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James Greenleaf Obituary
James Greenleaf might have been expected to be a little impressed with himself. He was strikingly handsome, a former high school football star who had recently run a marathon in under three- and-a-half hours, and who made a very nice living as a foreign exchange trader at Carr Futures.
But Mr. Greenleaf, 32, was not only a golden boy. He was a nice, considerate guy, the social glue that held his high school friends from Connecticut together, the type who thought nothing of spending a week's vacation helping an old friend build his new house. "He was everybody's idol," said David McBride, the friend in question. "He was brilliant but he wouldn't rub it in your face, and he could get along with people from all levels."
Over the summer, when Mr. Greenleaf, a history buff, decided to learn more about the conflict in the Middle East, he sought out a book written by an Israeli and a Palestinian. "He always wanted to see both sides," said his girlfriend, Lisa LaGalia.
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Jonilee Thomas
September 11, 2024
RIP JamesWe will never forget. There is a beautiful memorial to give peace to all the families that lost love ones I never met you but your family and friends are grateful you were in their lives
Jonilee Thomas
September 11, 2023
We will never forget. RIP Mr. Greenleaf.
Jonilee Thomas
September 11, 2021
RIP James Greenleaf. We will never forgetwe are sending lots of love and hugs to your family and friends. Thank you for your gift of life you shared with everyone you came in contact with. Today 9/11 20 years later.,it still hurts so bad
A.M. Gimbel
September 10, 2021
Twenty years went rapidly but we haven't forgotten you ol' pally. God bless and RIP -
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May 18, 2016
Saw Jims name at the memorial site in NYC and googled him. What a great guy! My condolences to his family and friends. Your spirit will live on through them forever Jim. God bless you.
Jonilee / Lacey Thomas
September 11, 2015
We will never forget. RIP James.
Ted H.
September 11, 2013
Thinking of you today, as I always do on this date. Your friends and teammates from Conn miss you, buddy. Your generous spirit and memory lives on through us.
My thoughts are with you and your family.
Pamela Levine
September 11, 2013
Jim ~ Today is 9/11 (2013) We continue to remember what a fine man you became - You continue to be loved and missed. Love from the Orchard Hill Gang
Stuart Levine
September 11, 2012
Dear Jim ~
Eleven years and Our Country continues to remember the tragic loss on 9/11. We all miss having you with us. I keep all of the family photos of you on my wall. God Bless You and keep you. I know that you are in good hands -
Stacy Xanthos O'Brien
September 10, 2012
thinking of you Jim!! miss you! rest in peace my friend...until we meet again...
Jonilee and Lacey Thomas
September 12, 2011
Even tho we never knew each other we somehow have a connection by chance.I found a bracelet in a little shop in Panama City that was in memory of you.We wear it faithfully in your honor every Sept 11. We will never forget.
A.M. Gimbel
September 12, 2011
Gone but not forgotten ol' pally. Your fellas are stil there for you. A decade went quickly.
Pamela Levine
September 11, 2011
Dear Jim, We are thinking of you and your wonderful parents today. You are loved and remembered for the fine man that became part of our family. Ten years have passed and our nation is formally honoring the innocent people who are no longer with us. We continue to remember you being a good sport helping with crazy family events and making all of us happy and proud to be part of your life. With love to you and your family from The Orchard Hill Gang, Pamela, Leonard and Stuart
Nina
May 3, 2011
Jim, may your soul rest in peace and may the light shine upon you forever! You were way to young to die! Your life ended because of the terrible terrorist attach!!! To many lifes were taken including yours. Your are in are in Heaven with Angels now.
Pauline D
May 2, 2011
Thinking of you and your family today Jim as the one responsible for you leaving this earth is paying with his own life. I hope your family has some comfort in knowing he is paying for his sins.
Stacy X. O'Brien
February 10, 2011
Happy Birthday in Heaven Jim! I think of you all the time. Hope you are celebrating like we used to at Conn together!
Miss you-
Stacy xo
Andy Hope
September 11, 2010
Jim,
You are missed. I took my wife and 13 month old to ground zero in June. Last alumni weekend we went to the tree on campus at Conn.
I have thought of you often on and off the rugby pitch. My current club and I raised a glass to you a our tournament victory dinner in Rome a few months ago.
