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Carl Flickinger Obituary
Carl Flickinger considered his work hours at Cantor Fitzgerald to be one of the job's biggest benefits. Though he started at 7 a.m., he was home by 6:30 p.m. with his family in Congers in Rockland County.
Mr. Flickinger, 38, slid comfortably into domestic routines. Every Saturday, he shopped for groceries before taking his 11-year-old twin sons to the mall for new sneakers or jeans. In the evening, he checked his sons' homework and read to his 5-year-old daughter. On and off the job, he drove himself. He would not just play an easy 18 holes of golf — he took lessons and practiced on the driving range.
Mr. Flickinger was a gadget guy, said his wife, Kathy, and he liked to buy the latest nifty devices as gifts for friends.
Every morning before his commute, he bought coffee at the Dairy Mart and left it for his wife. And at 11 a.m., he always called home. "Just to touch base," she said. "Just to tell me how his morning was going."
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Cindy Roe
September 13, 2021
Remembering Carl on the 20th anniversary of 9/11....
Richard E. Flickinger Jr.
September 11, 2021
On this 20th Anniversary of 9-11 I decided to do something that I always wondered about since that day. I have wondered if anyone with my last name lost their life during the horrific terrorist attacks on 9-11-2001.
Here he is - Carl Flickinger.
One of 2996 souls lost on that day. I do not know why it has taken me so long to find Carl but I am glad that I finally did. I see that others have done this very same thing - Richard F. Flickinger(nice name Sir) and Amy Flickinger to name a few.
Today I have learned that Carl was a man that I would have loved! He was a family man and he cared deeply for others! He is missed everyday by all that knew him but mostly by his beloved family!
I will pray for Carl´s Family! I will strive to be a better Flickinger because of what I have learned about Carl. I will look for Carl and Robert on the golf course in heaven and I will offer to buy them some beers when they are finished their round!
Lots of love and respect for you Carl! You were taken to soon but your spirit still remains and you are still inspiring others! RIP Carl Flickinger
Al Messina
September 11, 2021
Carl I can't believe it's been 20 years since we were walking through the WTC that morning and we said see you tonight on the train as you got in the elevator to your office at Cantor. Never in my wildest dreams would I have thought that I would never see you again! Miss you and love you, forever friends. When I see you again it's my turn to buy the beers. Love you my friend.
Cathy Hayes Nolan
September 10, 2021
I grew up in Bay Ridge and attended OLA with Lisa and Carl. I remember spending so much time with them on 72 street and the PS 102 school yard. Lisa, I just found this site. I am so sorry for your loss. Your family was always so close. I hope you feel Carl's presence and know you are always in my prayers.
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June 15, 2019
Youre in my thoughts and prayers dude.
Alex Lai
I was at Healing Fields today and took a pic of 1 of 100's of cards I read. I googled Carl and it lead me here. He was obviously very loved.
Nicky Nilson
September 11, 2016
Karen Waldron
September 11, 2015
Thinking of you often more so today on the anniversary. 14 years now, since you were taken during a selfish act.God bless you and may angels watch over your family.
Lisa Madden
September 12, 2013
It's so hard to believe it's been 12 years. I often wonder what life would be like if you were still here. I still miss you constantly. Keep watching over us until we meet again.
Aileen Loesch (Tacopino)
September 11, 2013
Dear Flickenger Family Our hearts and prayers go out to all. After that horrific day I never thought I would see my Son a U S MARINE go off to War to fight. It meant a lot to my son because Carl, was my cousins son. He made sure that his platoon new this. That it hit close to home. And that was one of the reasons they were there. May God watch over you All. I know Carl is.
Grace Brescia
September 11, 2013
Forever our friend! Sending you my thoughts and prayers for your family on this solemn day.
Robert Flickinger
September 11, 2013
Dear Brother,
I miss you everyday. Every time I am on the links, I think of you. I wish we could play again. Until we meet again. Love Bob
September 12, 2012
Carl, Will love and miss you forever.Always in my heart and alway on my mind. Your friend forever! GO JETS! Al Messina
Lisa Madden
September 12, 2012
Words cannot express how much I still miss my brother. He was the source of so much of the laughter in my life. I hold on dearly to the memories to get me through. Till we meet again...
Robert Flickinger
September 11, 2012
Eleven years and it still hurts. I miss you and love you brother. Until we meet again.
al messina
September 12, 2011
carl i love and miss you everyday! the train ride has never been the same.
