaimed,"here's the hip boots & the rake. YOU go into the pond and pull up the balls one by one. Read them to me; then toss them to me. I'll separate them by quality. We'll split the catch 50/50 when we're through!" Everything was going like clock work until, off in the background, we could hear the greens keeper's truck bouncing around...Buff ran for the fatest tree to hide behind. Me, well, I was up to hips in HOT water....Thanks, Buff, for the great times and fun! You were a great friend! I miss you!
Doug Abraham
October 29, 2007
Happy belated Bithday!!!
Joe Scully
September 12, 2007
I knew Buff as soon as I was aware that other people existed. We lived across the street. My best and fondest memories of Buffy (as we called Martin when we were children) are of him shooting baskets with us in his driveway. He was always a lovable, grinning fellow full of joy. He had a quality of character rarely seen. He was kind and generous with me. I cherish having known Buff. I trust he is in Heaven, he certainly belongs there.
P Tabbernor
April 21, 2007
In remembrance....
Nancy Sahlberg
November 12, 2006
Be Still
Be still like the grass on a melancholy summer day
Be still like desert shrub.
Be calm and you will hear your loved one speak, in the stillness, in the calm, their love resounds.
If you are still this promise I make, you will hear the voice of your loved one helping you along your way.
Mark Clasby
September 11, 2006
Susan and Chloe,
I can honestly say that not a day goes past that I do not think of y'all. I get an occasionaly update from one of the GA girls on how you are doing and have you in my prayers every night. Please know that while we have not been in contact much since I graduated, that if there is ever anything that I can do, all you have to do is ask. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Love always,
Mark Clasby
Paul Macchia
September 11, 2006
My family is a distant cousin to Martin's wife, and it pains us he was taken away in a senseless act. I met Martin many years ago when I was a kid and he was nice and personable.
Our hearts feel the loss and we will never forget.
John Hill
September 15, 2003
To the family and friends of Buff Wohlforth,
While I never met Buff in person, I used to talk to him on a regular basis (almost every day for 5 years). I used to work for a company that provided fixed income information to broker dealers.
I would call to see if he had any offerings to advertise that day and then every couple of weeks I would lob him a sales pitch.
In my business, it wasn't very often that someone like Buff would take my call (every time I called), however Buff would.
Even though I was never able to make Sadler O'Neil a paying customer, Buff would always allow me the opportunity to give my best pitch. He would never cut me off and say that he didn't have any time for this. He was always willing to listen. Because of the way he ALWAYS treated me, I will never forget and continue to think of him often.
I wish I had met Buff face to face. I miss calling him.
Tara Gorey Betsch
September 11, 2003
Mr. and Mrs. Wohlforth, Priscilla, Lilli, Susan and Chloe,
Our family's prayers are with you. We still remember Buffy's presence in the old neighborhood on Everett Road like it was yesterday.
Rian Gorey
March 15, 2003
From an old neighbor in Demarest, my prayers are with you for Buffy. He is brightening up heaven.
Jim Ralph
January 31, 2003
To Susan, Chloe(did I spell it right this time?) and the family,
We remembered Buff at the Bergen Catholic Class of '72 30th Reunion held on Nov 23, 2002. Our class is donating $1,000 to the school. We will be putting an inscription on a leaf in the Tree of Life at the school dedicated to his memory.
We continue to offer our prayers and thoughts,
Jim Ralph, Chairman
(on behalf of the reunion committee)
James Coleman
January 22, 2003
I was saddened by this news which was brought to my attention at my 30th HS reunion. Martin and I did not go to the same HS but we attended St Joseph's together. We were classmates from 5th thru 8th grades. (I transferred in from NYC)
I do remember how smart he was and that he was naturally athletic. I would like to convey my sympathies to his family and all of his loved ones.
Michael O'Leary
November 12, 2002
Susan,
Not a day goes by that I don't think about Buff along with my cousin Tim Kelly who worked at Cantor Fitgerald.