Later man,
Andy
Pamela Levine
September 11, 2010
Dear Jim,
The photos today of the 9/11 attack bring back horrible memories of that day and our countries huge loss nine years ago. We family and friends still hurt over our personal loss of you. Our memories of happier days and you are strong and well. Love and God Bless you. Hugs to your family ~ from the Orchard Hill Gang. Pamela, Leonard and Stuart
Jason Stewart
September 10, 2010
It's been a lot of years since we saw each other Jimmy, but fond memories are still there. I was just at the 9/11 remembrance in Ridgefield, CT and saw your name. Went through your binder, which brought tears to my eyes. While we were not "best friends" we were teammates and buddies. You are a good man and many more people than you probably would ever think remember you and miss you. Our prayers are with you and your family. Peace brother.
Stuart Levine
February 10, 2010
Thinking of you on your Birthday Jim. Happy Birthday from the Orchard Hill Gang! God Bless You
john devivo
November 21, 2009
you are missed my friend
Pamela Levine
September 11, 2009
Dear Jim,
9/11 is here again and again your name is being read at ground zero. You are part of the history of our country, and sincerely part of the history and fabric of our family. We send our love and hope for peace to you and your family. God Bless you always.
Safely Home
Michael Iezzi
February 11, 2009
Jim,
Happy Belated Birthday. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Doug Abraham
February 2, 2009
Happy Birthday!!!
Tiesha Potvin Coale
September 11, 2008
Dear Jim
It has been 20 years since we were at school together and I want you to know that you and your family are in my thoughts and my prayers.
God Bless
Jim - Pledge of the Flag - Hampton Classic
September 11, 2008
Pamela, Leonard and Stuart Levine
September 11, 2008
Dear Jim,
You are in our sweetest memories always. Today is 9/11 and there is another service and reading of the names of the people we all lost at ground zero. We send our love and best wishes to you and your family today.
This week we were organizing photos and found some more of you that we will share. What memories in those photos especially each year when you and the OHillGang dressed up in costumes and worked so hard for all of Stuart's birdaday parties. What a good sport!!! We send our Love always.
Pamela, Leonard and Stuart
Sue Greenleaf
September 8, 2008
To Jim Greenleaf's family, My husband shared your name, James Arthur Greenleaf. He died suddenly of a heart attack in March of this year. When I was looking for a copy of his obituary in the Topeka, Ks paper, I googled his name and then found your name. Then this weekend, when the New York fire fighters came to our town with the New York says thank you foundation, they brought the flag that had the names of all killed on 9/11 and I saw his name there. I felt a connection even more. After reading more about your Jim, I think him and my Jim would have gotten along well. New york says thank you foundation came to Greensburg because our town was destroyed by a tornado 5.4.07. We appreciated their help. Jim and I did not lose our home as we live out in the country. Jim worked tirelessly in town for months after the tornado to help clean up. Now that the flag has been here representing those lives lost on 9/11 and linking our community to yours, I wanted to let you know I have added your family to my nightly prayers. God bless your Jim and mine, and your family.
Stacy Xanthos O'Brien
September 8, 2008
Jim- I think of you and miss you every day! We had great times together at Conn. I was so happy when you moved to NYC so that we could continue to party together. You and your family are always in my thoughts and prayers. xo Stacy CC '89
Rich Spugnardi
February 12, 2008
To the Greenleaf family,
I came across this site by happenstance and felt the urge to express my deepest condolences to your family. As a former college student athlete and foreign exchange trader, I know what kind of man Jim Jr. was. A great man who brought people together and simply made people around him happier. I can just tell. I will keep your family in my prayers.
Happy Birthday
Michael iezzi
February 11, 2008
Jim,
Happy Belated birthday in Heaven. May God hold you in the palm of His hand.
Doug Abraham
February 2, 2008
Happy Birthday!!!
Joseph Hill
November 17, 2007
Jim, I wish that I had found this sooner. You were a so much fun to spend time with. I only wish that I had known you longer... Peace to you and your family.
M Finley
September 11, 2007
To Jim's family: Tonight I attended a prayer service, and as I walked past a flag with the names of those who lost their lives on 9/11, the name James Arthur Greenleaf spoke to me. I don't know why, but know that your family is in my prayers tonight. Forgiveness is so hard. Your son must have been a wonderful man. God Bless you all.
Lia Greenleaf
September 11, 2007
We watched a 9/11 memorial today in school and I couldn't help but pray for you and your family. You'll always be remembered and you're forever a part of our history and our tomorrow. I love you Jimmy. God bless...
