Scott W. Cahill

Scott W. Cahill

Scott Cahill Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Sep. 23, 2001.
Scott Cahill, 30, avid skier and golfer
Though Scott Cahill was more than 20 years older than his 9-year-old little brother, Patrick, that didn't stop them from being best pals.

The two West Caldwell brothers went skateboarding together and bicycle riding in their free time. Patrick followed in his brother's footsteps by attending Trinity Academy Elementary School in Caldwell.

Parents from the elementary school, along with clergy from the family's parish, St. Aloysius in Caldwell, have spent a lot of time recently at the Cahill home, a white house with an American flag flying in front.

Scott Cahill's family last saw him as he left home Sept. 11 to drive to the PATH train in Newark, where the 30-year-old municipal bond broker commuted to his job at Cantor Fitzgerald Securities on the 104th floor of the World Trade Center.

Though Scott usually commuted with his father, James, the elder Cahill took his own car that Tuesday to his job, located three blocks south of the Twin Towers on Vector Street. He and his wife tried several times to reach their son by telephone that morning, but were unsuccessful.

"He was friendly and outgoing and would always have a conversation with anybody," said Mr. Cahill's father.

The Cahill family will hold a memorial Mass for their son at 2 p.m., Sunday, Sept. 30, at St. Aloysius Church.

Scott Cahill grew up in West Caldwell and played lacrosse as a youngster for a local club. He graduated from Seton Hall Preparatory High School and attended Wesley College in Delaware. He worked at Cantor Fitzgerald for five years. He also was certified as a Microsoft technician and had dreams of building his own computers one day, a hobby he worked on at home.

"He built a computer for me," his father said proudly, adding that theirs was a close-knit family. "He was always there to help his mother around the house or to show his brother the latest computer games. He was always available to draw the latest super-hero."

In July, Mr. Cahill and his family spent a week on a beach vacation in South Carolina where they swam, played golf and listened to the blues. His father recalled how much his son enjoyed playing golf. He played at local courses -- especially Spring Brook Mountain and the Francis A. Byrne Golf Course in West Orange. "We used to like to go whenever we could," his father said.

Mr. Cahill also was an avid skier and snowboarder, traveling to Germany, Canada, Vermont and Utah to ski, his family said.

Besides his father and brother, Mr. Cahill is also survived by his mother, Linda, and grandmother, Helen Hamm, all of West Caldwell.

The family requests in lieu of flowers that donations be made to the Trinity Academy Children's Education Campaign Fund, 235 Bloomfield Ave., Caldwell, N.J. 07006.

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September 12, 2024

Your friends from IHM and SHP will never forget. Rest in peace brother.

SHP '89 classmate

September 11, 2024

Thinking about you today, Scott

SHP Class of 89

July 14, 2023

your friends from IHM and SHP will never forget...

SHP '89

September 11, 2022

your friends from IHM and SHP will never forget

Roberto Gomes

September 11, 2021

I miss you my brother. You're not forgotten and will always be in my heart.

Cindy Roe

September 3, 2021

Remembering Scott on the 20th anniversary of 9/11....

February 10, 2021

Your friends from IHM and SHP will Never forget Scott......

August 7, 2020

rest in peace and may Mother Seton watch over you.......

August 7, 2020

Scott-
Your friends from IHM and SHP will NEVER forget.....

Sister Justine Pinto

September 12, 2019

I know Scott through the Cahill Family. Nothing better can be said that they are a faith filled and most generous family in so many ways. They have blessed many of us through their presence in our lives! Many blessings for the Cahill Family and much love!

Michael Taylor

September 11, 2019

I am originally from West Caldwell and went to St Aloysius with Scott. I remember Scott and his dad James from basketball. Ive lived in Sydney, Australia for 20 years but return home every year and think of him every time I wind up near the WTC site. I didnt know Scott extremely well but I do remember his kindness and his smile. My wife and I had a baby boy this past year and maybe for that reason the tragedy of 911 has hit me harder than almost any time since it happened. I cant imagine what it would be like to lose a son, or brother. Just looking at some of the photos here my heart is bursting. So in the spirit of the faith and community we grew up with together at St Aloysius I just wanted to reach out today to pass along my very deepest condolences to Scotts parents and brother, and to all his family and all who knew him. His memory lives on in our hearts even here in Australia. -Michael Taylor

September 11, 2019

Everyone who knew Scott, misses him.
We have never forgotten Scott.
Your friends from IHM and SHP

Roberto Gomes

September 9, 2019

I miss you my brother. It's been a long while and you're in my heart and my thoughts forever.

