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Amy O'Doherty Obituary
To Amy O'Doherty, in her first job and apartment, Manhattan's streets emanated excitement and its air, promise — of new friends and smart conversations over steaks at Morton's, and of unlimited success. Of what Geraldine Davie, her mother, called "the largeness of life."
Ms. O'Doherty, 23, loved her job as a broker's assistant at Cantor Fitzgerald. "Financing, trading, bonds," said Liz Gallello, a childhood friend. "She wanted to take it – the career, the city woman lifestyle – as far as far it could go."
She was delighted with her five-story walk-up — so small, said Ms. Davie, that "Lilliputians should live in it." She filled it with dozens of framed photos of friends from Pelham, N.Y., where she grew up, and from camp, college and work.
"She was soaking up that great New York style," said Ms. Davie. "Picking up that New York language. She didn't know it but she was living her bliss."
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Peter
December 26, 2024
I came across Amy's name on a memorial posting . My parents were Irish and I was sure Amy must have had Irish heritage, so I researched. And in researching of course I discovered what a wonderful young woman she was, one who left beautiful memories for friends and family alike. I will think of Amy. I have added her to my list of people to pray for, that she enjoys now the glory of heaven. God Bless you Amy.
Juliet G
December 30, 2021
I am here visiting with my family and yesterday we went to the world trade center memorial and my mom wanted us to split up and find a name and pray for them and i also wanted to come here and tell you that i hope she is somewhere safe and is having a good day! And i hope that she lived a full and happy life with her family and friends. Because that is what i think life is about is having good memories and i hope she had a lot of them. I am 12 years old and from Austin, Texas.
Rebecca
September 11, 2019
Thinking of you, Amy. It's been a very long time and yet, I blinked. I finally made my first trip to the city, just this past year. Gosh I would've loved to have experienced NYC in your company, that would've been a blast. I could picture no time seeming to have past, like we could've picked up right where we left off in Allegany. Giggling all the way, even all those years later.
I didn't think I could find you by the time I reached your memorial in the museum, through my blurry eyes, but as I took a deep breath and looked up, there you were. And I remembered your giggle...your smile. It was just a moment, but I am forever grateful I made it there, to have that moment.
I don't even know how you made it there, from Allegany to the tower... or how your story went.... I missed many chapters from Allegany to there....I only know it's not over, it's just in the heavenly chapter. And it's still leaving ripples, carrying light.
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Caleb
September 11, 2016
Amy I did not know you. I saw your name on the memorial. My thoughts and prayers to you, your family and friends. It was a pleasure to read about you and find out even just a little about you. God Bless.
S J. Friscia III
September 14, 2015
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With Honor & Respect.
Amanda Massey
September 11, 2011
Hi Amy,
Still thinking of you. Great times living across the hall from you and pledging Kappa Phi together. I shared my essay again in class. I usually share this essay in Creative Essay. It's been a few years since I taught this class. I read our tongue piercing story again to the class. I didn't even get to the second page and I started choking up. I wish you stayed at SHU. My last memory of you...you were driving away from Gail's apartment in your Jeep. That was May 2001. How sad that your life would end only a few short months later.
Graham Gohmann
September 11, 2011
I still carry Amy's name in my wallet - 10 years later.
All my best wishes for her family and friends.
Love, Graham
Brynna McCosker
September 6, 2011
I can't believe it's been almost 10 years and I still tear up as if it were yesterday. As you know Amy, your mom and sister are two of the most amazing people in the world! I now work with Maura and her amazing new husband, spend Thanksgiving with your mom, sister, uncle, cousins, their kids, etc. and there is never a moment that you are not there with us! I am thankful for our connection through Pelham hockey (and you always being such a good sport!) that they have become such a special part of my life. Thinking of you often, hope that bright smile hasn't changed a bit.
Heather Lyons
September 9, 2010
Hey Amy, I know it's been nine years, but I still often think about our time together at Bonas! What a blast we had on third Dev and playing lacrosse! Please know that someday soon, you will get the justice you have been waiting for.
September 12, 2009
I never met Amy but I am in Kappa Phi sorority at Sacred Heart University. Amy was in the Delta class of Kappa Phi. Every year our sorority holds a 9/11 vigil where we read Amy's name and pledge class. After our vigil last night I decided to look up this woman who is on all of my sisters minds every year at this time. Even though we never met her we all do our best to honor her memory here at SHU.
Jeff Platt
June 7, 2009
Amy was awesome-She was always smiling-We has a good time working on Finance projects at SBU-She was a great friend to have-That picture does a good job of describing her personality
September 11, 2008
In loving memory. We will never forget. May God richly bless your family with a peace which passeth all understanding.