Julian & Carmalyn Keefe
September 11, 2007
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Jim and Susie in the Hamptons
September 11, 2007
Pamela and Leonard Levine
September 11, 2007
Dear Jim ~ Leonard, Stuart and I think of you and your family often. Stuart has started his freshman year of college in New London. He placed your photo over his desk in his dorm room. It is comforting to know that you will be watching over him. We trust he will gain the knowledge, character and success that you had in that same city. We send our love and comfort to your family and enjoy memories of your life.
With Love.
Pamela and Leonard Levine
May 29, 2007
Jim-
Think of you and your family often and with the fondest of memories.
Michael Iezzi
February 12, 2007
Jim,
Happy Belated Birthday in Heaven. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Doug Abraham
February 2, 2007
Happy Birthday!!!
Kristine
November 6, 2006
As I cross-stitched your name on the memorial that I am doing for all of the victims, I prayed for you and your family. Please know that your death was not in vain. We will always remember. God Bless.
faith colegrove
November 2, 2006
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
P Tabbernor
October 25, 2006
In remembrance....
Mr. and Mrs. Anthony D. Flamini
September 11, 2006
Please accept our deepest sympathies.
Pamela Levine
September 11, 2006
James Arthur Greenleaf Jr. ~ Your name was just read out loud at the memorial service at Ground Zero. Five years have not lessened the hurt and the loss that we all feel. Our continued love for you and your Dear family.
Stuart, Leonard and Pamela
March 13, 2006
God bless you and your family
Michael Iezzi
February 10, 2006
Jim,
Happy Birthday in Heaven. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Rosanne Pileggi
January 6, 2006
Dear Greenleaf Family,
I just want to extend my deepest deepest sympathies. I have not been able to stop thinking of your family for about a month now. I am the nanny for Tom Weiss, a friend with Peter's, who I met for the first time about 10 years ago. Peter stopped by the house a few weeks ago and told me of your loss. My heart is broken for all of you. Mrs. Greenleaf, you must be so proud of your sons. You have raised a truly admirable men. I wish I could have gotten to meet Jim as well.We lost my nephew when he was 11 yrs old, I know of your pain. Nothing can ever stop it or lessen it. I just want you all to know I pray for your family every day. I am genuinely sorry for your family. All my prayers, Rosanne Pileggi
October 16, 2005
Thinking of you today and everyday. Your niece is beautiful and she brings happiness to our family.
September 18, 2005
We love and miss you. We know you are shinning down upon us.
Kristy purzak
September 11, 2005
My uncle...
Jim.. you were an amazing person. When you came into our family we all knew you were the one for my beautiful Aunt Lisa. She loved you, and still does just like the rest of us. You always cross our minds everyday and we always know you are looking down on us and watching over us. We love and miss you so much- I know you and my Aunt will be together again, like you had told her before, YOU BOTH WILL ALWAYS BE TOGETHER. Rest in peace Uncle Jim, you wont EVER be forgotton. LOVE YOU
Pamela, Leonard & Stuart Levine
September 11, 2005
Dearest Jim,
We think of you always. We know you are safe now and in loving hands. The flag that we flew after 9/11 was folded and framed and it hangs in our house to keep your memory with us. We hang a new flag outside on our street each year to remind others. The Memory Book that your company created was placed out in our living room so we can see all the photos of you. Susie, Claudia and Shanette all talk about the great times with you. God Bless You Jim. We send our love... Stuart
Michael Iezzi
February 10, 2005
Jim,
Happy Birthday in Heaven. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
A loved one lives forever in the hearts of those who cared.
A loved one lives forever in the memories that were shared.
Barbra-Jean Keane
December 8, 2004
Dearest Jimmy,
We think of you so often. We guess b/c we never thought you would never be around. We never thought the day would ever come to have to say good-bye. We know your shinning down on us b/c we dream of you. Please bless all of us from heaven up above, b/c we love you so. Thinking of you and missing you.
The Marcille Family
Pamela Levine
September 11, 2004
Dearest Jim,
Today is September 11, 2004. Three years have not made it easier to remember this day without hurting. We recieved a copy of the "A Celebration of Life" a beautiful book that CARR Futures created to honor you and the other members of your company who were taken. Stuart went through and book-marked all of your photos. We spent hours reading all of the personal notes,tributes and letters about the people who will be so missed. We thanked your mom and dad for sharing that tribute with us.
All of us spent the last of this summer in the Hamptons and when we drove down the road to the house I could not help but stop and look out at the field and remember the day you, Susie, Claudia and Peter all let me take photos of you in the field of sunflowers. You were such good sports! ~ thank you for that memory. The photo is framed and out where we can enjoy, remember, and celebrate that sweet time together. Again we send our love.
