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Frederick Varacchi Obituary
Although Frederick Varacchi was best known in the finance world as chief operating officer of Cantor Fitzgerald and president of its electronic trading platform, eSpeed Inc., he might better be remembered as a dedicated family man who would play a round of golf at 6 a.m. on a Saturday so he could be home before his three children got up.
"Our families would go on vacation together, and he and my husband would be the first ones running to the rides," said Jayne O'Toole of Melville, N.Y., who has been friends with Mr. Varacchi since they went to kindergarten together in Syosset. In high school, he told Ms. O'Toole how he had met his future wife, Eileen, in biology class. "He knew she was it from the minute he saw her," she said.
Mr. Varacchi, who was 35 and lived in Greenwich, Conn., brought that same enthusiasm and determination to fatherhood. "I can remember just a couple months ago, he was looking at the kids, saying, `Gosh, I can't wait till the kids grow up and we can go to their wedding. Gosh, it's going to be such a blast.' " Ms. O'Toole said. "He said, 'Can you imagine?'"
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Steven A
September 11, 2019
Thinking of you today
Patrick Varley
September 11, 2016
15 years later, and you are still on everybody's minds, and in our hearts, Fred. God Bless you, your wife, Eileen, and your children.
Fred Von Burg
September 22, 2014
"Freddy Veeeeeee....!!!" was how Fred greeted me, with a big smile and firm handshake (I was the only other Fred in high school, and certainly the only other Fred with a last name beginning with the letter "v").
Years later, I remember asking Fred why he switched (or was about to switch) jobs - it seemed like he was making an odd career move. He said the reason was that he walked in the front door to his home after being away in Geneva, Switzerland on business for a week. He went to greet his baby daughter, and she cried, as if she didn't even recognize him. That conversation has stayed with me all these years.
Two days ago my wife and I and my daughter visited the Ground Zero Memorial for the first time. As we approached the North Pool, the first engraved name I laid eyes on was Fred's. The skeptic in me chalked it up to odd coincidence.
Fred, you made the word a better place.
Joe C
August 11, 2014
You were a great boss Fred, I Loved working for you.
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Raul Gonzalez
June 8, 2014
I will never know the tragic loss you all felt on that day, but just know that there is someone, somewhere, who thinks about you and has you in their thoughts and prayers.
Lenita Miller
September 13, 2011
Eternal Love for those we lost on that terrible day. May God Bless you all and your families.
Bill Brett
September 12, 2011
Eileen, Thomas, Corrine, and Tyler,
Ten years... It only seems like ten seconds. I remember at one point during that first terrible week, I was exhausted and taking a break in front of the "Ten House" FDNY. I found myself staring at that mountain in front of me, and I actually whispered out loud, "C'mon Fred, show me where you are!" Obviously, I never got an answer... or did I?
Almost immediately, I began thinking about all the times I'd call him at his office and he'd inevitably have some big-shot corporate big-wig sitting in front of him. In his best, serious grown-up voice, he'd tell me, "Dude, let me call you back? I'm right in the middle of a meeting."
This, of course would just prompt me to bust his chops as I knew he couldn't fight back with some tycoon sitting in his office.
"Whadda ya mean, call me back???" I'd yell. "Oh, I guess you're too important to talk to your pee-on friend! I get it now!"
This of course would just make him start laughing, as he would try, unsuccessfully, to compose himself!
He would then whisper back at me... well I'll leave those explatives out!
There hasn't been a single day in the last decade that I haven't thought about him. I finally realized that I never had to "find" him because I always had him in my heart. That's the way I'll always remember him. As busy as he was, he ALWAYS had time for a good laugh. That smile of his was/is very infectious! He shared it with me often. I now see that smile as his immortality - along with the four of you.
I think I can safely say how proud he'd be of the four of you, and the way in which you've carried yourselves these last ten years.
And I am proud to have been able to call him my friend.
Your family is always in my thoughts.
Todd Dolin Class Of 85
September 12, 2011
Hi Eileen:
I can't believe it is 10 years that we lost Fred. I was off yesterday and was geeting ready to go the park with my wife and daughter. On TV they were showing actors and actresses who were talking about 911. I went to thinking of you Fred and your family.
I thought of how much I miss him and can only fathom how much you and your kids do and all of our friends who loved him. I think of him and see his smile, how he was to be with. I. Always felt he was one of the nicest guys in our school. I send you my prayers from my family to yours. God Bless you Eileen.
I am celebrating his life and how he lived,how he became a great father and husband. I always when I think of him I see him with that brushed back hair and dapper style he had. He will always be remembered Eileen as so will you and your family. God Bless
Patrick Varley
September 11, 2011
Hello Eileen.