A Canadian

September 3, 2019

Hello scott,
I am deeplysorry for your loss that horrid morning at the twin towers. Hope everything is nice in the afterlife.

August 5, 2019

We will never forget Scott.
your friends from IHM and SHP

Del Newberry

October 30, 2018

Praying for Patrick and all other family members today. We will never forget.

September 11, 2018

Scott -
We Will Never Forget.
your friends from IHM and SHP

January 16, 2018

As the years go on Scott, We will never forget.


Your friends from IHM and SHP

September 13, 2017

Scott your friends from IHM and SHP will never forget...

Regina Andrade

September 11, 2017

It's been said that you never forget where you grew up, the kids in your neighborhood... today while watching a 9/11 ceremony the name "Scott Walter Cahill" was announced... I thought to myself, "Could that be the same 'Scott Cahill' who lived near me in Maplewood, on the dead end?" I typed his name into Google & was so sad to learn that it was. I remember riding bikes with Scott on William St & Elsman Terr; and I remember how nice he was, always smiling, my mother was very fond of Scott. To his friends & family, I offer my sincerest condolences. RIP Scott.

Always in our hearts

Cahill family

May 28, 2017

May 27, 2017

happy birthday scott

January 12, 2017

Scott, your friends from IHM and SHP will never, ever forget...God Bless

September 13, 2016

Scott, Your friends from IHM and SHP will never forget.

Roberto Gomes

September 11, 2016

I miss you dear friend. It's been 15 years and you are still with us in spirit. All my love to you and your family. God bless.

Rob Heinze

September 11, 2016

Will always remember you and not just today...RIP

Robbie

May 27, 2016

Happy Birthday Scott.
We still miss you and think of you everyday.

Mom, Dad and Patrick

May 27, 2016

Happy Birthday Scott
SHP Class of 1989

April 7, 2016

Your friends from IHM and SHP will never forget....RIP Scott Cahill

Roberto Gomes

September 11, 2015

Live in our hearts and minds. Rest in peace Scott.

Rob H

September 11, 2015

Just came across a photo at mom and dad's house of you pushing me in stroller in Wildwood...still think of you, buddy...
Robbie

September 11, 2015

Your friends from IHM and SHP still haven't forgotten...R.I.P. SCOTT

IHM FRIENDS

August 13, 2015

SCOTT WAS ONE COOL CAT.....

May 27, 2015

Happy Birthday Scott!

Love Mom Dad and Patrick

May 21, 2015

MY HIGH SCHOOL FRIENDS INCLUDED : Scott Cahill, Rob Bate, Marco L., Bill Murray,
Don S., Joe Arambulo, Marlo, Laura, Nicole....and so many more. Rest in Peace Scott Cahill and God Bless Mr. and Mrs. Cahill and Patrick

May 20, 2015

Your friends from IHM and SHP STILL haven't forgotten....RIP

Barbara Boam

March 27, 2015

I walked a mile for you (mile #324) on 6/2/14 as a dedication to your life.

December 24, 2014

Your friends from IHM and SHP STILL haven't (and won't)forget..RIP

September 12, 2014

Thank you for continuing to honor Scott. I remember how much you have contributed and continue to give tribute to Scott and those who lost their lives on 9/11. Peace be with you and all! God's blessing always. Sister Justine

Roberto Gomes

September 11, 2014

Still and forever in our hearts dear friend. I miss you.

September 17, 2013

your friends at IHM and SHP STILL haven't forgotten...RIP

September 10, 2013

Your friends from IHM and SHP STILL haven't forgot....RIP

Roberto Gomes

September 11, 2012

I'll never forget you and am proud to call you FRIEND. Roberto Gomes class of 89 SHP. Be with God.

September 10, 2012

your friends from IHM and SHP will NEVER forget....

May 2, 2012

To The Family,
I never had the privilege of meeting Mr. Scott Cahill, but in today's world very rarely do we learn of a man who is 20 years older than his younger brother and spends ample time with him. What a good example for all older brothers and sisters to follow. Please accept my deepest thoughts of sympathy in the loss of your loved one. God bless you.

Sincerely,
Mr. Terry of NC
(a Bible Student)

Tracey P

September 15, 2011

Thinking of you and your family - I don't know how your family has learnt to live and cope with this loss but they have my deepest sympathy....as do you Scott for a life stolen and ended far too soon. I will never forget. XXX

Ann Marie Birnbaum

September 11, 2011

You are always in our thoughts and prayers. The world lost you too young.