EMS
January 26, 2008
We miss you Amy. You will always have a special place in so many hearts. A life cut too short! We know you are looking down and smiling!
Amanda Lee (Massey)
January 8, 2008
Amy,
Its been years. I'm married now, so the name has changed a bit. I thought of you again last night. I saw something on the history channel on 9/11. It made me think of you again. I want you to know that I share your story with my students in Creative Essay. Its a long essay that describes you, our many fights and our tongue piercing experience. Some students have cried and others have shared their experiences. I teach in Dracut, Ma. The pilot from one of the planes was from this town...so 9/11 never goes by without thoughts to those we lost. I'll always tell your story.
Doug Abraham
December 21, 2007
Happy Birthday!!!
Liz Gallello
December 21, 2007
Happy Birthday Amy!!!!
I miss you dearly. There isn't a day that goes by that I don't think about you.
Wallis Finger
October 7, 2007
Dear Amy,
We played Pelham Girls' Hockey together. I just wanted to let you know that you were always the cool older girl on the team that I looked up to and admired.
Your spirit and energy continue to be missed.
Rosalie DavieFuccillo
August 30, 2007
Dear Amy,
I still think of you every day. I will remember you till the day I die. I still can't believe you are not of this earth any longer. These past 6 years seem just like a bad nightmare. You will always be remembered. Rest peacefully.
Love, Your Godmother, Aunt Rosalie
P Tabbernor
January 18, 2007
In remembrance....
Kristine
November 22, 2006
As I cross-stitched your name on the memorial that I am doing for all of the victims, I prayed for you and your family. Please know that your death was not in vain. We will always remember. God Bless.
September 11, 2006
Amy,
There is not a day that goes by that I do not think of you. You always made me smile. Rest in Peace.
Peter Tissier
September 11, 2006
Amy
On the 5th Anniversary of the terrible tragedy I just wanted you to know you are not forgotten.You were the link on the other side of the pond,and you were so much fun to talk to.You looked after me when I came to visit to put some faces to names,just 3 months before that fateful day in 2001.Thank you.
I hope your family have found peace as I know how difficult it has been for me to come to terms with what happened to my colleagues.
Peter Tissier
Former Cantor Fitzgerald employee London Office
Brad
August 5, 2005
Amy,
Still think about you often, Will never forget you.Everytime I think about Hi-Rock I think about you. We Will never forget.
Ryanne Wade
September 11, 2004
The last time I saw Amy, we were in the elevator in our aparment building in New Rochelle. Amy had started her job at Cantor and she was just moving to her new place in the city. We used to get stuck in that crazy elevator together often, and would chat away about life, her mom's car, and how one day, we should meet up for drinks. It all seems so trivial now, but I have made a promise to never let such a wonderful person slip away like that again. From my new home in Houston I can still see her smile in that New Rochelle elevator.
Seth Anders
September 11, 2004
Thinking of you Amy on this 3rd Anniversary. I did not have the chance to meet you but I see the effect you had on those who love you. The thought of you helps put life in the best perspective.
Gillian Bennett
November 18, 2003
Amy, I remember playing field hockey with you and how much fun we used to have. I thought of you the other day when I was telling someone how we raised money for our team. You were a sweetie and you are always in my thoughts. I hope that you are up in heaven watching us and smiling that big amy smile. we miss you.
K. Doherty-Melaragni
September 11, 2003
Two years ago today...we will never forget you Amy or all the others. With love to your family from the Doherty's of MA.
Joey
September 11, 2003
Hello, I first heard about Amy's death when I received the News Letter from Camp Hi-Rock, I can't really remember Amy to well but I remember she was a very nice person and was very kind to people she meant. This year being the 3rd Aniversary of September 11th, 2001, really made me sad, inlcuding the ceremony we have at my school. I am sorry for the loss of Amy.
May god bless, and help you through these tough times.
Frank Hogan
September 10, 2003
Dear Geri, Jim and Maura:
I am thinking of Amy and all of you on this second anniversary. May God continue to bless you with His peace and love. My thoughts are always with you.
Love and prayers,
Frank Hogan - Depew, NY
Frank Hogan
September 10, 2003
Dear Geri, Jim and Maura:
I am thinking of Amy and all of you on this second anniversary. May God continue to continue to bless you with His peace and love. My thoughts are always with you.
