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His friends nicknamed Brian P. Monaghan Jr., "slick" — but not the deceptive, smooth-talking, street-smart kind of slick. Around Inwood, where he lived, Mr. Monaghan was known as the archetypal good kid, a 21- year-old who helped elderly women across streets and went to the store for neighbors who could not.
No, they called him Slick because of the way he wore his hair: smoothed back, matinee-idol style.
He grew up playing baseball and handball on the courts near 207th Street. The older guys use to tease Brian Sr., the Little League coach, that Junior was not going to be a New York Yankee. But if the former World Champs drafted on the basis of heart, Brian Jr. would have been wearing pinstripes for a living.
He chose carpentry as a profession. Sept. 11 would have been his second day on the job at Certified Installation Services on the 98th floor of 2 World Trade Center. Mr. Monaghan had already made an impression on his co-workers.
After Sept. 11, his new colleagues said what those who have known Brian Jr. all his life have said: he was a good kid.
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Cara Macy
September 11, 2021
Thinking of you on the 20th anniversary.
With respect for you and your family.
Maggie
June 17, 2020
I can still remember your voice...I hear you Brian everywhere I go.
Michelle Matias
September 11, 2018
17 yrs and it still stings. Not a day goes by where I don't think of you Brian. You were supposed to be Madison's God Father so I've made sure she knows everything that I know about you. I miss you so very much and I look forward to the day that we'll meet again. Keep watching over your family and fly high MY FRIEND. Love you always!
September 11, 2015
Another year Dear Cousin, never fogotten by all your family. x
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S J. Friscia III
February 10, 2015
In Memory
With Honor & Respect.
Lori Johnston
September 11, 2014
Another year has passed, and daily I look at this bracelet I wear and struggle to understand that day 13 yrs ago.
So devastating and tragic, so hard to understand. I wish your family & friends Peace. And send you love.
September 11, 2014
Thinking of you Brian. R.I.P. Cousin Laura & Clan.x
Liam Noonan
July 16, 2014
Thinking about the fun times we had in the park!
Lori Johnston
September 15, 2013
I purchased a silver bracelet similar to a POW one after the war. I have been wearing Brian Patrick Monaghan's name on my wrist for 12 yrs and have always wanted to put a face with a name. I am so sorry for your loss, I can't even imagine what your family has gone through. Just wanted you to know he will always be a part of my life even though we had never met. God Bless you.
adeniji seye
September 11, 2013
I know you at rest now, God bless your family and loved ones.
Adrienne Colon
September 11, 2013
I can't believe it's been 12 years. It feels like 12 days... Forever in my heart!LUB
Laura Quinn
September 11, 2013
Another year has passed but never forgotten, RIP wee cousin. Fond memories, Laura Quinn.x
Daniel Duffey
September 10, 2013
Here we are, its September 11 once again. For the memory of those who died so tragically on this day 12 years ago, I will do the following today: I will be more patient when driving, I will hold the door open for the person behind me, I will pick up a piece of litter off of the ground, I will stop for a moment, and take a deep breath and be thankful for my life and the wonderful people that a part of it. I will not question why all of those people had to die on this day, but be thankful that more people didn't die. I will appreciate my life , perhaps just a bit more then I did yesterday, for the sacrifice made by so many innocent people. I will not be a war monger and ask for retaliation. I will live my life today for those who died for everyone of us. What will you do today ?
In Memory Of My Dear Friend, Brian Patrick Monaghan Jr 9/11/01 RIP
zona adele monaghan
zona adele monaghan
February 25, 2013
I'am so sorry for everyone's lose in the 9/11 it was so sad. I just found out brian monaghan is my second cuz would love for someone who knew him to get in touch i'am so so sorry for everyones lose but they will never be forgottenxxxxxx
catherine booth / monaghan
February 21, 2013
I've just looked this up I knew U had died in the twin towers I don't know U but your grand dad barney Monaghan was my dad Robert James Monaghan was brothers along with sister kitty and Sheila we live in England im so sorry for your loss he looks a hansom young man lots of love cath booth was Monaghan
September 11, 2012
Remembering Cousin Brian from Laura Quinn and family in England & Ireland. R.I.P. x
jay fitz
August 23, 2012
i miss you my dude but i know you shining down on me you were the best friend a guy could have jus remember save me a spot up there
i love you my dude
your boy Mik
(Jax Jacqueline) Koresh
September 12, 2011
Although we can't be with you while you remember your loved one, you're in our thoughts from afar.