Gina LaConte

September 11, 2011

Scott was one of my best friends in high school. There isn't a day that goes by that I don't think about you and how much I miss you! You will ALWAYS be with me in thoughts and in my heart.

LUIS GONZALEZ

September 11, 2011

YOU HAVE ALWAYS BEEN IN OUR THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS1

Lisa Schneider Pacifico

September 3, 2011

Scott was a dear friend. I have so many fond memories of our childhood. I can't think of a time when Scott and I were together that we weren't laughing and having fun.

August 25, 2011

scott loved to skateboard

May 27, 2011

Happy 40th Birthday Scott!
Still think about you every day.
Miss you terribly.
Mom, Dad and Patrick

Ralph DeMasi

September 11, 2009

I went to Seton Hall Prep and was a year behind Scott. I too was an avid skier and attended may of the school ski trips along with Scott, even the one to Germany. I have great memories of those times. God Bless.

Doug Abraham

May 27, 2009

Happy Birthday!!!

Rick Cahill

May 27, 2009

5/27/09
Happy Birthday Scott. Miss you terribly.

Dad

Sister Justine Pinto

February 12, 2009

To all the Cahill's,
I did not personally know Scott but I do know him through all of you. You have suffered a great loss but you continue to give much to your community. May the God of peace be with all of you. Many blessings!
Sister Justine

Michele Hinton Layden

December 10, 2008

I went to IHM with Scott. I always remember his smile and his big heart. I pray for you and your family.

John Herbach

December 3, 2008

To my dear friend Scott Cahill, and family, "Scott will always be in our hearts."

John Herbach

Joe Ventoso

December 3, 2008

Scott was always a great person for as far back as I can remember. He was the GOOD guy! God blees ya Scott!

Kathy Cruz

December 3, 2008

To the Cahill family,
I went to school with Scott at IHM. He was such a great friend. I will always remember him. You are all in my prayers.

Kevin & Diane McCarty

November 23, 2008

We think of the Cahill's often. We will never forget.

Old Friend

September 11, 2008

Thinking of Scott and everyone else that lost their lives that day. Scott was a great guy, he had a lasting effect on everyone he ever met in his life.. I am better for having known him

Doug Abraham

May 27, 2008

Happy Birthday!!!

Dino Cantillo

April 16, 2008

To the Cahill family i am sorry for your loss . I attended I.H.M. with Scott and when i look back at those times Scott always comes up. I never was prepared for class and he ALWAYS had an extra pencil for me. The picture of him is how i remeber him ,what a smile!

Sharon Doyle

November 21, 2007

I haven't seen Scott since St. Aloysius days, he was in my brother Bernie's class and lived nearby us. I can see him now as he was, riding his bike. I am very sad to hear this.

Selena Abate

November 15, 2007

To the Cahill Family, My husband, Nick Abate was good friends with Scott in high school & I had the pleasure of also knowing Scott. 9/11 was a sad day in our lives & it was very difficult when we learned that Scott was in the WTC. My husband & I often talk about Scott and his spirt will live on as we continue to remember our times spent with him. Please know that your family is ALWAYS in our thoughts & prayers. God Bless. WIth love, Selena Abate

Meredith Hulka

September 11, 2007

My love and thoughts are with your family.

Rich Walker

September 11, 2007

My thoughts and prayers are with your family often, but especially today.

Karen Trapp

September 11, 2007

Dear Cahill Family,
I went to Immuculate Heart Of Mary School with Scott. He was always so funny. I remember his big smile. My heart and prayers go out to you. I am truly sorry for your loss.I will always remember that smile. God Bless you and your family.

Karen(Eichenberg)Trapp

Mor

September 11, 2007

I am thinking of Scott. I haven't seen him since high school but always remember him in prayers. Know he is watching over you all.

Rick Cahill

June 22, 2007

To all who have continued to make entries after all this time..we thank you for remembering. Not a day goes by that we do not pray for Scott. The pain has not left us as much as we wish it would. It is only through people like you all that has allowed us to continue on. Thank you all.

Doug Abraham

May 27, 2007

Happy Birthday!!!

John Murray

May 9, 2007

Dear Cahill Family, My name is John Murray, I worked with scott for the better of 3 years. To this day I can still think of the times we spent together, and it brings a smile to my face. After 9/11 I became a Combat Medic with the army reserves. Will be heading to Iraq spring of 08. I have a picture of Scott which I carry with me all the time. I know he will watch out for me overseas, he is the brother I never had, but will always have in my heart.
Spc. John J. Murray 91W 812th M.P. Co, Orangeburg N.Y.