Love and prayers,
Frank Hogan - Depew, NY
Anita & John Trainor
September 20, 2002
At this time of the first anniversary of Amy's tragic and senseless death, we again want to express our deepest sorrow and condolences to her mother, sister Maura, and the entire family. May God Bless Amy and all of you and continue to give you the strength to endure your great loss. You are all in our thoughts and prayers.
Denise Doherty
September 18, 2002
Amy:
I was so sorry to see your name after September 11th. We corresponded on the net, both searching the O'Doherty/Doherty roots. May God Bless you and your family. Your tributes are beautiful and you are truly loved and will never be forgotten. May your family find peace in knowing that someday you will all be reunited in heaven.
Kristine Raab
September 12, 2002
Dear Amy,
I couldn't believe it when I heard that you were gone. It has been a long time since I last saw you but I will never forget your love for life. I remember (who could forget!) all the good times we had as roommates at SHU freshman year. As an ice hockey player I was excited to hear that you also played hockey- but lacrosse and field hockey too?!? You certainly didn't take life for granted and lived each day to it's fullest. It was a very emotional experience visiting ground zero and highlighting your name on a banner yesterday. I continue to keep you and your family in my prayers- God bless you. You are missed by many- but we will see you again someday.
Love, Kristine
Clarissa Lamont
September 11, 2002
Amy,
I am Maura's friend Mairi Lamont's older sister -- another Pelham girl. I wanted to let you know that we keep you in our minds and that you will not ever be forgotten. You are with us always.
Amanda Massey
September 11, 2002
Amy,
Its been a year. I think of your last moments now and how I wish things could have been different. I highlighted your name on the cover of the Boston Herald this morning. I am sure your name will grace newspapers, magazines, and headlines across the world. I read an article in Vanity Fair about you. I also heard your story was told on Oprah. You are never forgotten Amy. Your family will never forget, your friends will never forget, strangers will never forget, THE WORLD WILL NEVER FORGET.
Rest in Peace that your memory will live on.
Gail-Sue Capone
September 6, 2002
Dear Amy,
I can't believe it is almost a year. Feels just like yesterday I saw that big beautiful smile. There is not a day that goes by that you are not in my thoughts and prayers. I will see you soon my friend just keep a look out for me.
Kappa Phi, Do or Die!
All my love,
Gail-Sue
The Delta Class
Pam Ward
September 5, 2002
To the Family of Amy O'Dougherty:
I volunteered my time to stitch a square for a Memorial Flag that is being done in honor of the victims of all terrorist attacks. I received Amy's square to stitch and researched her. I will always carry her with me and I cried when I read about her because she was just starting her life. May God bless you and keep you safe.
Anon.
August 27, 2002
We loved you, we miss you. You had the energy to fill 1000 acres. You legacy will be remembered in every heart you touched. Almost on year ago we heard the news, and we continue to pray for you.
Abbey Owen
May 26, 2002
Amy,you were such a great person. I've known you for only 2 years and only see you at camp, but I know that you are an angel. Always offering help, so loving and caring. You will be deeply missed everywhere and at camp. Thank you for all you've done for me. You are my hero.
Rosalie Fuccillo
May 12, 2002
Dear Amy,
You are, and always will be, in my thoughts and prayers. I know you are looking down on me and smiling that beautiful smile I always saw. May you rest in peace, now that you are with your Grandma Davie.
Love, your Godmother, Aunt Rosalie
Nick Urbanik
March 21, 2002
Amy,
The class of 2000 will not forget you...St. Bonaventure University will not forget you. As you have left a profound impression on everyone that you touched...we will miss you always.
Sincerely,
Nick Urbanik
March 17, 2002
DEAR GOD SHINE YOUR LIGHT ON THIS LOVELY YOUNG WOMAN..AMY ODOHERTY AND MAY HER SOUL REST IN PEACE WITH GOD AND HIS ANGELS..GOD BLESS YOUR FAMILY AND MANY FRIENDS..STAY CLOSE AND NEVER FORGET 9/11/01..GOD BLESS AMERICA AND NEW YORK..MAY JESUS AND ST.PATRICK GREET YOU AT THE GATES OF HEAVEN...AMEN
Mike Carolla
March 11, 2002
Amy,
The St. Bonaventure class of 2000 will never forget you. Our prayers are with you and all the other saints and angels who died that day.
Janet Lim
February 21, 2002
Dear Amy,
Whenever I'm at Grand Central Station I always stop by the memorial and see your radiant smile. So clearly I remember you as a little 4 year old ballerina and so very talented gymnast. You have that gift- of making people happy to be in your presence. We know that you are spreading joys and smiles, wherever you are.