GO JETS!
Karen Waldron-Curtis
September 11, 2011
Not a day goes by that I do not think of Carl's family and the constant pain they endore. I have many found memories visting my Aunt Sally and Uncle "Flick" and the whole extended family. Sadly now that my Grandmother Theresa Singer ( Aunt Sally's sister) has passed on to heaven. My mother's side of the family have loss touch with each other. I treasure my many memories of childhood visiting The "Flickinger's" What a wonderful family they were and continue to be. I know that Carl Jr and Carl Senior watch over your family.
Sadly 10 years has past and today we are faced with the 10th Anniversary of such a tragic events. Just know that Carl's legacy is in his children whom have grown up to become fine young adults. My prays to your family...
Jenny Skeath
September 11, 2011
Dear Flickinger family, first let me send my sincere condolences on the loss of Mr. Flickinger. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family and they have been since 9-11-01. My name is Jenny and I live in Pittsburgh. I attended a memorial service a few weeks after the attacks and they had placed flags all over the lawn with names of people that had died. I picked up Mr. Flickinger's flag. I have displayed that flag since that very day. Today I looked for his name on the runner across the screen and there it was. I just want you all to know that although I did not know him, I have felt as though I have for the last ten years. Only today did I think to look him up on line and I was able to find my way to you. I know I cannot ease your pain but please know that not only do you have the love and support of God, but you also have it from our family here in Pittsburgh everyday. Your husband/father's flag is displayed in our home and he will never be forgotten. God bless you all.
Olga Rotolo
September 11, 2011
Dear Kathy, Carl, Craig and Alana:
Remembering you all and Carl today and always. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Love,
Olga, Raymond and Brandon
Susan Flickinger Oleary
September 11, 2011
As I watched the ceremony on TV this morning, I had no idea that someone of distant relation to us was in this tradegy. I started to cry after I heard the name Carl Flickinger - exact same spelling. I didn't know him, but we have the same last name and it is not a common name. You and you family are in all of our thoughts and prayers today and will always be, as we look towards the future. May you be at peace.
Christine Rein
September 11, 2011
When I came across this quest book I had to write. My family may have moved out of Brooklyn when I was still young, but I have wonderful memories the Flickinger household, all the jokes and fun! Bobbi, Lisa, Eddie, Carl, Carl Sr., Lu Lu…I was an only child at the time who loved spending time at the house with all those kids I looked up to. I remember the punching bag in the basement, Lisa painting my nails, Bobbi teaching me how to use nunchucks, Carl’s wedding day, his beautiful wife and all the sweet notes Kathy saved from Carl and had on a board at his service. I don’t see you as much anymore, but think of you all often and will never forget Carl – a truly wonderful man! God Bless! xoxo
Todd Greenbaum
September 10, 2011
I remember working with Carl at Herzog,sitting next to him, trading bonds...Carl gave me a nickname while we worked together .."roddy or rodster"... you are missed.
Robert Flickinger
September 10, 2011
As the tenth anniversary of when you were taken from us approaches, I was trying to find the right words. I stumbled across the eulogy that I gave during your funeral service. Those words hold as true today as they did almost ten years ago. I copied them below, but first, I just want to say how proud you would be of your family.
Carl’s Eulogy
I would like to apologize in advance if I get too emotional. I know it was a few years ago, but it seemed like just the other day I was hanging out with Carl for my Grandmother’s funeral. Carl told me (over a few beers) that he was doing a eulogy for Grandma, but he wasn’t sure if he could go through with the speech he wrote because he was too upset. When he approached the pulpit, he could not go through with it because someone he was so close to was now in Heaven.
Now, I stand before you knowing that my brother has passed on to Heaven, and this is the hardest thing that I ever had to do in my life. But I know my brother is happy hanging out with my Grandparents, and the rest of his family and friends that have passed on.
I know Carl is looking down on me, giving me strength to go through with my speech, telling me not to get lost like I did driving around here the past couple of days, and not to mess up. I know this because Carl was the barometer in which I measured my abilities throughout my life.
When I was young, I wanted to be like my brother, and I know Mom and Dad can vouch for this, because I would repeat all of the “bad” words that he taught me. Also, all of the older guys in the neighborhood would look out for “little Flick.” He would tell the guys in the neighborhood that I was his baby brother, and I would turn out as good as he was. Whether it was in sports, or scholastically, I always tried to live up to the expectations that Carl set.