Kristine

October 25, 2006

As I cross-stitched your name on the memorial that I am doing for all of the victims, I prayed for you and your family. Please know that your death was not in vain. We will always remember. God Bless.

P Tabbernor

September 2, 2006

In remembrance....

Aneta Tarver

May 13, 2006

Dear Rick,

Even at this time, when I read your words about your heart attack and not being afraid of dying, it made me feel like crying. I hope that in some way your grief is lessen about losing your beloved son. Wounds of this type take a very long time to heal, if ever. I lost my husband in an apartment fire and what helped me to endure was "the God of Comfort". May He bring you peace of mind and heart, also.

Sincerely yours,

Aneta Tarver

Beth Underkoffler

September 11, 2004

Am thinking of Scott today, as always....much love and comfort to you all.

John Cahill

September 11, 2003

Dear Cahill Family:



In Remembrance of a tragedy

"America's Tragedy"

As tragedy strikes

and tears fall

many sit by the phone

and wait for a call

They sit and they wait

for the phone to ring

to hear the voice of a loved one

would be a wonderful thing

With hope in our hearts

we sit not making a sound

praying for life

and crying for the dead victims found

There is a lot to be done

now that tragedy is here

we must hope and pray

and find strength through our fear!

*In memory of the Victims of America's Tragedy.*

September 12,2001



Are Hearts and Thoughts go out to everyone who lost life on this day, and to the Cahill Family's who lost soo much.

Beth Underkoffler (formerly Wojiski Tidwell)

September 10, 2003

To the Cahill family:



It is now almost 2 years later...have been thinking of Scott a lot.



I know nothing I can say can lessen your grief. But know that I do think of him often, and pray for him, and the others lost that day, and for you, and other survivors.



Tomorrow I will light a candle for him. Perhaps it is only a fraction of the light Scott brought to this world, but that light should continue in his memory.



Sincerely,

Beth Underkoffler (former St. Al's classmate)

C.A. Amato

September 6, 2003

To the Cahill Family,

It is now 2 years later, I was looking up friends on the internet when I read the tragic news of Scott's death.



My heart goes out to all of you. We were friends in St. Aloysius, until we went to different high schools and had lost touch.



May God's love shine upon you and your family.

Doug Langway

May 27, 2003

Happy Birthday Scott. We miss you.

Warren Wojiski

March 27, 2003

My deepest condolences to the Cahill family. God bless you.

Darlene Wojiski

March 27, 2003

I am deeply saddened that Scott was lost on 9-11. I just learned of his passing from my daughter, Beth Tidwell, who recently made an entry in your guest book.



I was a volunteer music teacher at St. Al's for several years, and Caldwell was our favorite of all the places we've lived.



Beth and Scott were friends -- I know she'll remember him always. You have my heartfelt sympathy.

Beth Wojiski Tidwell

March 26, 2003

To the Cahill Family,

I know it's 1-1/2 years later, but I was looking up old friends on the internet when I came across the tragic news of Scott's death.



My heart goes out to all of you, and I will keep Scott in my prayers. We were friends in St. Al's, until we all went to different high schools and eventually lost touch.



May God comfort you in your memories of Scott. He was such a nice person, I will never forget him.

Sara D.

December 12, 2002

I knew Scott in the early 90s, while I was in college. Though we were only close for a year or so, I remember him and our times together fondly. We spent a lot of time together hanging out. When we all went skiing, he would snowboard-he loved it. I hadn't spoken to him in years and never knew he worked in the Trade Center. I only found out through my cousin 3 weeks after the tragedy that he was there. I have to say I was hit hard by the news. I know we hadn't spoken in a long time, but I have great memories of Scott and our friendship. At that time Scott was a bit in limbo about his life and direction but still managed to keep true to his friends. I'm so glad to know his life was on track and he was successful(which I always knew he would be).



To the Cahill family, I'm sorry for your loss. Words cannot express the sorrow of this tragedy or the loss of so many great people. I wish Scott and I had remained friends, but life was taking us in different directions, which made that difficult. I used to think of him occasionally and wonder how he was doing. Now I think of him often and hope he knows he's truly missed.