I woke this morning to see Fred's face on tv, and I noticed that he had that impish grin I'll always remember him for. I have some memories from our days together at good ol' St. Eddies, but what sticks out in my mind is how we use to always draw these fantastic cars during class. His sister told my brother that he owned a couple of Ferrari's, and hearing this made me smile, as I know he probably was polishing them down all the time. =)~ I have thought of Fred many times in the past 10 years, and even had the pleasure of speaking with you at my old job a few times, and was left with the impression that Fred was, indeed, a very lucky man.
I wish you and your children a very blessed life, and may you know that Fred is smiling down on all of you everyday. Reading all of these poignant tributes to Fred leaves me with a certain sense of happiness amidst the sadness, for you, Fred, and your children are very much loved, and that love is, as Fred now is in Heaven, immortal.
My deepest sympathies,
Nina Miriam Sell
September 11, 2011
10 years on to a wonderful work colleague.
With love, light and blessings always.
September 11, 2011
Hi Eileen. All my love to you and your family. Fred, you and your family are often on my mind. Best, Kevin Cameron
September 10, 2011
I...we are thinking of you in this most difficult time. The sadness in my heart will never go away. We love you.. Laurene Cirruzzo
Dominick Vivona
September 10, 2011
Hi Eileen, it has been 10 years and each year brings the same thoughts and emotions. Although I never met your husband my only thoughts of September 11th are of Fred. I was your landscaper in Greenwich and although I never met Fred I spoke with you several times. My boss at the time relayed what you told him of Fred's last words. I accept I will never let a September 11th pass without tears. I extend my strength and prayers to you and your children. As a father of two I take comfort in knowing my life continues in the health and beauty of my children. I hope this message finds you well, living the life Fred would be proud of. Godspeed.
Alex Bokich
September 13, 2010
Hi Eileen,
My 10 year old girl and 6 year old boy wanted me to tell them about Fred. It was such a priviledge to tell them that I knew him and what a wonderful father and husband he was. They couldn't believe that I knew someone from all the stories they've seen the last few days about that tragic day. We pray for your family and the loving memory of Fred.
All my family's love to yours,
Alex Bokich
Claudia Hartland
September 11, 2010
Dear Eileen, I just located this website. Barry and I are remembering you, the children and Fred on this the saddest of days. We loved "FastFun." Fred gave enthusiasm a new meaning. We love you and the children and continue to pray for all of you.
Love, Claudia and Barry Hartland
My Daughter Emily Sabrina and her baptism. 4 years ago
Todd Dolin
September 12, 2009
Yesterday was Sept 11.2009. It will always be a day that makes me cry and reflect on how much we all lost as individuals as well as a state,country, and world. I as a law enforcement officer lost alot that day. All of the officers who gave there lives to help the citizens who were in dire need of help. We go to the sound of the guns and cries for help. As a former West Hempstead Firefighter I lost a'lot of fellow firefighter's who went into those towers to rescue people in need without even giving it a moments thought. I do wish i could have helped that day in NY.I was in Florida. I wish I could have been there to get Fred out. I had not seen Fred for a while since relocating to Fla in '98 but always remembered him as he was a great fun loving person. On this 8th Anniversary I can only think that we don't remember the way you left us all but the way you lived your life and how much you loved life. God bless you Freddy aand your surviving family.
Best regards always
Ofc.Todd Dolin
Class Of '85
Tracey Bouse Cicale
September 11, 2009
I went to Jr. High and Highschool with Fred. Today is the 8th anniversary of his death. Just wanted to let his loved ones know that his memory is in my thoughts. He was one of the funniest, nicest guys I ever met. God Bless you all.
Rakell Colotta
September 11, 2009
My deepest condolences to Fred's family on this anniversary of 9/11. Fred and I worked together and I'll always remember his sense of humor.
Todd Dolin
May 31, 2008
I learned of Freddy's passing while glancing through Times Magaizine or one of those types of magazines that was printing stories about 911. I went to Syosset H.S. with Fred and was on the Jr and HS track teams with him. He was always joking around and was a very nice person. We ran in the same circles and went to the same parties. Eileen was in my home room and I remember how happy they were when I saw them togeather . Eileen I have not seen you in a long time but I am very sorry for you losing such a great! person. We all loved Freddy. I felt such a loss even though I have not seen him in along time. I wondered if I lost anyone from home when I was working that day, I prayed I did not.
I saw Fred's name in that mag and knew there were not to many Fredrick T. Varacchi Jr's around. I cried for you and Fred and your children. May god bless you and your family I am only sorry that I just found this today and not sooner, then I could have told you .
Best regards always Todd. Syosset Class Of '85
Doug Abraham
December 21, 2007
Happy Birthday!!!
Chris Ridini
September 11, 2007
I recently learned about what happened to Fred through a mutual acquaintance.
I remember having a great time hanging out with Fred and Eileen and our classmates back in 1982 when we all went to France on our High School trip - nothing but good memories.
Please accept my deepest and most sincere condolences on this solemn day.