When I started playing hockey, he reminded me that he was the league record holder for scoring, and although I played defense, I should still beat his record. When I played baseball, he reminded me of his MVP awards, and when we played darts together and later on golf, I tried to live up to his expectations. And I vow that for as long as I live, I will continue competing with my brother, and I will call on his strength to give me the ability to make that impossible shot, and make him proud of me.
Despite all of my brother’s accomplishments, the one thing he was most proud of was his family. I remember when Carl first found out that Kathy was pregnant, he was so happy. And when he found out it was twins, he lit up like you wouldn’t believe, and he told us how happy and of course how strong he was. I remember when he first bought the house in Congers, we were in Beefsteak Charlie’s in the Garden, and he told me how happy he was to get such a good deal and such a nice home. And when Carl had a baby girl, his heart melted, and he told the world how much he loved daddy’s little girl.
This was the Carl that I knew. Carl was honest, sometimes brutally honest, and he could be opinionated, but he always had a heart of gold. When Carl found out that I got a decent job, he took me out for a drink at Ships. When he found out that I still played and loved hockey, he got me tickets to the NHL All-star game.
Carl would give the shirt off his back to make sure that a family member, friend, or neighbor was happy. He would spare no expense to make sure everyone’s needs were met, that they were happy, and that they loved him. And with the turn out the past couple of days (and here today) proved that he accomplished his goal.
Now I pray that God and Carl gives each and everyone of us the strength to get through this. I pray that Carl’s spirit gives his wife and children the strength to carry on his legacy. And I know that every day they, we, will make him happy and proud. And I know that we will always love and cherish my brother.
Thank You.
Until we meet again brother,
Love Bob
Robert Flickinger
September 11, 2010
Dear Brother,
Because of all of the political, cultural and religious overtones that this year’s anniversary seemed to take on, instead of visiting the site in NY today I decided to honor your memory in a way I hope that you would have enjoyed.
First, I completely broke down and cried for a couple of hours. Then I saw your picture on my mantle, and I think I actually heard you say “man up and honor me the right way.” So I played some good golf (well, really bad golf on a beautiful day), had a great cigar and a stiff drink. I hope I did you proud today brother. I still miss you very much.
Until we meet again,
Love Bob
Erik Nodacker
September 11, 2010
Dear Friends and Family of Carl Flickinger
I never knew Carl and never knew of him until years after his passing. He has however effected my life and I'd like to tell you how.
On Sept. 11, 2009 I was handed a small, black kitten that had been found at my work. I knew instantly that this little kitty was mine, and I also knew he needed a name. Considering the date, I could think of nothing more appropriate than to name this small life I'd rescued after someone who had been lost eight years previously.
I soon found a memorial website to those lost at the World Trade Center and shortly after that came across Carl Flickinger. It fit. It fit this little kitten so well. I knew it was a big name for such a little creature but I also knew he would grow into it. It's been a year now and Flickinger has been a joy. He's sweet, funny and energetic, and I'm sure carries some of the spirit of Carl. Most of the time I call him Flick, but everyday I remember who he is named for and how he was taken from all of you.
Noelle Madden
August 6, 2010
Although many years have gone by, I still miss Carl. He was my god-father and my Uncle. I don't remember everything unfortunately but I still think of him everytime I get teased, as he was always Uncle teaser. I feel silly for getting so agitated then since I didn't fully realize what a great man I had for a god-father. I know that wherever he is he understands that we love him and miss him, and I'm sure he's playing golf with God now.
Bruce Leeds
December 11, 2009
I went to St Francis College with Carl and we were friends. We had a few classes together and we shared an interest in golf. He was a nice person. R.I.P. my brother.
Alana Flickinger
December 5, 2009
I had no idea this site even existed,until i decided to Google my dads name. As I'm reading these i just start to cry, and think about everything. If you haven't realized, I'm Alana, Carl's daughter. Its been so long and so much has happened.I'm a completely different person than what i was 8 years ago,and even though i don't remember much, i know that he loved and i love him. And i'm extremely grateful of all the support i get.And i just wanted to say Thanks you to every one who wrote these messages,they really mean a lot.
Robert Flickinger
September 11, 2009
As I read your name today, I was overwhelmed with grief. I still can not believe it has been eight years. I think that is because it is as painful as ever. I miss you dearly brother.