September 11, 2011
Brian,
i didnt know you, and you didnt know me, i discovered you through project 2996, i feel i was drawn to you because you where the same age as i am now, and from what i have read about you, you where a lovely person to all who met you,
my condolences go out to your friends and family,
sleep well and god bless
Shlomo Dellal
September 11, 2011
I did not know Brian or his family. I saw his family members this afternoon on the subway but didn't want to intrude with my condolences. Please accept my deepest sympathies for your loss. From what I've read he sounds like he was a great kid.
Tej Grace
September 11, 2011
We will never 4get!!!!
Daniel Duffey
September 11, 2011
Happy 10 year anniversary in heaven. We love you and miss you. Your light shines brightly down upon us. Rest in peace sweet prince.
Elaine Quinn
September 9, 2011
Rest in peace from elaine and bobby quinn
Laura Quinn
September 9, 2011
Who would have known that a decade ago so many good loving people would be taken from their loved ones far too early. RIP Brian. Cousin Laura Quinn. x
Daniel Duffey
September 9, 2011
Brian was one of greatest people I had ever met in my life. I worked side by side with him as waiters in Hoppin Jalapenos on 207th in the Inwood section of Manhattan. We miss him dearly and his light wil shine brightly in hearts forever. Rest in peace sweet prince.
Adrienne Colon
September 8, 2011
Happy Belated Birthday My Dearest Brian!! I went to visit you at Good Shepherd on your Bday. I like going to sit and chat with you, it makes me feel like old times again.There's never a day that goes by that you aren't in my heart and mind. I can't believe its been 10 years, feels like yesterday... Inwood and I will never forget...Protect us all... We LOVE LOVE LOVE YOU B!!
December 21, 2010
Another year yet still thought of so much. RIP cousin. Laura Quinn - Coventry- UK
Adrienne Colon
December 20, 2010
Miss u Miss u Miss u... It's not getting any better... I still feel it as if it was yesterday... Visit me in my dreams...Adee
Tom Bustamante
December 18, 2010
Brian was my neigbor, and a great guy and friend. Always one love to him.
Alvin Williams
February 24, 2010
Brian, we hardly knew yee. I still miss him even all the way here in South Carolina where I now reside. I miss his smile, his humour, his fierce sence of loyalty. He was a wonderful young man and a dear friend. He will always be in my heart.
Tom Boyle
September 14, 2009
Eigth years later, words still can't express the sense of loss and sorrow in loosing such a bright, good young man. Brian, you are always in our thoughts and prayers.
September 11, 2009
I just wanted to say that Brian is still in the thoughts of us back home in Belfast. I didn't meet him but I knew my aunt Theresa well - she was my Grandmother's sister and even tough they were separated by so many miles there was still a closeness there. I was in NY on St Patrick's day after the tragedy of 9.11 and am so sorry I didn't get in touch. I thought I would have been a bother, but I really regret thay now as I won't have that opportunity again. Much Love to all the Monaghan family Theresa Caruth (nee Johnston) & all the McLaughlin Family
Adrienne Colon
September 11, 2009
Brian,
Not a day goes by that I don't think of you. I can't even pass Hoppin's (which isn't even there anymore)without thinking of you. We had some good times and that I will always remember... Inwood loves you!!! Always in my heart, Adee
September 11, 2009
Remembering you Brian,Love cousin Laura Quinn England UK x
Jacqueline Koresh
September 11, 2008
I've always thought it ironic, that we have familly in Belfast and Israel and our worst fears that someone would lose their life to a terrorist attack were realized in the USA. I think of you often, even though we have never met. Your memory lives on, we pray for you and your family often. So sensless, so sad, when will it end.
Your cousin Jacqueline in Israel.