Pamela, Leonard, and Stuart
Adam Gimbel
April 29, 2004
Memories of Jim Greenleaf from the Connecticut College Men's Rugby Club
Shakespeare, Henry IV, in reference to Jim Greenleaf’s importance to the Conn Rugby Club:
"We few, we happy few, we band of brothers. For he today that sheds his blood with me shall be my brother."
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fro m John Natale '89
I played next to Jim as a prop while he hooked. Jim was a great player, a great friend, and hell of a lot of fun. Back in the days when rugby players at Conn were far and few between, Jim was always ready to play and practice regardless of weather, hangover, or exam.
If I were to capture the essence of Jim as a player, the following definitely comes to mind:
- Jim was one of the toughest ruggers I had the fortune to share the pitch with.
- Jim Greenleaf never backed down.
- Jim was the most reliable
- He was a consummate team player
He is missed.
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from Anton Malko '91
Jim played rugby at Conn every fall and spring from 1987 to 1991. As a freshman, he was picked to play on the "A" side; over four years, he became the rock on which a winning foundation was built. His senior year, Jim was elected without opposition to become a captain of the club.
I remember when Jim was elected. He had no words prepared to get the votes -- Jim wasn't one for unnecessary speeches. I think he said, "Thanks, boys" when we all raised our hands to endorse him, as if we had done him some favor. But it was the other way around.
As seniors, we taught the game to 15 new freshmen. Jim lead by example at the same position, hooker, that he played since his first game. After 9/11, the biggest rallying cry came from those alumni who were freshmen when Jim was a senior. They wanted to honor the guy who made them feel a part of the club, who never made a distinction among class years. He never cared about seniority or superiority, and that made him all the more impressive.
It was about actions with Jim, and his had honor. But when he spoke -- urging you to play your best or thanking you for voting for him -- you really listened. And I'll never forget.
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from Jon Fahey '92
I remember a practice when Jim and I were on opposite sides, and we were playing full contact. Jim was running up the sidelines and he half-turned in toward the middle of the field to find someone to pass to as I went to tackle him. He gave up his body to try to make the pass and I put a good hit on him -- probably too good for a practice against one's own team.
He was the captain, and I was expecting a bit of a talking to as he collected the ball out of bounds. Instead, he popped up and screamed -- encouragement. He yelled to the rest of the team something along the lines of: "That's the way we need to hit in games," and then went on to play ferociously in practice.
That's how I remember Jim -- willing to give up his body for his team, wise enough to turn a somewhat stupid move on my part into a useful lesson, and responding to a sharp hit not by playing gingerly or backing off, but by playing with that much more determination.
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from Sam Scudder '92
It may not be poetry, but my memory-nugget involves Jim's incredibly easy-going and affable manor, and how it revealed itself in his use of the word "fellas." He loved that word. He was the only person I knew who could use it effectively -- it always made me feel like a "fella."
Once we were playing his brother's school (Western Connecticut State). It was obvious he was close with his brother, Pete. Jim told us, "Put a hat on number 9, fellas." That said it all. "Nail by brother." That’s how much he really liked him. It made me feel like we were all brothers.
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from Adam Gimbel ‘91
Jim was one of best pallies and I want everyone to remember him for what he meant to his family, friends, and to Connecticut College. He was a serious student who graduated with honors in a tough major. He was a rock solid athlete; he played rugby for eight semesters and was the team captain for a year, he also jogged and lifted weights and did it seriously. He knew how to party; his fridge always had beer in it on Thursdays (but not for the rest of the weekend) and he never turned down the chance to play Whales Tails or Anchorman. He was reliable and courteous and had a great sense of humor. Once when I offered him a glass for his (bottle of) beer, he declined and told me that it already came in a glass. His efficiency with words meant that he didn’t have to say much to demonstrate that he knew what was going on and had already thought through what needed to be done.
We played rugby at Conn together. I met him when we were first term freshmen, and by way of introduction ran right into him during practice. Since he was bigger than I was he didn’t expect my action and I ran over him. We were pallies from then on. During games we would line up at kickoff and race each other to make the first hit on the other side, especially if it was against Trinity, Wesleyan, or the Coasties. He was the nucleus of our team and he led by example. Later, after graduation, he worked as a foreign currency trader. He had long hours and a decent income but he was always the same “fella”, willing to help out and playing for the team.
I never heard him complain and don’t recall him ever being down. Life was a challenge but he knew who he was and what he wanted. Now he is gone and all that we have are memories and a few photographs. We can’t replace him.