Greg Mikesh
August 25, 2009
Kathy, Carl, Craig, and Alana,
It is impossible to believe that I am just stumbling upon this site now and how much time has gone by since that horrible day. I can remember everything from that day as I know you can also.
I had both Carl and Craig in my 6th grade classes. I can remember being given a note about an "accident" at the wtc and thinking how I hoped none of my students would be directly impacted. I had only known Carl and Craig for a few days since school had just begun. I can remember my overwhelming grief as I headed home to the bronx with my wife that day, crossing over the tappan zee bridge knowing what had happened and what was still taking place down there.
It was truly my honor to work with them that year especially with everything they were dealing with. I enjoyed every second with them and will never forget them. I am glad to hear they are well and Alana too. Unfortunately I did not have her in class as she grew older.
As Sept. 11th approaches again, and with the beginning of each new school year, I look to the skies and pray that it will be a good day. I think about that morning each year and the overwhelming saddness that is still lingering.
You and your family will always have a special place in my heart. Best wishes always. Love to Carl and Craig.
Greg Mikesh (6th grade teacher-Felix Festa Middle School, West Nyack, NY)
Doug Abraham
July 25, 2009
We were so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow.
Joey Jill Emily & Abigail
December 19, 2008
We just got your Christmas card . All of our love to you.
Pat McWeeney
September 15, 2008
Craig:
I hope you have grown up to be the kind of man your Dad had in mind.
I worked at Higgins when this horrible incident occurred.
I remember you and you brother and sister and the grief you all went through along with your Mother.
I did not personally know your Dad.
I read so many of his notes to you guys at the time and was so greatly saddened becuase my own children were of the same ages as you 3.
Whenever the subject of 9-11 arises, it is your Dad, who I think of first and I always hope that the lives his children have are as grand as they would have been if this had never occurred.
God Bless.
Karen Curtis
September 12, 2008
We will never forget you. I keep you and your extended family in my prays now and forever.
Lisa Madden
September 11, 2008
It has now been seven years since the day Carl was taken from us. I have learned that time does not heal all wounds as I heard so many times since that day. You just get used to it. But I was so proud of my neice Alana, today as she read the names and spoke of her father. Carl lives through her and my nephews, Carl and Craig.
Grace Brescia
September 11, 2008
I had no idea this web-site existed either. I work for a firm called McMahan Securities and all of us on the trading floor miss Carl. We talked to him every morning, went out to many broker dinners and had lots of laughs. On this anniversary, pls know that our prayers are with the family, we still think of Carl often and hope all of u r doing well. He spoke of his family often and I was thrilled to read about his son in college - study hard! God Bless!
Craig Flickinger
September 5, 2008
I had no idea that this site even existed, or that my Uncle Bob or Aunt Lisa even knew about it. For all those who haven't guessed, I'm one of Carl's sons, now in college. Thank you to all these very heart-felt messages and for keeping us in your prayers
Karen Waldron-Curtis
September 14, 2007
I still have many fond memories when I would visit all my cousins "downstairs", when we would visit Aunt Sally and Uncle "Flick". I think of you and all those lost that terrible day. I know you are in Heaven with your Dad and the rest of the Family.
bill corkaus
September 11, 2007
carl was an amazing man, he needed more time to live so he could do more fullfilling things
ill miss u
Kristine
November 2, 2006
As I cross-stitched your name on the memorial that I am doing for all of the victims, I prayed for you and your family. Please know that your death was not in vain. We will always remember. God Bless.
P Tabbernor
October 7, 2006
In memory....
Amy Flickinger
September 28, 2006
Dear Family of Carl Flickinger,
One year after 9/11, I attended a service to honor those who died in the tragedy. The service was in St. Helena CA. We were all asked to especially pray for one person. I went to the book of names and had decided to look for a name as close to my own last name as I could find. I found Carl's name there and have been praying for your family ever since. I just wanted you to know that I continue to keep you in my prayers and thoughts.
With love and well wishes,
Amy Flickinger of Blackfoot,Idaho
Melissa
September 9, 2006
Please know that I am praying for your family and all the families affected by this event as the 5th anniversary looms near.
Rob Flickinger
September 12, 2005
Four years and it only gets harder.
Lydia Bauer
September 11, 2004
Dear Rob and Family,
My heart goes out to you on this day. I understand the grief of losing someone you love so much. It puts a hole in your heart that we can only heal with their memories and all they gave us during their time with us.