Buff was a sweet, gentle man and
a gentleman. I knew him only as an
aquaintance through you and your brother Dave but I could easily see
how much he loved you and Chloe.
Please remember me to your family
and know that you are in my thoughts and prayers daily.
Lisa Jacobson
September 12, 2002
Susan and Chloe,
Sorry, I can't find your e-mail and I wanted to be sure to write you both.
I was thinking of you both alot yesterday. Chloe, I'm sure this year is particularly rough, with all the additional pressures of school. I know, though, that you'll get exactly where you are going, even if it seems overwhelming or even if you are not even interested right now. Give yourself a break and take it slow. Your mom knows where to find me--call me anytime. I mean it.
Alexandra Cusato
September 11, 2002
My dad, Jim Cusato, knew Buffy since grammer school. My dad says that if he could describe Buffy in one sentence, he would say that "Buffy was always smiling." We are very sorry for your loss.
9-11-02
John Zacharopoulos
September 11, 2002
If anyone had the chance or honor of meeting Buff, they would soon realize that he was a man of unblemished character and inherited only the most virtuous qualities that life has to offer. Clearly, there aren't, weren't and won't be too many like him, which is unfortunate.
What is more unfortunate and seemingly unjust is that fact that he had to leave his family and loved
ones so quickly and in such a horrid manner.
Searching for answers,the only explanation I could find is that:
Justice must be eternal...
I light a candle today in Martin P.
Wohlforth's name and hope that God
blesses all to believe in eternal
justice and more importantly to follow in the footsteps of this man's path.--
Don't worry about Buff--he'll win
in the long run and that's the way
he played it.
My deepest sympathies and best wishes go out to Sue and Chloe
Barbara (Hobens) Feldt
September 10, 2002
Dear Susan, Chloe, Mr. & Mrs. Wohlforth, Priscilla, Lili and Families,
"Daisy, Daisy, Give Me Your Answer True" - was it 3rd Grade when Buffy and I sang that in the Community Room of St. Joseph's in Demarest?
As I stood on the altar to give the eulogy early last December for my father, David Hobens, I turned toward where that stage was set up and sent Buff another prayer. I had told my Dad about scanning the WTC list frantically and finding that brilliant (yes, even in those early grades) boy's name - - the only one with shiny, new Princeton bookcovers on all his books!
I remember when Maureen O'Connell, Buffy and I were the nun's pets - - and we certainly challenged Sister Corinatta - - what fun competitions we had...and, of course, Maureen and I had crushes on Buffy! She passed decades ago but I can close my eyes and see them both so clearly.
I will light a candle tomorrow night in his memory. I am so sad for your loss.
Anoynomous Anoynomous
September 6, 2002
I just came across this when I was looking some things up and I wanted to say as a friend of Chloe's and a family friend for as long as I can remember there is not a thought in my mind that contains Mr. Wohlforth that is not soon followed with thoughts of laughter and happiness. He was always ready to joke and smile and just make you feel completely at ease when you were in his presense. Your family is so amazingly brave and genuine that even knowing that I would be able to assosciate myself with you is a complete honor. Keep being strong and know that you are loved by so many people that surround you at all times.
United in Memory block made in memory of Martin P. Wohlforth
Diana Bahler
July 30, 2002
To the Wohlforth Family:
I have attached a photograph of the block that I made in Martin's memory - it was made with love and my prayers go with it.
It was an honour to create a block for Martin and I hope that my small contribution for the United in Memory Quilts is one that helps us all to never forget the sacrifices made by so many on that day.
God bless you all,
Diana Bahler
Diana Bahler
July 25, 2002
Dear Susan,
I heard about the USA Memorial Quilt and have been asked to make a block in memory of your beloved husband.
I have only a few days to make and post it before August 1st. If there is anything in particular that you would like pictured on your husband's block, please email me very soon.
Our thoughts and prayers have been with you all and it is a privilege to be able to make some small contribution.
Blessings and hugs,
Diana Bahler
Laurie Bender
May 30, 2002
For Mr & Mrs Wohlforth Sr,
Words escape me but the sorrow of that day does not.