With love,
The Lim Family
Rachel White
February 5, 2002
I sometimes find a simple peace during this tremendously difficult time in the image of two Irish hands entwined - Whitey (my brother Jim)and Amy would certainly want us to find such peace. I wish for a similar simple peace for Amy's family and her loved ones.
Joey
January 24, 2002
Amy, I was at Camp when I meant you my first year or second you very nice to me as I was home sick. I thank you and I am sorry that you had to die so early in your life. To your family I would like to say best wishes and god bless.
Sincerely Joey
Eric Lockovitch
January 18, 2002
Amy,
I had a great brunch with you Sept. 9. Ann loved you and I do too. So young, full of life, many opportunites yet to accomplish. We know you're all together now and I want you to know we're all together now as well. Your mother and sister are part of my family now and we take care of eachother as you do Ann and your Cantor family. You're beautiful.
Eric
Chavez
January 17, 2002
Amy,
although we didn't know each other well, we were always cool when we saw each other out or in the hallways or at a Kappa Fly function. May God bless and keep you. You will be dearly missed.
Fondly Chavez
Lauren Pacello
January 15, 2002
To our Beloved Sister Amy,
Please know that you and your family are in the thoughts and prayers of Kappa Phi, now and always. Although you will be sadly missed, your memory lives on through all of us! I'll never forget all the fun times we had together, you always knew how to make everyone smile and laugh. You are an incredible individual Amy O, we will miss you, and always love you! Do or Die!!
Dana Edwards
January 15, 2002
Amy, I miss you. All of Kappa Phi misses you "KTU". We shall see you again. XOXO Dana
Amanda Massey
January 15, 2002
Amy,
I'll never forget freshman year @ SHU, pledging memories, getting our tongues pierced. I'll never forget sticking my finger with ice cream into your journal, watching Dirty Dancing or The Cutting Edge, borrowing your endless supply of JCrew clothes, I remember your laugh, that smile, your voice. We'll always have those Memories and our sisterhood with Kappa Phi. You are a wonderful person, the true meaning of FUN. I'll never forget the last conversation we had (5/17/01) you looked great, happy, and with your hair blowing with your Jeep Top down....that is how I hope you are in Heaven. Living Large.
You will be sorely missed. Your legacy will live on. This isn't a goodbye Amy, this is a See ya Later.
the girl ya loved to hate, but we loved each other anyway,
your friend and sister Always,
Amanda (Snowflake)
Teresa Jahn
December 17, 2001
So very young. We are deeply sorry for your loss of Amy. May the largeness of life she felt, her life and love live on through all her family members. Our hearts cry with you.
America Cries
We see your sorrow-
and our hearts cry....
We can not erase your pain
but you do not have to face the anguish alone-for we-
-the American people-
are beside you.
We so desperately want to have the touch that brings you comfort,
the strength that gives you courage,
and the words to lighten your spirits.
And when we are left speechless
may the silence of our nation weave love into your hearts
to ease your sorrow.
May you find healing through our nation's strength as we-
-the American people-
face this difficult time together. Our hearts are with you. Teresa Jahn
Dixon, IL
Claudia Trevor
November 9, 2001
Amy- you will always have a place in our hearts. Good times will never be as good without you- Love and peace to you, Claudia
Steve Tidball
October 29, 2001
Amy,
May you fly to the far heavens and live in peace. I am part Irish and Danish. I loved New York City and been up the WTC with the great views of the ocean. My sister lives in Scarsdale, NY
robert DeMaio
October 20, 2001
Amy
we will meet in heaven someday. Your spirit warms all of those around you. Robert
Mary O'Doherty
October 19, 2001
Amy, we share the same last name and maybe somewhere back in Ireland our ancestors shared a life together. You 23, me 24 both of us excited for the future, it's hard for me to make sense of why your no longer and I am. I will keep you and your family in my prayers and the only way I can possibly pay tribute to you is to cherish every breath I take, which I sense that you did while you were here.
ALWAYS BE BEAUTIFUL IN MY EYES.........................
Susanne Fuccillo
October 3, 2001
Amy's freckled nose smiling face and her zest for life always brought a smile to my face...I watched her grow from a young
Rosalie Fuccillo
October 2, 2001
My Dear Amy, I will always remember your love for life and the way in which you lived it. I will treasure, the way you gave me directions to your Mom's Place in Pelham and said "It's not hard Aunt Rosalie. Your directions were just great and your confidence in me was insurmountable. I will always remember you and your frivilous ways, and your love for every human being that crossed your path. You will be sorely missed.
Your Godmother, Aunt Rosalie
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