Rob
September 10, 2004
Time is flying by. I can not believe it was five years ago we were hanging out at my wedding and three years since you were taken from us. I really wish you were around to give me some advice. I miss you dearly brother.
Denis Bouchard
March 6, 2004
Kathy, It has taken me this long just to view these pictures,Carl and I worked together MKI, they were great memories,I remember when you two came down to see me ,we all went sailing,there was very little wind that day but we had a great time anyway .We have all lost many good friends on 9/11 I hope someday to see them all again.... Denis
Renae Flickinger
September 11, 2003
Dear Flickinger Family,
Today marks the second year anniversary of September 11th. I seen the boys on the news and wanted to send your family my sympathy. I will keep your family in my prayers.
With much love and the same last name.
Denise Mitchell Burke
September 11, 2003
Kathy & children,
I attended OLA grammar school with Carl. I just wanted to send my condolences and wish you love and happiness.
Denise Mitchell Burke
Roseanne Kosofsky
September 11, 2003
To Robert Flickinger: 9-11-03
My heart goes out to you on the loss of your brother. I too lost a brother on Sept.11th,1993. We have something else in common, your cousins, Lee Ann, Chrissy & Kenny Flickinger, are my cousins as well. My prayers are with you and your family on this terrible day.
God bless.
Roseanne Kosofsky
Rob
September 10, 2003
I can not believe it has been two years. I still miss you dearly brother.
Richard F. Flickinger
April 9, 2003
My condolences to to a family who shares my last name. As I have a twin sister, I feel a bit of empathy with Carl's twin sons.
lisa madden
January 11, 2003
Sixteen months have gone by since Carl was taken from us and although life goes on, it will never be the same. We will always feel like something is missing but I know that as long as we live, Carl will live in our hearts.
Till we meet again, brother.
Carrie Vezzuto
November 20, 2002
Robert Flickinger I am sorry to hear about your brother. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family
Margaret Vislocky
November 20, 2002
Bobby, I am very sorry to hear about your brother. My thoughts & prayers go out to you and your family.
Todd Parlato
September 15, 2002
Last night I had a dream I was playing football in the PS 102 school yard with Carl, Steve Madden,John Scarpa,Frank Flynn and a bunch of other guys,something we had done many times(not to mention softball,basketball & endless hours just hanging out). It was not an upsetting dream at all. It reminded me of all the great times we had growing up in Bay Ridge together, and of how Carl was such a big part of that.I think of Carl often.God bless him.
Mary Neher
September 13, 2002
Dear Kathy and children,
We are friends of Stacey and Scott, and I wanted to let you know how much our hearts go out to you as one year has passed since Carl was stolen from you all. We see here in our little town how deeply this tragedy has touched Stacey, Scott, Amanda, Brooke and JT, and we can't even imagine the sorrow that you all have felt this last year. We pray for Carl's eternal peace as he waits for all of you to meet him again. We pray for you to find peace and comfort, and to hold each other tightly and love each other deeply. Keeping your family and all those we have lost in our prayers and in our hearts.
Howard & Linda Flickinger
September 11, 2002
Today, on this one year anniversary of Sept 11, I saw Carl's name on the list of casualties. As our last names are the same, his loss really affected me. It has made the Trade center tragedy much more heartrending. Our deepest sympathies to you and your family.
Brian Cassidy
September 11, 2002
I went to OLA with Carl in Brooklyn and remember playing hockey with him. One year he scored 72 goals in 15 games. It was quite an accomplishment. My condolences to his family.
Robert Flickinger
September 10, 2002
I thought that a year's time would have helped heal the wound. I am mistaking. I believe that this wound will never heal. However, I learned to live life to the fullest, the way you would want me to, the way in which you would be proud.
I often think of the last time we saw each other. You gave me tickets to the Jets opening day and we bullshitted for a few minutes. I now wish those few minutes were longer.
Watching the events unfold from across the street was extremely painful. Especially since I knew you were in the building. I immediately knew something was wrong because I felt like a piece of me was stolen. However, everytime a swing a golf club, every time a watch a Jet game, and every time I go out to celebrate, mourn, or honor your name that piece that I thought was gone rages in me and I know that we are a lot closer than any one could imagine.
Until we meet again brother.
