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"I remember my sister came home from school in 10th grade saying this boy was bothering her, pulling her hair all the time," Ted Pearlman said. Since then, his sister Sheri and that boy, Aram Iskenderian, had been together, through high school, colleges that were hundreds of miles apart, 18 years of marriage, and times that were sometimes trying. Her family was Jewish, his was not, so there was friction at first. He stood by her through difficult times when she was trying to become a doctor.
"I think that his gentleness and calmness and support when my sister was going through medical school was the turning of the corner," Mr. Pearlman said. "Through his actions he proved that true inner commitment and loyalty are far more important than anything else. How he stuck by my sister was all-important."
Mr. Iskenderian, 41, was a vice president in global risk management at Cantor Fitzgerald and was famous for his renovations at home. He and his wife had two daughters and twin sons. "He'd be home every night on that 6 o'clock train," the latest he would take, said Georgia Stavropoulos, a family friend. "He'd be home with his wife and children, to bathe the kids and put them to bed."
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December 17, 2016
I didn't know till now. I worked with Aram's sister Anita at Burger King in 1978. I don't know if my name sounds familiar but condolences to the family. My name is Susan Sperling. I live in Colorado.
Joel Darrow
January 24, 2016
Aram worked for me early in his career before going on to bigger things. He was the sort of person one remembers fondly even 25 years later.
Jack Heilmann
September 12, 2015
We miss you, Aram. All our love to Sheri and the kids.
Anonymous
August 13, 2014
Rest in Peace. I am a friend of your sons and they are amazing people and musicians. I know you are watching over your family.
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John Iskenderian
December 3, 2012
I'am very sorry for your loss
Fred Comer
September 11, 2011
I knew Aram as a great husband and father. I knew him as a very inteligent, talented, hands on, careing person. I never saw him get excited, he remained calm. I knew him and his family in the 90's. Our families spent many good times together.
September 11, 2011
Meryl & Kara - Thinking of you on this day of remembrance of your father. Love you both, Lauren "Art"
July 20, 2011
Aram was my younger brother by two and a half years. He and I shared many similar experiences and memories together. I'll always remember him fondly and am thankful for all of the kind messages and memories written here. Thank you very much to everyone for writing such kind and thoughtful entries.
May 31, 2011
May 31, 2011
Yes we knew Aram. He was our Son - in- Law. We, Sheri's parents think of him every day and how 9/11 created such a void in our family. He was like a son, having joined our family when he was only 15 years old. The most important thing for parents is to have their child loved and taken care of. Aram did just this and we will always hold him dear for his warmth and kindness.
Ealine and Jack Pearlman
Douglas Brewer
May 29, 2011
My name is Doug Brewer. I graduated from Lynbrook H.S. in 1978, the same year that Sheri and Aram graduated. I was in many of their classes and remember them as great students and nice individuals who made an awesome young couple. After 9/11 when I saw Aram's name on the list of victims, I wanted to reach out but never quite knew how. I am honored to have this opportunity to finally do so. I wish Sheri much happiness with her new husband while she cherishes her memories. One recollection I have of Sheri is that she told me one day in class that her toes bled sometimes after taking ballet class.
Erin Dowling Middleton
November 29, 2008
I did not know Aram, but I found out today of this gentle person's link to my lovely childhood friend Sheri Pearlman. To capture dear Sheri's heart, I know he was must have been an extraordinary person. God bless his soul and the lives of his dear family. I send my love and prayers to them across the miles.
P Tabbernor
November 14, 2006
In remembrance....
Lauren Van Manen
September 7, 2003
I didn't know him that well, but I slept over Meryl's house one night in second grade and I was afraid of the dark and he gave me a flashlight. He was a nice guy.
E Hagopian
June 17, 2003
It has taken me this long to read the memory of Sept. 11th as my cousin who was in tower one and was blown out of the doors. My sympathy to the family for your loss.
Ara Nazarian
August 21, 2002
I do not know Aram but I pray your soul shall live forever in the Kingdom of God watching over your children.
Marissa Fielstein
June 23, 2002
I did not know him that well, but from seeing him on his children and wives faces, i feel as If i really knew him, god bless him and his family
Aline Donabedian
April 18, 2002
My thoughts and prayers to the family and loved ones.
May you rest in peace.
February 4, 2002
OH DEAR GOD SHINE YOUR LIGHT ON THIS YOUNG MAN ARAM ISKENDERIAN AND MAY HIS SOUL REST IN PEACE WITH GOD AND HIS ANGELS..GOD BLESS HIS FAMILY AND FRIENDS.GOD BLESS AMERICA AND NEW YORK AND MAY WE NEVER FORGET 9/11/01..AMEN
Anahid Voskanian
January 16, 2002
My prayer is with Aram's Family, God be with you.
Dan Blumenthal
January 2, 2002
Aram was a good friend and fraternity brother at the University of Rochester. I will always remember his kindness, warmth and they way he cared about others. We will miss him. Our prayers are with Aram's family.
Teresa Jahn
December 28, 2001
America Cries
We see your sorrow-
and our hearts cry....
We can not erase your pain
but you do not have to face the anguish alone-for we-
-the American people-
are beside you.
We so desperately want to have the touch that brings you comfort,
the strength that gives you courage,
and the words to lighten your spirits.
And when we are left speechless
may the silence of our nation weave love into your hearts
to ease your sorrow.
May you find healing through our nation's strength as we-
-the American people-
face this difficult time together. Our hearts are with you. Teresa Jahn
Dixon, IL
barbara and fred grey
October 26, 2001
May God take good care of Aram, son of our good friends and may he grant them peace.
Kevin Carr
October 22, 2001
Aram was a very good friend at the University of Rochester. I regret not having stayed in touch over the years. I remember Aram as a thoughtful, personable and a natural leader. I'm sure his last moments involved trying to help others.
Michelle Kremer
October 21, 2001
I knew Aram, he was wonderful, my bestfriend's dad. He had a wonderful life and had 4 loving children. God bless them and thank you all.
Angel Pogosian
October 8, 2001
May you rest in peace.
Elizabeth Bennett
October 5, 2001
I am sorry for the loss of Aranm. My sympathy to those who loved him.
genie abbassi
October 4, 2001
my prayer is with you. god bless you all
Barbara Bolin
September 24, 2001
MY THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS GO OUT TO YOU ALL.MAY GOD BLESS YOU ALL.
ARAM MAY YOU REST IN PEACE.
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