Sara

KATHY CAHILL

September 17, 2002

MY NAME IS KATHY CAHILL WE LOST MY BROTHER TOMMY CAHILL ON THAT DAY AND HE TOO WORKED AT CANTOR ON 105. WE FEEL THE LOSS YOU FEEL AS I WAS SHOCKED TO HEAR THAT SCOTT'S FATHERS NAME IS JAMES AS MINE IS AS WELL AND TOMMY LIKE SCOTT LOVED GOLF AND LOVED PLAYING WITH MY DAD THEY WERE BEST FRIENDSAS WELL. WE ARE HEARTBROKEN .... AS I KNOW YOU KNOW THIS FEELING. THERE WERE SEVERAL CAHILLS' LOST THAT DAY BUT I THINK ONLY TWO FROM CANTOR. I WONDER IF THEY KNEW EACH OTHER? WE DID NOT HEAR FROM TOMMY THAT DAY EITHER. MY BROTHER HAS A MEMORIAL ON LEGACY TOO. YOU WILL BE IN MY THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS IT SEEMS FROM READING SCOTT'S MEMORIAL THAT HE AND TOMMY HAD ALOT IN COMMON. GOD BLESS KATHY CAHILL

Elizabeth Babor

September 14, 2002

To the Cahill family:

I was given a wristband with Scott's name to wear in remembrance. Please accept my sympathy and know that you and Scott are in my thoughts and prayers.

debbie schwoebel

September 13, 2002

Linda and Rick:



I feel compelled to write just to let you know that each day when I drive to work, I pass your block, and I can't help but think of Scott and each of you.

I am comforted by the thought that he is ok. My father, I'm sure, is watching over him. I hope this gives you some comfort, as well.

You remain in my prayers and thoughts....Debbie

Ann Caldwell

September 13, 2002

On September 11,2002 an American Flag was dedicated in Scotts memory to the Center Ridge Cemetery by the Woodman of The World. We are a small United Methodist Church in a small rural area. We have placed a picture of Scott and his biography in our fellowship hall. Our prayers are with all the families, but especially with Scott's.

Ron DePiro

September 10, 2002

I graduated with Scott in 1989. He was the kind of person that you enjoyed talking to and especially liked joking with. I have not seen Scott since high school but he is a person I feel lucky to have known. Our prayers go out to Scott and the Cahill family.



I dug deep in my closet looking for my senior year book hoping there was a message but of course it was empty (we were too cool for that) But a quote was given under Scott's picture that states "Life, it seems to fade away."



Your life was tradgically taken, everyones memories of you will never fade. RIP Bud....

Robert Scrudato

June 3, 2002

Yo Scotso! We were all at the anual summer kick-off at your house yesterday. Things will never be the same without you. I really missed your perpetual smile and laughter that we always shared. The Guiness was good and cold and I had one in your memory. Mom and Dad gave me this bracelet which I am honored to wear. I am still praying for you and the family. I know it won't be long and we will all be together again in a much better place. So keep a cold Guiness on hand for me.

Love, Bob

Rick Cahill

May 27, 2002

Happy Birthday, Scott. Know that we are always thinking about you.

Love. Mom, Dad, Patrick and Nana

Sarah Kurts

March 15, 2002

I wear daily a sterling silver Mercy Band which bears Scott's name. Mercy Bands are the brainchild of a lady in Albuquerque, NM. I ordered one and it arrived engraved with Scott Cahill, WTC. As I put it on every morning, and as it catches my eye during the day, I think of Scott and the other victims of 9/11/01. The families are in my prayers. God Bless.

My Beloved Son, Rest in Peace.

Rick Cahill

March 11, 2002

How can I ever forget. When I had my heart attack in January, I was not afriad of dying because I knew I would be with you once more forever.
Love, Dad

JOHN MURRAY

March 7, 2002

I can remeber the first time I met Scott, his smile, good sense of humor,I knew this would be a friend for life. I was fortunate to sit next to scotso for a good part of 3 1/2 years.All those nights that we spent together running around together seems like just yesterday. Even though you are gone, you will live in my heart forever. To the Cahill family, my deepest regrets.

JOHN MURRAY (NEW YORK)

Lynne Brennan

February 14, 2002

My heart goes out to you, at your loss. I have made a quilt block in memory of your son with his name on it for the United In Memory quilt that is being made. It will equal the giant AIDS quilt. I chose your son because of losing my own son Scott, a year ago to cancer.

stacy(miss stacy) theobald

February 11, 2002

to the cahill family

im sorry for your loss our thoughts and prayers are with you

with deepest sympathy

love,

miss stacy

Rick Cahill

January 18, 2002

Thank to everyone for making such kind comments in our son's memory.

This is a loss that can never be justified.

I pray that all of America will keep these civilian victims in their hearts on an equal with the emergency personnel. There were many heroic acts performed by these civilians but the hard evidence escapes the media.

Tom Kucharski

January 15, 2002

I just found out that Scott had passed. Please accept my sympathies. Scott was always a good guy.

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