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from Andy Hope '92
I had the fortune to play with Jim from 1988-1991. When I was visiting Conn as a prospective student, after randomly joining in on a team practice, Jim was among the players who encouraged me to come to Conn and play rugby. That practice was the deciding factor in my decision to attend Conn.
As a freshman, he helped make me feel an instant part of the team and a part of Conn. As his scrum halfback for three years, I could always rely on him. Quiet, solid and uncompromising, he was the foundation of our pack and a good man. He seemed to always be the first to the ball, made his hits and encouraged us to do the same, and he always had my back on and off the field. I will miss him.
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from Dana Rousmaniere '94
I keep remembering the Division 3 Tournament my freshman year, a cold rainy day in Worcester, Mass., and Jim driving an entire pile across the try-line for what I think I remember to be his first-ever try. What stands out most was that I ended up right on top of him and the look on his face when he looked up to see if he had scored. It seems very appropriate, the most selfless position on the pitch for the most selfless guy on the team.
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from Yuval Lion '93
I had the honor of playing with Jim for two seasons but the memories of those glory days more than 10 years ago are getting a little dim. Nevertheless, the enduring image I have of Jim, and what first came to mind the day I heard about his tragic loss, was the unique combination of his strength of character and quiet assuredness that inspires such confidence in a person. He was the strong quiet type and will be sorely missed by all who knew him.
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from Chris O'Hara '90: {note: Chris played 2nd Row}
I guess the only thing I have to day is that we played all out for 80 minutes every Saturday. It's a rugby way of saying he was a good man.
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from Gregg Levinson '91:
Barbra-jean Keane
February 10, 2004
Jimmy,
Happy 35th birthday. God Bless you today, and may you continue to live in our lives. God blessed us all to have you in our lives. May you be well.
Bob
Michael Iezzi
February 10, 2004
Jim,
Happy Birthday in Heaven. May God hold you in the palm of His hand.
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Denise Cox
December 29, 2003
Jimmy, I just wanted to say how much we all miss you . Peter called my house this weekend I was not home and he left a message. When I heard the message I had chills. Peters voice sounded just like you. He was calling just to catch up. I played the message over and over. I could not stop smiling. His voice brought back so many happy memories of the times we all shared together. The holidays always reminds us of family and love. You will always be rememered with love from all.Love your cousin Denise
JDV
September 20, 2003
James...May his soul rest in peace..
You died so young...So much to leave for...
It has been 2 years since the attack that took your and so many other people's life.I often search the memorial and say a prayer.
It is so sad.
Goos Bless the family.
David Loane
September 11, 2003
Jim,
It has been two years to the date and I can honestly say I have thought of you and your family every day. I remember the first day you and I waited at St. Bernards for our rides after Freshman Football practice. I remember playing our senior year laughing all the way about our crazy nicknames like Otis, Jukeman, Leaf, Hooter. I remember watching Notre Dame play Michigan at your house and your Dad saying I could not route for Michigan (he was serious). I remember going to Yankee games with you and Susie.
We all miss you Jim and we will NOT forget what you have done for us in the past and what you continue to do for us in the future.
Dave Loane (Otis)
Matt Caruso
September 11, 2003
Hey Jimmy,
Words cannot express how much you are missed in my life. I treasure all the great times we shared...the high school years, the college years and the NYC years! You were an amazing friend and human being. You are missed every day. Even in your passing you still put a smile on my face and comfort in my soul when I think of some of the wonderful and crazy times we shared.
Miss you and love you bro,
Matt
Paul Kates
September 11, 2003
I just wanted to pass my condolences to Jim's family as I knew Jim from his rugby days at Connecticut College. I know that today will be one of the most diffuclt days, even though every day is difficult, as I, too, lost a loved one - my brother, Andy, on that fateful day.
I just remember Jim as being the most friendly and competitive, yet down-to-earth guy you could ever want to meet.
Carol Gibbs
September 11, 2003
It's been two years ago today.
I think of you and your loving family often. Pat, Jim, Peter & Bryn, May God be with you and comfort you today and always.
Gibbsy
Michael Iezzi
February 10, 2003
Jim,
Happy Birthday in Heaven.
May God hold you in the palm of His hand.
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
katherine swercewski
December 18, 2002
Jim - We just had our 15 year high school reunion and you were most missed. Walking in I remembered our senior dinner when you and Dave got up on stage and did your best rendition of Run DMC's "Peter Piper." Reading these entries has me in tears: remembering our fun high school days, and realizing how precious life really is.