You used to carpool with my Dad (Art) when we all lived in Alpine. I remember you and your son from all those years ago and when my brother Doug told me of your loss I so wanted to write and send my condolences..
I cannot imagine your pain but share in your sorrow as we lost many we knew that horrific day.
God Bless.
much love from an old neighbor,
Laurie Bender
May 27, 2002
MAY THE BEAUTIFUL SOUL OF MARTIN P.WOHLFORTH AND THE SOULS OF ALL THE FAITHFULLY DEPARTED THROUGH THE MERCY OF GOD REST IN PEACE AMEN..MAY JESUS AND ST.MARTIN GREET YOU AT THE GATES OF HEAVEN...AMEN
Doris White
January 25, 2002
Martin Wohlforth has been honored by my Senior English students at Leonia High School in Leonia, N.J. Our door is dedicated to remembering those who lost their lives on 9/11. Mr. Wohlforth was selected, and his picture is on our door under a sign saying "You will always be in our hearts."
As a personal note, I am a close friend of Susan and Dominic, and my heart and thoughts are with you.
Doris Kamp White
Peter Frorer
January 25, 2002
Buff helped me sell illiquid bonds on Monday, the evening before the Attack. Buff was a reliably honest, friendly and hard working gentleman....truly a rarety on wall street. Buff was a class act. I did not know that Buff had gone to Princeton University. I did too. Undoubtedly, we must share many close friends. God bless you Buff and may He look over your surviving wife and daughter.
Mark Clasby
January 22, 2002
Dear Chloe,
I wanted to write you with my deepest sympathy for you and your family. I did not know your father, but I am lucky to know you and the wonderful girl that you are. You were a treat to have in Ashley and I's peer leadership group. You always had a smile on and a positive attitude. You were a great friend to my sister as well and to many others. I attribute this to your parents who love you very much. To have a daughter as wonderful as you speaks wonders of them, I know your dad is proud of you. Keep smiling and you will continue to light up every room you enter.
Sincerely,
Mark Russell Clasby
Peer Leader 2000
December 9, 2001
MAY GOD BLESS MARTIN P.WOHLFORTH AND
MAY HE REST IN PEACE.GOD BLESS HIS
FAMILY AND FRIENDS..GOD BLESS AMERICA AND MAY WE NEVER FORGET
9/11/01
Teresa Jahn
December 2, 2001
America Cries
We see your sorrow-
and our hearts cry....
We can not erase your pain
but you do not have to face the anguish alone-for we-
-the American people-
are beside you.
We so desperately want to have the touch that brings you comfort,
the strength that gives you courage,
and the words to lighten your spirits.
And when we are left speechless
may the silence of our nation weave love into your hearts
to ease your sorrow.
May you find healing through our nation's strength as we-
-the American people-
face this difficult time together. Our hearts are with you. Teresa Jahn
Dixon, IL
Donna & Brant Henderson
November 12, 2001
Dear Chick & Bob,
Over the years we have heard you speak about your children with such love and so much pride in their achievements. Buff was taken from all of you too soon but will surely live in your memories for the rest of your lives. He was indeed luckier than most to have come from such a loving, close family. God Bless you and yours. Donna & Brant
Jim Ralph
November 8, 2001
The last time I saw Buff was at our 25th reunion a few years back. I happened to be chairman of the event and enjoyed seeing everyone get together. I will always remember having a conversation with Buff and how he was saying that it was so great to see eveyone. I could tell he was really enjoyed being there that night. After hearing what happend to Buff on 9-11, one of our classmates commented that it was great to have seen Buff at the reunion and not just try to remember someone from almost 30 years ago. We will dedicate our 30th to Buff. In communicating recently with Dan Cahill and Bill Landrigan, fellow classmates and friends, I learned that they and other classmates able to be there for Buff's Sept 22 service in Greenwich, Conn. By chance, I was in Conn. that day visiting my daugher at college. We are all praying and thinking about Buff Susan and Clhoe Wohlforth.