Debra Mracek
September 11, 2007
God Bless this wonderful family. I was a waitress at Maddys Diner in Middletown I knew his wonderful grandparents pretty well. Your family is always in my thoughts.
Maggie Matias
September 11, 2007
Brian,
On the anniversary of your senseless death I sit here reflecting on all the good times we had. No one has ever replaced you in my heart!!
Doug Abraham
August 20, 2007
Happy Birthday!!!
Laura Quinn
June 7, 2007
My American Cousin Brian so full of life and fun. So many websites have such nice messages left that I am so glad to have met you once. I and all your cousins back in England and Ireland will never forget you.
Laura Quinn
England
P Tabbernor
January 6, 2007
In memory....
jimmy smith
December 29, 2006
my prayers are with brian for the new year.
Kristine
November 17, 2006
As I stitched your name on the memorial that I am doing for all of the victims, I prayed for you and your family. Please know that your death was not in vain. We will always remember. God Bless.
Kathy Short
October 7, 2006
I had the great honor in remembering Brian in my blog, KT Did, for the 2996 Project. I am glad I was able to get to know him through everyone's writings and will honor his memory through my writings. Thank You.
KT Did<
Liam Noonan
August 10, 2006
Danielle & Family,
I'd like to express my deepest sympathy to the entire Monoghan Family! I grew up with Brian and can't believe he is no longer with us. Brian and I played together in the playgound as kids and as teenagers in Isham Park. I'll never forget the good times we had hanging with the crew.
Danielle read a poem she composed at his funeral that I hang on my wall which reminds me that tomorrow is not promised and to cherish what you have today.
I too watched Danielle grow up, who would always be close behind her brother. I know Brian had her best interest in mind and would always look out for his younger sister.
Rest in Peace, Moon!
Sincerley,
"Tyrone"
February 25, 2005
Brian,
I wish I could take away the pain that flooded the block. As a witness to the sorrow I can strongly say you are greatly missed. If only it was possible to erase that day. You never failed to bring laughter to my day, that was greatly appreciated and you always told me to ignore twigs. I know you are greatly missed by your sister, mikey, james, the list goes on. I pray for you each time I pass Good shepard, may your soul be at peace. 207th/seaman will forever be your spot,
much love to your family.
RIP Taz
Anonymous
September 11, 2003
I meet Brian w/ Mikey in Inwood park when he was just 12 yrs old being rambuctious, just a little tyke. I saw him get in & out trouble & grow up and become a wonderful & gentle young man. As a mother the loss of a son is devastating. To Jeannie & Brian Sr. My thoughts & prayers are w/you always & for such a fine young man that Brian turned into from such loving parents, take comfort that he is in a peaceful heavenly place, and is forever watching over YOU & Danielle, even though your pain shall always be felt.
Remembering Brian always, and his crooked smile...
The Rodriguez Family
September 11, 2003
We miss you and love you Brian. You and your family are always in our prayers. May god and all his angels take care of you and all the fallen of 9/11.
Angel Moya
September 11, 2003
My prayers and respects go to the family of Brian and to all those to loved and knew him well. I'll always remember Brian as someone who was funny and respected among the many friends he had at Inwood. Rest in Peace Brian....
Alison Higgins
January 2, 2003
Hey Kiddo, its Alison..Gosh...its taken me this long to say "sup" LOL..u know...I guess u are up there with my partner...Mario...have u met him yet? he's a great guy..just like u..Ohh gosh my tears are flowing now..hey Brian..I miss u..no joke..Just remember me ok,,, the medic from the corner...Ally...And by the way,,,YES,,I will always take care of you, if need be..but can u do me a favor brian...take care of Mario, who is up in Heaven with you...I was supposed to help u..do u remember asking me?? well its killing me now...cuz i was there,,maybe a couple hours too late but..i tried Brian...and I miss you..and i'm sorry for being too late...We all miss you Taz...Love you..the Medic on the Block..Ally
Cheryl Zilinyi
December 27, 2002
Brian,
I still think of you every time I pass 207th and Seaman Ave. We all miss you so much and feel lucky to have known you. You will always be in the hearts and prayers of all who knew you. God bless you.