Mia Medina-Kinsman
September 14, 2002
Jimmy, I was just looking through old photos and came across Mrs.Trevena's kindergarten class photo.I was a shy,quiet little girl and you and Billy were so nice to me.Fast forward to the fourth grade, you and Billy stood up for me when a mean little girl took my papier mache pig.I moved away a year later and lost touch but I will never forget what a special and beautiful person you were. Love,Mia
roger/doreen arnold
September 11, 2002
Dear Jim, Your untimely death has left a void in the lives of all who knew you. The death of a child is something a parent never completely recovers from. It's the memories that they, along with Peter and all your friends have to hold onto. We remember the house at college court, rabbit and McDonalds' breakfasts at the tennis courts. Remember chasing all the stray balls? Our boys always looked-up to you and Peter. I remember your mom and I thinking your were awfully quiet one day and when we checked, you and Peter had piled all the stuffed animals on Brett in his crib. In closing Jim, we loved you. we'll miss you and we pray for peace and comfort for your Dad,Mom and Peter.
Regine Le Jouan
September 10, 2002
I did not have to opportunity to know Jim, but Lisa was a dear friend to me for many years. My heart and prayers go to out to her and to Jim's family for the loss of someone who obviously touched so many lives.
Lee, I hope that you find strength and comfort in knowing that everyone who loves you is holding you near in their hearts.
Love,
Reg
Kelly Zarling
September 9, 2002
I received James' name on a Hope in Action card at my church last Sunday. He seems like such an amazing person to lose. I am a triathlon runner and about the same age. I am also a mother of two little boys and I am so sorry he will never be able to experience having children - he sounds like he would have been an incredible father. I will be thinking of him and praying for his family on September 11th.
Jonathan Rosen
September 9, 2002
To loved ones of Mr. Greenleaf, I am a 15 year old from ATL, GA and would like to talk to you about Mr. Greenleaf. I would like to make a detication to him and wish to talk to someone. Please e-mail me @ [email protected] ASAP. Thank You.
Jeannie DeAngelis
August 25, 2002
Mr Greenleaf,
Your name stuck out for me as I come from a long line of Greenleafs. From reading these tributes, one can tell what a great man we have all lost. Rest in Peace, and may the angels watch over your family and friends.
Jeannie
[email protected]
Tony Todd
August 6, 2002
Dear Jim,
I have never met you but you sound like a truely amazing person. The love that consumed your heart and shined on others is still shining bright-what an angel!I am looking forward to meeting you some day and my heart is with you and your family.
Aya Murata
July 17, 2002
Dear Jimmy,
It's been many years since we last saw each other - we were probably 9 years old...how my sister and I loved seeing you and Peter when we'd come to visit our grandparents (the Silvia's) on College Court. How many summers did we ride big wheels, play in the fort, make chalk drawings on the driveway, and swim in the kiddie pool? You were always a joy to be around and I always looked forward to being with you. Although we did not stay in touch as we grew into teenagers and then adults, it was reassuring to know you were out there - somewhere. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. It was a honor to have known you and can see that you grew into the fine man you were destined to become.
My heartfelt sympathies to the Greenleaf family.
Roberta Wood
July 2, 2002
To the Parents of James Greenleaf: I am so sorry your son lost his life on September 11, 2001. Since January I have been wearing a bracelet with your son's name on it. It reminds me each day to pray for his family; it makes me feel close to you all.
Pamela, Leonard and Stuart Levine
May 31, 2002
Dearest Jim,
So many of us watched today as the last steel beam was removed from the site of the World Trade Center destruction. Jim, you would be proud of the Nation and the New Yorkers that bonded and came together since September 11, 2001 -to work without rest to complete their sad task. Your life is part of History now, and your personal history is part of all of us who loved you and knew you to be so worthy of our nations love and respect. There were no words today and there were no speeches, it was not necessary. We heard only the bugle call of TAPS, and the cities silent loving fairwell to you and those who were taken with you.
God Bless you all and keep you well,
THE ORCHARD HILL GANG
Patricia Greenleaf
April 6, 2002
My Dearest Jim,
Almost 7 months have passed and not a day goes by that I don't think about you. Some days I pretend that I just haven't seen you in long time and that you will be visiting soon. I know that it will be a long time till we see eachother again, but it does help on the bad days. Just this week Dad and I received 2 letters from old friends of yours recalling some great times that they spent with you and they wanted us to know what an impact you had on their lives. One letter we received said that she had children of her own and just hoped that some day they might grow up to be the kind of person that she remembers you as being. What a wonderful tribute to the fine man that you were. You touched so many people and I'm sure that you had no idea of how others thought of you.