Sincerely,
Jim Ralph,
Bergen Catholic Class of 1972
Chris Weber
October 28, 2001
You are in our thoughts and prayers. May the peace be with you.
Chris, Cary, Mary Anne, and Betsy
The Bookshelf Staff
Priscilla Wohlforth Stumm
October 26, 2001
Thanks to all for your thoughts, prayers and remembrances. Our family will miss Buff always and no day will go by that we won't think of him.It is a comfort to know that while his life was way too short, it was a happy and healthy one and that he did experience many joys--husbandhood, fatherhood, a job he loved, athletic skill, and wonderful friendships. The memory of his ready smile will never leave us.
noreen ross (Nee Scott)
October 25, 2001
Susan, Although we have not seen eachother for many years, I have often thought of you and your family. I have many fond memories of the times our families shared together. I wanted you to know how sorry I was to hear about Buff. I have always regarded both of you as exceptional people and will remember you and Chloe in my prayers.
Mariann/Raymond and Family Sweeney
October 24, 2001
Dearest Susan, Chloe, Auntie, Uncle Bob and all of the family,
Buff, has touched so many lives and
is very much missed. He will live in everyones heart forever. Our love and prayers to all of you.
Kasandra Pantoja
October 23, 2001
My prayers are with you and your family. May God bless you and grant you peace.
Lili Wohlforth Tatsuno
October 22, 2001
Thank you everyone for your kind words and prayers for Buff and our family. There couldn't have been a kinder or more loving brother and I will miss him everyday. Sincerely,
Lili Tatsuno
Tazno @AOL.com
BOB&CHICK WOHLFORTH
October 21, 2001
Your messages are very heart warming,and are appreciated.Buff's
birthday would have been tomorrow.
10/22/01.We have lost a wonderful son.
sincerely, Chick and Bob Wohlforth
Clint Weiman
October 21, 2001
Dear Susan,Chloe,Bob and Chick;
For several years I had the pleasure of seeing Buff at Church and exchange words of PEACE.
God Bless you all and I shall remember you in my prayers.
Martin Domb
October 19, 2001
Susan, although we never met, I want you to know that I knew Buff very well at Princeton, and I was extremely saddened to learn of his fate. I was a year ahead of Buff, and when he moved into Lockhart Hall his freshman year, rooming with Joe Pomar, my three roommates and I took an immediate liking to both and kind of "adopted" them. I remember Buff as being gentle, kind, and with a great sense of humor. Though he and I were as different as could be (background, length of hair, politics, social circles), it was impossible not to like and respect him. By the way, on September 11, I was in my office on the 52nd floor of tower 1 when the plane struck, and I was able to walk out to safety. I will always think of Buff. My best, Martin.
Ann Rohrborn
October 17, 2001
Susan, Chloe, Mrs & Mr Wohlforth, Priscilla, Lilly and families....I am so terribly sorry for your loss. It was such a coincidence to find many years back that Garry and Buff not only worked together, but also had become good friends. I hope that as we do, you can find some small comfort in knowing that Buff was not alone but, with those friends on that horrific day, and that our thoughts and prayers are with you all as well. Sincerely, Ann L. Rohrborn
Tom Henry (Princeton '76)
October 4, 2001
Buff, we crossed paths at our 25th Reunions this June and I thought I'd catch up with you at Cottage, but I've missed my chance. You should know that you were always one of the solid good guys that are so rare. To your wife, daughter, and family, my thoughts and prayers are with you. God bless you all.
October 1, 2001
Peace be with you always. Stephen Leslie & Lissa Robelo
Alison Lutes
September 26, 2001
My father, Frank Ix, called to tell me the very upsetting news about Buff. He was a good friend in years passed to brothers Frank and Chris and sister Courtney. How I wish we could return to those simpler days, running around at recess and clapping erasers on the walls at St. Joes. Our love to Susan, Lilli, Priscilla, and Buff's parents, as we do not know where they reside. We are deeply sorry for your loss and this country's tragedy. You remain in our prayers. Alison Ix Lutes
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