Gunner Meredith
May 29, 2002
Carl and Kathy,
I want to apologize on behalf of the United States of America, her Armed Forces, and her Intelligence community for failing you and your family.
Please be assured that there are those of us who have made much smaller sacrifices, and those who have made and will continue to make the ultimate sacrifice to ensure that September 11, 2001 does not happen again.
God Bless America!
Gunner Mate 2nd Class Petty Officer
Stephen L. Meredith
Inshore Boat Unit 24-Naval Coastal Warfare Group 2
Anti-Terrorism Force Protection
"Between the brown and the blue is the IBU."
lisa madden
May 7, 2002
It is hard to believe that almost 8 months have gone by since you were taken from us. Although I know we'll be together again someday, the wait is extremely rough. Please continue to be with us all in Spirit and know how much I will always miss you and love you.
your sister
Chris casazza
April 23, 2002
Kathy,
My deepest condolences to you and your sweet children.. I am here for you always, even I'm so far away...Carl was a sweet man and I know he is looking down at his family right now... God bless Carl and your family Kathy
Robert Flickinger
March 11, 2002
I can not believe it has been six months. We threw Mom a suprise birthday party the other day. The party went well, but I can not believe that you were not physically there. I know you were there in spirit. I never got to thank you for those Jet tickets. I miss you. I wish we played more rounds of golf together.
Love,
Your Brother
Anonymous
January 18, 2002
GOD BLESS CARL FLICKINGER..REST IN
PEACE.
January 18, 2002
DEAR GOD SHINE YOUR LIGHT ON THIS
BEAUTIFUL MAN AND MAY HIS SOUL REST
IN PEACE WITH GOD AND HIS ANGELS.GOD
BLESS HIS TWIN SONS AND DAUGHTER.GOD
BLESS HIS WIFE AND FAMILY AND FRIENDS..GOD BLESS AMERICA AND MAY WE NEVER FORGET 9/11/01..AMEN
Kevin Bilotta
January 3, 2002
Kathy
I work as a convertible trader in Florida and traded with Carl. I spoke with him every day and really thought he was one of the nicest guys in the business. He was always fair and told it like it is. I have lost a friend and I really miss him a lot. I am glad I got to know him and I know he is looking down on his kids that he spoke so highly of.
Teresa Jahn
January 1, 2002
We are deeply sorry for your loss of Carl. May his interest in gadgets, his life and love live on in those who love him. Our hearts cry with you.
America Cries
We see your sorrow-
and our hearts cry....
We can not erase your pain
but you do not have to face the anguish alone-for we-
-the American people-
are beside you.
We so desperately want to have the touch that brings you comfort,
the strength that gives you courage,
and the words to lighten your spirits.
And when we are left speechless
may the silence of our nation weave love into your hearts
to ease your sorrow.
May you find healing through our nation's strength as we-
-the American people-
face this difficult time together. Our hearts are with you. Teresa Jahn
Dixon, IL
Musser Hall @ Ursinus College
December 5, 2001
We as the international students are terribly sorry for what happened on that day. We wish you and your family endurance, everything will be ok. This war against terror is about to be won. you soul be rest in peace.
Doris & Mike Ogazon Sr
November 11, 2001
We grew up with Carl's parents, Carl & LouAnn in Brooklyn. I was shocked when I read of your loss in this horrible event. Our deepest condolences to you and your family.
kathleen conaghan
November 3, 2001
Kathy,
I attended OLA with Carl and I just wanted to let you know my thoughts and prayers are with you and your children--
Kathleen Conaghan Jacobs
Carol Bacchi
October 18, 2001
Kathy, I commuted with Carl for a number of years. He was one of the wittiest, most honest, generous individuals I have ever met. Having him as a friend was an honor. He loved you and your children dearly and was never embarrassed to express those feelings to others. I will miss him terribly and there is now a void in my life, a void that no other friend can replace.
My thoughts and prayers are with you always.
Have some comfort that he is still looking out for you and your children. I don't think their is a better Guardian Angel than Carl.
Chris Robison
September 26, 2001
Kathleen, Please accept my overwhelming sympathy for you. You are such a sweet, sweet woman. Carl was a good husband and father, what a wonderful experience for you and your children. My thoughts and prayers are with you. Much Love, Chris.
Barbara Bolin
September 23, 2001
MY THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS GO OUT TO YOU ALL.MAY GOD BLESS YOU ALL.
CARL MAY YOU REST IN PEACE.
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