I know that I kissed you and told you how much I loved you every time I had the opportunity to, but I wanted to say it to you today again.
I love you so much,
Mom
Peter, Bryn and I talk about you all the time and remember all the wonderful times we spent together.
Fran Bardio
March 11, 2002
Dear Jim, Here we are six months later and the sadness is as deep as the day you left. I thought today of a day that Chris and I had gone to see you and Lisa at the apartment and you had bought these beautiful sunflowers that were arranged in a vase so elequantly. They were so bright and cheerful and just stuck in my mind. We visited Lisa not to long ago and all I saw was the empty vase and your picture next to it. It just reminded me of how much brighter our days and especially Lisa's days were when you were around. You were her world.
We miss you and hope that you have found peace in your soul.
Love, Fran
Troy Peisley
March 11, 2002
James,
I am truly moved by the beautiful words written for you. I never met you, but what a great mate you made!
I leave this message for you because I'm the same age as you, I work and play hard just like you. I empathise, perhaps it could have been me and not you.
Tonight I will pray for you and your family.
Troy
Stuart Levine
February 11, 2002
Hi Jim
I was at ground zero tonight with my Mom and some of my friends. I saw your name on the list. You were the only Greenleaf. I also saw all of the pictures and letters that people put on the wall by the church. I think of you all the time. I am proud that you are my brother. I don't say brother in law much because I feel you are really a brother. Susie has a new place and your picture is there. I gave her the flag I made for you at Christmas it has your name and rest in peace on it. I wish you were around. I love you. Someday we will all see you again - Please think of us too.
Love Stuart 13
William Henderson
February 10, 2002
Jim-
I will always remember what a great friend you were and all the fun birthdays we shared together as kids.
"Hendy"
Barbra-Jean Keane
February 10, 2002
Happy Birthday Jimmy!!! We shared a mass for you at St.Marys. It was very nice. So many of your friends and family were there. Your Dad, Mom Peter and Bryn all miss you so very much and are trying to understand that you are happy and waiting to meet them at the gates of heaven. Lighten their days with warm wishes and love. You live in all of our hearts!!
Happy 33rd birthday to one great guy
Barbra-Jean
DENISE COX
January 28, 2002
DEAREST JIMMY,YOU ARE TRULEY MISSED BY EVERYONE YOU EVER KNEW OR LOVED. UNFORTUNATELY YOU NEVER GOT A CHANCE TO MEET MY 3 BEAUTIFUL CHINDREN, THEY AS I DO CONSIDER YOU ARE GUARDIAN ANGEL, WITH YOUR LOVE AND LOVE OF LIKE WATCHING OVER ALL OF US, WE TRULEY FELL BLESSED TO HAVE SUCH A SPECIAL GURADIAN ANGEL LOOKING OUT FOR ALL OF US, LOVE DENISE
January 28, 2002
DEAR GOD SHINE YOUR LIGHT ON THIS BEAUTIFUL YOUNG MAN JAMES ARTHUR GREENLEAF JR.AND MAY HIS SOUL REST IN PEACE WITH GOD AND HIS ANGELS.GOD BLESS HIS FAMILY AND FRIENDS.GOD BLESS AMERICA AND MAY WE NEVER FORGET 9/11/01...JAMES IS PART OF HISTORY NOW..MAY ST. JAMES GREET YOU AT THE GATES OF HEAVEN.AMEN
Andrea Marcille
January 24, 2002
Jimmy, How hard it is for all of us who loved you to accept your death. I know each one of us wake to a new day with thoughts of you and prayers that you would somehow touch our lives again. Too soon you left us and too many of us have regrets of not knowing you as well as we could have or not taking the time to reach out to you in the city you loved. You left a hole in all our lives. Whether we met you for a short while or knew you your entire life. You came into our lives for awhile and left footprints in our hearts. We will never, ever be the same. But know that you will live forever Jimmy...in the stories we tell to our children and to our childrens children...you will be loved.
Be well Jimmy, Andrea
Paolo and Lili
January 18, 2002
Jim:
Paolo and I miss you terribly and think of you often. We both feel honored to be able to call you our friend,even though we only knew you a short time.
We know you are smiling in heaven, thinking about all the good times you had with Lisa. You were unforgettable and will live on in our hearts.