Cheryl and Family
KIM KAYE-MACAGNONE
September 24, 2002
BRIAN,
I CAN'T BELIEVE IT HAS BEEN A WHOLE YEAR SINCE YOU HAVE GONE TO HEAVEN WITH THE OTHER ANGELS. YOU ARE GREATLY MISSED AND SO MANY PEOPLE ARE SO SAD THAT YOU ARE NOT HERE IN HUMAN FORM ANYMORE. BUT, WE KNOW YOU ARE AROUND US IN YOUR SPIRIT FORM STILL SMILING WITH THAT GREAT BIG HAPPY SMILE, I'M SURE, AS YOU'VE "ALWAYS" HAD. AND, IT WAS ALWAYS SUCH A SWEET, WARM, GENUINE SMILE! YOU WERE ALSO SUCH A CARING PERSON WHO ALWAYS KNEW HOW TO MAKE EVERYONE FEEL GOOD, EVEN IF THEY WERE IN A FUNK OR A ROTTEN MOOD. WE LOVE YOU & MISS YOU BRIAN. AND WE "ALWAYS" WILL. WE WILL ALWAYS CARRY YOU IN OUR THOUGHTS AND YOU ARE ALWAYS IN OUR PRAYERS. GOD LOVE YOU ALWAYS! HUGS & KISSES!
KIM & JENNIFER XOXOXOXOXOXOXOXO
Becky Parker
September 14, 2002
To the Monaghan family:
I am so very sorry about the loss of Brian. He sounds like a wonderful, compassionate man. May God give you the strength you need to make through the tough days...
Sincerely,
Rebecca Parker
Mom to Sydney 9/11/01
Andrea Figueroa
September 13, 2002
maybe it is me, or the fact im prego. but i was reading this and it gave me chills and brought tears to my eyes. Im sorry for your loss, and the worlds loss on what seem to be a great MAN. my prayers are with you!
Stephen Monaghan
September 12, 2002
Please accept my sincerest condolances for your loss. I have a grandson named Brian Monaghan.
Michael Monahan
September 11, 2002
I did not know Brian but my prayers and condolences go out to your family and friends.
Jessica Sherry
September 11, 2002
As a former P.S. 199 parent, I want to offer my deepest condolences to your family. May your faith help sustain you in this time of sorrow.
Robert Monaghan
September 11, 2002
Sincerest condolences to Brian's family from a Monaghan on the other side of the world. His loss touches us even from this distance.
Mackenzie T
September 10, 2002
I would just like the family of Brian Patrick Monaghan Jr. to know that I am deeply sorry for something like this to happen to such a nice kid. From what I have read he seems like such a nice person and if I had been one of his friends I would have been in so much pain. I would also like you to know that in my English class we are suppose to pick a name of a person who died on Sept. 11 and present their name to the class, For this I have picked Brian's name. Let God Always Protect You And Brian!
Aa menealle nauva calen ar malta.
(May your ways be green and golden.)
Kenny Fitz and Family
September 10, 2002
Dear Brian,
My Prayers are with You, Your Family and Friends at this time of Remembrance. God Bless us All.
Carolyn Brandt
September 10, 2002
Not but a few weeks after the Tragedy of 9/11 my grandson ( who turned 20 this August) was participating in the Regional Special Olympics in LeGrange Ga. Our family is very involved with this cause and act as chaperones. The opening ceremonies was a special tribute to the victims of 9/11 and everyone was given the name of a victim on a hospital bracelet. Mine had Brians name. I have worn the bracelet for this year to keep Brian and the family in my thoughts and prayers. Only recently did I locate the Legacy link that had Brians picture and tribute. My heart goes out to the family as the anniversary comes. May God continue to give you comfort and strength.
Carolyn Brandt
Syd Motal
September 5, 2002
I am a parent of a Jr. at St. Pius X High School in Houston TX. Their Student Council typed all the names of those lost in the 9/11 attack on seperate wrist bands. I chose to wear a wrist band with Brian's name on it. I am very sorry for the lost of Brian in this tragedy. One year before, to the day, we lost a very dear friend, Mason,(also a Jr. at St. Pius) so 9/11 holds a very special place in our hearts. My prayers are with all of Brian's family and friends. May God bless you all,Syd Motal
Grace Heyaime
July 16, 2002
I know that Brian is with God and the angels. I miss seeing him from my window with Mikey, Mick and all of the other guys. I miss his hello's and his smile--he was truly a good kid from the heart.