-Chris Ridini
Joe Cawley
August 21, 2007
You will never be forgotten
P Tabbernor
April 9, 2007
In memory....
John Ertle
May 15, 2006
we were best friends at ST. Eddies,
you were calm,confident and I think the warmest person I will ever meet, we ran track together we could both run like the wind, God Bless you and yours I will never forget you. Dr. John Ertle
Pete Adrian
March 31, 2006
I knew Freddy growing up. He lived 5 houses from me. We were friends for a long time and like time goes on we lost contact. I knew that day I lost someone since I was from NY. I lost a great friend who turned me on to my greatest loves in live (Lacrosse). I didnt make the baseball team and freddy said hey lets go throw some balls around. I had no clue that it would become one of my great joys. I still have the lacrosse helmut freddy somehow got from the H.S. I even delivered papers to his future wife. I am so sorry I didnt have more of a relationship with him in the past few years but my memory of him will never change. I love freddy and I will always have him in my heart.
Martin Poole
September 12, 2003
Fred,
I said a prayer for you and your family.
Joe Cawley
May 12, 2003
Dear Fred,
You were a good Man and a great boss. It was a pleasure
working with you at Chase and thanks for teaching me a lot.
God Bless
Patti Hodder
September 10, 2002
As we approach the 1st anniversary of you being taken away from us, I think of you everyday and know how proud you must be of the work Eileen has been doing in your name. The whole family misses your vibrant presence and pray for the day when we are all reunited.
Carol Alutto
June 27, 2002
You were related to a friend of my mom's and I'm so sorry for your loss. It is so tragic. So young, such a good husband and father.
Angie Campbell
May 31, 2002
May God Bless you and watch over the family and friends that you left behind that horrible morning last September. May you rest in peace forever more!!!!!!!!!!
judi ireifej
May 18, 2002
To Mrs. Varacchi and your three children, our sincerest and deepest sympathy. I think our children go to school together. If at any time I can assist you with anything I would be comforted in offering a helping hand. My family also lost a dear friend who was like a sister. Our families, both first generation immigrants, not having any other family in the States we bonded over 30 years ago through church and our common faith in God. Millie Hromada was an Auntie to my daughters and the oldest misses her very dearly. I can't imagine your pain for yourself and your children but I feel the loss. The day after mothers day Millie's remains were reported found- It hurts so much now that it's so definite. I pray for your family, for comfort and strength through these horrible times. God bless and protect your children always.
May 16, 2002
DEAR GOD SHINE YOUR LIGHT ON THIS BEAUTIFUL MAN..FREDERICK T.VARACCHI AND MAY HIS SOUL REST IN PEACE WITH GOD AND HIS ANGELS..GOD BLESS HIS LOVING FAMILY AND MANY FRIENDS..GOD BLESS AMERICA..MAY JESUS AND HIS SAINTS GREET YOU AT THE GATES OF HEAVEN...AMEN
Dawn Hiltz
February 28, 2002
Fred will truly be missed. My husband and Fred worked together at Greenwich Capital Markets and I had the pleasure of meeting Fred during that time. The last time we say Fred was at a party and he was, as always, having fun and enjoying people. Though Fred loved his work and was great at what he did, his family was his most precious gift. He always smiled and his smile was genuine. Fred will be missed very much by anyone who had the pleasure and priviledge of knowing him. I know that he is looking out and taking care of his family from his place in heaven.
raffaele Varacchi
January 29, 2002
UN SALUTO AFFETTOUSO AI TE ,AMICO
RIPOSA IN PACE NON TI DIMENTICHEREMO MAI
Teresa Jahn
December 7, 2001
With as warm of a smile as Fredrick has in his picture you can tell he must have been warm and caring on the inside. I know he WILL be watching from above for his children's weddings and everyone will have such a blast for him. Our hearts cry with you in your loss.
America Cries
We see your sorrow-
and our hearts cry....
We can not erase your pain
but you do not have to face the anguish alone-for we-
-the American people-
are beside you.
We so desperately want to have the touch that brings you comfort,
the strength that gives you courage,
and the words to lighten your spirits.
And when we are left speechless
may the silence of our nation weave love into your hearts
to ease your sorrow.
May you find healing through our nation's strength as we-
-the American people-
face this difficult time together. Our hearts are with you. Teresa Jahn
Dixon, IL
Martin Poole
December 2, 2001
Fred and I worked together at Chase in the late 80's early 90's. I had been in the domestic part of private banking and he had been in the intl side. He was impressive with his technical skills and certainly help the domestic technical people get their act together. We had gone our separate ways and had lost touch. When I saw his name in a Cantor article a month ago, I had hoped that the person at Cantor was a different Fred Varacchi. I knew differently when I saw Fred's picture yesterday in yesterday's 12/01 issue. Fred was a great guy and someone I enjoyed working with. I send my condolences to his family.
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