Love,
Lili and Paolo
Nicole Purzak
January 17, 2002
Dear Uncle Jim,
I want to thank you for being so amazing to my aunt Lisa the time you were together. Not many people have the chance to Experience true love and you guys did. I'll always remember the incredible person you were, and I am so lucky to have had the chance to know you. But I'm sad to say that I'm getting to know you better now from the beautiful story's aunt Lisa tell me about you. I think they should change the words to the song "Only the Best Die Young." From the bottom of my heart my family and I love you and will miss you dearly always.
Watch over me,
Nicole
Barbra-Jean Keane
January 10, 2002
Dearest Jimmy
Not a day goes by that I don't think of you and all of our fond memories. I am staying in touch with Aunt Pat, Uncle Jimmy, Peter and Bryn. We all love and miss you so deeply. As Father Dan said, "You are in a higher place that it so peaceful" Wish we had more time to make more memories. Our childhood memories I truely cherish, our college memories I TRY to remember, but most of all I remember the most beautiful, admirable and most caring cousin of all. I love you and I am here for your family.
Love and you are truely missed
Barbra-Jean
Joe and Beckie Gorin
January 7, 2002
Dear Jim,
We miss you. We miss you every minute of every day. You touched our lives with your integrity, your humor, your intelligence, your SINCERETY and your LAUGH. We'll never forget that deep, hearty laugh you shared with us. It lives on in all who knew and loved you. We pray for your family and we pray for your soulmate, Lisa. You gave her the gift of your incredible love and we know that your bond will never die. Jim, we were blessed to know and love you. You will live in our hearts and our memories forever.
Chris and Fran Bardio
January 3, 2002
Dear Jim,
Never in my 32 years on this earth have I ever seen my sister as happy as when you came into her life. Never have I ever seen two people find such a perfect and deep love as you and Lisa. The joy you brought to each other was felt by everyone you both knew. Because of this and your impeccable personality, my family grew to love you more than you ever had a chance to know. There isn't a day that goes by that our hearts are not heavy with sadness and pain from you not "being around" anymore. The world would only be a better place if there were more people like you in it. You are deeply missed--may you rest in peace!
-Chris and Fran
Pauline Ciaramella
January 2, 2002
Jim -
The sadness that fills me to recently find out your beautiful life was taken from you on Sept. 11th, must be ten fold for your family and close friends. It has been 10 years since I met you and Susie and I have very fond memories from those days when we were young and nieve. My deepest sympathy to the Greenleaf family. I only hope that knowing your son touched so many lives in such a positive way will eventually ease your pain.
Pauline Ciaramella
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Teresa Jahn
December 30, 2001
What warm and caring eyes and a soft smile James has in the picture you have shared with us. Such a smile and eyes can only be a reflection of his heart. We are deeply sorry for your loss of James. May his kindess, life and love live on in those who love him. Our hearts cry with you in your loss of James.
America Cries
We see your sorrow-
and our hearts cry....
We can not erase your pain
but you do not have to face the anguish alone-for we-
-the American people-
are beside you.
We so desperately want to have the touch that brings you comfort,
the strength that gives you courage,
and the words to lighten your spirits.
And when we are left speechless
may the silence of our nation weave love into your hearts
to ease your sorrow.
May you find healing through our nation's strength as we-
-the American people-
face this difficult time together. Our hearts are with you. Teresa Jahn
Dixon, IL
Susan Willis
December 28, 2001
Jim,
Those of us who were lucky enough to know your friendship and laughter will feel forever blessed. You will always live on in our hearts. Rest in peace, JAG. We will miss you.
Susan
Anil Ladde
December 27, 2001
Jim had the best way of answering the phone whenever we called him at work to do a FOREX deal. "Hey dude"...You work ethic was impeccable, but your kindness and zest for life was what made you who you are. May God Bless you and your family.
Kristy Purzak
December 24, 2001
To Jim,
You were like my uncle and I loved you more than that. You will always be missed and loved by all.
Love always and always,
Kristy Purzak
Lisa LaGalia
December 18, 2001
Dear Jim
You were the love of my life. In my heart you will always live. One day we will be together again. Like you told me, we'll always be together.
Your love,
Lisa
Andrew Margie
December 17, 2001
Jim,
Although we never met and only share our college, I pray for you and your family every day. None of us will forget you. God bless you.
Major Arnold Huskins
November 30, 2001
Dear Mr. Greenleaf,
I did not know you, but seeing your picture makes me wish I had. I keep your picture on my refrigerator as a tribute to your life. I hope the good Lord allows us to meet someday.
May God's peace and comfort be with those who loved and knew you.
Sincerely,
Major Arnold Huskins
Proudly serving America at Keesler AFB, MS
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