As a mother, it must be devastating to lose a child. I know however that Brian is in heaven and I know that someday we will all see him again.
I hope that he is looking down on us and sees the sincerity in our deep love for him and the gratitude for his smile. I don't think that Brian himself knew the magnitude of how in his simple way, touched us all.
I never hung out with Brian, but i still miss him and I still don't understand why God takes good people from us.
Sincerely,
Grace, Luis, Emilio and David (Inwood, New York)
Esther Weintraub
May 26, 2002
Dear Jeanne, Brian and Daniel
Several months have past since that "DAY" but I just wanted all of you to know that your family will always be in my thoughts.
Esther Weintraub (P.S.199)
JOHN C MONAGHAN
March 27, 2002
May you Brain look down apond those below you family and friend's bless them and help them in their sorrow for as we all know you are with God now never to hurt again.
Valerie Langan (Dolan)
March 9, 2002
To The Monaghan Family: Please accept my deepest sympathy. My heart & prayers go out to you. I couldn't evan imagine the pain you are going through. May God Bless you & keep you in His care. I didn't know Brian. I came from Inwood in which I feel a very close bond with all who live their or came from there. Sincerly, Valerie Langan
Anonymous
March 9, 2002
DEAR GOD SHINE YOUR LIGHT ON THIS BEAUTIFUL YOUNG MAN..BRIAN PATRICK MONAGHAN JR.AND MAY HIS SOUL REST IN PEACE WITH GOD AND HIS ANGELS..GOD BLESS HIS FAMILY AND FRIENDS..STAY CLOSE AND NEVER FORGET 9/11/01..GOD BLESS AMERICA AND NEW YORK..MAY JESUS THE CARPENTER AND ST.PATRICK GREET YOU AT THE GATES OF HEAVEN...AMEN
Andrew Rocky Aleman
March 6, 2002
To Brian,Jeanie & Daniele,
With my Deepest sympathy. I'm sorry I could not attend the funeral.I would like to say that Brian Jr. brought nothing but smiles to all those around him. A great kid.. May God Bless Him And Your Loving Family.
Your x-co worker,
x- asisst. coach
and life long friend
Andrew (Rocky) Aleman
Joan McCormack
February 13, 2002
I knew Brian as a child he was a childhood friend of my daughter Michele they were friend up until that terrible disaster on Sept 11
Brian will stay with us forever as one of those special angels in heaven he was so very young God bless his little sister Danielle and the rest of the Family.
Bill Gallo
January 20, 2002
I am deeply sorry for your loss. Sorry I could not attend the funeral as I was not aware of the date. My prayers are with you all. I hope you had received the card that I had left for you at Hoppin.
Brian will surely be missed but not forgotten.
Teresa Jahn
December 19, 2001
So very young. We are deeply sorry for your loss of Brian. Our hearts cry with you.
America Cries
We see your sorrow-
and our hearts cry....
We can not erase your pain
but you do not have to face the anguish alone-for we-
-the American people-
are beside you.
We so desperately want to have the touch that brings you comfort,
the strength that gives you courage,
and the words to lighten your spirits.
And when we are left speechless
may the silence of our nation weave love into your hearts
to ease your sorrow.
May you find healing through our nation's strength as we-
-the American people-
face this difficult time together. Our hearts are with you. Teresa Jahn
Dixon, IL
Sheila McManus
November 20, 2001
Rest in peace, Brian. God bless you and your family
Jim Kennedy
October 29, 2001
Brian & Jeannie - We're could not get to the funeral due to the traffic - God Bless you in your time of grief. Your son is with God forever.
Jim & Pat
Mary Martin & Family
October 17, 2001
Prayers and thoughts will always be with your family.
Suzee Wilcox
September 25, 2001
Our sincerest condolences to your family. May God Bless.
Dave, Suzee, Nick and Andy
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